Being a Quaker: Volume 1: A Guide for Newcomers Paperback
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Could maybe use a little bit of updating (this edition is from 2013), especially to be more trans inclusive -- not that Durham isn't, but his terminology isn't the best. He uses the term 'transgendered', for example, which is incorrect, and also uses 'he or she' where he could just use 'they' and encompass a broader spectrum of people. The name of the queer Quaker community has also changed its name since this was last updated and is now called the Quaker Gender and Sexual Diversity Community (QGSDC), not Quaker Gay & Lesbian Fellowship.
[I'm part of YFGM's working group on trans and nb inclusion so I have a vested interest in seeing what would need to be altered about current Quaker resources to make them more inclusive. Good news about this book, it's literally only a case of updating some terminology to be less gendered. 'People' instead of 'men and women', 'they' instead of 'he or she', and 'transgender' instead of the incorrect 'transgendered'. The actual content/message is sound. Hooray! Perhaps there'll be a revised edition at some point that reflects this.] (less)
I read this book because I request it online to be sent to my house. I wanted to read a little about Quaker practice after spending nearly a year, before I just moved city, passing a Meeting House every day on my way to work. I was curious.
This book is beautifully written in it's simplicity, it's very personal connection the writer makes with you. A lot of it immediately struck me as true, I'd roll a sentence around in my head and think about it for a while in a way that tells me - there's something here, something important. I think as a result of reading it that I will try to attend a meeting for worship and see if it is for me.
What I take away from this book even if Quaker practice is not for me is the huge amount of reading and studying I want to do now, regardless, of individuals key to the Quaker community, or writing coming from this community because so much of what I've taken from this book, it's allusions to other writings, to journals of key founders of the practice - I've felt nothing but inspired by and a sense of understanding and of something shared between us somehow.
There is a lot that came out of the concerns Quakers have for living their life that spoke to me - about truth, speaking truth, doing what you understand is 'true', but also at the same time they are a group of people who understand that religion, Christianity and Spirituality is not straight forward, there are many endless questions. Questions we will have our entire lives. What Quakers also embrace and don't fear is a difference of opinion or understanding of answers to these questions - this is entirely refreshing and radical to me it seems.
Quakers are also concerned with equality, living life with simplicity and also with a duty of citizenship - both locally, nationally and internationally - this spoke to me also. To them faith is about seeing God in everyone, again a relatively radical notion, and it is about turning faith into action. It is a way not a notion.
This book has been nothing but thought provoking and it speaks true, I believe, in saying that it is not there to 'convert' or convince you but you must feel and seek out for yourself if you are meant to attend a meeting. I took a gamble when I read this book and I feel all the better for it - there's a lot for me to think about, reflection on and explore in relation to my own life, privately. It is the start of something for me - whether that is to attend a meeting or whether it is just that I will continue to acknowledge the contribution to ideas, to writing, to citizenship of Quakers - we shall see. But I recommend reading it to anyone interested in theology, in sociology, in society, in equality, politics, justice or in spirituality. My mind has been expanded in a very lovely way and my life is already the richer for it. (less)
This book is for anyone seeking how to live a rewarding life, a life of service to all mankind. And for the seeker, learning baby steps in spiritual growth.
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5.0 out of 5 stars This is a very good everyday guideReviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 16 September 2015
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This is a very good everyday guide. It takes things from the stage of wondering whether the Quakers is suitable for you, then getting up the courage to step across the threshold to try out a Quaker meeting, and on through various stages you can go to is you wish. It's very reassuring and dispels mysteries and misconceptions. It very much echoed my own experiences to date and is written in an easy, everyday style. Practical, useful and I recommend it highly to anyone with even the slightest interest in the Quakers.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent book about QuakerismReviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 8 June 2016
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Excellent book about Quakerism - well written and very informative.
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Excellent intro to Quaker practice and beliefs. Combination of personal experience with general practice
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