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Table of Contents
Introduction
Part I: Purgation
Chapter One: A Quaker in the Zendo
Chapter Two: Standing Still in the Light
Chapter Three: Pure Passion
Part II: Illumination
Chapter Four: Living Peace
Chapter Five: Healing Gender Hurt
Chapter Six: Friendly Pedagogy
Part III: Union
Chapter Seven: In the Love of Nature
Chapter Eight: Joyful Witness
Chapter Nine: Walking Cheerfully Over the World
Bibliography
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Acknowledgements
About the Author
INTRODUCTION
Awakening early, I rise and view a new day. Through my eastern windows, morning light slants across furniture and floor, casting pools of color upon my western wall. The room transforms in beauty—familiar, yet utterly changed. The world opens to me and I am again an infant, enraptured by a new creation.
The deepest needs are for the highest things. This book is a record of my hunger to know the highest things throughout my entire life, to awaken to the light that illumines all. In my darkest night, that light dawned from the East, reminding me of what I already knew, but had forgotten.
To rediscover what one already knows is the most intimate form of knowledge, like discovering in one’s pocket a treasure that was seemingly lost forever. In minor matters it is: Of course! I knew that! In deeper matters of the heart, it is the prodigal son returning, the realization that one is loved without reservation exactly as one is. For most of my adult life I had sought another kind of knowledge—aloof, comprehensive, general, a view from above: the universe seen from everywhere and nowhere. I sought this God’s-eye view in my chosen discipline of academic
philosophy, secretly hoping that if I achieved such an Olympian vision, I would at last find peace for my restless heart. That endeavor proved fruitless. Worse, as I searched through barren fields of bloodless concepts and came upon yet more unanswered questions, I lost touch with my soul.
Yet as defined in Greek antiquity, philosophy—philosophia, love of wisdom—still evokes my reverence. Wisdom is truth that nourishes, enabling us to be of greater service to ourselves, to others, and to all of creation. Socrates remains a hero for me.
Two primary kinds of knowledge are marked in many languages by separate terms: propositional knowledge, knowing that something is the case; and knowledge with a direct object, knowing as direct familiarity: "I know Paris—or Josephine, or the taste of a mango." I had been seeking the former kind of knowledge; what I secretly yearned for was the latter. To seek only propositional knowledge is to bypass the intimacy of direct awareness, or to recast it in unrecognizable formulas, content in the illusion that one can acquire facts while remaining untouched. Intellectual inquiry is then a cover for emotional cowardice—a state that I know all too well. When I open to the intimacy of direct knowing, I make myself vulnerable to transformation.
Religious practice seeks to heal the breach between propositional knowledge and direct familiarity, to recover from the illusion of isolation and reawaken to the many ways we are bound up with others and with life itself. As practice, it exemplifies a third form of knowledge—acquired skill or praxis, knowing how: Yes, I know how to play golf, or She really knows how to connect with people. Karen Armstrong, a respected, widely-read contemporary historian of religion, writes, Religion is a practical discipline that teaches us to discover new capacities of mind and heart.¹ She observes that religious practice has the power to open us to a transcendent dimension of life that [is] not simply an external reality ‘out there’ but [is] identical with the deepest level of [our] being.²
Armstrong suggests that because of our misguided efforts to capture the truths of religion in fixed propositions, We have not been doing our practice and have lost the ‘knack’ of religion.³ My own journey from abstract philosophy to Zen practice confirms this suggestion. Zen highlights the importance of knowing how; it is the cultivation of subtle yet powerful tools for living everyday life. To engage in Zen is to be constantly reminded that successful living is less a matter of accumulating information than of cultivating skills, and growing into what Aristotle called practical wisdom.⁴
Buddhism and Quakerism
Had I known where to look and what misconceptions to shed, I might have found within my own Quaker and Christian origins the very resources that my sick soul required. For many years, however, I could not see past my prejudices to the riches within my reach. In Buddhism I found a rigorous practice that brought healing balm. That discovery in turn threw unexpected light upon what I had failed to find in the familiar religious fixtures of my childhood—treasures that lay unrecognized at the center of my heart.
Reawakening to intimate awareness of my world, cultivating skills for successful living—these have been Zen’s most precious gifts to me. Cross-cultural affinities between Quakerism and Zen eased the way for this mutual
illumination. Some of these affinities are obvious: stark plainness and simplicity, deep silence and open receptivity are featured in both Quaker silent worship and Zen meditation. Others show themselves only upon deeper examination of the teachings of both traditions. Bodhidharma, the legendary first patriarch of Zen Buddhism, is traditionally credited with the following summation of Zen teaching:
A special tradition outside the scriptures;
No dependence upon words and letters;
Direct pointing at the soul…
Seeing into one’s own nature, and the attainment of Buddhahood.⁵
The fourth line refers to the experience of enlightenment (satori, kensho), often simply called awakening. Such an experience reveals to us that we have been living in a dull and troubled trance, oblivious to the vivid beauty of the world. Dogen Zenji, the great medieval Japanese Soto Zen master (1200-1253 C.E.), writes, To be enlightened is to be intimate with all things.⁶
More than a millennium after Bodhidharma, on the opposite side of the globe in 17th Century England, a feisty religious radical unknowingly echoed these themes. Of his great spiritual awakenings, George Fox (1624-1691) wrote, This I saw in the pure openings of the Light without the help of any man, neither did I then know where to find it in the Scriptures; though afterwards, searching the Scriptures, I found it. For I saw in that Light and Spirit which was before Scripture was given forth, …⁷ His world was reborn: All things were new, and all the creation gave another smell unto me than before, beyond what words can utter. I knew nothing but pureness, and innocency, and righteousness… .⁸ Fox wrote that in his awakened state, he observed a dullness and drowsy heaviness upon people, which I wondered at…and I told people they must come to witness death to that sleepy, heavy nature… that their minds and hearts might be on things above.⁹ Fox did not come to these insights through ruminating upon religious teachings, but through courageous, unblinking surrender to the actual condition of his own life. He called such surrender standing still in the Light. This was the core of his spiritual practice, from which all of his ministry flows. Fox unknowingly echoed Zen: No dependence upon words and letters. Direct pointing at the soul.
To suggest that George Fox was a 17th Century English version of Bodhidharma would be a clumsy theological anachronism. Each man must be understood first within his own historical, cultural, and religious context. That said, the two figures display intriguing similarities. In paintings, Bodhidharma is typically depicted as a beetle-browed man of fierce, rough-hewn intensity. In later centuries, legends accumulated around him: He fearlessly asserted the futility of building Buddhist temples and of the recitation of the sutras… . For nine years [he] remained seated before the wall of a monastery… . [He] is said to have miraculously foiled his enemies’ attempts to poison him… .¹⁰ Is it a coincidence that George Fox—another rough-hewn, singular figure, the man in leather breeches—often denounced the steeplehouses of his time (declaring that God did not live in temples made with hands¹¹) or that by his own account, he was the target of numerous failed attempts upon his life, often making providential escapes from the clutches of his opponents? Like graphic depictions of Bodhidharma’s eyes, the discerning fierceness of Fox’s scrutiny of others was unnerving, provoking frightened responses: "Don’t pierce me so with thy eyes!
Keep thy eyes off me!"¹² Like Bodhidharma, Fox pursued spiritual awakening with extraordinary intensity; he reports that in his early years of seeking, I fasted much, and walked abroad in solitary places many days, and often took my Bible and went and sat in hollow trees and lonesome places till night came on; and frequently in the night walked mournfully about by myself, for I was a man of sorrows in the times of the first workings of the Lord in me.¹³ William Penn noted the utter uniqueness of Fox: He was an original, being no man’s copy.¹⁴ The religious genius of both Bodhidharma and Fox drove them toward spiritual awakening, without concern for personal comfort and safety.
Both Zen and Quakerism lay claim to being distillations of the experiential core of their respective traditions, Buddhism and Christianity. (William Penn wrote a pamphlet about Quakerism titled Primitive Christianity Revived.¹⁵) Both traditions abandon doctrinal definitions in favor of religious practices whose purpose is to awaken us to Presence in this very moment. Both point to a theological paradox hidden within our everyday delusions: we are always immersed in Sacred Reality—yet we remain blind to it. The classic 8th Century Buddhist poem, Sandokai (commonly translated as The Identity of Relative and Absolute) contains these lines: Reading words you should grasp the great reality… . If you do not see the Way, you do not see it even as you walk upon it.¹⁶ Zen masters employ a startling array of means to cut through the obscuring thickets of words, in order to shock their students into an immediate realization of the great reality.¹⁷
The ubiquity of Divine Presence is repeatedly affirmed in Judeo-Christian scripture. Moses declares (Deut. 30:14) that The word is very near to you: it is in your mouth and in your heart… . The psalmist asks,
Where can I go from your spirit? Or where can I flee from your presence?
If I ascend to heaven, you are there; if I make my bed in Sheol, you are there.
If I take the wings of the morning and settle at the farthest limits of the sea, even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me fast.
(Psalm 139:7-10)
Jesus assures his disciples that I am with you always, to the end of the age. (Matt. 28:20) St. Paul agrees with a pagan poet that in God, we live, and move, and have our being. (Acts 17:28) and reaffirms Moses’ words, quoted above. (Romans10:8)
Although we are always immersed in Mystery, we live as if we were separate from it. Isaac Penington (1616-1679), a Quaker mystic and contemporary of George Fox who endured lengthy imprisonment for his refusal to abandon his religious convictions, put this paradox sharply:
But is it not strange, that thou shouldst be of it, and not be able to know and own it, in this day of its manifestation; but call the light which is spiritual and eternal (and gives the true and certain knowledge of Christ) natural? What! Of God, of Christ, (having received the Spirit, the living well) and yet not know the mystery of life within, nor its pure voice in this present day! But limit the unlimited One to a form of words formerly spoken by him! ¹⁸
When Sacred Reality becomes a mere idea rather than Living Presence, we have lost our way. Concepts and words that should point beyond themselves assume a false reality of their own, limiting and even replacing that to which they refer—a category mistake that the philosopher Alfred North Whitehead called the fallacy of misplaced concreteness.¹⁹ The opening words of the Tao Te Ching declare, The Tao which can be spoken of is not the eternal Tao.²⁰
A traditional Zen saying is, You may use your finger to point at the moon—but do not mistake the finger for the moon. When we view the moon with an open body and mind, we awaken to wonder and reverence, giving joyful expression to our experience. Eager to share with others, we try to capture the ineffable in words, using the tools that are familiar to us: symbols, metaphors, and rituals of our own tradition. For Bodhidharma and Dogen, that tradition was the Buddhism of their time and place; for George Fox, it was Christianity in 17th Century England. Yet for us, the spiritual power of their vision rests not in those outward forms, but in our intuitive intimation of the Mystery to which they point. As Paul Knitter writes, Christian language, like all religious language, is, in its entire vocabulary, made up of fingers pointing to the moon.²¹
The Primacy of Practice
When I stand some distance away from you, I may not be able to discern where you are pointing, nor comprehend why what you see evokes such wonder and zeal; only when I realize that my own standpoint is but one among many, may I begin to appreciate your perspective. Likewise, ministry that does not speak to one person may be exactly what another seeker needs to receive. A similar humility is required of us as we survey the immense variety and protean power of spiritual insights in countless cultural settings.
Yet how shall we make room for this seemingly laudable latitude regarding religious symbols without descending to a lowest common denominator, thereby arriving at tasteless spiritual pablum? As a boy I heard this question posed by elderly Quakers who were concerned about the decline of their beloved Society—usually accompanied by plaintive recitation of Matthew 5:13 (KJV): Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? It is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under the foot of men.
In my experience, generous respect for other religions is best grounded in deep fidelity to our own authentic religious practice. When I try to explain to others how I reconcile Zen practice with my Quaker and Christian identity, I am of two minds. If I compare theologies, lining up Buddhism and Christianity in order to read off similarities and contrasts, I fumble; my efforts to explain myself become forced and unpersuasive. Yet in my personal spiritual life, Buddhism, Quakerism, and Christianity meld seamlessly into my own singular journey. The beloved contemporary Buddhist teacher, Jack Kornfield, relates this story: One young woman who had become very involved in Buddhist practice returned to her parents’ home. She struggled with their Christian Fundamentalism for a time, until she sorted things out. Then she sent a letter back to the monastery stating, ‘My parents hate me when I’m a Buddhist, but they love me when I’m a Buddha.’²²
A fellow graduate student in philosophy once told me that his strategy in winning a philosophical argument was Distinguish and conquer. He was very skilled at doing this. Was it mere coincidence that his wife (also a graduate student in philosophy) seemed unhappy in the marriage? Buddhist teachings—and indeed, mysticism in all of its forms—observe that exclusive reliance upon discursive reasoning highlights differences, promoting division and discord. In contrast, when we return to the infinite depth and breadth of this moment, we rediscover our underlying connections with others and with all of life. Purely theoretical puzzles disappear or become irrelevant; as the Buddha delicately observed, they reveal themselves to be questions that tend not to edification.²³
A corollary of this spiritual insight is the paradox that we draw closer to one another to the degree that we become more fully ourselves. Thus I do not offer my reflections in this book as a spiritual map for others to follow. There is no one size fits all spirituality or religious identity; the shape of soul-making is unique to each individual. The Buddha’s final words were, Be a lamp unto yourself—that is, learn to recognize and commit to your own deepest insights. Again, George Fox unknowingly echoed this directive. Margaret Fell (1614-1702), the spiritual mother of Quakerism and the eventual wife of Fox, relates the moment when his ministry cut me to the heart: confronting a cleric who drew upon scripture to refute his challenges, Fox declared, You will say, Christ saith this, and the Apostles say this; but what canst thou say? Art thou a Child of Light, and hast walked in the Light, and what thou speakest, is it inwardly from God?²⁴ I am of greatest service to others when I am true to myself: honest testimony from my own path proves to be more helpful than presuming to know what others should do.
God-Talk
The only real voyage of discovery…consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.
—Marcel Proust²⁵
My childhood home was suffused with a distinctively Quaker vision of Christianity, centering upon the spiritual and moral teachings of Jesus—especially the Sermon on the Mount. These teachings became etched upon my heart. Yet the conventional theological language in which they were couched gradually lost its power over my mind, replaced by intellectual skepticism and aimless spiritual longing. Zen practice became a new wineskin for that longing, refocusing my spiritual energies and freeing my use of Christian and Quaker language from the straitjacket of literalism. I count as one of Zen’s greatest gifts that it has restored to me the evocative power of Judeo-Christian scripture.
When I think of God, I do not picture to myself a disembodied, supreme Intelligence who can be persuaded by human supplication to intervene in the natural course of events. In the minds of many orthodox Christians, this admission will brand me as a non-theist or even an atheist. I choose not to invest energy in rebutting this charge. In my personal lexicon, the term God and its cognates hint at a Reality that is beyond the power of words to capture, a vast and potent Mystery.²⁶
Friends affirm that this Divine Reality is found within every human breast—that there is "that of God in every
one."²⁷ Awakening to this Presence, we come to know the hidden unity in the Eternal Being²⁸—our essential interconnection with one another and with all creation. Zen makes similar claims regarding Buddha-Nature, an empowering awareness to which we awaken through disciplined spiritual practice, revealing the truth of Interbeing.²⁹ I hesitate to suggest that these phrases—that of God in every one and Buddha-Nature—refer to the same underlying reality. In view of the unique historical tapestries of Buddhism and Christianity, such a cross-cultural equation is dubious. Yet I personally find these phrases equally satisfactory in pointing to my own inner experience.
Because of fond memories of my childhood religious instruction, I continue to use some traditional Christian terminology. Yet I dissociate myself from the intolerance and exclusivity that often accompany this language. I invite readers for whom my Christian words and scriptural citations carry negative baggage to translate them into symbols that evoke their own spiritual insights. A guiding thread of theological reconstruction in these pages is to reclaim—for myself, and possibly for others—the power of Christian language, even as I respect, admire, and draw upon other great religious traditions.
The following chapters are linked by a common theme, the insights that arise as we awaken to the reality of the present moment. Breaking free of the conceptual cocoon that insulates us from our lives, coming to our senses, we discover that what Jesus called the Kingdom of God is indeed among and within us. (Luke 17:21) Moments of awakening are not always blissful or reassuring; they can be disconcerting, even devastating. Others are quiet reminders of who and where we are, small epiphanies that reorient us to what is most important. Their meaning may be lost on us in the moment that they occur, to be realized later in what the English poet, Wordsworth, called emotion recollected in tranquility.³⁰
Scattered through these pages are accounts of such pivotal moments in my life—personal parables, intense experiences that have shaped my perspective and directed my steps into the future. Some were traumatic, others uplifting. For emphasis, I highlight these accounts by the typographical convention of italics.
Unless otherwise noted, all quotations from the Old and New Testaments of the Christian Bible are from the New Revised Standard Version.
Chapters are organized according to the traditional stages of the mystic’s path: purgation (dropping all denial and self-deception, facing one’s brokenness and shadow self); illumination (out of such radical self-honesty spring moments of grace and insight); and union (the gladness of awakening to our intrinsic bond with all of creation).
Part I: Purgation
CHAPTER ONE: A Quaker In the Zendo relates the journey from my childhood in an Iowa Quaker farm family, through anxious years of academic striving that imploded into humiliating personal crisis—and to recovery through years of psychotherapy and Zen practice, returning me to a renewed engagement with my Quaker roots.
CHAPTER TWO: Standing Still In the Light draws upon the records of Quakerism, writings of George Fox and other early Friends, where I find—to my wonder and delight—explicit guidelines for spiritual practice that are often
overlooked by Friends today. I spell out these guidelines in experiential terms.
CHAPTER THREE: Pure Passion expands upon the theme of Chapter Two, linking the spiritual practice of standing still in the Light to an understanding of psychotherapy, meditation, and the Passion of Christ. Again my account is personal, building upon my own experience.
Part II: Illumination
CHAPTER FOUR: Living Peace details my efforts to understand the Peace Testimony of early Friends. I find it to be not (as is commonly supposed) the endorsement of a sweeping philosophical principle of pacifism, but rather, the outcome of disciplined spiritual practice. When we stand in utter sincerity in the Light, the causes of violence and hatred melt away, bringing us into sweet harmony with all of creation.
CHAPTER FIVE: Healing Gender Hurt explores the meaning of the Peace Testimony for gender conflict—especially what is often called the war of the sexes. I explore the meaning of masculinity in the light of Friends’ Peace Testimony. I share my own efforts to heal and to foster the healing of others.
CHAPTER SIX: Friendly Pedagogy traces the spiritual roots that nourish Quaker schools and suggests that the distinctive ethos of such schools derives from Friends’ unique manner of conducting meetings for business. I tease out implications of Friends’ spirituality for humane, effective teaching.
Part III: Union
CHAPTER SEVEN: In the Love of Nature draws from my childhood on an Iowa farm. In this chapter, I probe the contributions of Quaker spirituality to an overriding challenge of our time, the gathering storm of global climate change and environmental decay. We cannot hope to restore the earth while we ourselves remain alienated from her.
CHAPTER EIGHT: Joyful Service argues that the work of peace and justice—mending the world—is most effective when it is motivated not by indignation, fear, or anger, but by the transforming, reconciling power of hearts that have surrendered into the crucible of the Light. Reactive emotions may be necessary in order to cut through our complacence—but only love can overcome hatred and promote true justice.
CHAPTER NINE: Walking Cheerfully unites the themes of the previous chapters in a vision of reconciliation and redemption in this life—living the Kingdom of God in a broken world. If the deepest needs are for the highest things, what is highest can be found here and now, in this very life—if we have eyes to see.
While I draw upon fine scholarship from many sources, I do not write as a scholar addressing other scholars, but rather as an earnest seeker, sharing my brokenness, my failures, and my modest insights in the hope that my readers may find their way along their own paths to healing and wholeness, whatever those paths may be. In that spirit I write not only for those who self-identify as Quakers or Buddhists—but for all who yearn for the highest things.
Awakening to our own deepest springs of wisdom promises more than we can now dream or imagine. In the
final lines of Walden, Henry David Thoreau writes, Only that day dawns to which we are awake. There is more day to dawn. The sun is but a morning star.³¹ His words are a departure point for the following pages. May the morning star—eastern light—reveal the true light, which enlightens everyone.
Karen Armstrong, The Case for God (New York: Knopf, 2009), p. xiii.
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Ibid., p. xv.
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Although the importance of practical wisdom is emphasized in Aristotle’s Nichomachean Ethics (see Book VI, Chapters 5, 12, 13), courses in ethical theory and classical philosophy typically note this insight—only to put aside its cultivation in order to explore theoretical puzzles.
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See Heinrich Dumoulin, S.J., A History of Zen Buddhism (Boston: Beacon Press, 1963), p. 67. Dumoulin dates Bodhidharma’s life to the early 5th Century C.E. and attributes these four lines to a Zen master from the Tang era, Nan-chuan Pu-yan (748-834). See Dumoulin, Chapter 5, ftnt. 1.
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Shobogenzo; quoted by Jack Kornfield, A Path with Heart: A Guide Through the Perils and Promises of Spiritual Life (New York: Bantam,1993), pp. 332-339.
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Journal of George Fox, ed. by John L. Nickalls (London: Religious Society of Friends, 1975), p. 33.
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Ibid., p. 27.
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Ibid., p. 33.
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Dumoulin, p. 68.
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Journal, p. 45. Fox refers to Acts 7:48: The Most High dwelleth not in temples made with hands.
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Introduction by Geoffrey F. Nuttall, DD., to Fox, Journal, p. xxxiii.
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Journal, p. 9f.
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Extracts from William Penn’s Preface, in Fox, Journal, p. xliii.
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Published in 1696. Available without charge online.
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Sandokai, in Wikipedia, accessed on 23 August 2012.
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A traditional tool of Zen masters is a gnarled stick sometimes used in personal interviews to strike their students unexpectedly, in an effort to wake them abruptly into the moment.
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Knowing the Mystery of Life Within: Selected Writings of Isaac Penington in their Historical and Theological Context, selected and introduced by R. Melvin Keiser and Rosemary Moore (London: Quaker Books, 2005), front matter epigraph.
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Alfred North Whitehead, Science and the Modern World (New York: Free Press, 1925, 1997), p. 51.
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Many editions. This from Lao Tzu: Text, Notes, and Comments, by ChenKu-ying, translated and adapted by Rhett Y. W. Young and Roger T. Ames (San Francisco: Chinese Materials Center, Inc., 1977), p. 51.
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Paul F. Knitter, Without Buddha I Could Not Be a Christian (Oxford: Oneworld Publications, 2009), p. 65. Knitter is Paul Tillich Professor of Theology, World Religions and Culture at Union Theological Seminary.
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Jack Kornfield, After the Ecstasy, the Laundry: How the Heart Grows Wise on the Spiritual Path (New York: Bantam, 2000), pp. 218f.
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Questions Which Tend not to Edification, Sermon Number 1, from The Lesser Malunkyaputta Sutra, Translated from the Maijhima-Nikaya.
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The Testimony of Margaret Fox Concerning her Late Husband George Fox, in Hidden In Plain Sight: Quaker Women’s Writings 1650-1700, ed. by Mary Garman, et. al. (Wallingford, PA: Pendle Hill Publications, 1996), p. 235.
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The Maxims of Marcel Proust, ed. by Justin O’Brien (New York: Columbia University Press, 1948), p. 181.
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I have discovered that my outlook falls roughly into the category of apophatic theology. This longstanding tradition has its roots in negative theology (via negativa)—the outlook that no positive description is adequate to name or express the reality of the Divine Good. Negative theology… is often allied with mysticism, which focuses on a spontaneous or cultivated individual experience of the divine reality beyond the realm of ordinary perception, an experience often unmediated by the structures of traditional organized religion or the conditioned role-playing and learned defensive behavior of the outer man.… The Divine is ineffable… it eludes definition by definition. (From Apophatic Theology in Wikipedia, accessed on 23 July 2012.) Both Zen and the mystical aspects of Quakerism exemplify this outlook.
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Fox, Journal, p. 263.
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Ibid., p. 28.
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This phrase comes from Thich Nhat Hanh, a Vietnamese Zen Buddhist master who has done much to popularize Zen in mainstream Western religious thought.
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Preface to Lyrical Ballads, Second Edition (1800).
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Final lines of Conclusion. Many editions.
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Table of Contents
Introduction
Part I: Purgation
Chapter One: A Quaker in the Zendo
Chapter Two: Standing Still in the Light
Chapter Three: Pure Passion
Part II: Illumination
Chapter Four: Living Peace
Chapter Five: Healing Gender Hurt
Chapter Six: Friendly Pedagogy
Part III: Union
Chapter Seven: In the Love of Nature
Chapter Eight: Joyful Witness
Chapter Nine: Walking Cheerfully Over the World
Bibliography
Permissions
Acknowledgements
About the Author
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Long requested and long awaited, Steve Smith's audience of thoughtful readers will book formats. The first time reader of his work will find comparative insights from his own journey studying Buddism and Quakerism, from both personal perspective and as a professor of philosophy. (less)
Kindle Edition, 215 pages
Published January 26th 2016 by QUPublishing, subsiderary of Quaker Universalist Fellowship
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Eastern Light
Awakening to Presence in Zen, Quakerism, and Christianity
By Steve Smith
https://www.spiritualityandpractice.com/book-reviews/view/28069/eastern-light
A serious, subtle, wise, and capacious spiritual memoir which addresses the hungers of seekers in this era of religious pluralism.
Book Review by Frederic and Mary Ann Brussat
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Multiple religious participation (MRPing) is the conscious use of the ideas, practices, and sensibilities of another tradition by a person firmly rooted in his or her own faith perspective. In this serious, subtle, wise, and capacious spiritual memoir, Steve Smith shares his journey and sparks our attention to the bounties and insights of Quakerism, Zen, and Christianity.
Born into an Iowa Quaker farm family and graduated from Scattergood Friends School and Earlham College; he earned a doctorate in Philosophy from Harvard University, He taught for 40 years in the Department of Philosophy and Religious Studies at Claremont McKenna College. Among his publications are three edited books, a textbook, and two collections of talks by Zen teacher Charlotte Joko Beck.
Having been a teacher, Smith highlights five principles of Quaker pedagogy:
The priority of experience: Awaken fully to our encounters with the world.
Integrity: Link education consistently with the whole of life.
The facts are friendly: Trust that creation is welcoming and life-affirming.
Invite all voices: Include all in the community of learning.
Nonviolence: Respect the tender souls of teachers and learners alike.
These bold educational ideals vividly illustrate some of the touchstones of Quaker faith and practice which Smith presents in Eastern Light. During a period in his life where he faced personal crises such as alcoholism and divorce, Smith immersed himself in a daily Zen meditation program which resulted in the transformation of his life. In his personal journal, he writes: "Zazen is marvelous. It returns me to myself, and to the unspeakable beauty at the heart of all things."
Like Paul Knitter, who talks often about how Buddhist practices have deepened and enriched his Christianity, Smith observes: "My Zen journey has helped me to appreciate features of Quaker spiritual practice that I had formerly overlooked."
In a series of cogent musings, the author ponders the abundant riches of standing still in the Light which demands, as was clarified by early Quakers in their writings, the rigors of dying to self and the liberation of discipline. Smith finds it rewarding to follow the mantra of George Fox "Live in the Life of God, and feel it." In a chapter probing passion and compassion, he looks at the vulnerability of human beings as they give themselves over to self-examination and a close encounter with their heart's desires.
For Smith, one of the many remarkable dimensions of Quakerism is its advocacy of activism. This spiritual path not only helps us bear the burdens of our own lives and keep our souls alive but the Religious Society of Friends (founded by George Fox) has been at the forefront of campaigns for peace and social justice around the world. Smith salutes the courage of Quakers who have suffered as a result of their espousal of peace over the engines and weapons of war. We were moved by the author's stirring defense of a nonviolent response to war, hatred, and injustice in the chapter on "Living Peace." This is followed by another aspect of peacemaking in the war of the sexes. Smith manages to convey the "joy of gender healing."
In the last three chapters, the author hits high stride by addressing the major challenges of our times: climate change and environmental decay; the daunting mission of "mending the world"; and the struggle to stay grounded, open, and compassionate in the kingdom of heaven as it exists right now within the everyday precincts of our lives. As he concludes:
"Spiritual practice is not a search for something that is absent from our lives. Rather, it is the discipline of reawakening to a Reality that is forever infused within us — a Sacred Source in which even now, in this very moment, we 'live and move and have our being.' "
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Author(s): Irene Webb
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Eastern Light: Awakening to Presence in Zen, Quakerism and Christianity
by Steve Smith
reviewed by Irene Webb
Steve Smith is a lifelong Quaker who went to Quaker schools, earned a doctorate in Philosophy from Harvard University, and went on to teach for forty years in the Department of Philosophy and Religious Studies at Claremont McKenna College in California. One might say, “He really knows his subject.” His latest book, Eastern Light: Awakening to Presence in Zen, Quakerism and Christianity recounts both Steve’s personal spiritual journey as well as a philosophical excursion into our contemporary quest for connection. As he writes in the introduction to the book, “...when we return to the infinite depth and breadth of this moment, we rediscover our underlying connections with others and with all life.” In the course of his own life, he found his connection back to his Quaker roots through a “dark night of the soul” that led him to Zen Buddhism.
Smith’s awakening occurred as he began Zen practice early one April morning in 1981 while on sabbatical in Hawaii. Although accustomed to sitting in Quaker Meeting, he finally had a deeper understanding of George Fox’s injunction to “Stand still in the light” as he learned to meditate in the Zendo. He writes: “Seeing my thoughts, cravings and fears without being drawn into them, I move from self-preoccupation to awareness of a larger reality. This liberating viewpoint is the Light – not a glowing object in my mind’s eye, but rather that which enables me to see my troubles while freeing me from immersion in them. Standing still in the Light, I yield to expansive openness and presence; in the words of Penington and Fox, I find ‘sweet experience’ and ‘contentment.’”
When I first read Steve Smith’s Pendel Hill pamphlet A Quaker in the Zendo in 2003, I must have read it eight times. I had begun to meditate with Vipassana groups and had a strong interest in Buddhism… and yet I knew I was a Christian. I couldn’t help it. I just was. I had started attending Santa Monica Friends Meeting in California in 2001 after many years in the Episcopal Church. The quiet, the simplicity, and the lack of dogma (and preacher) appealed to me at that stage of life. As I settled into Quakerism and the beauty of “waiting upon the Lord” and “seeking the Light,” I felt that sense of mysticism I had been seeking for a long time. I recall thinking, “This is it – I’m a Buddhist Christian now.”
In this full-length book on Zen and Christianity, Smith does an exceptional job of casting light on the similarities between Buddhism and Quakerism, especially through quotations from George Fox, Isaac Penington, and other early Quakers. As Smith shows, the words of the Buddha and those of George Fox carry amazingly similar messages. It’s refreshing and quite freeing to see this.
I highly recommend not rushing through this book. There are gems of wisdom, inspiration, and knowledge on every page. The book covers some of the most important issues of our time, including the need for Quakers and Christians to become more grounded in the connection with the divine in our work for social justice and equality, the necessity of opening our eyes and hearts to the hurt that can be so prevalent in our relationships, and the joy of nature and terror of ruining it. All these important issues and more are discussed through the lens of a quality of religion that is found in both East and West.
The book is filled with meaningful quotes from a wide range of influential spiritual leaders such as Pema Chodron, Victor Frankl, Thich Nhat Hanh, and Thomas Kelly. The book has an excellent bibliography and very helpful endnotes. Eastern Light would be an obvious choice for book clubs and spiritual-growth classes. Quakers might want to seriously consider forming study groups around this important book. But first of all, read it for you own enlightenment and peace. ~~~
Irene Webb conducts Alternatives to Violence trainings in jails in New Mexico, volunteers with an interfaith homeless shelter, and is a member of Santa Fe Monthly Meeting (IMYM).
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Eastern Light: Awakening to Presence in Zen, Quakerism, and Christianity By Steve Smith, 2015. 232 pages.
Reviewed by Judith Favor, August 1, 2016
Reviewed by Judith Favor, August 1, 2016
“Who, other than Friends, are genuinely interested in helping people to fall in love with the Inward Guide?” For all the fascinating personal parables in Steve Smith’s self-disclosing volume, these words from Marshall Massey (spoken in 1985 at Pacific Yearly Meeting) resonate powerfully with me, for I see the author living by them. I engage in sitting meditation in the Zen tradition under Steve’s guidance; we have worshipped together for 18 years at Claremont Meeting. I became a convinced Friend in part because Steve Smith showed me how to fall in love with the Inward Guide.
Born to an Iowa Quaker family, this retired professor of philosophy and religious studies “writes in the language of the deep listener,” as Friend Connie Green puts it. Smith says he loves to write; his bedrock relationship with Sacred Presence shines in every chapter. “Writing is a labor of the heart . . . an attempt to find my own way to a foundation of love in my own life.” Depth writing in these pages “is very different from the corrosive labors that led me in the wrong direction.”
Eastern Light is a compilation of stories: personal crisis; hard-won spiritual practices; and wise reflections on Quakerly approaches to peace, passion, nature, and service. Its nine chapters are organized according to the classic stages of the mystic’s path:
- Purgation: dropping all self-denial and self-deception, facing one’s brokenness
- Illumination: out of such radical self-honesty spring moments of grace and insight
- Union: the gladness of awakening to our intrinsic bond with all creation
Young Friends and others wounded in “the war of the sexes” may find solace in “Healing Gender Hurt.” Quaker educators will resonate with “Friendly Pedagogy” as Smith “teases out the implications of Friends’ spirituality for humane, effective teaching.” In “In the Love of Nature,” he explores Friends’ responses to “the gathering storm of global climate change and environmental decay.” Personal memories and struggles are set in italics for the general reader; the scholarly reader will appreciate Smith’s robust set of endnotes.
Through the power of loving attention, this lifelong Friend uses clear language to probe the complexities and mysteries of Quaker faith and practice. Eastern Light contains a rich mix of themes, all moving toward helping people fall in love with the Inward Guide.
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INTRODUCTION
Awakening early, I rise and view a new day. Through my eastern windows, morning light slants across furniture and floor, casting pools of color upon my western wall. The room transforms in beauty—familiar, yet utterly changed. The world opens to me and I am again an infant, enraptured by a new creation.
The deepest needs are for the highest things. This book is a record of my hunger to know the highest things throughout my entire life, to awaken to the light that illumines all. In my darkest night, that light dawned from the East, reminding me of what I already knew, but had forgotten.
To rediscover what one already knows is the most intimate form of knowledge, like discovering in one’s pocket a treasure that was seemingly lost forever. In minor matters it is: Of course! I knew that! In deeper matters of the heart, it is the prodigal son returning, the realization that one is loved without reservation exactly as one is. For most of my adult life I had sought another kind of knowledge—aloof, comprehensive, general, a view from above: the universe seen from everywhere and nowhere. I sought this God’s-eye view in my chosen discipline of academic
philosophy, secretly hoping that if I achieved such an Olympian vision, I would at last find peace for my restless heart. That endeavor proved fruitless. Worse, as I searched through barren fields of bloodless concepts and came upon yet more unanswered questions, I lost touch with my soul.
Yet as defined in Greek antiquity, philosophy—philosophia, love of wisdom—still evokes my reverence. Wisdom is truth that nourishes, enabling us to be of greater service to ourselves, to others, and to all of creation. Socrates remains a hero for me.
Two primary kinds of knowledge are marked in many languages by separate terms: propositional knowledge, knowing that something is the case; and knowledge with a direct object, knowing as direct familiarity: "I know Paris—or Josephine, or the taste of a mango." I had been seeking the former kind of knowledge; what I secretly yearned for was the latter. To seek only propositional knowledge is to bypass the intimacy of direct awareness, or to recast it in unrecognizable formulas, content in the illusion that one can acquire facts while remaining untouched. Intellectual inquiry is then a cover for emotional cowardice—a state that I know all too well. When I open to the intimacy of direct knowing, I make myself vulnerable to transformation.
Religious practice seeks to heal the breach between propositional knowledge and direct familiarity, to recover from the illusion of isolation and reawaken to the many ways we are bound up with others and with life itself. As practice, it exemplifies a third form of knowledge—acquired skill or praxis, knowing how: Yes, I know how to play golf, or She really knows how to connect with people. Karen Armstrong, a respected, widely-read contemporary historian of religion, writes, Religion is a practical discipline that teaches us to discover new capacities of mind and heart.¹ She observes that religious practice has the power to open us to a transcendent dimension of life that [is] not simply an external reality ‘out there’ but [is] identical with the deepest level of [our] being.²
Armstrong suggests that because of our misguided efforts to capture the truths of religion in fixed propositions, We have not been doing our practice and have lost the ‘knack’ of religion.³ My own journey from abstract philosophy to Zen practice confirms this suggestion. Zen highlights the importance of knowing how; it is the cultivation of subtle yet powerful tools for living everyday life. To engage in Zen is to be constantly reminded that successful living is less a matter of accumulating information than of cultivating skills, and growing into what Aristotle called practical wisdom.⁴
Buddhism and Quakerism
Had I known where to look and what misconceptions to shed, I might have found within my own Quaker and Christian origins the very resources that my sick soul required. For many years, however, I could not see past my prejudices to the riches within my reach. In Buddhism I found a rigorous practice that brought healing balm. That discovery in turn threw unexpected light upon what I had failed to find in the familiar religious fixtures of my childhood—treasures that lay unrecognized at the center of my heart.
Reawakening to intimate awareness of my world, cultivating skills for successful living—these have been Zen’s most precious gifts to me. Cross-cultural affinities between Quakerism and Zen eased the way for this mutual
illumination. Some of these affinities are obvious: stark plainness and simplicity, deep silence and open receptivity are featured in both Quaker silent worship and Zen meditation. Others show themselves only upon deeper examination of the teachings of both traditions. Bodhidharma, the legendary first patriarch of Zen Buddhism, is traditionally credited with the following summation of Zen teaching:
A special tradition outside the scriptures;
No dependence upon words and letters;
Direct pointing at the soul…
Seeing into one’s own nature, and the attainment of Buddhahood.⁵
The fourth line refers to the experience of enlightenment (satori, kensho), often simply called awakening. Such an experience reveals to us that we have been living in a dull and troubled trance, oblivious to the vivid beauty of the world. Dogen Zenji, the great medieval Japanese Soto Zen master (1200-1253 C.E.), writes, To be enlightened is to be intimate with all things.⁶
More than a millennium after Bodhidharma, on the opposite side of the globe in 17th Century England, a feisty religious radical unknowingly echoed these themes. Of his great spiritual awakenings, George Fox (1624-1691) wrote, This I saw in the pure openings of the Light without the help of any man, neither did I then know where to find it in the Scriptures; though afterwards, searching the Scriptures, I found it. For I saw in that Light and Spirit which was before Scripture was given forth, …⁷ His world was reborn: All things were new, and all the creation gave another smell unto me than before, beyond what words can utter. I knew nothing but pureness, and innocency, and righteousness… .⁸ Fox wrote that in his awakened state, he observed a dullness and drowsy heaviness upon people, which I wondered at…and I told people they must come to witness death to that sleepy, heavy nature… that their minds and hearts might be on things above.⁹ Fox did not come to these insights through ruminating upon religious teachings, but through courageous, unblinking surrender to the actual condition of his own life. He called such surrender standing still in the Light. This was the core of his spiritual practice, from which all of his ministry flows. Fox unknowingly echoed Zen: No dependence upon words and letters. Direct pointing at the soul.
To suggest that George Fox was a 17th Century English version of Bodhidharma would be a clumsy theological anachronism. Each man must be understood first within his own historical, cultural, and religious context. That said, the two figures display intriguing similarities. In paintings, Bodhidharma is typically depicted as a beetle-browed man of fierce, rough-hewn intensity. In later centuries, legends accumulated around him: He fearlessly asserted the futility of building Buddhist temples and of the recitation of the sutras… . For nine years [he] remained seated before the wall of a monastery… . [He] is said to have miraculously foiled his enemies’ attempts to poison him… .¹⁰ Is it a coincidence that George Fox—another rough-hewn, singular figure, the man in leather breeches—often denounced the steeplehouses of his time (declaring that God did not live in temples made with hands¹¹) or that by his own account, he was the target of numerous failed attempts upon his life, often making providential escapes from the clutches of his opponents? Like graphic depictions of Bodhidharma’s eyes, the discerning fierceness of Fox’s scrutiny of others was unnerving, provoking frightened responses: "Don’t pierce me so with thy eyes!
Keep thy eyes off me!"¹² Like Bodhidharma, Fox pursued spiritual awakening with extraordinary intensity; he reports that in his early years of seeking, I fasted much, and walked abroad in solitary places many days, and often took my Bible and went and sat in hollow trees and lonesome places till night came on; and frequently in the night walked mournfully about by myself, for I was a man of sorrows in the times of the first workings of the Lord in me.¹³ William Penn noted the utter uniqueness of Fox: He was an original, being no man’s copy.¹⁴ The religious genius of both Bodhidharma and Fox drove them toward spiritual awakening, without concern for personal comfort and safety.
Both Zen and Quakerism lay claim to being distillations of the experiential core of their respective traditions, Buddhism and Christianity. (William Penn wrote a pamphlet about Quakerism titled Primitive Christianity Revived.¹⁵) Both traditions abandon doctrinal definitions in favor of religious practices whose purpose is to awaken us to Presence in this very moment. Both point to a theological paradox hidden within our everyday delusions: we are always immersed in Sacred Reality—yet we remain blind to it. The classic 8th Century Buddhist poem, Sandokai (commonly translated as The Identity of Relative and Absolute) contains these lines: Reading words you should grasp the great reality… . If you do not see the Way, you do not see it even as you walk upon it.¹⁶ Zen masters employ a startling array of means to cut through the obscuring thickets of words, in order to shock their students into an immediate realization of the great reality.¹⁷
The ubiquity of Divine Presence is repeatedly affirmed in Judeo-Christian scripture. Moses declares (Deut. 30:14) that The word is very near to you: it is in your mouth and in your heart… . The psalmist asks,
Where can I go from your spirit? Or where can I flee from your presence?
If I ascend to heaven, you are there; if I make my bed in Sheol, you are there.
If I take the wings of the morning and settle at the farthest limits of the sea, even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me fast.
(Psalm 139:7-10)
Jesus assures his disciples that I am with you always, to the end of the age. (Matt. 28:20) St. Paul agrees with a pagan poet that in God, we live, and move, and have our being. (Acts 17:28) and reaffirms Moses’ words, quoted above. (Romans10:8)
Although we are always immersed in Mystery, we live as if we were separate from it. Isaac Penington (1616-1679), a Quaker mystic and contemporary of George Fox who endured lengthy imprisonment for his refusal to abandon his religious convictions, put this paradox sharply:
But is it not strange, that thou shouldst be of it, and not be able to know and own it, in this day of its manifestation; but call the light which is spiritual and eternal (and gives the true and certain knowledge of Christ) natural? What! Of God, of Christ, (having received the Spirit, the living well) and yet not know the mystery of life within, nor its pure voice in this present day! But limit the unlimited One to a form of words formerly spoken by him! ¹⁸
When Sacred Reality becomes a mere idea rather than Living Presence, we have lost our way. Concepts and words that should point beyond themselves assume a false reality of their own, limiting and even replacing that to which they refer—a category mistake that the philosopher Alfred North Whitehead called the fallacy of misplaced concreteness.¹⁹ The opening words of the Tao Te Ching declare, The Tao which can be spoken of is not the eternal Tao.²⁰
A traditional Zen saying is, You may use your finger to point at the moon—but do not mistake the finger for the moon. When we view the moon with an open body and mind, we awaken to wonder and reverence, giving joyful expression to our experience. Eager to share with others, we try to capture the ineffable in words, using the tools that are familiar to us: symbols, metaphors, and rituals of our own tradition. For Bodhidharma and Dogen, that tradition was the Buddhism of their time and place; for George Fox, it was Christianity in 17th Century England. Yet for us, the spiritual power of their vision rests not in those outward forms, but in our intuitive intimation of the Mystery to which they point. As Paul Knitter writes, Christian language, like all religious language, is, in its entire vocabulary, made up of fingers pointing to the moon.²¹
The Primacy of Practice
When I stand some distance away from you, I may not be able to discern where you are pointing, nor comprehend why what you see evokes such wonder and zeal; only when I realize that my own standpoint is but one among many, may I begin to appreciate your perspective. Likewise, ministry that does not speak to one person may be exactly what another seeker needs to receive. A similar humility is required of us as we survey the immense variety and protean power of spiritual insights in countless cultural settings.
Yet how shall we make room for this seemingly laudable latitude regarding religious symbols without descending to a lowest common denominator, thereby arriving at tasteless spiritual pablum? As a boy I heard this question posed by elderly Quakers who were concerned about the decline of their beloved Society—usually accompanied by plaintive recitation of Matthew 5:13 (KJV): Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? It is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under the foot of men.
In my experience, generous respect for other religions is best grounded in deep fidelity to our own authentic religious practice. When I try to explain to others how I reconcile Zen practice with my Quaker and Christian identity, I am of two minds. If I compare theologies, lining up Buddhism and Christianity in order to read off similarities and contrasts, I fumble; my efforts to explain myself become forced and unpersuasive. Yet in my personal spiritual life, Buddhism, Quakerism, and Christianity meld seamlessly into my own singular journey. The beloved contemporary Buddhist teacher, Jack Kornfield, relates this story: One young woman who had become very involved in Buddhist practice returned to her parents’ home. She struggled with their Christian Fundamentalism for a time, until she sorted things out. Then she sent a letter back to the monastery stating, ‘My parents hate me when I’m a Buddhist, but they love me when I’m a Buddha.’²²
A fellow graduate student in philosophy once told me that his strategy in winning a philosophical argument was Distinguish and conquer. He was very skilled at doing this. Was it mere coincidence that his wife (also a graduate student in philosophy) seemed unhappy in the marriage? Buddhist teachings—and indeed, mysticism in all of its forms—observe that exclusive reliance upon discursive reasoning highlights differences, promoting division and discord. In contrast, when we return to the infinite depth and breadth of this moment, we rediscover our underlying connections with others and with all of life. Purely theoretical puzzles disappear or become irrelevant; as the Buddha delicately observed, they reveal themselves to be questions that tend not to edification.²³
A corollary of this spiritual insight is the paradox that we draw closer to one another to the degree that we become more fully ourselves. Thus I do not offer my reflections in this book as a spiritual map for others to follow. There is no one size fits all spirituality or religious identity; the shape of soul-making is unique to each individual. The Buddha’s final words were, Be a lamp unto yourself—that is, learn to recognize and commit to your own deepest insights. Again, George Fox unknowingly echoed this directive. Margaret Fell (1614-1702), the spiritual mother of Quakerism and the eventual wife of Fox, relates the moment when his ministry cut me to the heart: confronting a cleric who drew upon scripture to refute his challenges, Fox declared, You will say, Christ saith this, and the Apostles say this; but what canst thou say? Art thou a Child of Light, and hast walked in the Light, and what thou speakest, is it inwardly from God?²⁴ I am of greatest service to others when I am true to myself: honest testimony from my own path proves to be more helpful than presuming to know what others should do.
God-Talk
The only real voyage of discovery…consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.
—Marcel Proust²⁵
My childhood home was suffused with a distinctively Quaker vision of Christianity, centering upon the spiritual and moral teachings of Jesus—especially the Sermon on the Mount. These teachings became etched upon my heart. Yet the conventional theological language in which they were couched gradually lost its power over my mind, replaced by intellectual skepticism and aimless spiritual longing. Zen practice became a new wineskin for that longing, refocusing my spiritual energies and freeing my use of Christian and Quaker language from the straitjacket of literalism. I count as one of Zen’s greatest gifts that it has restored to me the evocative power of Judeo-Christian scripture.
When I think of God, I do not picture to myself a disembodied, supreme Intelligence who can be persuaded by human supplication to intervene in the natural course of events. In the minds of many orthodox Christians, this admission will brand me as a non-theist or even an atheist. I choose not to invest energy in rebutting this charge. In my personal lexicon, the term God and its cognates hint at a Reality that is beyond the power of words to capture, a vast and potent Mystery.²⁶
Friends affirm that this Divine Reality is found within every human breast—that there is "that of God in every
one."²⁷ Awakening to this Presence, we come to know the hidden unity in the Eternal Being²⁸—our essential interconnection with one another and with all creation. Zen makes similar claims regarding Buddha-Nature, an empowering awareness to which we awaken through disciplined spiritual practice, revealing the truth of Interbeing.²⁹ I hesitate to suggest that these phrases—that of God in every one and Buddha-Nature—refer to the same underlying reality. In view of the unique historical tapestries of Buddhism and Christianity, such a cross-cultural equation is dubious. Yet I personally find these phrases equally satisfactory in pointing to my own inner experience.
Because of fond memories of my childhood religious instruction, I continue to use some traditional Christian terminology. Yet I dissociate myself from the intolerance and exclusivity that often accompany this language. I invite readers for whom my Christian words and scriptural citations carry negative baggage to translate them into symbols that evoke their own spiritual insights. A guiding thread of theological reconstruction in these pages is to reclaim—for myself, and possibly for others—the power of Christian language, even as I respect, admire, and draw upon other great religious traditions.
The following chapters are linked by a common theme, the insights that arise as we awaken to the reality of the present moment. Breaking free of the conceptual cocoon that insulates us from our lives, coming to our senses, we discover that what Jesus called the Kingdom of God is indeed among and within us. (Luke 17:21) Moments of awakening are not always blissful or reassuring; they can be disconcerting, even devastating. Others are quiet reminders of who and where we are, small epiphanies that reorient us to what is most important. Their meaning may be lost on us in the moment that they occur, to be realized later in what the English poet, Wordsworth, called emotion recollected in tranquility.³⁰
Scattered through these pages are accounts of such pivotal moments in my life—personal parables, intense experiences that have shaped my perspective and directed my steps into the future. Some were traumatic, others uplifting. For emphasis, I highlight these accounts by the typographical convention of italics.
Unless otherwise noted, all quotations from the Old and New Testaments of the Christian Bible are from the New Revised Standard Version.
Chapters are organized according to the traditional stages of the mystic’s path: purgation (dropping all denial and self-deception, facing one’s brokenness and shadow self); illumination (out of such radical self-honesty spring moments of grace and insight); and union (the gladness of awakening to our intrinsic bond with all of creation).
Part I: Purgation
CHAPTER ONE: A Quaker In the Zendo relates the journey from my childhood in an Iowa Quaker farm family, through anxious years of academic striving that imploded into humiliating personal crisis—and to recovery through years of psychotherapy and Zen practice, returning me to a renewed engagement with my Quaker roots.
CHAPTER TWO: Standing Still In the Light draws upon the records of Quakerism, writings of George Fox and other early Friends, where I find—to my wonder and delight—explicit guidelines for spiritual practice that are often
overlooked by Friends today. I spell out these guidelines in experiential terms.
CHAPTER THREE: Pure Passion expands upon the theme of Chapter Two, linking the spiritual practice of standing still in the Light to an understanding of psychotherapy, meditation, and the Passion of Christ. Again my account is personal, building upon my own experience.
Part II: Illumination
CHAPTER FOUR: Living Peace details my efforts to understand the Peace Testimony of early Friends. I find it to be not (as is commonly supposed) the endorsement of a sweeping philosophical principle of pacifism, but rather, the outcome of disciplined spiritual practice. When we stand in utter sincerity in the Light, the causes of violence and hatred melt away, bringing us into sweet harmony with all of creation.
CHAPTER FIVE: Healing Gender Hurt explores the meaning of the Peace Testimony for gender conflict—especially what is often called the war of the sexes. I explore the meaning of masculinity in the light of Friends’ Peace Testimony. I share my own efforts to heal and to foster the healing of others.
CHAPTER SIX: Friendly Pedagogy traces the spiritual roots that nourish Quaker schools and suggests that the distinctive ethos of such schools derives from Friends’ unique manner of conducting meetings for business. I tease out implications of Friends’ spirituality for humane, effective teaching.
Part III: Union
CHAPTER SEVEN: In the Love of Nature draws from my childhood on an Iowa farm. In this chapter, I probe the contributions of Quaker spirituality to an overriding challenge of our time, the gathering storm of global climate change and environmental decay. We cannot hope to restore the earth while we ourselves remain alienated from her.
CHAPTER EIGHT: Joyful Service argues that the work of peace and justice—mending the world—is most effective when it is motivated not by indignation, fear, or anger, but by the transforming, reconciling power of hearts that have surrendered into the crucible of the Light. Reactive emotions may be necessary in order to cut through our complacence—but only love can overcome hatred and promote true justice.
CHAPTER NINE: Walking Cheerfully unites the themes of the previous chapters in a vision of reconciliation and redemption in this life—living the Kingdom of God in a broken world. If the deepest needs are for the highest things, what is highest can be found here and now, in this very life—if we have eyes to see.
While I draw upon fine scholarship from many sources, I do not write as a scholar addressing other scholars, but rather as an earnest seeker, sharing my brokenness, my failures, and my modest insights in the hope that my readers may find their way along their own paths to healing and wholeness, whatever those paths may be. In that spirit I write not only for those who self-identify as Quakers or Buddhists—but for all who yearn for the highest things.
Awakening to our own deepest springs of wisdom promises more than we can now dream or imagine. In the
final lines of Walden, Henry David Thoreau writes, Only that day dawns to which we are awake. There is more day to dawn. The sun is but a morning star.³¹ His words are a departure point for the following pages. May the morning star—eastern light—reveal the true light, which enlightens everyone.
Karen Armstrong, The Case for God (New York: Knopf, 2009), p. xiii.
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Ibid., p. xv.
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Although the importance of practical wisdom is emphasized in Aristotle’s Nichomachean Ethics (see Book VI, Chapters 5, 12, 13), courses in ethical theory and classical philosophy typically note this insight—only to put aside its cultivation in order to explore theoretical puzzles.
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See Heinrich Dumoulin, S.J., A History of Zen Buddhism (Boston: Beacon Press, 1963), p. 67. Dumoulin dates Bodhidharma’s life to the early 5th Century C.E. and attributes these four lines to a Zen master from the Tang era, Nan-chuan Pu-yan (748-834). See Dumoulin, Chapter 5, ftnt. 1.
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Shobogenzo; quoted by Jack Kornfield, A Path with Heart: A Guide Through the Perils and Promises of Spiritual Life (New York: Bantam,1993), pp. 332-339.
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Journal of George Fox, ed. by John L. Nickalls (London: Religious Society of Friends, 1975), p. 33.
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Ibid., p. 27.
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Ibid., p. 33.
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Dumoulin, p. 68.
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Journal, p. 45. Fox refers to Acts 7:48: The Most High dwelleth not in temples made with hands.
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Introduction by Geoffrey F. Nuttall, DD., to Fox, Journal, p. xxxiii.
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Journal, p. 9f.
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Extracts from William Penn’s Preface, in Fox, Journal, p. xliii.
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Published in 1696. Available without charge online.
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Sandokai, in Wikipedia, accessed on 23 August 2012.
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A traditional tool of Zen masters is a gnarled stick sometimes used in personal interviews to strike their students unexpectedly, in an effort to wake them abruptly into the moment.
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Knowing the Mystery of Life Within: Selected Writings of Isaac Penington in their Historical and Theological Context, selected and introduced by R. Melvin Keiser and Rosemary Moore (London: Quaker Books, 2005), front matter epigraph.
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Alfred North Whitehead, Science and the Modern World (New York: Free Press, 1925, 1997), p. 51.
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Many editions. This from Lao Tzu: Text, Notes, and Comments, by ChenKu-ying, translated and adapted by Rhett Y. W. Young and Roger T. Ames (San Francisco: Chinese Materials Center, Inc., 1977), p. 51.
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Paul F. Knitter, Without Buddha I Could Not Be a Christian (Oxford: Oneworld Publications, 2009), p. 65. Knitter is Paul Tillich Professor of Theology, World Religions and Culture at Union Theological Seminary.
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Jack Kornfield, After the Ecstasy, the Laundry: How the Heart Grows Wise on the Spiritual Path (New York: Bantam, 2000), pp. 218f.
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Questions Which Tend not to Edification, Sermon Number 1, from The Lesser Malunkyaputta Sutra, Translated from the Maijhima-Nikaya.
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The Testimony of Margaret Fox Concerning her Late Husband George Fox, in Hidden In Plain Sight: Quaker Women’s Writings 1650-1700, ed. by Mary Garman, et. al. (Wallingford, PA: Pendle Hill Publications, 1996), p. 235.
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The Maxims of Marcel Proust, ed. by Justin O’Brien (New York: Columbia University Press, 1948), p. 181.
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I have discovered that my outlook falls roughly into the category of apophatic theology. This longstanding tradition has its roots in negative theology (via negativa)—the outlook that no positive description is adequate to name or express the reality of the Divine Good. Negative theology… is often allied with mysticism, which focuses on a spontaneous or cultivated individual experience of the divine reality beyond the realm of ordinary perception, an experience often unmediated by the structures of traditional organized religion or the conditioned role-playing and learned defensive behavior of the outer man.… The Divine is ineffable… it eludes definition by definition. (From Apophatic Theology in Wikipedia, accessed on 23 July 2012.) Both Zen and the mystical aspects of Quakerism exemplify this outlook.
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Fox, Journal, p. 263.
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This phrase comes from Thich Nhat Hanh, a Vietnamese Zen Buddhist master who has done much to popularize Zen in mainstream Western religious thought.
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Preface to Lyrical Ballads, Second Edition (1800).
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Quaker Quicks - Quaker Shaped Christianity: How the Jesus Story and the Quaker Way Fit Together by Mark Russ | Goodreads
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'What is Quakerism?' can be a difficult question to answer, especially when Quakers today struggle to find a shared religious language. In this book, Mark Russ answers this question from a personal perspective, telling his story of trying to make sense of Jesus within the Quaker community. Through this theological wrestling emerges a 'Quaker Shaped Christianity' that is contemporary, open and rooted in tradition. In reflecting on how to approach the Bible, the challenges of Universalism, and the key events of the Jesus story, this book offers a creative, inspiring and readable theology for everyone who has wondered how Christianity and Quakerism fit together. (less)
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'Joanna gives us a very helpful and meaningful exploration of Quaker ‘stillness' along with an assortment of exercises to take us along the meditative path. She also talks about the obstacles that can block the process. I found her quote – ‘Explore who you really are rather than who you think you are' very helpful and she compares Quaker legendary writings on ‘stillness'.' Isa Louise Levy, MA, Artist/Arts Psychotherapist
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How can we find inner stillness in our lives today? What is it for and how can we use it? Inspired by the fiery writings of early Quakers, such as George Fox and Margaret Fell, this book calls on their advice to go within and wait, adapting it to create a modern, relatable method for finding stillness and peace. This meditation is for us to use however we most need it, whether to explore and heal the self and others or to help us be more effective in the wider world.
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Jennifer contributes regularly to the Quaker press, and is an associate tutor at Woodbrooke Quaker study centre. She is a Churchill Fellow, a Fellow of the Royal Society of Arts and a member of a community of fools.
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Balancing an active life with a pull towards contemplation is a continuing and fruitful challenge. As she writes, “Life in the world is about a series of balances: of the life within and the outside world; inner experience and outward witness, plenitude and the void”.
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A nice overview which links Quaker spirituality with action, giving a clear summary of the early twentieth century discussions of mysticism (often left out of more recent Quaker writing) and drawing on Kavanagh's personal experience for telling examples. (less)
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This was a short and easy read. Perhaps one of my new favorite books about Quakerism. This one focuses heavily on the spiritual and the mystical and less on the practicalities of the faith. The primary message is the importance of the mystical in the presence of group worship and bringing that mystical into the workings of everyday life in the way we treat and love others, both on a micro-level and a macro-level. Since this is who I am and what I strive to be, I have now since called myself a practical mystic rather than just a Quaker. (less)
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A romp through the theory of British Quaker experience. If only every British Quaker Meeting were as described in this book!
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On quick observation, the Quaker lifestyle boasts peace, solitude, and simplicity--qualities that are attractive to any believer of any denomination or religion. Yet living a life of faith is not as simple as it may look. In fact, it's often characterized more by the stumbles than the grace. (less)
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If you have a friend who needs to remember how to laugh, is graduating from high school, retiring, taking himself too seriously or not seriously enough, give him Life Lessons from a Bad Quaker. And read it yourself.
Do you know any bigots? J. Brent Bill will gently but firmly admonish them while he makes them look in the mirror at their faults in a cheerful way.
Give yourself this book if you'd like to learn more about the history and practice of the Friends without being scolded for what you don't know.
The worst feature of the little Life Lessons book is that it comes to an end. I listened to it on my Kindle and I wanted the voice to keep talking to me about how to live. I promise you the book will help you make it through each day or give you a pleasant thought before you sleep at night.
For about 200 pages it's a bit costly, but it's worth it. Get your hands on this one and pass it to a friend.
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This dialogue with Brent Bill is a pretty easy read with a generous share of wit and wisdom as well as information about being Quaker. However, the repetitive formula at the end of each section became tiresome and quickly lost its appeal and effectiveness. I began to skip those sections. I think the Bad Boy Quaker got lazy and settled... But then, what is one to expect from a "Bad Quaker"? I guess I expected a bit more creativity.
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Brent Bill explores how even -- or especially -- a Bad Quaker can enter into a friendship with the source of light and being and in a way that becomes you -- not everyone -- but the real you. If you are seeking something but you don't know yet what, this book might interest you. Of course, I liked the book, because I enjoy self-deprecating humor and homespun theology. Also, because as a Friend myself, a lot of what Brent Bill writes helps me to reflect on my experience and journey.
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I'm new to the Quaker faith and this book was a GREAT read! It's funny and lighthearted while giving very practical insight into how to live out the Quaker faith. I have SO many notes and highlights because there was something I wanted to remember on practically every page. Great read if you're interested in what Quakers believe and do, or if you're just interested in exploring your spiritual side and how to live out spirituality.
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I really liked this book because it gave me a different way to view things. In the meeting I go to up until reading this book I thought of it kind of like other churches I've been to where u gotta b perfect. Reading this book helped me a lot in the way I see the difference between Quakers and other churches.
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Brent Bill shares wonderful lessons on life, faith, peace-making, non-violence and good humor as he looks at his own life. Almost makes me want to be a "Bad Quaker"....and in some ways maybe I am!
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While it would not have been as good a title. "Life Lessons for a Bad Whatever-You-Are" would be very accurate. I am not a Quaker, but the questions randomly put through the book are thought provoking.
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When I saw the title of this book, I immediately thought the author was probably one of those people who takes pride in being bad; a person who smirks when he says things like that because he thinks it is cool to be a renegade. After reading the synopsis, I wasn't sure what to think, so I decided to read this and find out. I am curious about Quakers, and I hoped to learn more about their faith.
I am delighted to tell you that the author is someone who cares deeply about being the best Quaker he can be. As I read what it's like to be Quaker and how he tries to live out his beliefs, I found a lot to treasure and think about in this book. And I often laughed out loud when I read about notorious bad Quakers throughout history.
I haven't come across any other books about Quakers, not that I'm saying there aren't any out there. I'm sure there are. I do believe that this an excellent introduction to the Quaker faith. Not only that, but a good book to read for any Christian. (less)
I am delighted to tell you that the author is someone who cares deeply about being the best Quaker he can be. As I read what it's like to be Quaker and how he tries to live out his beliefs, I found a lot to treasure and think about in this book. And I often laughed out loud when I read about notorious bad Quakers throughout history.
I haven't come across any other books about Quakers, not that I'm saying there aren't any out there. I'm sure there are. I do believe that this an excellent introduction to the Quaker faith. Not only that, but a good book to read for any Christian. (less)
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Friend and friend Brent's brand-new book (released just yesterday!) brings us a panorama of a few more or less typical days in the several and varied lives of a Bad Quaker hoping to become better by following Jesus more closely. Not too long, easy to read, fun to read, yet packed with probing questions about Jesus' clear examples and our own lifestyles.
Technically Brent is a birthright Quaker or cradle Quaker, someone literally born into that expression of Christianity. Early in the book he explains how he still needed to assess and claim the Quaker tradition for himself because there's an element of human choice and decision to follow a particular style of Christianity with the broader Way of the Nazarene Jesus. Brent tells us why simply living as Jesus' Friend is best for him. What church tradition or denomination has God called you to at this time? And why? "No one right answer," as Brent reminds us in the quick questions sprinkled through this book.
Most Americans have some awareness of the rotund guy in a black hat featured on packages of Quaker cereal products. Per the Quaker cereal website, he "is not an actual person. His image is that of a man dressed in the Quaker garb, chosen because the Quaker faith projected the values of honesty, integrity, purity and strength." Some people confuse Quakers with other Christian groups who aim to live simply, whose worship is less formally liturgical—although some Quaker worship is programmed. Amish, Mennonites, Church of the Brethren also come to mind as examples of simple Christianity; Restoration Movements in the USA during the 19th century also attempted to reclaim a more basic, foundational, New Testament Christianity. Most of my own church and Jesus experience is solidly within the theological and liturgical traditions of the Protestant Mainline, and that means an emphasis on sacraments and on scriptural scholarship, with wonderfully effective histories of social and political activism. Like myself, many within the Mainline Churches USA are not especially adept at being quiet and waiting on the Spirit to move among us. In fact, I tend to be as much of a human doing as I am a human being.
Similar to at least a half-dozen books I've read in the past year or two, Life Lessons from a Bad Quaker by J. Brent Bill encourages me to observe the world around me, assess how I relate to the people in that world, to keep asking "what would Jesus do," cuz as trite as that question sounds by now, in the Spirit of Life God calls us and enables us to be Jesus here and now, to do what Jesus would do, even to say the words Jesus might choose. The Quaker faith still projects values of "honesty, integrity, purity and strength" with each individual's life totally immersed in the very sacramental "holy ordinary" that happens to be the title of one of Brent's blogs. Maybe surprisingly, The Society of Friends does not celebrate sacraments or ordinances in the orderly programmatic sense those of us in more mainstream mainline church bodies do.
Life Lessons from a Bad Quaker brings us much more of the practical than of the theoretical. Did I mention what a human doing I naturally tend to be? That's right, I did, but in spite of that tendency, my drive to do needs a whole lot of refinement and some redefining. I'd benefit a whole lot by creating my own Life Lessons journal of some days in my own life. Maybe you would, too? Popularized by the majorly successful Godspell, Richard of Chichester's prayer pleads "May I know Thee more clearly, love Thee more dearly, follow Thee more nearly." Brent's newest book just may lead you to know, love, and follow Jesus with more simplicity and more grace. (less)
Friend and friend Brent's brand-new book (released just yesterday!) brings us a panorama of a few more or less typical days in the several and varied lives of a Bad Quaker hoping to become better by following Jesus more closely. Not too long, easy to read, fun to read, yet packed with probing questions about Jesus' clear examples and our own lifestyles.
Technically Brent is a birthright Quaker or cradle Quaker, someone literally born into that expression of Christianity. Early in the book he explains how he still needed to assess and claim the Quaker tradition for himself because there's an element of human choice and decision to follow a particular style of Christianity with the broader Way of the Nazarene Jesus. Brent tells us why simply living as Jesus' Friend is best for him. What church tradition or denomination has God called you to at this time? And why? "No one right answer," as Brent reminds us in the quick questions sprinkled through this book.
Most Americans have some awareness of the rotund guy in a black hat featured on packages of Quaker cereal products. Per the Quaker cereal website, he "is not an actual person. His image is that of a man dressed in the Quaker garb, chosen because the Quaker faith projected the values of honesty, integrity, purity and strength." Some people confuse Quakers with other Christian groups who aim to live simply, whose worship is less formally liturgical—although some Quaker worship is programmed. Amish, Mennonites, Church of the Brethren also come to mind as examples of simple Christianity; Restoration Movements in the USA during the 19th century also attempted to reclaim a more basic, foundational, New Testament Christianity. Most of my own church and Jesus experience is solidly within the theological and liturgical traditions of the Protestant Mainline, and that means an emphasis on sacraments and on scriptural scholarship, with wonderfully effective histories of social and political activism. Like myself, many within the Mainline Churches USA are not especially adept at being quiet and waiting on the Spirit to move among us. In fact, I tend to be as much of a human doing as I am a human being.
Similar to at least a half-dozen books I've read in the past year or two, Life Lessons from a Bad Quaker by J. Brent Bill encourages me to observe the world around me, assess how I relate to the people in that world, to keep asking "what would Jesus do," cuz as trite as that question sounds by now, in the Spirit of Life God calls us and enables us to be Jesus here and now, to do what Jesus would do, even to say the words Jesus might choose. The Quaker faith still projects values of "honesty, integrity, purity and strength" with each individual's life totally immersed in the very sacramental "holy ordinary" that happens to be the title of one of Brent's blogs. Maybe surprisingly, The Society of Friends does not celebrate sacraments or ordinances in the orderly programmatic sense those of us in more mainstream mainline church bodies do.
Life Lessons from a Bad Quaker brings us much more of the practical than of the theoretical. Did I mention what a human doing I naturally tend to be? That's right, I did, but in spite of that tendency, my drive to do needs a whole lot of refinement and some redefining. I'd benefit a whole lot by creating my own Life Lessons journal of some days in my own life. Maybe you would, too? Popularized by the majorly successful Godspell, Richard of Chichester's prayer pleads "May I know Thee more clearly, love Thee more dearly, follow Thee more nearly." Brent's newest book just may lead you to know, love, and follow Jesus with more simplicity and more grace. (less)
Dec 29, 2015Rich Lewis rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
I thoroughly enjoyed "Life Lessons From A Bad Quaker". J. Brent Bill is hilarious. He is witty. He is honest. He is raw. He is not afraid to tell it like it is. "Which is one reason I’m a Quaker today. I need to be. It challenges me. It rubs up against the parts of me that need smoothed out."
Let me share a few lessons that J. Brent Bill learned that resonated with me.
"I have learned that growing deep in the life of the Spirit doesn’t take me out of the life I’m living." Yes. This is so true. In order to truly live, one needs to go deep in the life of the Spirit. The outer life is only as good as the inner life. This will take time! We need to keep at it. "Busy outwardly, centered and silently inwardly. Speaking from experience, it’s not gonna happen overnight."
"So even though God speaks to me constantly, I’m just not listening. That’s why I need silence." If we want to hear God speaking, we need to shut up. I think J. Brent Bill would agree with me saying it so bluntly.
"We believe that God always has something to teach us about being people of faith in our current times. So we ask lots of questions hoping to find out how to live godly lives." Quakers ask lots of questions. I loved all of the questions that were sprinkled throughout each chapter. I often found myself reading a question and then taking five minutes to meditate on my answers to this question. I jotted down multiple one sentence answers to each question. Questions help us grow. I grew as I read this book.
"Cumbered” is how early Quakers referred to the way the things we own (or think we own) weigh us down and steal attention away from the life of the Spirit." I found myself wondering the same thing. What is taking me away from the life of the Spirit? Is it my iPhone or iPad ? Is it Facebook and or Twitter? Perhaps it is being annoyed at others, the traffic jam I am stuck in or being bogged down with the never ending household chores that seem to always pop up?
"My good friend Connie taught me what she calls the SOB prayer. I use it a lot: “God, give that SOB everything I would hope for myself to be made happy, whole, and free.”
It is a fact. We are not going to like everybody we come across. I am sure there are plenty of people that do not like me. However, that person is still a child of God. God loves them just as much as God loves me. I still need to pray for them. I still need to love them. "God loves everybody as much as God loves me? If that’s true, I’d better start treating people better."
"There are plenty of things I could do. The issue is what is God calling me to do." I pulled this out of the chapter, "Gods Good Green Earth". If I get quiet, I just might hear what it is that God is calling me to do to take better care of mother earth. We and this includes me, forget and take for granted that God has blessed us with this beautiful earth. We and this means me, need to take better care of it. What is God calling me to do?
Read "Life Lessons From A Bad Quaker". Take the time to meditate on the questions sprinkled throughout each chapter. Is your faith challenging you and rubbing up against the parts of you that need to be smoothed out? Quiet yourself! What actions is God calling you to take?
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Let me share a few lessons that J. Brent Bill learned that resonated with me.
"I have learned that growing deep in the life of the Spirit doesn’t take me out of the life I’m living." Yes. This is so true. In order to truly live, one needs to go deep in the life of the Spirit. The outer life is only as good as the inner life. This will take time! We need to keep at it. "Busy outwardly, centered and silently inwardly. Speaking from experience, it’s not gonna happen overnight."
"So even though God speaks to me constantly, I’m just not listening. That’s why I need silence." If we want to hear God speaking, we need to shut up. I think J. Brent Bill would agree with me saying it so bluntly.
"We believe that God always has something to teach us about being people of faith in our current times. So we ask lots of questions hoping to find out how to live godly lives." Quakers ask lots of questions. I loved all of the questions that were sprinkled throughout each chapter. I often found myself reading a question and then taking five minutes to meditate on my answers to this question. I jotted down multiple one sentence answers to each question. Questions help us grow. I grew as I read this book.
"Cumbered” is how early Quakers referred to the way the things we own (or think we own) weigh us down and steal attention away from the life of the Spirit." I found myself wondering the same thing. What is taking me away from the life of the Spirit? Is it my iPhone or iPad ? Is it Facebook and or Twitter? Perhaps it is being annoyed at others, the traffic jam I am stuck in or being bogged down with the never ending household chores that seem to always pop up?
"My good friend Connie taught me what she calls the SOB prayer. I use it a lot: “God, give that SOB everything I would hope for myself to be made happy, whole, and free.”
It is a fact. We are not going to like everybody we come across. I am sure there are plenty of people that do not like me. However, that person is still a child of God. God loves them just as much as God loves me. I still need to pray for them. I still need to love them. "God loves everybody as much as God loves me? If that’s true, I’d better start treating people better."
"There are plenty of things I could do. The issue is what is God calling me to do." I pulled this out of the chapter, "Gods Good Green Earth". If I get quiet, I just might hear what it is that God is calling me to do to take better care of mother earth. We and this includes me, forget and take for granted that God has blessed us with this beautiful earth. We and this means me, need to take better care of it. What is God calling me to do?
Read "Life Lessons From A Bad Quaker". Take the time to meditate on the questions sprinkled throughout each chapter. Is your faith challenging you and rubbing up against the parts of you that need to be smoothed out? Quiet yourself! What actions is God calling you to take?
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Jan 05, 2016William rated it it was amazing
If Birthright Quakers were still acknowledged, I would be a fourth generation Quaker. In fact, I can trace my Father's Quaker roots back to the area in which Mr. Bill lives -- and I have often visited my resting fore-bearers on Memorial Day.
With that being said, I am also a "Bad Quaker", while having it influence my life, didn't really "get it" until a couple of years ago -- but I jumped in, and went right to the deep end, devouring all sort of Quaker texts and histories.
I can relate to, empathize with, and laugh along with Mr. Bill (especially because we share a few mutual Friends!). Some reviewers on here seem to be a little unfair, saying this isn't a book about Quakerism, as such as it is a conversation with a man with a "smarmy voice". In my opinion, no smarmy-ness was perceived, but maybe that's just how we Quakers talk.
No, I don't think this book was a good jumping in place for someone new to the Quaker ideals -- but I don't think they would be totally in the dark, either. I think it was the perfect book for someone like me, a Quaker by heritage, but haven't always been true to attending Meetings, but still communes with the Light in Myself, and looks for ways to live out my Quaker Testaments of Simplicity, Peace, Integrity, Community and Equality -- but stumbles humbly more often than not.
I've already formed a list of people (Friends and friends) to whom I want to gift this book. I hope you, review-reader, will do yourself a favor a give it a read as well. (less)
With that being said, I am also a "Bad Quaker", while having it influence my life, didn't really "get it" until a couple of years ago -- but I jumped in, and went right to the deep end, devouring all sort of Quaker texts and histories.
I can relate to, empathize with, and laugh along with Mr. Bill (especially because we share a few mutual Friends!). Some reviewers on here seem to be a little unfair, saying this isn't a book about Quakerism, as such as it is a conversation with a man with a "smarmy voice". In my opinion, no smarmy-ness was perceived, but maybe that's just how we Quakers talk.
No, I don't think this book was a good jumping in place for someone new to the Quaker ideals -- but I don't think they would be totally in the dark, either. I think it was the perfect book for someone like me, a Quaker by heritage, but haven't always been true to attending Meetings, but still communes with the Light in Myself, and looks for ways to live out my Quaker Testaments of Simplicity, Peace, Integrity, Community and Equality -- but stumbles humbly more often than not.
I've already formed a list of people (Friends and friends) to whom I want to gift this book. I hope you, review-reader, will do yourself a favor a give it a read as well. (less)
Dec 14, 2015Peggy rated it it was amazing
The basic value of simplicity in Quakerism belies its complexity. How can a denomination with no dogma or creed, sometimes without a minister, be understood and practiced? A Quaker minister, Brent Bill, examines the foundational values and practices of Quakerism and poses the important questions that people must ultimately find answers to from within. Brent supports the process of this discernment with examples of his successes and failures at living a Quaker life, sharing the perspective that the journey toward Christian ideals need not be all or nothing, but is a life-long, joyful, often bumpy process. Life Lessons from a Bad Quaker, a deeply insightful and learned book written with warmth and humor, is illuminating to those who seek to understand this often misunderstood faith, and encouraging to those who have encountered struggles in its practice. A must for any Quaker bookshelf.
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Nov 26, 2015Bill rated it it was ok
This is a very chatty, very informal introduction to the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) for those not familiar with Quakers or those who feel that being a Quaker means that you have to be a Perfect Human Being.
J Brent Bill uses his own ‘imperfection’ being a Quaker as a way into discussing why the Religious Society of Friends may be helpful to many who know little about this religious sect.
Bill may be more conservative than the Quakers I hung around with first at a Quaker Boarding School for four years and then as a member of first one, than another, monthly meeting – what Friends call their separate places of worship.
Our yearly meeting – what Quakers call a large number of their monthly meetings – was made up of New York City; Northern New Jersey, and the eastern chunk of Upstate NY – we had a wide range of belief – from former (or possibly, current) Jewish men and women to Goddess people to conservative Christians. Friends can be found with those kinds of beliefs.
For a intriguing and engrossing read, you might want to tackle, Jan de Hartog’s THE PEACEABLE KINGDOM, that will tell you more about the Religious Society of Friends in novel form than anything else I know – and unlike LIFE LESSONS FROM A BAD QUAKER – it’s even written in good English.
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J Brent Bill uses his own ‘imperfection’ being a Quaker as a way into discussing why the Religious Society of Friends may be helpful to many who know little about this religious sect.
Bill may be more conservative than the Quakers I hung around with first at a Quaker Boarding School for four years and then as a member of first one, than another, monthly meeting – what Friends call their separate places of worship.
Our yearly meeting – what Quakers call a large number of their monthly meetings – was made up of New York City; Northern New Jersey, and the eastern chunk of Upstate NY – we had a wide range of belief – from former (or possibly, current) Jewish men and women to Goddess people to conservative Christians. Friends can be found with those kinds of beliefs.
For a intriguing and engrossing read, you might want to tackle, Jan de Hartog’s THE PEACEABLE KINGDOM, that will tell you more about the Religious Society of Friends in novel form than anything else I know – and unlike LIFE LESSONS FROM A BAD QUAKER – it’s even written in good English.
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First thing you should know is that you don't have to be a Quaker/Friend to use this book. I'm not sure that you even need to be religious to find utility in it... if you are in the mood.
I write the above because the Mr. Bill's book is about inward reflecting. And what he offers is a book that falls into themes, along with questions that you can consider and contemplate. Some of the questions involve God, but if your a non-God person you can either ignore those, or re-write them to be more appropriate for you.
MY TAKE
At first I was put off by Brent Bill's writing style. It's whimsical and happy. At first it seemed to be self-focused BUT after I started the second chapter I realized how intentional his style was. By which I mean that because it was almost goofy it reached through my daily 'fog' and allowed me to get into a space where I could actually focus and think about the questions that he asked. So for me this book is a keeper.
Recommend if you think you'd like his approach.
~ review copy
Book #17 for 2016 (less)
I write the above because the Mr. Bill's book is about inward reflecting. And what he offers is a book that falls into themes, along with questions that you can consider and contemplate. Some of the questions involve God, but if your a non-God person you can either ignore those, or re-write them to be more appropriate for you.
MY TAKE
At first I was put off by Brent Bill's writing style. It's whimsical and happy. At first it seemed to be self-focused BUT after I started the second chapter I realized how intentional his style was. By which I mean that because it was almost goofy it reached through my daily 'fog' and allowed me to get into a space where I could actually focus and think about the questions that he asked. So for me this book is a keeper.
Recommend if you think you'd like his approach.
~ review copy
Book #17 for 2016 (less)
Jul 07, 2019Joe rated it liked it · review of another edition
I picked up this book to provide some context and real-life stories compared to the very dry textbook-like quality of Faith and Values (which I'm muddling my way through at a very slow pace). It was refreshing to read a book in which the author admits to being a real person; someone who is a good person who also has flaws and struggles at times with certain tenets of the Quaker faith. This book failed to fully pull me in (thus the lower rating), but its message is beautiful and can be inspiring to people of all backgrounds and faiths (or lack thereof). Life isn't about being a perfect Christ-like being, but instead pushing yourself out of your comfort zone to be more open, loving, and generous (and not beating yourself up over things when you fall a bit short of the mark). I would recommend this book for all people who are interested in learning about the Quaker religion and I may pick up some of the author's other works to learn even more about it somewhere down the road. (less)
Jul 17, 2019Brian Wilcox rated it liked it
After reading the author's Holy Silence and seeing the title and front cover for this book, I anticipated an inspiring, humorous look into Quakerism. For me, the book could never live up to the title or what I had anticipated from previous reading of the author. Likewise, I could not connect to the author's attempt at humor by returning to the theme "I'm a bad Quaker"; this diverted attention from the material, and I began to feel the attention being drawn to the author and the attempt to appear humorous.
Whom might this book work for? Persons who are interested in an experiential look into Quaker ethics and lifestyle, written by an Evangelical Quaker. And persons who are not familiar with Quakerism will find here a good introduction to the practical ethics of the Society of Friends. (less)
Whom might this book work for? Persons who are interested in an experiential look into Quaker ethics and lifestyle, written by an Evangelical Quaker. And persons who are not familiar with Quakerism will find here a good introduction to the practical ethics of the Society of Friends. (less)
Mar 19, 2019Rhiannon Grant rated it really liked it
An entertaining, personal, and practical guide to some of the key issues in trying to be a friend of Jesus, Quaker-style. I especially enjoyed the extracts from the Gospels, New Brent Bill Version, which embody the experience of encountering Christ Within through Scripture reading.
Jul 25, 2021Sue rated it really liked it
Good book for those seeking to simplify and improve their lives. Written for Quakers, but can apply to any Christian, in my opinion. Might work for other faiths if you focus on the universal aspects of simplicity. Easy reading from a writer with a light touch.
Definitely a helpful book to read if you are trying to re-evaluate your life and live according to your faith. The corny dad humor underscores the notion that we shouldn't take ourselves seriously, even if we take our decisions and values seriously. Just do your best, and don't beat yourself up. Full disclosure: I graduated from a Quaker college (Earlham College), so I am a sucker for books rooted in Quakerism. (less)
Sep 07, 2016Chel rated it liked it · review of another edition
The subtitle of this book captures its flavor. The author is a Quaker who has written a number of other books on various aspects of the spiritual life. He is also well known for co-hosting the Facebook page "Association of Bad Friends," where Quakers are invited to joke with each other about their religion and lifestyles. This title is an odd mixture of the two styles, written in an informal, chatty voice, in which he discusses his own efforts to follow the Quaker testimonies (think “virtues”) such as peace, simplicity, integrity, etc.—the ways he succeeds and the ways he falls short. Often his accounts are illustrated by conversations with Jesus, who reiterates teachings from the gospels in a casual, chatty style, directed privately to the author.
It’s an easy book to read, presenting the author as a likeable, somewhat clumsy, not-always-bright ol’ homeboy just trying to get along as god would have him go about it. Periodically, the narrative breaks long enough for the author to insert queries for his readers to consider. (Reflecting on“queries” is a Quaker practice of meditating on questions that, with thought and some divine inspiration, may lead us to be wiser and better people.)
One question troubled me throughout the book: who was it written for? Not, I think, for other Quakers (of which I am one). Often it seemed like it was meant to be an introduction to the Quaker life for those unfamiliar with it. Much supplementary material in the appendices (like a glossary of Quaker terms) would suggest that is the intended audience, but if so, it’s purpose is confusing and seems to shift around. I finally decided I enjoyed the book most when I simply thought of it as a somewhat self-indulgent memoir from the perspective of a writer who is having a good time reflecting on his “stumbling” efforts to behave himself, and that someone else (let’s pretend it’s not the author) has come along and annotated the text with queries and occasional explanations about Quakerism.
As a Quaker, my favorite chapters were the first and last. The first chapter considers the role of silence in the author’s life and many of the things that compete with silence. The last chapter considers humor and silliness. The author makes the point in a number of ways that we cannot be whole people, embracing and contributing to the goodness of the gifts of life, without a good dose of playfulness. I think he is right, and Quakers have not thought about this enough.
Two things about the book greatly interfered with my enjoyment of it. I could make my peace with the author’s very casual voice, which reads as spoken rather than written, though I found it a bit precious and distracting. But the spelling was over the top: “wanna” for “want to,” etc. I wish the author’s editor had held him more in check on this front. Second complaint is that, at least in the epub version I read, the endnotes for each chapter were not numbered and not referenced to any place in the text except the chapter as a whole. This was enormously frustrating, and will make me unlikely to purchase another book from Abingdon Press (whose fault I assume it is).
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It’s an easy book to read, presenting the author as a likeable, somewhat clumsy, not-always-bright ol’ homeboy just trying to get along as god would have him go about it. Periodically, the narrative breaks long enough for the author to insert queries for his readers to consider. (Reflecting on“queries” is a Quaker practice of meditating on questions that, with thought and some divine inspiration, may lead us to be wiser and better people.)
One question troubled me throughout the book: who was it written for? Not, I think, for other Quakers (of which I am one). Often it seemed like it was meant to be an introduction to the Quaker life for those unfamiliar with it. Much supplementary material in the appendices (like a glossary of Quaker terms) would suggest that is the intended audience, but if so, it’s purpose is confusing and seems to shift around. I finally decided I enjoyed the book most when I simply thought of it as a somewhat self-indulgent memoir from the perspective of a writer who is having a good time reflecting on his “stumbling” efforts to behave himself, and that someone else (let’s pretend it’s not the author) has come along and annotated the text with queries and occasional explanations about Quakerism.
As a Quaker, my favorite chapters were the first and last. The first chapter considers the role of silence in the author’s life and many of the things that compete with silence. The last chapter considers humor and silliness. The author makes the point in a number of ways that we cannot be whole people, embracing and contributing to the goodness of the gifts of life, without a good dose of playfulness. I think he is right, and Quakers have not thought about this enough.
Two things about the book greatly interfered with my enjoyment of it. I could make my peace with the author’s very casual voice, which reads as spoken rather than written, though I found it a bit precious and distracting. But the spelling was over the top: “wanna” for “want to,” etc. I wish the author’s editor had held him more in check on this front. Second complaint is that, at least in the epub version I read, the endnotes for each chapter were not numbered and not referenced to any place in the text except the chapter as a whole. This was enormously frustrating, and will make me unlikely to purchase another book from Abingdon Press (whose fault I assume it is).
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Feb 24, 2017Lauren rated it it was ok
The tone of the book is very folksy and I found it hard to take any clearly focused ideas from. The quotes and queries included were helpful, though.
Yikes, I really wanted to like this one. The title was compelling and I am amazed by those that live in simplicity and grace. I would agree with the author that living in simplicity brings peace that our hearts grave.
I am not sure since I received an ARC or if it was intentional but in referring to the God, it was always god. Now there were a few times it wasn't but I am under the impression that it was. If it was, it brings up a red flag to the reason why that was done.
The book was written in question format to cause the reader to think and to receive which I embrace but I found that answering the questions, it became about what I can do... Can I listen, Are my words, If I, What I believe,... ...I start on the treadmill of despair when I much rather be humbled about who God is. It becomes another book about me centered .... What can I do, What I need to do, etc. instead of God centered. By God centered, I mean the cross and the plan of redemption to make all things new including me. The gratitude I have is because of what Jesus did. I want more of that gratitude that transforms.
In fairness, this is a conversation of Bill's experience and shortcoming. It is meant to be light and he has a desire to connect to his readers. I just did not.
Some of the quotes I found encouraging.
Peace is a process to engage in, not a goal to be reached. The task will never be done indeed.
Peacemaking is action - love in action.
We believe a simple life makes peace more possible.
A Special Thank you to Abingdon Press and Netgalley for the ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
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I am not sure since I received an ARC or if it was intentional but in referring to the God, it was always god. Now there were a few times it wasn't but I am under the impression that it was. If it was, it brings up a red flag to the reason why that was done.
The book was written in question format to cause the reader to think and to receive which I embrace but I found that answering the questions, it became about what I can do... Can I listen, Are my words, If I, What I believe,... ...I start on the treadmill of despair when I much rather be humbled about who God is. It becomes another book about me centered .... What can I do, What I need to do, etc. instead of God centered. By God centered, I mean the cross and the plan of redemption to make all things new including me. The gratitude I have is because of what Jesus did. I want more of that gratitude that transforms.
In fairness, this is a conversation of Bill's experience and shortcoming. It is meant to be light and he has a desire to connect to his readers. I just did not.
Some of the quotes I found encouraging.
Peace is a process to engage in, not a goal to be reached. The task will never be done indeed.
Peacemaking is action - love in action.
We believe a simple life makes peace more possible.
A Special Thank you to Abingdon Press and Netgalley for the ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
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Brent Bill has a wonderful sense of humor and a pleasing Midwestern tone to his writing (pleasing because I live in the Midwest, too!). This is a spiritual guide that is for all faiths. He continues to help non-Quakers better understand Quaker values, and this is also a prod to readers to examine what we value and live accordingly.
At times, he may be working a bit too hard to make Quakers seem like ordinary people as opposed to Amish-like (which they are not at all). Likes to talk about his love for high-end cars and a vast music collection, for example. That said, this is an engaging and highly accessible message that will prompt readers to examine how we treat the earth and our fellow travelers. (less)
At times, he may be working a bit too hard to make Quakers seem like ordinary people as opposed to Amish-like (which they are not at all). Likes to talk about his love for high-end cars and a vast music collection, for example. That said, this is an engaging and highly accessible message that will prompt readers to examine how we treat the earth and our fellow travelers. (less)
Jul 07, 2016Jason Stanley rated it liked it
This is a good, funny read. Bill's sense of humor oozes out of the pages, making the book bearable. It is, however, another spiritual memoir in what is becoming a crowded shelf of such books.
While Bill describes himself as a "bad" Quaker, he provides insight into the Quaker faith. Along the way he offers lessons learned from his faith that are indeed helpful things to live a better life. For example, Bill highlights the virtues of being quiet, integrity, and caring for creation. (less)
While Bill describes himself as a "bad" Quaker, he provides insight into the Quaker faith. Along the way he offers lessons learned from his faith that are indeed helpful things to live a better life. For example, Bill highlights the virtues of being quiet, integrity, and caring for creation. (less)
Mar 18, 2016Susan Walker rated it liked it
I knew nothing a out Quakers when I started this book. I was interested that the Author, a Quaker Minister, shared the practices and beliefs of Quakers.
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