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2023/03/16

박성용 '민주주의를 위한 마음의 습관' 실천 서클에 초대합니다.

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오랬동안 신뢰서클(파커파머 모델)진행자들 과 이야기 나누다가 최종으로 3명이 진행자로 안내하는 '민주주의'에 대한 성찰나눔 모임을 준비하여 진행합니다. 온라인으로 저녁에 진행되며 1달 1회, 7개월 진행되며, 인원은 12명만 받습니다.



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'민주주의를 위한 마음의 습관' 실천 서클에 초대합니다. _4.18~10.24 셋째주 화요일 저녁7:30~9:50 온라인
신청하기 민주주의를 위한 마음의 습관 ‘비통한 자들을 위한 정치학’에 기반한 온라인 실천 서클 온갖 절...






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'민주주의를 위한 마음의 습관' 실천서클 참가 신청

_ 민주주의를 위한 마음의 습관

비통한 자들을 위한 정치학'에 기반한 온라인 실천 서클
온갖 절망적인 상황에서 마음이 무너지고 부서질 때
체념하지 않고 자아의 중심을 붙들 수 있어야 한다
엄습하는 두려움을 회피하기 위해 맹목적인 집단숭배에 열광하거나
사적인 안위와 소비주의에 탕닉하지 않고
내면의 풍경을 있는 그대로 응시해야 한다.
그래서. 당위와 현실 사이에 비극적 간극을 가슴에 품고 견디는
비통한 자들이 될 수밖에 없다.
부서져 흩어지는 것이 아니라 부서져 열리는 마음이 요구된다.

• 김찬호
"마음의 연금술"
  • 우리들은 한 사람의 시민으로서 민주주의를 어떻게 경험하고 있을까요?
  • 지금의 한국 사회는 접점 없는 양극화가 심화되고, 대화와 합의 없이 혐오의 공간이 증폭되고 있습니다. 그러한 현실에서 우리의 가슴은 막막함과 답답함, 무력감을 느낍니다. 또한 지도자에 대한 신뢰를 잃어가고 정치에 대한 환멸이 커져가는 상황에서 민주주의에 대한 위 기조차 느끼고 있습니다. '당위와 현실 사이에 비극적 간극을 가슴에 품고 견디는 비통한 자들'인 우리가 어떻게 민주주의의심장인 마음 을 회복할 수 있을까요?
  • 이러한 현실에서 우리가 할 수 있는 것은 무엇일까요?
  • 시민이 된다는 것은 무엇일까요?
  • 공공선을 위해 우리가 중요하게 관심을 가져야 하는 것은 무엇일까요?
  • 서로 다른 견해를 가진 사람과 어떻게 대화와 공존이 가능할까요?
  • 민주주의를 위한 습관과 행동은 무엇일까요?
이러한 질문들에 대해 파커 파머는 '비통한 자들을 위한 정치학'에서 민주주의를 위한 마음의 습관을 제시하며 그것이 왜 중요한지를 다 음과 같이 말합니다. : 

우리가 자아와 세계라고 이해하는 모든 것이 마음이라 불리는 중심부에서 하나가 될 때 자신이 아는 바에 따라 인 간적으로 행동할 용기를 찾을 수 있다. 각자 안에 존재하는 마음을 통해 우리는 두려움을 극복하고 우리가 서로에게 구성원임을 새롭거 발견하면서 민주주의를 위협하는 갈등을 끌어안을 수 있다.

 

이번 실천 서클에서는 파커 파머의 '민주주의를 위한 마음의 습관'을 일상에 적용하면서 민주주의를 재성찰합니다. 이를 통해 우리 안에 이미 있는 '민주주의의 마음'을 회복하고, 다름을 받아들이고 공동체를 창조하는 힘을 키우고자 합니다. 마음의 연금술이 고통을 공동체 로, 갈등을 창조 에너지로, 긴장을 시민성과 공공선을 향한 출구로 바꿔낼 수 있는 실천의 장에 여러분들을 초대합니다.

_ 대상
• 민주주의의 위기와 분열에 비통함을 느끼고 있는 분
• 매 회기에 있는 작은 실천을 함께 하며 일상에서 변화를 가꿔 나가기를 바라는 분
• 신뢰서클의 방식으로 대화하며 민주주의에 대해 탐구하고 싶은 분
• 7회기 모든 과정을 함께 할 수 있는 분

< 모임 운영 방식 >
- 10~ 12명 이내의 인원으로 구성하여 언제든 말하고 싶을 때 말하고, 침묵하고 싶을 때 편안히 침묵하며 참여할 수 있습니다.
- 모임과 모임 사이 작은 실천이 있습니다. 이 실천 서클은 다양한 실천에 대한 모험과 경험 나눔이 주를 이루는 서클입니다
- 매회 '민주주의를 위한 마음의 습관'과 관련된 다채로운 자료들을 제공합니다.


일정
회차  날짜  주제
1 4. 18 오리엔테이션 (신뢰서클의 주춧돌과 정직하고 열린 질문)
2 5. 23 마음의 습관 1. 우리는 이 안에서 모두 함께 있다
3 6. 20 마음의 습관 2. 다름의 가치를 인정하기
4 7. 18 마음의 습관 3. 생명을 북돋는 방식으로 긴장을 끌어안기
5 8. 22 마음의 습관 4. 개인적인 견해와 주체성에 대한 의식을 가지기
6 9. 19 마음의 습관 5. 공동체를 창조하는 능력을 강화하기
7 10. 24 돌아보고 축하하기







2022/01/13

알라딘: 가르침과 배움의 영성 파커 J. 파머 To Know as We Are Known

알라딘: 가르침과 배움의 영성 (반양장)



가르침과 배움의 영성 (반양장)
파커 J. 파머 (지은이),이종태 (옮긴이)IVP2014-12-12
원제 : To Know as We Are Known






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책소개
오늘날 교육에서 영성의 새로운 회복을 제안한다. <삶이 내게 말을 걸어올 때>의 저자 파커 팔머가 오늘날 교육의 위기를 지배욕과 호기심에서 찾고 앎과 가르침과 배움의 영역에서 영성을 다시금 주목한다. 사막 교부들과 수도원, 퀘이커교도 등의 전통에서 영성 훈련을 찾아 소개하는 등 기독교적 지식관, 진리관, 교수 방법 등에 대한 통찰을 담고 있다.

그 외 그리스도인 교사의 영성 훈련과 실제 수업 진행을 위한 방법론적 예시 등 수업 운영에 대한 제안도 담고 있다. 2000년 출간된 책의 개정판이다.


목차


한국어판 서문
1993년판 서문_교육에서의 공동체 회복

감사의 글
들어가며

1. 안다는 것은 사랑한다는 것이다
2. 영성 형성으로서의 교육
3. 가르침 배후에 숨겨진 가르침
4. 진리란 무엇인가?
5. 가르침이란 공간을 창조하는 일이다
6. 진리에 대한 순종이 실천되는 공간
7. 가르치는 이의 영성 형성


인명·주제 색인


책속에서



교육의 영성에 대한 책, 그것도 기독교적 관점에서 쓰인 이 책이 무슨 이유로 그렇게 다양한 독자들에게 읽혔던 것일까? 나는 그것이 부분적으로, 이 책은 다른 전통들을 존중하며 그들로부터 배울 자세를 갖춘 영성을 제공한다는 사실 때문이기를 바란다. 그러나 나는 더 근본적인 이유가 있음을 알고 있다. 그것은 어떤 분야든 오늘날 모든 교육자들은 극심한 고통에 처해 있기 때문이다. 그 고통으로 인해 그들은 새로운 곳에서 도움을 찾게 되었던 것이다.…나는 교육 전체게 스며 있는 이러한 고통을 ‘단절의 고통’이라고 부른다. (...) 영적 전통은 그러한 고통중에 있는 우리에게 다른 곳에서는 발견되기 어려운 희망을 제공할 수 있다. - 본문 중에서 접기


추천글

가르침과 배움에 관한 현대 접근법들을 탁월하게 비평하는 이 책은, 어떻게 진리를 추구하는 교사와 학생이 될 수 있는지를 구체적으로 보여 준다.
- 헨리 나우웬

교육은 지식의 전달 수단이 아니라 인격적 관계를 맺는 영성의 과정임을 보여 주는 이 책은, 참된 교육을 갈망하는 교사와 학부모 그리고 학생들에게 길잡이가 되어 줄 것이다.
- 한기채 (중앙성결교회 목사, 前 서울신학대학교 교수)

저자가 주장하는 ‘영성 형성으로서의 교육’, ‘가르치는 이의 영성 형성’ 등의 내용이 오늘날 미국뿐 아니라 한국의 교육계, 특히 기독교 교육계에 큰 가르침과 깨우침을 줄 것이라 믿는다.
- 이원설 (숭실재단 이사장, 한국기독교학교연맹 이사장)

개인의 신앙과 교육 현장에서의 활동 사이의 괴리감으로 고민하는 이들에게 교육에 대한 깊은 성찰과 경험을 바탕으로 공동체와 사랑, 영성의 회복을 강조하고 있는 이 책은 도전과 자극이 되기에 충분히 탁월한 책이다.
- 임종화 (영신여자실업고등학교 교사)

오랜 세월 내가 읽은 교육에 관한 책 중 의심할 여지없이 가장 영감을 주는 책이다.
- 존 웨스터호프 3세 (전 듀크대학교 신학부 교수)


저자 및 역자소개
파커 J. 파머 (Parker J. Palmer) (지은이)

미국 고등교육에서 가장 영향력 있는 인물이자, 왕성한 저술과 다양한 강연으로 미국 각계각층의 뜨거운 지지를 얻으며 시민들의 멘토로 추앙받는 사회운동가. 작가이자 교사, 활동가로서 그의 가르침은 교육, 의료, 종교, 법률, 자선 사업, 정치, 사회 변혁 등에서 커다란 영감을 주고 있다. UC 버클리에서 사회학 박사학위를 취득한 뒤 워싱턴 DC에서 5년 동안 공동체 조직가로 활동했으며 성인 학습자와 구도자를 위한 ‘퀘이커 삶-배움 공동체’에서 10년간 일했다. 저서로는 《가르칠 수 있는 용기》《비통한 자들을 위한 정치학》《모든 것의 가장자리에서》《역설에서 배우는 삶의 지혜》 등이 있으며 ‘용기와 회복 센터’의 창립자다.

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최근작 : <[큰글씨책] 대학의 영혼>,<삶이 내게 말을 걸어올 때>,<일.창조.돌봄의 영성> … 총 74종 (모두보기)

이종태 (옮긴이)

한국외국어대학교 영어과를 졸업하고 장신대 신학대학원에서 신학을 공부했다. 미국 버클리 GTU(Graduate Theological Union)에서 기독교 영성학으로 철학박사(Ph. D.) 학위를 받았다. 《순전한 기독교》, 《고통의 문제》, 《시편 사색》, 《네 가지 사랑》, 《인간 폐지》(이상 홍성사), 《다윗: 현실에 뿌리박은 영성》, 《가르침과 배움의 영성》(이상 IVP), 《당신은 무엇을 믿는가》(복있는사람) 등 다수의 책을 번역했다.


최근작 : <진정한 종>,<핵심포인트 시청각 실물설교집>,<확실한 새신자 교육방법> … 총 122종 (모두보기)



출판사 제공 책소개
“교육에 있어서 일대 사건과 같은 책이다!”-뉴욕 타임스

가르침과 배움의 영역에서 소외되었던 영성을 회복하라!
「비참한 자들을 위한 정치학」의 파커 파머가 지식이 소외되어 버린 우리 시대를 향해 주장하는 교육의 영성. 앎과 가르침과 배움은 단순한 학문 활동을 훨씬 넘어서는 의미를 가진다. 앎과 가르침과 배움은 깊은 인간적 의미를 지닌 활동, 위대한 인간적 목적을 가진 활동, 우리 자신과 이 세계의 변화에 기여하는 전인적 활동이다.

오늘날 교육의 위기를 지배욕과 호기심에서 비롯한 지식관에서 찾는 저자는, 이제 앎과 가르침과 배움의 영역에서 소외되어 왔던 영성을 새롭게 회복해야 함을 역설한다. 궁극적인 지혜의 근원으로서 사랑을 탐구하고, 오래 전 사막 교부들과 수도원, 퀘이커교도 등의 전통에서 영성 훈련을 찾아 소개하며, 실제 수업 진행을 위한 방법론적 예시 등을 담고 있는 본서는 오늘 메마른 시대에 교육의 길을 모색하는 교사들에게 열정을 회복해 주는 위로와 자극이 될 것이다.
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우리는 무엇을 가르치고 무엇을 배우는가. 우리는 어느 학문을 가르치고 배운다고 할 때, 무슨 내용(지식)을 어떤 방식으로 전달하는가를 중요하게 생각한다.주입식 교육에 익숙하기 때문이다. 우리 교육에 있어서 중요한 것은 정확한 암기력과 빠른 습득속도이다. 그런 사람들이 사회에서 인정을 받는다. 이런 교육이 잘못된 부분이 있다는 것을 우리는 알고 있다. 그러나 어디서부터 손대야 할지 몰라서 해오던 대로 계속 할 뿐이다.

진정한 앎이란, 지식 습득이 아니다. 그리고 교육의 목표도 그것이 되면 안 된다. ‘사랑’을 통해서 우리는 진짜 교육을 할 수 있다. 가르치는 학문을 사랑하고, 교사는 학생을, 학생을 교사를, 그리고 학생들 서로가 서로를 사랑할 때 진정한 앎이 일어난다.

나는 가르치는 자리에 있는 사람으로서 제대로 가르치고 있는지 고민하게 됐다. 나는 내가 가르치는 학문을 진정으로 사랑하는가. 나는 학생들을 진정으로 사랑하는가. 그리고 가르치는 그 학문이 진실한 지 고민하고 있는가. 삶으로 살아내고 있는가. 교육은 공동체적이고 상호소통이 일어나야 하는데, 일방적으로 전달만 하려고 하지 않는가. 많은 질문들이 내 안에서 맴돈다.

학생이 스스로 생각하고 학문과 자신을 만나게 할 수 있도록 주입식 교육을 하지 않아야겠다. 그래서 학생들이 마음을 열어서 학문을 받아들일 수 있도록 안전한 터를 제공하는 교육자가 되고 싶다. 사랑하지만 무르지 않고, 가르치지만 배울 줄 아는 사람이 되자. 늦은 밤이라 정리되지 않은 글이다. 그래도 삶에서 지속적으로 돌아보고 고민해볼만한 좋은 책이란 것은 틀림없다.
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가르침과 배움의 공동체의 외피를 뚫고 들어가는 인식, 수업의 철학, 그 바탕을 생각하게 한다.
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교수님 추천으로 이 책을 읽게 되었습니다. 읽는 동안 내내 감탄과 공감이 저를 흥분시켰고, 희열마저 느끼게 하였습니다. 진리가 무엇이고 진정한 교육이 무엇인지를 일깨워줄 뿐만 아니라 상담을 하는 저에게 지침서가 되기도 하였습니다. 마지막 페이지 마지막 글자를 읽고 책을 덮으면서 가슴이 뛰는 희열을 맛보았습니다. 그 감동에 사진을 찍고 주변 몇 사람에게 카톡을 보내면서 읽어보라고 권유를 하기도 했습니다. 교육자든 교육자 지망생이든, 상담자든 상담자 지망생이든 이 책에서 전달하는 진실의 메시지를 받아들인다면 자라나는 세대들의 앞날은 행복 그 자체일 것이라는 생각에 미리 가슴 벅참을 느꼈습니다. 부디 많은 사람들이 이 책에서 전달하고자 하는 교육의 참 길을 걸었으면 하는 바람으로 리뷰를 남깁니다. 말주변이 없어 책의 내용은 전달하지 못하고 읽으면서 느꼈던 감동만 적으면서 다 전달하지 못함에 아쉽기만 한 것이 지금의 제 심정입되니다.
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To Know as We Are Known: Education as a Spiritual Journey 
Paperback – May 28, 1993
by Parker J. Palmer  (Author)

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This primer on authentic education explores how mind and heart can work together in the learning process. Moving beyond the bankruptcy of our current model of education, Parker Palmer finds the soul of education through a lifelong cultivation of the wisdom each of us possesses and can share to benefit others.

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"A phenomenon in higher education."-- "The New York Times""An eye-opening critique of contemporary approaches . . . shows in concrete forms how to be a teacher and learner in the search for truth." -- Henri J. M. Nouwen"Palmer's book will engage anyone who's involved in teaching and learning either in secular or religious institutions . . . it compels us to underline and reflect at nearly every sentence and paragraph . . . it unfolds how exciting and joyful the search for knowledge is when guided by heart-seeking teachers." -- James Sparks, University of Wisconsin, Madison"Without a doubt the most inspiring book on education I have read in a long time." -- John H. Westerhoff III, Duke University

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A spirituality of education that challenges teachers to move beyond conventional ideas of instruction and learning to develop vital new teaching methods incorporating insights from traditional contemplative wisdom.

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Parker J. Palmer, a popular speaker and educator, is also the author of The Active Life. He received the 1993 award for "Outstanding Service to Higher Education" from the Council of Independent Colleges.

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Chapter One

Knowing Is Loving


The Violence of Our Knowledge

I have felt it myself. The glitter of nuclear weapons. It is irresistible if you come to them as a scientist. To feel it's there in your hands--to release the energy that fuels the stars. To let it do your bidding. To perform these miracles--to lift a million tons of rock into the sky. It is something that gives people an illusion of illimitable power and it is, in some ways, responsible for all our troubles, I would say--this what you might call technical arrogance that overcomes people when they see what they can do with their minds.1


These words were spoken by a celebrated physicist in The Day after Trinity, a film documentary about the team of American scientists who produced the first atomic bomb. "Trinity" was the ironic code name for that original explosion, and only on "the day after" did the scientists stop to analyze and agonize over the outcomes of their work.

The film is filled with images of horror. For me, the most horrifying is not that mushroom shape that appears in our dreams and lurks just over our waking horizon. Instead, it is the image of intelligent and educated people--the most intelligent and the best educated our society has produced-devoting themselves so enthusiastically to such demonic ends. They appear in the film as people possessed by a power beyond their control-not the power of the government that summoned their services, but the power of their knowledge itself. One scientist interviewed in the film reveals that "prior to the shot, back in the lab, there had been some speculation that it might be possible to explode the atmosphere--in which case the world disappears."2 But the "experiment" went on as scheduled, the irresistible outcome of the knowledge that made it possible.

Watching this film, reliving that history, I saw how our knowledge can carry us toward ends we want to renounce--but we renounce them only on "the day after." I understood then what Jonathan Schell says in The Fate of the Earth: "It is fundamental to the shape and character of the nuclear predicament that its origins lie in scientific knowledge rather than in social circumstances."3 I understood, too, what Robert Oppenheimer meant in his post-Hiroshima pronouncement, "The physicists have known sin."

We need images of hope to counteract our horror, knowledge of grace to counteract our knowledge of sin. That is what I want to offer in this book by describing a way of knowing and educating that might heal rather than wound us and our world. But in my spiritual life I have learned that hope and grace do not come cheap. They require honest self-scrutiny first, and then confession, an offering up of our own inner darkness to the source of forgiveness and transformation.

I am not a nuclear physicist, and I have never participated in a project with such vast implications as "Trinity," but I identify with those scientists. Their story is my story too, and when I am tempted to sit in judgment on them I am only evading the judgment that falls upon me. I value their confession of sin on a large scale because it helps me make my own confession of smaller but similar sins.

For all the differences between those scientists and me, we have one thing in common. We are well-educated people who have been schooled in a way of knowing that treats the world as an object to be dissected and manipulated, a way of knowing that gives us power over the world. With those scientists I have succumbed to the arrogance that comes when we see what our minds can do. The outcomes of my arrogance have been less than world-shaking because my powers are small. But in my own way I have used my knowledge to rearrange the world to satisfy my drive for power, distorting and deranging life rather than loving it for the gift it is.

In my late twenties, still impressed by what I could do with my mind, I wrote a book about how we know the world around us. (By grace, that book was never published--not, I suspect, because it was wrongheaded, but because my wrongheadedness was not packaged well enough to sell.) The themes of that book' may sound distant and abstract, but bear with me for a moment: I want to show how they shaped the way one educated person used his knowledge and lived his life.

In that book I argued that knowledge emerges as we impose a mental order on the chaos that surrounds us. The world, I said, presents itself to us as nothing more than a welter of sensory impressions--colors, tastes, smells, and textures; weights, heights, and lengths. To make sense of this chaos we use concepts to organize our impressions and theories to organize our concepts. The test of truth for any one of these mental constructs is simply how well it fits the data and helps us solve the intellectual or practical problem at hand.

Not only did my book imply that the world has no necessary shape or order of its own; it also suggested that the shape imposed on the world by our minds has no validity outside of a culture that happens to find that pattern congenial. Christians and Zen Buddhists, scientists and artists have different ways of ordering the world because they live in different cultures and have different problems to solve. By my scheme, knowing becomes an arbitrary process, subject only to the rules of whatever culture-game one happens to be playing at the time.

Looking back, I see how my theory of knowing helped form (or deform) my sense of who I was and how I was related to the world.

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Publisher ‏ : ‎ HarperOne; Reprint edition (May 28, 1993)
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Paperback ‏ : ‎ 130 pages
ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0060664517
ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0060664510
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Parker J. Palmer
PARKER J. PALMER is a writer, teacher, and activist whose work speaks deeply to people in many walks of life. Author of ten books—including several best-selling and award-winning titles—that have sold nearly two million copies, Palmer is the Founder and Senior Partner Emeritus of the Center for Courage & Renewal. He holds a Ph.D. in sociology from the University of California at Berkeley, as well as thirteen honorary doctorates, two Distinguished Achievement Awards from the National Educational Press Association, and an Award of Excellence from the Associated Church Press. In 1998, the Leadership Project, a national survey of 10,000 educators, named him one of the 30 most influential senior leaders in higher education and one of the 10 key agenda-setters of the past decade. In 2010, he was given the William Rainey Harper Award (previously won by Margaret Mead, Marshall McLuhan, Paulo Freire, and Elie Wiesel). In 2011, the Utne Reader named him as one of "25 Visionaries Who Are Changing Your World.” In 2021, the Freedom of Spirit Fund, a UK-based foundation, gave him their "Lifetime Achievement Award” in honor of work that promotes and protects spiritual freedom. For 20-plus years, the Accrediting Commission for Graduate Medical Education (ACGME) has given annual Parker J. Palmer “Courage to Teach” and “Courage to Lead” Awards to directors of exemplary medical residency programs. "Living the Questions: Essays Inspired by the Work and Life of Parker J. Palmer," was published in 2005. Born and raised in the Chicago area, he has lived in NYC, Berkeley, CA, Washington, DC, and Philadelphia, PA. He currently lives in Madison, Wisconsin.

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Zach
5.0 out of 5 stars Phenomenal book on knowing (epistemology) and teaching!
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Parker Palmer has written out a fascinating and engaging approach to teaching that unearths the epistemological foundation of that endeavor. Though his approach and points are not necessarily “Christian,” I think his religious background does provide some key values and practices that can uniquely enable and encourage the growth he is calling for in this book. One of the themes which cuts through the book is Palmer’s pushback against and objectivist approach to the world. He really advocates for a personal and relational approach to knowing. He talks about engaging truth in troth, in a sort of covenanted, promissory way that trusts and believes in the relationship with truth.

By the end of the book Palmer is saying some things which might almost feel reminiscent of the “monk in a cave” sort of mysterious talk about knowing and truth, but by the time he gets to those statements he’s established a foundational understanding of what knowing is, so the statements feel less “monkish” and more a pleading to know in this way.

One of the best aspects of this book is its length – it is not very long. The edition (1993) I had was barely 125 pages, with most chapters falling around the 15 page mark. The writing, though rich, is not too deep. This is a book I would highly recommend any teacher (especially high school teachers and above), and I think it would also provide some very good concepts and ideas (and practices) for pastors and church leaders/teachers. All in all, even if you are not a Christian, I think you can take away some really excellent things from this book about what it means to know (epistemology).
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4.0 out of 5 stars My First Parker Palmer Book and NOT My Last!
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This is the first book I've read by Parker Palmer although I've read essays, chapter excerpts, and several authors who cite him several times over the years. I was excited to have a full work by Mr. Palmer to take in and I found it exceptional even if I perhaps found myself perplexed from time to time (I'm sure Mr. Palmer would say that's a good thing).

Immediately, Mr. Palmer presents a central metaphor of learning to do life "whole" by opening both the mind's eye which sees "a world of fact and reason" and the eye of the heart to see "a world warmed and transformed by the power of love." (Intro) A teacher, then, uses both eyes and becomes a "mediator between the knower and the unknown." (29) All throughout the book Palmer lends sound wisdom and keen insight into teaching in meaning-filled and meaning-creating ways. He reminds the reader of the need for a learning space to be one that has openness, boundaries, and hospitality. (70) Conventional classrooms offer hurdles of "hidden curriculum" to rethink such as focusing on someone else's (teacher's) vision of reality, a hesitation to be held up for inspection and scrutiny as the teacher / authority / expert, and a structure set up to build isolation easily and often. (34-39) No-brainer wisdom? Perhaps, yet Mr Parker presents these pieces in a whole that is unified in tone and written in accessible, beautiful prose that won't leave the reader saying, "I already knew that!" but instead, "Of course!"

This quote particularly struck me as something I've articulated several times in my life: "Several times in my teaching career I have become someone else's student, and each time the experience has had a marked impact on my own teaching. I was forcefully reminded that education is not just a cognitive process, not just the transmission of facts and reasons." (115) This duality is yet again a way Palmer hopes people will see the value in being a "whole person" seeing and living with both eyes open. It was as if Mr. Palmer looked at my life mixed with playing the student and the teacher role and said, "I know exactly what you mean."

As for occasionally feeling perplexed, I think I was surprised by how often I felt like the text was non-succinct even thought it has a relatively short page count and narrow focus. I had to fight moments when I was tempted to think, "Yes, you said that; please move on." One example is the story of Abba Felix which, while a great story, runs through the book more like a thick scratchy rope than a thread and while I was captivated by the many examples and stories in chapters 5-6 I had to push myself in earlier chapters. With that said, there are too many gems in this book to dismiss it as rough. Thanks for reading. thelifemosaic
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4.0 out of 5 stars Knowing as a Journey
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In a time when the morale of the teaching profession in most countries is at an all time low, Palmer's book stand out as a beacon to warn and draw our attention to what education is truly about. The story about Abba Felix and that there are `no more words nowadays' stands at the heart of this book. In this short story about a Desert Father, Palmer has developed a spirituality of education in which obedience to God's words will lead to spiritual formation of the teacher and the student.

First, Palmer rightly pointed out that objectivism and the pursuit of knowledge without reflection is dangerous. His illustration with the Manhattan project is instructive. However, he should have included the societal, economic and cultural influences in his argument. One of the problems with education today is that instead of being a process of `reunification and reconstruction of broken selves and world', it became a means to obtaining `paper'qualifications. Education has been hijacked to be an instrument in which students can achieve economic success and teachers became clogs in the machine that produce thousands of graduates annually who are only skilled in passing examinations.

Second, he mentioned `a learning space' as an antidote to `objectivist' teaching methods. This learning space has openness, boundaries and hospitality. I wonder how Palmer would translate that into an Asian context. Openness, boundaries and hospitality will be difficult in a culture of shame (`saving face') and hierarchal respect for elders, social ranks and qualifications.

Finally, `transformation of teaching must begin in the transformed heart of the teacher'. Palmer listed the disciplines of studying widely, silence, solitude and prayer as important in bringing about this transformation. However Palmer painted a bland picture of a `generic' God as the focus of these disciplines. I would that he be more Trinitarian in his approach.
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Lucy Skywalker
5.0 out of 5 stars What a definition of teaching!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on November 27, 2014
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Here are the book's Contents:
1. Knowing Is Loving
2. Education as Spiritual Formation
3. The Teaching Behind the Teaching
4. What Is Truth?
5. To Teach Is to Create a Space . . .
6. . . . In Which Obedience to Truth Is Practiced
7. The Spiritual Formation of Teachers

"To teach is to create a space . . . in which Obedience to Truth is practiced" - this is the most stunning aphorism of teaching I've ever encountered. For that alone I would award five stars.

This is a much-needed statement that redeems the heart of teaching in a materialistic, state-dependent educational setup. This book gently and powerfully leads us to reconnect with our own lost / forgotten / unnoticed / denied / hidden heart. Only out of such a place of love of honesty and truth can one grow in understanding and stature as a teacher, keep studying the universe with passion - and keep sharing the precious journey of discovery with integrity.
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5.0 out of 5 stars 「霊性」と「教育」を見事に関連付けた良書
Reviewed in Japan on October 16, 2008
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近代教育学は「学習者が学ぶべき事柄を客観的に見つめる」ことを要請してきた。それを180度転換し、両者の人格的関係に気づいてこそ、本来の学習が成立するとした。「霊性の涵養」と「教育」の問題を見事に結びつけた良書。邦訳と照らし合わせると更に興味深い学びがなされる。
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In his preface he mentions how this book has been used by people from a wide variety of spiritual/religions backgrounds, even though his is Christianity. I don’t think this is because he is selling his faith short, but because he is so respectful and generous to others and their beliefs. He also seems to speak more about the form of one’s spirituality rather than the content. For example, “Too often, would-be educators who profess religious faith turn out to fear truth, rather than welcome it in all its forms” (p. xi). And later that page, “Authentic spirituality wants to open us to truth…Such a spirituality does not dictate where we must go, but trusts that any path walked with integrity will take us to a place of knowledge.” His definition of teach is “to create a space in which the community of truth is practiced” (p. xii).

The focal point of his book is about epistemology. He mentions 3 distinct approaches to learning and then looks some at how these translate to the classroom.

1. Modernistic objectivity – Which teaches us to think that we can be completely value neutral, something Parker declares as clearly false.
- The motive behind this type of learning is either curiosity or control and both lead us to distance ourselves from the world and become more about power and ownership that loving others (p.6-9).
- Creates a very clear line between the knower and the known – p.27.
- Declares it an “ethic of detachment and manipulation” (p.51)
He also takes a close look at how this belief has shaped our classroom:
- The focus of the classroom is looking outward (at historical events, a theoretical approach in action,…), and not how we are affected by or engage these things
- The teachers is put forth as the only one in the class who can transcend their subjective bias, that is why students can’t actively participate in knowing but rather they are to observe the teacher (hence the lecture format).
- Objective knowing is about a 1:1 experience between the object being studied and the scientist. This is seen in the way students compete with one another. It is not believed that knowledge comes from a community, and this is why individuals remain separate.
- By believing we create separation between ourselves and what we are studying we create a means to manipulate what we are learning about from a safe distance. Here our motives of control and curiosity are lead to wander free, rather than truly engaging with the topic and seeing how it affects our lives.
Palmer asks why teachers & students so often continue in these patterns of objectivity. One major reason is safety: it is known, it gives the teacher authority and control, it also means less is expected of students, and it simplifies our lives rather than revealing the true complexity that exists and the vulnerability that comes from engaging things on a personal level.

2. Another way of knowing is pre-modern subjectivity (and seems to me very post-modern as well) is the opposite swing of the pendulum from modernistic objectivism.
- Here the knower and the known can’t be divided, because really it all becomes focused on ourselves, on our perspective (p.27-29).
- The opposite of the objectivistic approach, this can only look inward for knowledge, and never really escape that to look beyond it. And can be a dangerous way to prevent us from testing our knowledge or be corrected (p. 55).
- Parker says this is another way to avoid being transformed by knowing (p. 55).

3. What is Palmer’s solution? Have learning be motivated by compassion, and to obtain this by seeing knowledge as a means to be in relationship with someone/something else.
- He calls it an “ethic of participation and accountability” (p. 51).
- Whereas objectivism only utilizes human sensation and rationality, this approach uses other human capacities like: intuition, empathy, emotion, and faith. It considers the whole person (p. 52-53).
- “Reality’s ultimate structure is that of an organic, interrelated, mutually responsive community of being. Relationships – not facts and reasons – are the key to reality… (p. 53). Relationships are two-way, observation is not (p.54).
- “By Christian understanding, truth is neither ‘out there’ nor ‘in here,’ but both. Truth is between us, in relationship, to be found in dialogue…” (p.55).

Midway through the book he acknowledges Buber’s work (p.49-50), and he seems to be saying a very similar thing, calling us to an I-Thou relationship and even community, rather than an I-It dismissal. Parker uses the word “troth” to help make this distinction. “With this word one person enters a covenant with another, a pledge to engage in a mutually accountable and transforming relationship, a relationship forged of trust and faith in the face of unknowable risks” (p. 31). Life happens in community. And he sees know greater example of this than the person of Christ. In Christ, truth entered into human form. “I am the way, the truth…” This allows truth to be relational. “The search for the word of truth becomes the quest for community with each other and all creation” (p.49). “Christianity is not centered around moral teaching, but around a person,” he quotes from Thomas Keating (p.101).
- Parker points out the connection between the biblical concept of knowing and loving – even the way “to know” can also mean a sexual relationship
- Truth is not inert, but active. And this means knowing is in both directions. “The one-way movement of objectivism, in which the active knower tracks down the inert object of knowledge, becomes the two-way movement of persons in search of each other” (p. 59).
He points out 3 ways that we can maintain this relationship based on the monastic traditions: 1) the study of sacred texts, 2) the practice of prayer and contemplation, and 3) the gathered life of the community (p.17).

How can we teach in light of this third way? See page 61 and on.
- Engage what we are studying in such a way that we feel the topic has “discovered and plumbed” us.
- Interview others who have personal experience with the topic
- Even with nature or things that are inanimate draw the lines of how our lives our connected with that thing
- Find ways to listen to that topic
“Truth is found as we are obedient to a pluralistic reality, as we engage in that patient process of dialogue, consensus seeking, and personal transformation in which all parties subject themselves to the bonds of communal troth” (p.68).
- Create a learning space with openness, boundaries, and an air of hospitality (p. 71)
- That doesn’t fear not knowing (and doesn’t just talk out of anxiety to cover this up)
- Not fear long silences in a classroom
And very practically:
- Set up the classroom by putting the chairs in a circle, to promote lateral learning and a sense of community
- Borrow from the monastic “lectio divina”, where you take one brief piece and spend a considerable amount of time dwelling on it (p. 76), use it to create “a common space”, for example give students Martin Buber’s “The Angel and the World’s Dominion” story (p.77),
- Make lectures active (like including false information and having students test you on what is true and what isn’t (p.78)
- Use silences to teach: at the start of class, as a way to pray, as a break to discussion. Also, be limiting the number of times someone can talk during the class
- Use the Quaker practice of “the clearness committee” (p. 82), where one person presents and a committee lessons and only asks questions in response
- Make space for feelings: acknowledge this at the front of the class, allow extended introductions of students, introduce oneself and acknowledge emotions regarding the class. Invite students to speak outside of class more about emotions.
- At the end of some class sessions take 10-15 mins for a brief corporate evaluation of how the class went (p.86)
Palmer describes the importance of acknowledging the present moment of the reality of life in the classroom (rather than the objective approach where this is ignored and reality is “out there”). “The classroom becomes a microcosm of a world governed by the rule of truth” (p. 89).
- Using group decision-making exercises, like the “Lost on the Moon” simulation game where a consensus decision is needed. “Complete unanimity is not the goal…But each individual should be able to accept the group rankings on the basis of logic and feasibility” (p. 95)
- When the professor addresses a subject they provide: pictures of the person, sketch out their biography, play a tape of them speaking, or a video of them. Bring them to life as much as possible so they can be full understood.
- When reading a story like Buber’s “The Angel and The World’s Dominion” (p.77), have the students put themselves in the place of the angel and write a continuation of the story. “Make the students accountable for showing what the poem actually says that evokes his or her response” (p.100). And then have the student listen for a counter-response from the poem.
- The teacher is to act as a gracious host full of hospitality, rather than the only objective one in the class. Having enthusiasm about the subject goes a long way. A problem in many classes is that the teacher is “so possessive about the subject that students are denied the chance to relate to it on their own terms” (p. 105) and students then may feel constrained to approach the subject only as the teacher does. Palmer points out that this is motivated by fear, not truth.

Palmer makes a strong case for the role that a teacher’s own spiritual formation plays in their being able to do their job well. He looks at ways that spiritual virtues (humility and faith, reverence without idolatry, love and grace) are practically beneficial. He also describes some specific acts that he has practiced that he also finds to act much like spiritual disciplines for teachers:
- Studying outside one’s field of expertise, which helps to provide new perspectives and insights
- Teach in fields outside one’s own expertise, which causes one to need to do more listening
- Become students again, putting oneself in the student’s seat and practicing “displacement”
- Displacing oneself via research: ex. John H. Griffin in Black Like Me
- Silent meditation, as a means to listen. Palmer describes his experiences with Quaker meetings and their silences. “The ultimate lesson silence has to teach is that God and the world have not absented themselves from us – we have absented ourselves from them” (p.121)

The book ends with a strong case of how we need to learn to live in solitude at times, and that this doesn’t mean not living in community. Instead we will live in both and we need to learn not to fear either but to embrace each in turn. And as professors we need to learn to embrace both of these, both professing but also listening.

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Naeem
Apr 09, 2018Naeem rated it it was amazing
I’ve read this book twice. The first time through I was put off by what I perceived to be its piety. Not its turn to Christianity, a move I appreciated since I agree that the union with the spiritual or the universal cannot be abstract, it must be particular. Rather, I heard too many “musts” or in his language, I felt him battering me with his “oughts” (8). I complained about his tone which struck me not as suggestive but as mandatory. And his Christianity, I thought was symptomatic of his urgency, his desire to teach me something. I felt a bit annoyed with my friends and colleagues Andy and with Patrick for pushing me to read it.

But there was also much to like. And even if I thought I did not want to read it again, something compelled me to return.

The second time through, I must have been much more relaxed. Perhaps because I had expressed my complaints and gotten them out of the way. I began to think that I should have my own copy, perhaps teach it in my Writing and Criticism course, and share it with a few close, select friends.

Before I get to the benefits of this book, I am going to lay out its limitations. I want to say it in one sentence: Palmer’s spiritual approach is nested neither in a political economy, nor in a political psychology.

What makes this book so appealing is that it makes me feel less alone. There are only two colleagues in my 31-year teaching career with whom I would dare to utter the following words: “We teach with love.” I have feared being misunderstood as expressing something soft, Hallmark-like, Disney-like. And I have feared the misunderstanding that love in the classroom is really taboo. But Parker is clear that the love he examines and promotes is rigorous, demanding (9, 46). More like fire than like chocolate. I am especially moved by this line, “How can the places where we learn to know become places we learn to love?” (9). That is the right question.

Palmer misses that love is not only the solution to the problem of an objectivist pedagogy, it is also part of the problem. Love of routine, love of slavishness, love of the sources of our affection -- family, friends, nation, such love stops the student from moving into a spiritual community of knowing.

I understand that these are two aspects of love: the one that creates a learning community is rigorous and demands deep listening. But equally powerful, if not more, is a second kind of love which promises us warmth and comfort when we do NOT move towards certain types of critical knowledge. Some call it reification, some call it dogma, some call it socialization, some call it family life. Whatever we call it, it is, as the Lacanians say, sticky. This love keeps us from moving towards our greater curiosity, deeper community, and truth. As Palmer says, “we find it safer to seek facts that keep us in power rather than truths that require us to submit” (40).

Palmer ignores or by-passes the magnitude of this problem. Instead, he asks why we “choose” the lazy pedagogy, why such a pedagogy persists (39). Why do we act against our seeming better selves? Palmer’s quick turn to answering these questions suggest to me the lack of deeper commitment to the question itself.

A second problem is what I take to be Palmer’s emphasis on consensus, harmony, and reconciliation (111). While he is excellent on the centrality of tension and paradox (104, 111), I sense his desire to resolve and not to cultivate the kind of tension that promotes a dissensus.

Third, the villain in Palmer’s presentation is objectivism, distancing. He has only one line about its historical emergence: “if the problem with primitive knowledge was the over-identification of the knower with the known, our problem is the estrangement and alienation of the two” (26). Yes, exactly. But I think we might need to excavate how and why it is that our estrangement and alienation was once the solution to the problem of primitive knowledge. And this “solution” is not without its charms and power, not least due to its ability to generate modern science and capitalism.

Fourth, I think Palmer wants to believe that he can still be the good teacher, the good person, the good Christian. In a world that is structurally stained, however, it might be that this posture betrays rather than realizes his hopes. Even the teacher who lives up to Palmer’s highest ideals must still perform a kind of love that students will inevitably experience as a kind of loss and violence. Because learning is a kind of ferocity against a prior self. There is no way around this, I’d say. I am not sure Palmer is ready to confront this inevitability.

And yet there are gems here. So many that I want to list them:

- His emphasis on healing the world (8);
- The powerful work he derives from the monastic tradition which gives us: the reading of texts as a kind of sacred activity, the practice of reading and thinking as a kind of prayer, and the goal of creating communities of learning (17);
- That the link in all epistemological chains are not ideas and theories, but rather a teacher, a mentor, a guide (29);
- That the foundational unit of teaching, learning, and knowing are relationships (53);
- The essential relationship of “truth” to “troth” – a kind of fidelity and faithfulness (31)
- That in knowing the world, we are also coming to be known by it (36);
- That learning is about transformation and not-learning is about the fear of transformation (54);
- That we cannot learn without being in love (58);
- That as we read texts, they also read us (59, 62);
- That the classroom is, in fact, necessarily within the world (88); and,
- That we cannot begin to know ourselves without knowing the Hitler within us (102).


All these are ideas and practices in which I have been engaged and that have immersed me. But reading them on the page makes two differences. First, as I said, it makes me less alone by affirming that I am perhaps not randomly wild in my pedagogical trajectory. Second, it helps me to understand that I have always known this method and that I am being known by it; that my growth as a teacher has been somehow not been unsystematic.

The book has become a friend, an intimate. Something and someone with whom I can commune in a productive tension.

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Leanne
Mar 13, 2014Leanne rated it it was ok
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I didn't hesitate to order this book after reading the rave reviews. I mean, come on, what teacher could dislike a book which includes in the title: "Education as a Spiritual Journey"?

At this point, I sheepishly raise my hand.

I am simply not Zen-enough to tackle this book.

Here is an excerpt on "The Rule of Truth," pg.88. You be the judge:

To speak of the classroom as a place "in which obedience to truth is practiced" is to break the barriers between the classroom and the world--past, present, and future. To speak this way is to affirm that what happens in the classroom is happening in the world; the way we relate to each other and our subject reflects and shapes the way we conduct our relationships in the world. By this definition of teaching, we practice troth between knowers and the known in the classroom itself.


Apparently.....I am not worthy.... (less)
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Shannon Howrey
Mar 15, 2010Shannon Howrey rated it really liked it
I required this book for my master's students, and found myself changing and growing as I read it. Palmer is a gifted philosopher and discusses how are view of truth and reality translate to how we treat other people. He speaks of truth as neither fully objective nor fully subjective, but somewhere in between.

It made a lot of sense to me when he said that people who see truth as something completely objective will see people and the world as something outside of them to be manipulated and controlled, leading to literal and figurative fragmentation of our teaching. To create a real classroom community, we need to recognize the interconnectedness of the world and its people, causing us to listen more and care for each other. He has practical ways for the teacher to do this, but stresses that we first must work on our own spirit and spiritual practices.

However I didn't give this book five stars because the conversational tone makes it difficult. I read it like a scholarly journal article: read it once and underline important parts, read it again, and outline it in a Word document with important quotes included. There is something about having to process the information into an outline and writing the actual words of the author that make it more comprehensible and easier to remember.

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Kirstie
May 01, 2016Kirstie rated it liked it
Shelves: teaching-grammar
First off, I feel Palmer handled this topic very well, and I would say I largely (if not fully) agree with him. My only critique of the book is of a more personal nature: The book is very dense and abstract. While each chapter built on the previous one, sometimes I felt the concepts were almost too similar or he was just playing with semantics. I also wished that he would've shared more how he was able to (or tries too) incorporate the spiritual into his classroom. At the end of the book, I wanted to know, "Did the spiritual improve you as a teacher? What difference did you notice in yourself or your students from making these changes?" I felt like the book was one large rhetorical question with him assuming I would arrive at the same answer. (less)
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J. Rutherford
Jan 24, 2017J. Rutherford rated it it was ok
Palmer mixes vague and ambiguous poetic rhetoric and etymological fallacies with a generic spirituality in a largely unconvincing book that offers one or two good ideas with a whole lot of bad ones.
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Jeff Lochhead
Jul 05, 2021Jeff Lochhead rated it it was amazing
This may be one of the best books on education I have ever read. I bought this book probably 17 years ago, when I was working as a youth director. I got about 35 pages in and didn't finish it. I am guessing that the connections made were well beyond my grasp of understanding given my lack of teaching experience (none at this point). Picking this book back up this spring proved to be quite transformative. Here are a smattering of quotes that, in particular, I found to be of great value.

"How can the places where we learn to know become places where we also learn to love."

"From the moment of birth other powers imprint our souls with images less than divine."

"The community is a discipline of mutual encouragement and mutual trothing, keeping me both hopeful and honest about the love that seeks me, the love I seek to be."

"We value knowledge that enables us to coerce the world into meeting our needs - no matter how much violence we must do."

"The way a teacher plays the mediator role conveys both an epistemology and an ethic to the student, both an approach to knowing and an approach to living."

"I teach more than a body of knowledge or a set of skills. I teach a mode of relationship between the knower and the known, a way of being in the world. That way, reinforced in course after course, will remain withe my students long after the facts have faded from their minds."

Betroth: "A relationship forged in trust and faith in the face of unknowable risks."

"Education is the slave of an economic system that wants to master and manipulate nature, society, and even the human heart in order to gain profit and power."

There were so many more. I will definitely return to this gem in years to come!! (less)
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Ari
Jul 23, 2017Ari rated it it was amazing
Occasionally great books come into your life at exactly the right time. This was one of those. Parker J. Palmer (PhD from UC Berkeley) writes from a Religious Society of Friends/Quaker perspective but it 'translates,' as all great works do, to truth across denominations and across religions. I, a Conservative rabbinical student who read this book as an assignment for CPE (Clinical Pastoral Education/Chaplaincy training), read it as if it were directly written to me. Even though he uses older examples, from the Desert Fathers of the Early Christian Church, I can't help but to notice how similar some of Palmer's understandings of Teacher/Student relationships are to ideas proposed by Hasidic rebbes of over a hundred years ago (and the Aish Kodesh, more recently than that). I feel that Palmer's model of becoming teacher only through a sense of calling and a lifetime of self spiritual work (and that doesn't mean being 'religious') truly could and should change education systems worldwide. This should be required reading for anyone in any form of education or religious leadership. This should also be required reading for anyone who has ever been a student, and by that I mean everyone. (less)
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Nithin Thompson
Jul 07, 2017Nithin Thompson rated it really liked it
My first Parker Palmer book. What a great writer. Truly a gift to the church. I loved his distinction between objective truth and subjective truth and how Christian knowing is the space between object and subject. For Christians Truth is a Person, and can't only be studied like a history book, but experienced and reflected on like a sunset. I only wish he had more applications for pastors and not just academic professors. The practical applications he did have seem added on and not full flowing from the main theories. (less)
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Leanna Aker
Jan 14, 2013Leanna Aker rated it it was amazing
This was a wonderful read, and one I will keep coming back to as I continue the ongoing process of evaluating and refining my own teaching. I should begin my review by identifying myself as an agnostic/atheist. This book was assigned reading in a Morals in Education course I am taking. I was a bit skeptical that this book would be heavy-handed on religion and Christianity--it wasn't. While several religious stories were included to make points, I found that the author's style really transcended all of the typical adages and exclamations that many religious books do.

Perhaps the most wonderful part of the book were the chapters that dealt with "how to create a space in which obedience to truth is practiced." The phrase "obedient to truth" might raise alarm bells, but it shouldn't. Palmer's conception of obedience to truth will ring true to anyone who is a teacher or has taught. His basic idea is that three basic features are necessary to create this space: openness, boundaries, and hospitality. Not only does Palmer talk philosophically about what this means, but he also gives concrete, implementable strategies and examples.

This is touchy-feely teacher book meets how-to manual meets honest self-evaluation tool. Highly recommend to all educators. (less)
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Crimson Sparrow
Apr 08, 2018Crimson Sparrow rated it it was amazing
I continue to be impressed at Palmer’s ability to walk his audience simply and clearly through the intellectual rigors of recognizing and analyzing objectivism as an epistemology rather than the truth to which it claims ultimate access and over which it claims ultimate authority. He does this while also articulating contrasting perspectives and maintaining a brilliant tension between them, demonstrating in unparalleled ways the both-and approach so many wrestle to describe (let alone embody).

This is a MUST READ for ministers, lay leaders, anyone who works in any role in education, leadership, training, or anyone who just loves learning. This is a MUST READ for anyone who is interested in seeking truth and who is seeking to be formed by truth. Frankly, I cannot think of anyone who should not read this book. I also recommend following up with Palmer's "The Courage to Teach." (less)
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Noah
Mar 30, 2011Noah rated it really liked it
I read this book as a part of my graduate course, so it is probably not one I would have picked up on my own. I'm very glad that I read it though, he articulates beautifully some wonderful thoughts on how teaching and learning is about community and not about competition.

He talks at one point about how when we read, we not only learn from what is in them, but the story reads us as well, and discovers parts of us that we may not be familiar with. I really enjoyed that idea, and can see how it is true from what I have been reading in recent months.

I would recommend it to anyone, but especially if you work in the field of education (at any level).

Reading for graduate school means I read less of anything else. It is good reading, but sometimes I miss fluff.
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Naum
Jun 18, 2011Naum rated it it was amazing
One to add to the re-read pile.

One of those books that I highlighted just about every other paragraph.

I need to reread too, as if I attempt to do a roundup of the content, it's going to sound too abstract, but it's not heady stuff at all. Rather, it is an eloquent inquiry into "obedience of truth", what it means to educate and to be educated, that to love is "to know" and "to know" is to love. That it is about asking questions and inciting an inner fire, not about authoritarian objectivism or subjective "everyone has their own truth" relativism.

Have read a number of books by Parker Palmer and most are OK, a few were good, but this was an extraordinary read. (less)
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Alwen
Aug 08, 2011Alwen rated it it was amazing
I read this book in college and don't remember a lot of the particulars, but I know I found it revolutionary, and it changed the way I thought about knowledge, helping me to move into an "I-Thou" relationship with the world I studied and the students I taught rather than objectifying and distancing. Though I haven't thought about it in years, the journey it helped me start no doubt is a big part of the reason I teach and coach and mother as I do, aiming always at a deep respect for and discovery of the authentic "isness" in each person. (less)
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Linda
Aug 18, 2007Linda rated it it was amazing
A great summer read for teachers - heals the wounds of the previous year and prepares you for the next
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adam aero
Feb 24, 2018adam aero added it
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Ideas
> objective vs subjective philosophy
> philosophy of truth
> p 84 What does it mean to fear fear?
> lectio divina
clearness committee (originally for a couple to be married has extended to anyone who wants help thinking something through
>> First, write out the dilemma (with background info) and share it with 5-6 others
>> Then, committee members can only ask questions (not offer answers explicitly).
>>> "The answers generate more questions, and the questions generate more answers and both question and answers deepen as the meeting goes one." [sic?]
> the classroom being here, and reality "out there"
> telling a lie that contains more truth than merely telling the truth


Quotes
p 3 In another book he argues that, "knowledge emerges as we impose a mental order on the [welter of sensory impressions (chaos)] that surrounds us."

81 "a silent space seems inhospitable at first to people who measure progress by noise."

82 "it is often better to speak a question than an answer. [...] silence is a question itself."

84 [paraphrased] strangeness of what I don't know--having to expose my ignorance--and having to face failure. It's similar to actually failing, which should happen. It should be embraced.

From Werner Dannhauser, "afraid of exposing my stupidity, but he set up situations where one learned not to be afraid to admit that, or that, one did not understand."

There are multiple avenues for you to interpret this. I tried to separate the two main ideas I picked out by making the second one grey. It's from Dietrich Bonhoeffer:

For example, a teacher asks a child in front of the class whether it is true that his father often comes home drunk. It is true, but the child denies it. The teacher's question has placed him in a situation for which he is not yet prepared. He feels [...] what is taking place is an unjustified interference in the order of the family and that he must oppose it. What goes the family is not for the ears of the class in school. [...] The teacher has failed to respect the reality of this institution. The child ought now to find a way of answering which would comply with both the rule of the family and the rule of the school. But he is not yet able to do this. He lacks experience, knowledge, and the ability to express himself in the right way. As a simple no to the teacher's question the child’s answer is certainly untrue; yet at the same time it nevertheless gives expression to the truth that the family is an institution sui generis and that the teacher had no right to interfere in it. The child’s answer can indeed be called a lie; yet this lie contains more truth, that is to say, it, is more in accordance with reality than would have been the case if the child had betrayed his father's weakness in front of the class. [...] Indeed here already it becomes apparent how very difficult his to say what actually constitutes a lie.
http://www.nyu.edu/classes/gmoran/BON...
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Zachary
Aug 04, 2019Zachary rated it it was amazing
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Parker Palmer has written out a fascinating and engaging approach to teaching that unearths the epistemological foundation of that endeavor. Though his approach and points are not necessarily “Christian,” I think his religious background does provide some key values and practices that can uniquely enable and encourage the growth he is calling for in this book. One of the themes which cuts through the book is Palmer’s pushback against and objectivist approach to the world. He really advocates for a personal and relational approach to knowing. He talks about engaging truth in troth, in a sort of covenanted, promissory way that trusts and believes in the relationship with truth.

By the end of the book Palmer is saying some things which might almost feel reminiscent of the “monk in a cave” sort of mysterious talk about knowing and truth, but by the time he gets to those statements he’s established a foundational understanding of what knowing is, so the statements feel less “monkish” and more a pleading to know in this way.

One of the best aspects of this book is its length – it is not very long. The edition (1993) I had was barely 125 pages, with most chapters falling around the 15 page mark. The writing, though rich, is not too deep. This is a book I would highly recommend any teacher (especially high school teachers and above), and I think it would also provide some very good concepts and ideas (and practices) for pastors and church leaders/teachers. All in all, even if you are not a Christian, I think you can take away some really excellent things from this book about what it means to know (epistemology). (less)
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Ryan Greer
Nov 03, 2017Ryan Greer rated it it was ok
This is a fine book but I wasn't really in the mood. This is also the first Parker Palmer book I've tried to read and it probably would have been a wiser move to start with one of his more well known titles. Nevertheless, I didn't dislike this, and if you're in a profession that requires you to relate to others from a position of authority and you're looking for ways of bridging that power divide in a way that encourages participation... well... this is a start I suppose. Here are a few lines from the book that I found particularly insightful.

We find it safer to seek facts that keep us in power rather than truths that require us to submit.

Here is an important paradox. Objectivism, by reducing the world to a collection of things, places the knower in a field of mute and inert objects that passively succumb to his or her definitions of them. In this sense, objectivism creates the most subjective of worlds, a world created in our own images, a world of objects that cannot fight back and assert their own selfhood. But when we try to know the world in terms of personal truth - relating to each other, to history, to nature, as selves in conversation - then we everywhere meet the person, who refuses to succumb to our private distortions of reality.

The knower who advances most rapidly toward the heart of truth is one who not only asks "What is out there?" in each encounter with the world, but one who also asks, "What does this encounter reveal about me?" (less)
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Phil
Dec 07, 2017Phil rated it really liked it
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I picked up this book as part of a gift card from a student, which is, of course, oddly appropriate. Parker Palmer has figured large for me the last couple of years as I move into mid-career. His Courage to Teach is, of course, more recent, but To Know as We Are Known is the book which established Parker Palmer as a major figure in the contemplative teaching movement which emerged in the course of the 1990s.

This is, of course, an early work, so much of the thinking which has gone into Courage to Teach is here, but not as developed. To Know is a call to move away from an overall rationalistic and mechanistic pedagogy to one which seeks greater depth in teaching. The focus is more towards how do we know and what kind of knowledge do we need. One of the interesting elements is that Palmer is more explicitly Christian in this early book, but that makes sense because he consciously shifts his language to an approach more inclusive of other faiths. I found the language familiar, of course, and enjoyed the connection to the monastic tradition of education, but then I am Christian and influenced by Benedictine spirituality.

This is worth reading, although Courage to Teach really does represent Parker Palmer's fully developed spirituality of teaching. (less)
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Andrew Fox
Jul 23, 2012Andrew Fox rated it liked it
This book was attractive to me having understood a little about the author. He not only explores the education but the educator and digs deep into the process of both. This un-bias approach gave me no prejudice to read it. In some ways I am an educator but in others I am the educated. In seven chapters the author simplifies without being shallow but leaves the reader lingering at the close of each chapter. My time is short with my professional and domestic responsibilities but it did leave me wanting the book to be longer in content.

Knowing is loving' was the opening theme I found absolutely counter-culture in so many ways for my generation. I was raised with `information is power' which is extremely opposite. Added to this `information' was the future as I am old enough to have experienced the creation of the `home computer' and the greed of the `dot-com' companies that were built on this premise of information. But `knowing is loving' was delightfully challenging. The author launched into the obvious effect of `knowledge' that leads to violence, or as he puts it, `wanting to renounce it the day after.' This type of knowing is defusing and deforming to the knowing of ourselves and how we are made and fitted together as God intended. Not just the fitting of a person together but of persons in community together.

He broaches the subject of education being spiritually forming. The author does this by defining the journey as personal, communal, collegial, and experiential. Too much of the learning process about `self' from preschool to graduate classes (and beyond) is impersonal and highly independent, even competitive. He refers to the `hidden' wholeness as the experience of educator, student and the subject all interacting together. In other places he refers to it as the space (or desert) in which truth is practiced. On any subject the emotional interaction makes it truly communal therefore a shared experience. He leaves each point he makes open ended, not really adding a personal narrative that other books of this type often do. He encourages personal experience so we can profess it - in other words - be in community. Someone needs to speak, others need to listen, then some need to react and respond. While reading the material I found myself pausing for reflection on my own forty-one years of education both at school and in life (or are they both the same according to the author?)

The humor to this was the author's statement that rigorous commitment to the process can easily become rigor mortis is the participants become dogmatic and dictatorial. Again, I cannot help but think that this type of learning as a spiritual journey may be a planet that Captain James T. Kirk found on the 1960's series Star Trek. This leads me to think that the church must be central to where this spiritual learning and journey takes place. If we can allow ourselves the opportunity to create space we are also creating opportunity for others to learn. Right now I am thinking about my own three children and the dictatorial way in which I can sometimes teach them. Yet I have also found myself creating space for them to experience with me. I am learning as a father and they are learning as my children. But deeper than that, I am learning `who' they are as they are learning `who' I am. Truly spiritual!

The author's statement made on page one hundred and thirteen stuck we me: "The true professor is not one who controls facts and theories and technologies. The true professor is one who affirms a transcendent center of truth, a center that lies beyond our contriving, that enters history through the lives of those who profess it and brings us into community with each other and the world." This long statement carried much of the sentiment I think the author is attempting (with success) to convey. Am I controlling theories and techniques? Do I do this as a husband, father, pastor, and friend and so on? A perfect example of this would be the `rules' I lay down for my children. I am not referring to common sense and issues of security and safety but one of method. I have `laid the law down' only to be shown what Jesus calls a `better way' through the lives of my own children. I can also apply this to my wife not in the fact that she is female and has different abilities and skills than me but her `understanding' of the world, creation, our children, worship, material possessions and how it all works together. My greatest shame would be `proclamation' from the pulpit only to be faced with my own emancipation of my own proclamation that Sunday afternoon. Space to know and experience truth together driving out of Wal-Mart and listening to one of my kids yell `hobo' while pointing at a homeless man at the parking lot entrance. At the same time my other son asking if he can give the man some money to help while I am wanting to ignore his need for food and shelter having `taught' the church that day to be all-inclusive. At the same time my wife rebukes my other son for yelling hobo as my daughter has already rolled down the window and handed the man a dollar bill from her little pink bag. As we drive away, what was happening in the car? Who was teaching who and what was learned between my family of five and a homeless man? What space was created for this, if any?

My only reserve here is the writer's age and personal experience as I understand it. Perhaps if a twenty-something author had penned the same book it may have had a deeper impact because the body of content at large is so counter-culture. But then again, if the educational process (as the author describes) is the experience of `people' and `space' over time - the author could not be that young.
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Max Rees
Jan 24, 2021Max Rees rated it really liked it
Pros: the biggest lesson I learned from this book is the right mindset to have when learning and teaching. Knowledge should not be gained or given to be an accolade or a trophy. The true purpose for learning should be to engage into a relationship with truth itself. If we are to enter into a relationship with truth by engaging in learning, we must be ready to be changed by the knowledge. If we are not changed by knowledge, we objectify it. If we learn about the truth of the Jesus and are not changed by knowing him, then we objectify Jesus.

Cons: The book can feel New Age-ish at times due to the fact that it deals largely with intangible principles. I would have like the book to have become a bit more practical at some point. (less)
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Liz
Aug 31, 2017Liz rated it really liked it
Parker Palmer's approach to education is highly relational, asserting that we learn only in the context of relationships with one another. In To Know as We are Known, Palmer describes learning through more than just the mind (heart, relationships, soul) as critical for deep understanding.

I really appreciated this more holistic approach to learning (both integrated within oneself and connected to community). (less)
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Kevin Fulton
Nov 03, 2021Kevin Fulton rated it really liked it
Shelves: philosophy-of-education
I understand why this book is considered to be a classic. Philosophically, it gives you a lot to think about.
However, I do think it can go too far into mysticism at times. And, as with most philosophy of education books, the author could stand to do a bit more reading in educational psychology, not all his suggestions will help students learn.
It is a book that will challenge you, and as numerous reviews state, regardless of your beliefs coming in, there is something meaningful for you here.
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Ben Daghir
Nov 10, 2017Ben Daghir rated it it was ok
Shelves: education
Palmer's "The Courage To Teach" is a phenomenal book, but this book did not do much for me.

His last chapter is worth the read, but I wouldn't recommend the book to someone else.

Despite this rough read, I'll dive into another one of his books in the future because of how excellent "The Courage To Teach" book has been for my understanding of education.

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Susan
Oct 01, 2018Susan rated it really liked it
Shelves: learning, 2018
This new model for authentic teaching and learning resonates with much I have learned in other spheres regarding spirituality, learning, culture, and the nature of God. But it certainly requires taking time to look at education, learning and truth in a new light - from a totally different perspective.
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Aldon Hynes
Aug 24, 2019Aldon Hynes rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: cdsp, education
I read this for a seminary course on Christian Education. I know many people who love Parker Palmer's writing and the book has gotten great reviews here. He does have important things to say about education and community, but to me it felt like he's heavy on the aphorisms and a little light on the spirituality. (less)
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Sarah
Oct 28, 2020Sarah rated it liked it
The concepts in this book were esoteric, although perhaps they were intended to be. The last chapter, which explored the value of silence and solitude, was the best. The part about plowing through the discomfort of solitude to enjoy being fully known and fully loved resonated deeply. I have reached a point in my life where I enjoy solitude. Perhaps this explains why!
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Phillip Nash
Apr 23, 2021Phillip Nash rated it it was amazing
I have put off reading this book for a number of reasons but kept getting drawn to it. While I do not align myself completely with Palmer’s style of Christianity, I see that he has much to say. His chapter on objectivism was startling in It’s accuracy. He raises some excellent challenges to educational practice even now, many years after he first wrote. I hope I am learning to listen to him.
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Jason
Aug 26, 2017Jason rated it it was amazing
Read it many years ago and was recently reminded of it by my father. Can't wait to read it again.

Introduced me to the spirituality inherent in education. Enlivened the journey of learning as a pursuit of truth rather than mere regurgitation of facts. (less)
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Nate Polsfut
Jan 01, 2018Nate Polsfut rated it it was amazing
Hands down, the most meaningful book I’ve read about pedagogy.
Palmer navigates the pedagogical landscape of faith and education.
Palmer writes with a strong influence of Freire (Pedagogy of the Oppressed) and takes a genuine look at incarnational pedagogy.
Def. recommend.
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