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Prime Savings Get $10 off $120 with Afterpay. Enter code AFTERPAYPD at checkout. Discount by Amazon. TermsWelcome to a life guided by compassion. This book presents twelve practical steps for how we can bring compassion to the forefront of our lives - creating a happier, better world.
Practising these steps will not change our lives overnight and turn us into saints or sages: the attempt to become a more compassionate human being is a lifelong project. Yet Karen Armstrong argues that compassion is inseparable from humanity, and by transcending the limitations of selfishness on a daily basis we will not only make a difference in the world but also lead happier, more fulfilled, lives.
Taking as her starting point the teachings of the great world religions,this book argues that compassion is hardwired into our brains, yet is constantly pushed back by our more primitive instincts for selfishness and survival. Yet in today's world, compassion in no longer a luxury but, in the words of Martin Luther King, 'an absolute necessity for our survival'.
‘A profound and lucid mixture of philosophy, theology and self-help… A perfect detox for the soul’ The Times
‘Challenging, persuasive self-help book that seeks to distil the very best of religion’ Independent
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A profound and lucid mixture of philosophy, theology and self-help. It's a perfect detox for the soul... Spry, eloquent, pacy.... Armstrong has a knack for grappling with complex ideas in the lightest of ways — The Times
It sees Armstrong combine in this brief volume both her usual high quality historical scholarship and an explicit self-help programme that echoes her rousing lectures... Challenging, persuasive self-help book that seeks to distil the very best of religion — Independent
Straightforward without being simplistic...frequently fascinating — Metro
Flashes of sheer brilliance — Scotland on Sunday
One of the charming things about Armstrong's book is its deliberate descents into bathos. We move from the high thoughts of the old sages to the demands of everyday life...from an exquisitely intelligent exposition of Sophocles's Oedipus Tyrannus to a meditation upon how we might overcome a personal dislike of a colleague or family member — Financial Times
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Karen Armstrong is one of the world's leading commentators on religious affairs. She spent seven years as a Roman Catholic nun, but left her teaching order in 1969 to read English at St Anne's College, Oxford. In 1982, she became a full time writer and broadcaster. She is a best-selling author of over 16 books. An accomplished writer and passionate campaigner for religious liberty, Armstrong has addressed members of the United States Congress and the Senate and has participated in the World Economic Forum.
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Karen Armstrong is the author of numerous other books on religious affairs-including A History of God, The Battle for God, Holy War, Islam, Buddha, and The Great Transformation-and two memoirs, Through the Narrow Gate and The Spiral Staircase. Her work has been translated into forty-five languages. She has addressed members of the U.S. Congress on three occasions; lectured to policy makers at the U.S. State Department; participated in the World Economic Forum in New York, Jordan, and Davos; addressed the Council on Foreign Relations in Washington and New York; is increasingly invited to speak in Muslim countries; and is now an ambassador for the UN Alliance of Civilizations. In February 2008 she was awarded the TED Prize and is currently working with TED on a major international project to launch and propagate a Charter for Compassion, created online by the general public and crafted by leading thinkers in Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Hinduism, and Buddhism, to be signed in the fall of 2009 by a thousand religious and secular leaders. She lives in London.
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A profound and lucid mixture of philosophy, theology and self-help. It's a perfect detox for the soul... Spry, eloquent, pacy.... Armstrong has a knack for grappling with complex ideas in the lightest of ways — The Times
It sees Armstrong combine in this brief volume both her usual high quality historical scholarship and an explicit self-help programme that echoes her rousing lectures... Challenging, persuasive self-help book that seeks to distil the very best of religion — Independent
Straightforward without being simplistic...frequently fascinating — Metro
Flashes of sheer brilliance — Scotland on Sunday
One of the charming things about Armstrong's book is its deliberate descents into bathos. We move from the high thoughts of the old sages to the demands of everyday life...from an exquisitely intelligent exposition of Sophocles's Oedipus Tyrannus to a meditation upon how we might overcome a personal dislike of a colleague or family member — Financial Times
About the Author
Karen Armstrong is one of the world's leading commentators on religious affairs. She spent seven years as a Roman Catholic nun, but left her teaching order in 1969 to read English at St Anne's College, Oxford. In 1982, she became a full time writer and broadcaster. She is a best-selling author of over 16 books. An accomplished writer and passionate campaigner for religious liberty, Armstrong has addressed members of the United States Congress and the Senate and has participated in the World Economic Forum.
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Publisher : Vintage Digital
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Publication date : 6 January 2011
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Karen Armstrong
Karen Armstrong is the author of numerous other books on religious affairs-including A History of God, The Battle for God, Holy War, Islam, Buddha, and The Great Transformation-and two memoirs, Through the Narrow Gate and The Spiral Staircase. Her work has been translated into forty-five languages. She has addressed members of the U.S. Congress on three occasions; lectured to policy makers at the U.S. State Department; participated in the World Economic Forum in New York, Jordan, and Davos; addressed the Council on Foreign Relations in Washington and New York; is increasingly invited to speak in Muslim countries; and is now an ambassador for the UN Alliance of Civilizations. In February 2008 she was awarded the TED Prize and is currently working with TED on a major international project to launch and propagate a Charter for Compassion, created online by the general public and crafted by leading thinkers in Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Hinduism, and Buddhism, to be signed in the fall of 2009 by a thousand religious and secular leaders. She lives in London.
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- Richard AnningsonReviewed in Canada on 29 January 2022
great book
Personal development - Eleanor StonehamReviewed in the United Kingdom on 11 January 2011
Bringing Compassion back to the heart of life for a better world
Never before has compassion in religion been so sorely needed, we are reminded by this one time Roman Catholic nun, best selling religious historian and passionate campaigner for religious liberty. It would be difficult to disagree with this statement. But this is a book not just for the faithful religious. As she quotes the Dalai Lama as saying in his Ethics for the New Millennium (New York, 1999), p. 19: "whether a person is a religious believer does not matter much. Far more important is that they be a good human being."
And this book sets out to help us all be just that.
The book starts with a promotion of the Charter for Compassion, the brainchild of Armstrong, created and launched by her in 2009 with the help of TED (Technology Entertainment and Design known for its "Ideas Worth Spreading" conferences - and if you are not familiar with TED you should rectify that straightaway!). The Charter's aim is to bring compassion back to the heart of moral and religious life, and in involving the major faiths in its creation the Charter demonstrates that despite their differences the religions can work together for justice and peace. The Charter thus counters the voices of extremism, intolerance and hatred.
We are all invited to sign up to this Charter, to pledge our selves to a compassionate way of life, (although again this does not insist on us being religious, just compassionate) and this book is here to help us achieve this, to help us to translate the Charter into practical and realistic action across the globe.
The book is a self-help book that is very far from the self-interest genre that justifiably comes in for some criticism. This is a book to help save the world by healing our own behaviour, an idea very close to my own heart, as expressed in my own book, Healing This Wounded Earth: with Compassion, Spirit and the Power of Hope. As Armstrong points out, and as I have done before her, responsibility for this broken world has to start with the individual. We cannot expect our leaders to adopt humane and compassionate policies unless we change ourselves.
As given away in the title, this book is written along the lines of the Alcoholics Anonymous 12 point plan, and if we follow the steps carefully and diligently we will surely be able to modify our behaviour and the world will become a better more compassionate place. And we will certainly be happier. Armstrong has no illusions that this will be easy - it will be a lifelong process for us, as we will have to struggle all the way against self hatred and discouragement. But the steps are well explained, and supported with plenty of background information and encouragement at each stage. I was not absolutely sure about her explanations in the Preface of the evolution of the human brain - they may be viewed by the scientifically inclined as perhaps being a little too simplistic, but I do not think this matters to the overall theme. Suffice to say that it seems we may be hard wired for compassion as well as for cruelty and that is encouraging!
I heartily recommend the twelve-step process she outlines - to aspire to become truly compassionate persons. It is not, she assures us, beyond our capacity, but our vital work is indeed just beginning when we get to the last page of the book. - Judy LTReviewed in the United States on 7 December 2011
Spiritual Practice Towards Compassion
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit," said Aristotle some 300 years BCE. Karen Armstrong would add that a compassionate life is not a goal, or an achievement, but an ongoing spiritual practice. We need to make compassion a habit. And this practice, if it does not make perfect, at least will evolve us in a positive and much needed way.
The renowned author of over twenty books on religions of the world has now produced a passionate call to compassion. We need to heed the wisdom of the ancient sages of a wide range of religious and secular thought and apply a compassionate life to the complex circumstances of our own modern circumstances.
Ms. Armstrong's `Wish for a Better World" expressed in her acceptance speech for her 2008 TED prize was that the leaders of the world's religions draw up a Charter for Compassion that emphasized their shared core values of compassion and the Golden Rule. The resulting document, unveiled in 2009, is a jewel of concise wisdom compiled by a Council of Conscience from literally tens of thousands of submissions. Following the usual media dictum of `if it bleeds it leads', traditional media have largely ignored this event. It has none-the-less been affirmed online by over 79,000 people. A half a dozen cities, starting with Seattle, have proclaimed themselves Compassionate Cities. Well over sixty cities and regions, including the entire country of Canada, are listed on the International Institute for Compassionate Cities web site as being in the process of this declaration. [NAIN was an early partner of the Charter.]
The book is both scholarly and practical. Inspiration is drawn from a wide range of secular and spiritual sources - from Confucius and the Ancient Greeks to the Buddha and the Abrahamic prophets.
Societal development tends to follow a paradigm of progression - Individual survival [Four F brain - feed, flee, fight, procreate], Evolving into societies - cooperate for survival of the group, 4 F brain joined with new brain reason = Violence from struggle for power, Revulsion from violence = spiritual change
As humans develop a higher brain, the remnants of the Four F brain remain and may be evoked during power struggles, resulting in chaos and violence. Eventually, throughout history, repulsion to this violence has forced spiritual sages on a quest toward spiritual change.
Our current world situation reflects the third stage where violence is evoked by appeals to the Four F brain. We have made vast progress in scientific exterior realities, but we have not as yet evolved many contemporary sages. "Many people today would rather be right than compassionate."
Ms. Armstrong suggests that we have a choice - emphasize aspects of religious and secular traditions that speak of hatred, exclusion, suspicion or work with those that stress interdependence and equality for all.
She further upholds the value of mythos as used in all societies to teach universal realities. Mythos is not based on historic fact, but provides a kind of spiritual road map to to a higher consciousness. The hero mythos, eloquently described by Joseph Campbell, is exemplified by Buddha, Jesus, Muhammad, Gandhi in their quest for a larger truth and a more fully-realized self.
The book outlines twelve steps towards the compassionate life which modern sages could use to heal the chaos of violence and power struggles. Compassion is definitely not painted as a fluffy, Pollyanna concept. Compassion is not pity, but the shared suffering of the other.
The steps are not easy. They imply a lifetime of learning and discipline, not very popular tasks.
Compassion for oneself is a necessary step. We live in a `me first' society that is, however, rife with self-doubt, guilt, eating disorders, and other neuroses. It is impossible to offer compassion to others if you have not first been compassionate to yourself.
Compassion requires a critical look at how much we do not know. A society which expresses opinions ad nauseum on talk shows does not often reflect on what it really knows about the other. We do not easily want to lose arguments, even if we do not know what we are talking about. We give lip service to interfaith dialog, but rarely know how to engage in real dialog, in which we might learn something and change a preconceived conception.
The twelve steps guide us on an ever widening circle of others to whom we practice offering compassion. It means resolving the intricacies of our closest relationships. How often it is hard to be compassionate to our families, our friends, and our co-workers! Then, the twelfth step seems hardest of all - love your enemies!
Indeed, a compassionate life might seem an impossible task. But Karen Armstrong encourages us to see the steps as an ongoing process. We must continually stretch ourselves to be more and more compassionate, while applying self-compassion when we fail. The wisdom of the sages is not an impossible aspiration. And, she urges, even if we only achieve a fraction of that enlightenment, we will have lived a more worthy life and left the world a little bit better.
I believe this book expresses a powerful, if not easy, prescription for the ills of our modern, violent world. - Gordon WestReviewed in the United Kingdom on 28 December 2015
Review of 'Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life' by Karen Armstrong
"This book will change your life" is a well-worn cliché which often graces the front cover of the kinds of self-help books which prove so popular around this time of New Year's resolutions. In the case of Karen Armstrong's book, I would argue that this is not only true, but had better be, for all our sakes, and that while the twelve steps will not change you overnight, they will set you off on a fascinating journey which in itself is a transcendent experience.
At the heart of the book, as with Armstrong's other work, The Case for God, lies a quest to rediscover the roots of religion in compassionate action rather than in accepting doctrinal beliefs. Armstrong's eclectic scholarship helps us to understand that, far from being the static, final and definitive word about the ultimate nature of spiritual reality, all religions have undergone a historical evolution.
One of the most powerful and striking phenomena in the development of life on Earth has been convergent evolution, where organisms from distinct groups have ended up remarkably similar due to having become adapted to the same kind of habitat. Out of numerous examples, the classic one for me has always been the shark, the dolphin and extinct ichthyosaur. Despite coming from the fish, mammal and reptile families respectively, they all show remarkable similarities in form due to having taken up a predatory marine mode of life.
There has been a similar convergence in the cultural evolution of the world's religious and wisdom traditions, all of which have arrived at a version of the Golden Rule, first stated by Confucius in the 5th century BCE as, "Never do to others what you would not like them to do to you", sometimes repeated in its positive form, as in St Luke's Gospel, as "Do to others as you would like them to do to you." The sages who developed this understanding independently of each other did so in response to the rampant selfishness and mounting violence they saw around them during the turbulent times of upheaval in which they lived, whatever the particular culture they belonged to. These were not mountain-top revelations, too lofty and idealistic to apply to the grubby, pragmatic world of commerce and politics and the inequalities they inevitably create, but a serious attempt to grapple with the reality of that urban world of rapid transformation.
The Golden Rule forms the cornerstone of this book and the subsequent Charter for Compassion, which Armstrong initiated to bring together people from all traditions to bring compassion back to centre stage in our interconnected and yet bitterly torn world, where atavistic hatreds and the plundering of the Earth's resources now threaten all our futures.
The book takes a step-by-step approach, consciously modelled on the Alcoholics Anonymous programme, except that in this case the aim is to help us get over our addiction to our ego, with its need for dogmatic certainty, and the kinds of negative behaviour this can lead to. Starting with ourselves, we are encouraged to contemplate our own internal spiritual landscape, recognising our positive qualities as well as having compassion for ourselves, recognising that many of the less savoury aspects of our character spring from the deep-rooted instinctual drives we have inherited from our reptilian ancestors. We are then taken on a tour throughout history in the company of some of humanity's finest guides to help us gradually expand our sphere of compassion via our family, nation, other cultures of which we often know next to nothing, and leading to the ultimate chapter, which takes up Jesus's theme of "Love Your Enemies".
Both sides of the debate currently raging between 'new' atheists and traditionalist and fundamentalist believers would benefit from reading this book, which resounds with the words and actions of the great spiritual pioneers of humanity, including Confucius, Buddha, Socrates, Jesus and Muhammad. Armstrong argues that we have to dig back down to the roots of all our faiths and traditions to rediscover the central message that religion is something you only 'get' through showing compassion and displaying commitment to this principle through daily practice, rather than saying, "OK, I believe that certain things are true, even when there is no actual direct evidence to back them up, so now I am a believer".
Modern technology has given us unprecedented access to the accumulated spiritual and philosophical wisdom of the world and the radical, countercultural call for compassion it contains. All the great sages featured in the book lived through times of upheaval and extraordinary violence, like ourselves, except that, for the first time, that same technology has brought us the dubious distinction of bringing the world to the brink of global catastrophe through its selfish and thoughtless misapplication.
Never before has there been a more pressing need to rediscover the compassionate roots of our various traditions, and to harness our technological know-how to connect with each other and create a global ethos of compassion. This is exactly what Karen Armstrong has gone on to promote through the Charter for Compassion, which has attracted support from all major faith traditions: a remarkable initiative in these fractured and often dangerous times.
What better way to start 2016 than with a New Year's resolution to read this book and start your own journey, with the aim of nurturing your own compassion, in the words of Confucius, "all day and every day." - Tina ClementReviewed in the United States on 5 November 2025
Easy read
Good book - JJRoyReviewed in India on 27 November 2015
Four Stars
Spiritually enriching reading - PYNReviewed in Canada on 22 December 2017
Very practical book if you want to be a better person and less selfish.
Very practical book if you want to be a better person and less selfish. - Ley Milton DavisonReviewed in Canada on 8 December 2014
Four Stars
Much interesting information - Rev. Richard F. BoekeReviewed in the United Kingdom on 23 March 2011
Two Steps Missing - Animals and Earth
8-10 March 2011, three dozen of us came to the Brahma Kumaris Retreat Centre near Oxford. We joined in a "Journey to Compassion," a pilgrimage linking Compassion, Forgiveness, and Silence. Camilla Carr led a compelling session on Forgiveness. She had been a hostage in Chechnya for over a year. Sister Maureen Goodman led us to silence. Wednesday, for four hours we took solitary walks among the great trees & thousands of daffodils. Rev Marcus Braybrooke conducted an Ash Wednesday Communion Service in the almost two century old chapel on top the hill.
We had several sessions on the Charter of Compassion, including Karen Armstrong's speech on receiving the TED Award. In this speech she introduced the Charter and told of bringing Muslim, Christian and Jewish theologians together to create the initial draft. The result is a very good document, which I have signed. But as Eastern Religions were not included in the initial draft, it lacks the wider reverence for all life and for this earth, our home. As Rev. Peter Owen Jones told us in a conference three weeks ago, Western Religions tend to be anthropocentric.
As we celebrated my birthday near Atlanta where I was born, I read part of Karen Armstrong's new book, TWELVE STEPS TO A COMPASSIONATE LIFE. The preface introduces THE CHARTER OF COMPASSION, & tells the story of its creation.
Perhaps inspired by the 12 steps of AA, this is a guide book for individuals or for group exercises.
Then, the first step is learning about compassion. The book is a tool to educate in the deepest sense: "To bring forth the compassion that exists potentially within every human being. ... You cannot learn to swim by sitting by the side of the pool watching others ..." Then (p. 23) she points out that myths are not to be taken literally. "A myth ... is an attempt to express the deeper significance of an event. "It is about timeless universal truth." To me ,from then on, the Chapter is TOO DENSE - She squeezes in texts of compassion from a dozen religions. In a sense the chapter is a footnote to her thesis that Compassion is at the heart of all religion, ethics, and spirituality.
The second step, "Look at your own world" could be retitled, "Look at your own human world." There is no mention animals or nature. Yet, the chapter is a helpful exercise to start with the family, and move to the workplace and on to the wider human world. (And I grant there is a danger in reverencing nature: some show more compassion for animals or for trees than for their human neighbours).
The third step is compassion for yourself. She learns from Rabbi Friedlander, "if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love other people either." She takes us through the dark side in which people are driven to self-hated. What we most attack in others is what we most fear in ourselves.
For this review, I jump to the last three steps. While the 7th Step is "HOW LITTLE WE KNOW," Not knowing is also the beginning of Step 10, KNOWLEDGE: Giving up Certainty. "We may not have Socrates to goad us into self-knowledge, ... but we can make a serious effort to fill in some of the gaps in our knowledge. ... After the atrocities of September 11, 2001, I was often taken aback by the way some Christians berated the violence they attributed to Islam, showing a surprising blindness to the crusades, inquisitions, & wars of religion that had scarred their own faith
Expand your religious empathy. Karen Armstrong suggests chose one or two foreign countries or religions you find attractive. At least monthly, make a point of reading a novel or watching movies about the "stranger" you have chosen.
When you study another religion, attend a worship service. She tells that one of my favourite scholars, Wilfred Cantwell Smith, required his class in Islam to observe the Ramadan fast, and perform the daily prayers. "He was convinced that it is impossible to understand another faith simply by reading books."
The Eleventh Step is RECOGNITION. She tells the story of Christina Noble of Ireland, who was inspired by a dream to go work with the Street Children of Ho Chi Minh City in Vietnam. People said she was trying the impossible. But Christina never forgot, "when I was a child I needed only one person to understand my suffering. ... One is very important." The chapter closes with three Biblical myths and the lesson: "A myth is a programme for action: you will recognize its truth only when you put it into practice."
Step 12 is LOVE YOUR ENEMIES. It begins with the "Dalai Lama's suggestion that the concept of war is outdated.,"
It renews Laozi's (Tao te Ching) vision of restrained war:
The good leader in war is not warlike. ...
To one who honours the world as his self,
The world may be intrusted.
The Torah permitted limited retaliation: "An eye for an eye or a tooth for a tooth." Gandhi replied, "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind." This closing is a sermon from Gandhi, Jesus, the Dalai Lama and Martin L. King, Jr., who believed that the highest point in the life of Jesus was when he forgave his executioners. We are asked to look into the eyes of our enemy: "make place for the other, ... not simply impose our own will." - Keith Clark-HoyosReviewed in the United States on 7 March 2011
May we all embrace this
In February 2008, the renowned author Karen Armstrong received a TED award (view her presentation here: [...]). She chose to use her TED prize to develop The Charter for Compassion ([...]). This book is the result of her work towards that project.
Armstrong, with all of her knowledge of the various religious traditions draws upon them to demonstrate that at the core of each of them is the golden rule of "do to others what you would have them do to you" or "don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you." Armstrong explains to purusue this is to pursue a compassionate life.
She explains how religion has been hijacked and used to oppress others. She helps to provide you a roadmap towards having a more compassionate life through these twelve steps: learn about compassion, look at your own world, have compassion for yourself, developing empathy, responding with action, recognizing how little we know about others, speaking differently about others, having concern for everyone, recognizing the differences in others and how they perceive and experience the world, and learning to love your enemies.
- RosemarieReviewed in the United Kingdom on 23 January 2013
Twelve steps to a compassionate life
This is an important book. Karen writes with her usual vigour and scholarship. She challenges the reader to re-examine the way we treat others in everyday life, citing The Golden Rule "Do not treat others as you would not like them to treat you", and gives practical advice as to how we can all become more compassionate human beings and ultimately better people. It is not as easy as one might think and will take a lifetime. It links in to the Charter for Compassion that she launched in 2009 in 60 countries; her aim is no less than to build a global community across the world where people can live in mutual respect. It is a book to be read carefully and not rushed. Highly recommended. - L. GlaesemannReviewed in the United States on 4 August 2011
Living the Golden Rule
At a young age, we likely heard from our parents the importance of the Golden Rule--a maxim that we should treat others the way that we would want to be treated. In our polarized world today, however, we've failed to understand and to apply the Golden Rule, says Karen Armstrong in her Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life. A reader of Armstrong's works for the past ten years, this latest installment differs in that it provides us with practical steps that anyone can embrace toward becoming a person of compassion.
Known primarily as a scholar of religious history, Armstrong incorporates evolutionary science in her first step Learn About Compassion to support her position that compassion is wired in the brain as much as the 4 Fs--Food, Fight, Flight, and reproduction--are. Armstrong builds upon "the two brains" concept throughout the remaining eleven steps as a way to gauge our own progress toward a compassionate life but also to ground our thoughts, behaviors, and failings in scientific fact. Bringing evolution into the religious arena may be too much for some to swallow; however, Armstrong is fair-minded when recommending that we review our own faith tradition as we progress through the twelve steps.
The other eleven steps--Look at Your Own World, Compassion for Yourself, Empathy, Mindfulness, Action, How Little We Know, How Should We Speak to One Another?, Concern for Everybody, Knowledge, Recognition, and Love Your Enemies--are organized from examining ourselves, to learning how to be compassionate with people around us, to enacting compassion in the world. There is a predictable pattern to each chapter. Armstrong provides an anecdote that demonstrates the step, follows it up with examples of how spiritual leaders of the past have approached it, and then ends with related questions and advice for us to accomplish the step.
A skeptic may look upon these as nothing more than failed idealistic virtues, but, as Armstrong points out, becoming compassionate takes rigorous work up until our final moments of life. In other words, as the twelve steps for an alcoholic can be demanding, so too are these twelve. If we are truly committed to living a compassionate life, then we must be willing to dedicate ourselves the same way the sages of the Axial did during violent and destructive times.
I will not do an exhaustive review of each step because that would take too long and would be a mistake on my part for attempting to impose myself on your interior space. However, the eighth step How Should We Speak to One Another? and the tenth step Knowledge speak volumes about the polarization we now encounter in the world around us. One unfortunate trend today is the attack and counterattack model, where, for example, "experts" appear on popular cable channels not only to present their position but to annihilate and humiliate the opposing viewpoint.
Instead of resolving anything, all that is stirred is our emotions, and, as a result, we watch the next episode hoping to hear how the expert from "our side" will belittle the opponent. If we truly want ourselves, our country, and our world to live according to the Golden Rule, this type of rancorous speech must end. What should that mean for us? According to Armstrong, a compassionate person must admit that we do not know everything (in fact, very little) and that we must be willing to listen to our enemies with an open mind and heart. Unfortunately, we are so used to fighting our opponents and then fleeing to a channel that supports our views that we never cross over into a realm of possibility.
A little over two hundred pages, Twelve Steps is probably one of Armstrong's shortest books, but because it is, I will return to it periodically as I work through each step. If you read this book in a day or two and then shelve it, then likely you've missed the point. This is a book calling all of us to action, and if you believe in a more compassionate world, then this book is a great resource for you to begin that important journey. - david neyReviewed in Canada on 23 October 2015
should be required reading/study for every college student. The ...
should be required reading/study for every college student. The only problem is that if we lived around the wisdom Armstrong shares with us, there would not be jails, we would not need a military with war machines, far fewer lawyers would be needed, the earth would be healthier, people would not have to live in poverty, racial inequality would not exist..... All this could affect the bottom line on corporations and the market. We can't have that can we? - Self-help junkieReviewed in the United Kingdom on 18 September 2015
Brilliant overview of the need for compassion in all our lives.
A VPB (very important book) in my opinion. Armstong's summary of the workings of the primitive brain, and how it so easily takes us away from anything resembling compassion, is masterful and worth the price of the book alone. I love the way she puts mindfulness (something of a plague at the moment!) into its proper historical and spiritual context, where is does not remain an end in itself, but instead a means to becoming more compassionate. Since reading this, I've joined Armstong's Compassionate Movement (details easily found on google) and wear a 'Compassionate It!' wristband to keep the concept in mind during the day.
Developing compassion is a life-long struggle for us all I think: at the current time, with refugees from Syria pouring into Europe, 'primitive brain' thinking - terrirotrial, me-first, fear-based - really can take over. It takes effort and courage to be compassionate - to 'do to others what you would want them to do for you'. So the book is challenging, but compassionate towards the reader too.
Highly recommended. - DANIEL BEAUDRYReviewed in Canada on 7 January 2016
Could make you a better person
Good book. If you apply this to your life, you will be a better person.
Easy to read. - Dogearred BookmarkerReviewed in the United States on 16 March 2014
Not the usual Karen Armstrong
As an armchair person interested in religion and spirituality, I have read and enjoyed many though not all of Karen's books. Usually her book are not for the faint of heart. The reading often is heavy going but rewarding. This book is different. Karen pulls from the heart of the matter in several different spiritual traditions to illuminate something they all have in common: compassion. What is even more surprising in that Karen gives the reader techniques to access compassion to put into practice what she preaches. When I first read the book, I found it disquieting that the each chapter got shorter and shorter and seemed more repetitive. Upon reflection and reading the book a second time, I realized that each chapter lays the foundation for subsequent chapters and that there are subtle changes in points of view as the practice of compassion is expanded outward. This book is more invitation to act than knowledge to put in one's head like Karen's other books. Nonetheless Karen does not shrink from the hard questions and hard work. This is a book I will read many more times and expect to get something each time. I have decided to join the men's group which is discussing this book. I first heard about the book in the announcement about the men's group. I should hasten to add that this is a book for everyone. I have also decided to join the Charter for Compassion group founded by Karen. - Judy CroomeReviewed in the United States on 28 March 2013
We can learn to overcome hate with compassion
A well-structured and systematic programme encouraging people of all faiths to practice conscious compassion in the same way we would learn any new skill. Armstrong's belief that humanity has an innate capacity for goodness, which can override the baser instincts of the "crocodile brain" is reassuring. Her twelve steps provide a simple enough guide and, based on Socratic dialogue, ask questions that challenge the reader's known perceptions.
Containing what seems like common sense to people who have already struggled with the concept of forgiveness and compassion this book will be a good place to start if one is just beginning the journey of enlightened (or compassionate) living.
Although she touches briefly on the need to apply the Golden Rule (to love our neighbour as we love ourselves) in families and neighbourhoods, the focus was more on the universal than the personal. Given Armstrong's background as a strong advocate of interfaith dialogue, this is understandable, but I would have gained more if there'd been deeper discussion on the challenges of living a compassionate life in my ordinary day-to-day existence before I start worrying about healing breaches with people across the oceans. Yes, we live in a global village, but as Armstrong herself points out, compassion has to start at the very centre of our personal lives before it can spread to the outer reaches of the larger world we live in.
Still, any book that emphasises the need for love and compassion in our current world is a worthwhile read. I turned the last page feeling more hopeful for the souls of the human race than I have in a long time - rene dansereauReviewed in Canada on 7 August 2015
Five Stars
very focused, practical, and transformative - Jay PullanReviewed in the United Kingdom on 11 December 2016
Contemplating Compassion.
Twelve Steps to Compassion, uncomplicated read written from an unbiased perspective with contributions from diversity of faiths. Wealth of information for present times allowing deeper understanding of how the system works, suggestions in compassion as to how to meet with it in ones daily life. - Sandy BerenbaumReviewed in the United States on 25 December 2013
OUTSTANDING BOOK
In this book, Armstrong delves deeply into 6 of the major world religions and makes the case for compassion being at the core of all of them. Her belief, as I learned Rabbi Hillel state, is essentially, "all the rest is commentary". She goes on to help the reader find a way to reconcile their differences with those who don't share their beliefs, whatever those beliefs are, toward the end of living a compassionate life in all that the reader, their "tribe" or affiliate does, and eventually, a compassionate world view.
Armstrong's book resonated for me, bringing me back to my core Jewish beliefs, and I can see how it can resonate for others, whether they come from a deeply routed religious faith, or not.
Armstrong writes well. Her concepts are deep, yet approachable. I had a hard time putting this book down. It is OUTSTANDING!!
- Charles BlackReviewed in Canada on 5 February 2016
Calamity or Compassion
Karen A. makes a reasonable argument for a set of "values" that will produce hope for the world, even the 'religious' part. Especially important is the reminder to begin with one's self…in a one on one situation…. - FrithaReviewed in the United Kingdom on 27 January 2016
Compassion
Extremely thought provoking and discursive. Good basis for our group discussion. Annoying not to have page number references when working with a group mostly using hard copies. It made tracking arguments tricky at times... Hence one star down.
Highly topical content for the world of today in general, and UK in particular as we all face the massive migration phenomenon of Africa and the Middle East to Europe. Understanding, tolerance, unconditional acceptance of each other as fellow human beings is so essential. And this must travel alongside an acceptance of the finite nature of our wonderful planet making compassion not just an add on but fundamental to our continuing existence. Also leading to a new movement with an opportunity to express compassion in more practical ways with like minded, similarly enlightened people. - LitFitReviewed in the United States on 15 February 2011
Daily Ahimsa
The pursuit of compassion is probably the greatest task anyone might learn; Karen Armstrong provides an earthy and spiritual set of principles toward its achievement and explains Socratically how it can stem the political psychology of global distress and prevent it from devouring itself in venom, hatred and penultimate destruction.
A theologian from Croatia, Miroslav Volf, sought to deal with the agony of persecution and the overwhelming difficulty of forgiving that persecution in his treatise "Exclusion and Embrace." Karen Armstong too seeks to deal with some of the same material, but does so in an accessible, vivid way that pointedly draws the icy dilemmas resulting from our fears and vindictiveness, then kindles proposals that can warm everyone toward a more beneficent life.
She uses historical anecdotes from the Greeks, Confucius, Laozi, Buddha, Jesus, etc. to explain "ahimsa" (non-violence)and "upeksha" (impartial regard) to lead us to "ekstasis" (the leap outside and beyond ourselves)and away from self-destructive, overweening self-regard, a.k.a. egotism.
This could become a revolutionary book. - Mrs. M. MallinsonReviewed in the United Kingdom on 4 October 2013
Karen Armstrong at her best
I enjoy Karen's research and presentation of theological subjects very much. I have become increasingly frustrated by the increasing violence in the world that is described as being in support of one or other of the worlds larger religions and I was starting my own appeal for compassion. Then Karen gave the 'how to' book(unusually) and I, for one, couldn't be happier. - carla DominguezReviewed in Canada on 2 July 2018
Not really a guide
It’s not really a step by step guide it’s more of 12 subjects - Mohammad Ashraf ChaudhryReviewed in the United States on 19 January 2013
Life without Compassion A Tale of Cruelty
"Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life", by Karen Armstrong highlights the most needed element in the lives of people- the compassion. The absence of this vital, cohesive and indispensable virtue has the potential, as we can see, to render the entire progress of human civilization in all walks of life as meaningless and barren. All spirituality minus compassion and empathy is just a veneer, which wears off with the first drops of rain, baring the baser and crude elements under it. yes, under the circumstances, perhaps going to a gym may not be as important as going to a church, temple or mosque where the genuine seeds of compassion are germinated and nourished so that they may be replanted in every human being who walks on this planet if the world aspires to see the end of such gruesome massacres as the one that took place at Sandy Hope Elementary School in Newtown. Life can be lived without guns, without democracies and without philosophies, but certainly not without compassion.
Mohammad A Chaudhry - Jan AReviewed in the United States on 8 October 2011
Seeking Compassion
Long an admirer of Karen Armstrong, I'm ashamed to admit this is the first of her books that I've read. That being the case, I was eager to become part of a reading group that is using this book as its text. The first chapter seems pretty dry and academic to me, but after getting through that, I've found the book to be right on point. The steps are deceptively simple in print and often incredibly challenging to really practice. The practice is not without reward, though, as I've been led to re-examine my attitudes toward myself and others in the process. I've long been someone with the questionable ability to turn a clever phrase at someone else's expense. Reading and discussing this book is causing me to become more aware of that "talent" and encouraging me to learn to give it up. Now I need to find something to replace that with something equally fun! - Will HolcombReviewed in the United States on 2 September 2024
Great outlook on life
I read this book years ago and recently picked it up again. I love the transformative ideas. Her chapter on how we should speak to one another is more timely than ever. - Ms. C. WetwoodReviewed in the United Kingdom on 4 January 2013
Self-improvement summary
Like all her books there has been a great deal of research and there are many interesting quotes to support her statements. For those who read a lot of this genre there was little that was unknown but it does emphasise the need, which has been there from the beginning of time, for humans to love each other as they love themselves. It also emphasises this common element in all major religions and exhorts the reader to reconsider his prejudices. Maybe there could have been brief summaries at the end of chapters. - peter kimReviewed in the United States on 12 August 2012
How to be a better human
This book is an excellent blend of faith, history, advice and manual. As a medical student, the title caught my eye since compassion is at the heart of my professional obligations. I highly recommend this book to anybody who laments the cynical sordid spectacle of modernity. The 12 step format is an excellent manual for making necessary adjustments to one's core attitude about life. A well-written book I recommend without reservation.
I purchased this volume used and it was a little more water-damaged than I expected (the only reason I did not give a 5/5 star rating)
- Kindle CustomerReviewed in the United States on 22 March 2015
A better you for a better world?
Karen Armstrong really knows what she is writing about here. She displays the universality of the Golden Rule and provides some wonderful exercises to help you live it, or at least try to live it. Were her comprehensive and systematic approach to compassion made mandatory in grade school, we might have a chance at peace and alleviating some of the suffering in the world. The reading list at the end is worth the price of the book by itself. My only complaint is her redundancy; hence only four stars. Fabulous book for anyone interested in interfaith study. - Mark TReviewed in the United States on 12 February 2014
Mushy title, solid content
Karen Armstrong takes a walk into the practical everyday, carrying the wise essentials of her books, The Great Transformation and A Case for God, in her fanny pack. She unpacks the Golden Rule in 12 portions for easy digestion. Armstrong is a visionary who sees in human history the seeds of great compassion. In "12 Steps," Armstrong is also a realist. Transforming the world and the pessimistic views of humankind is difficult, and transforming one's self in a practical step-by-step fashion is indeed, the first step. This book could be a primer to all of Armstrong's books and an introduction to Charter for Compassion, which is a must-see, must-do organization for a better world. - MrBReviewed in the United States on 25 July 2017
Everybody should read this book
In a world where people think they know it all and are willing to argue and insult complete strangers for not agreeing with them, where drivers insult and sometimes hurt or kill strangers, because their driving displeases them and where the simple courtesy to welcome strangers, rather than sending them away is becoming the norm, this book provides refreshing steps to remind us to be a little kinder, to take the time to understand another's situation and to be aware that as we know more, we should also realize how little we know and therefore to avoid jumping to conclusions about others. I read a few pages every morning, to start my day positively. - Elinor ZindReviewed in the United States on 22 August 2014
or those we just don't like. Thee steps are practical and easy to follow
This book really touched a chord on the problems we have today in communicating and problem solving together.
Although there is a lot of religious history, the history provides examples of how compassion helps us understand others and their fears so we can listen with an open mind, without insisting only our way is right. Sometimes you feel Armstrong is speaking directly to you the way she expounds on every obstacle to the way we can view our enemies, or those we just don't like. Thee steps are practical and easy to follow. I have become calmer in discussions of issues I feel passionate about now that I can recognize how being too assertive backfires. - Albert FarthingReviewed in the United States on 8 January 2013
Outstanding --
Eminently readable , yet with academic precision, this book delves into the center, the very essence, of what all Religions are centered upon in some way or another. In most respects it would appear that Religions are wildly diverse from each other, the foundation of compassion is what unites them all. And in a world that seems constantly brimming over with antagonism , stife, and even violence, the book drives home the great truth tht compassion is as necessary for human life and culture as is the breathing in and out of oxygen. This will be a Classical work that is treasured and examined for centuries to come. - Mary TelferReviewed in the United States on 9 February 2013
It's Never Too Late to Get It Right
Never have I read a book that touched me so deeply. I signed the Charter for Compassion and then ordered this book on a whim. The historical, scientific and religious content are so compelling and, for me, life changing. My therapist keeps asking me, "What do you want your life to be about?" This is it. It's an easy, compelling read, drawing much from her earlier works, but with this book, she becomes a advocate for living our lives according to The Golden Rule. She lays out how all the great religions of the world teach compassion and how we can develop that quality in our daily lives. - jhuck33pawsReviewed in the United States on 21 May 2021
Compassion book
It is a “deep book”, not a quick read. I have re-read the Preface 4 times, and learn alot. It is not a Religion book, in fact it gives interesting information on various religions, studies of the brain, etc. I am still on chapter 1, and I use it to discuss with others on how to be more compassionate. Chapter 1, learning how to recognize compassion. - Roberta LoachReviewed in the United States on 13 January 2014
wonderful, thoughtful work
I have seen Karen Armstrong several times on the history chanel as she talked very wisely about religion and art history. As a former art history teacher I found her comments very important. And I saw her on an extended interview on PBS and found her views on religion wonderfully honest and provocative. I got the books an gift for my daughter and know she will shoot it back to me so I can read and absorb it all. Armstrong is, to me, the sort of person whose views and keen intellect should be available to a wider audience. - KindledReviewed in the United States on 15 April 2018
This could be a life changer!
I studied this with a local interfaith group, meeting monthly for a chapter at a time. It stimulated lots of discussion, lots of reflection, and some interest in Project Compassion, based on the book's key points. It was beneficial to refer to the website that offers sugested discussion questions. I highly reccomend this for book clubs, religious study groups, or individuals. Since Armstrong is a historian of world religions, she draws on a multicultural perspective and quotes from the world's scriptures and religious leaders. This approach was what appealed to me. - J. BarlowReviewed in the United States on 4 August 2014
A wonderful book. One of Armstrong's best.
I used this book to prepare a talk a couple of years ago. It explain how compassion is at the heart of every major religious tradition, and presents practices that help awake compassion in the reader. The Golden Rule is put in historical context. It arose at times of war from those wanted their leaders to seek peace. We often see religions as excuses for regulating peoples sexual practices, repressing women, and as justifications for war. This book reminds us that those religions' true heirs are those who practice love and compassion, and those who seek peace.
- Gloriamarie AmalfitanoReviewed in the United States on 26 June 2017
phenomenal book
This is a phenomenal book extremely well-researched with a long bibliography. If anyone has any desire to learn to live a more compassionate way of living, of treating others more compassionately, this is vital reading.
Jesus tells me in the New Testament to love my neighbor as myself as God first loved me. That's quite a challenge and this book helped me understand a whole lot better how to have compassion for all people and our planet.
Study guides for a group experience are available on the website for the Charter for Compassion. - Arm4andReviewed in the United States on 10 January 2014
A Very Important Read
Having a nice break this Christmas, I pulled a book off of my "must read" shelf. This book by Armstrong is yet another winner. She actually gives 12 steps moving the reader toward the seemingly impossible goal of loving one's enemies. Without such steps, the mandate seems impossible. But, "making room for the other" is possible, and through Karen's stories and suggestions, also most interesting. For anyone who wants to put compassion into action rather than just replacing a "now read" book back on the shelf, this is the book. - Michael P KalishReviewed in the United States on 24 December 2014
Interesting approach but limited
Overall ok. Clearly the author has good intentions. However, came off as rather "preachy" with an extremely religious bent with only occasional, obligatory nods to something she referred to as "secular" but never expanded on. References to neurobiological and evolutionary basis for "compassion" interesting but very simplistic. And sometimes, just plain factually wrong: yes, we are very much our "reptile" brains as much as we may not like that. Positive points: I like her emphasis on the need to practice compassionate acts "all day every day" - great mantra. While she may have left the convent a long time ago, clearly the convent hasn't left her. - Amazon CustomerReviewed in the United States on 24 July 2023
Very nicely and timely delivered
It arrived as expected on the date they mentioned. Really good seller and the condition of the book was great. I would recommend buying from them. - Janet BradleyReviewed in the United States on 27 August 2014
Compassion is the Goal
This is a book well worth reading. It is an in depth look at compassion in our world and what it involves. It is a necessary component to a peaceful life and world. It involves an understanding that all of the major religions' foundation has some form of the Golden Rule, but so many have wandered off the path in their understandings of the true message of their religions' founders. PLEASE read this book. It is an imperative message for humanity. - velma m mosleyReviewed in the United States on 4 June 2014
my views
At first it seemed a little hard to follow but once I got going with it it was a very interesting book. I have learned a lot. I do feel I have become more compationate especially to those who I dislike because of actions they have done, words they have said. I really recomend it. Myself and two others did it together which was great. It envolves other religeous Pholosephies. Made it very interesting. I learned a lot. - Delmer EggertReviewed in the United States on 12 December 2011
book club member ME men
this book might have merit with the idea that this trait of compassion could be the objective of a joint endeavor, such as a book club. Several concepts suggested are a bit stretched; e.g. that there is a reptile brain sans neocortex--just a hypothalamus and a limbic system. Another concept is that the religious founders, eg. Confucius, Buddha, Jesus, and Mohammad were all heroes with equivalent challenges and compassionate responses. I think there is a disconnect there in regard to Mohammad, in that it would only apply to his earliest responses. - Rainn ForrestReviewed in the United States on 21 January 2014
the way of life
The Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life is the book of life that everyone must read for anyone who's into the ethical and aesthetic value of life, why should we act the way we act, the way we think, and the way we do things. The values of life conceptualize the foundation of an enlightened person as knowing the true meaning of living a sustainable life not limiting to only resource consumption, but the attitude towards everything as a sentient, interconnected being. - Robert J BartolottaReviewed in the United States on 16 October 2021
Kindness is never overrated.
This book reminds us to always think before you speak. Don't jump to conclusions and try to read other people's intentions. Think about other people first. A very good reminder especially in this day and age. - Kindle CustomerReviewed in the United States on 11 March 2014
Challenging, an excellent book
I was first introduced to Karen Armstrong thru an interview on the Oprah Network. Her work is incredibly well researched and, for me, I have found affirmation for some of my own thoughts and questions about faith and world peace. This book is right on target for what I believe to be "the way" towards spiritual maturity as modeled by Jesus in the Christian scriptures. I expect to be re-reading it and learning to apply the principles for a long time.
- John B. WaitsReviewed in the United States on 7 December 2020
Profound and Practical
I’ve now read this book 3 times. It is worth reading... for the citation of great stories and quotes... for the practical steps to achieving forgiveness, equanimity, and compassion... and for the profundity of the thesis. Well worth the purchase. - PlatinumSuzyReviewed in the United States on 29 August 2016
Second Copy I've owned.
Left 1st copy of this book on plane and had to replace it. Hope the person that winds up with the one I lost enjoys it as much as my husband and I do. We are only on step #2, but it's a start. Love Karen Armstrong and the Charter for Compassion. If you're a fan, she's wonderful to listen to on YouTube. - lindarabbitReviewed in the United States on 4 July 2015
This is a great book for a group reading as there are exercises ...
This is a great book for a group reading as there are exercises at the conclusion of each chapter. Members of a reading group could discuss their responses at great length and get to see how the "other" responds - an important step in developing compassion! - JosieReviewed in the United States on 24 February 2011
Little book with big challenge
Am finding much valuable writing of compassion and the human person. Makes me feel that we are evolving to be more loving and appreciative of our fellow human beings despite the horrors we daily read of in our world. The challenges are there in these pages, as well as the motivation for action! - HGHReviewed in the United States on 6 August 2017
A sadly non-compassionate book in general, with many "Should"s. The author needs to take Compassion Cultivation Training (CCT)
Step 1 was inspiring - learning about all the ancient people around the world who had taught compassion.
It went downhill from there. I don't think Karen Armstrong has actually experienced real compassion, based on reading this book. The first sentence of 'A Last Word' is typical: "The Trojan War did not end with the embrace of Achilles and Priam."
Who cares about the Trojan War and all those old myths in a genuine book about compassion?
Also, "Should" is not a compassionate word, as in the Eighth Step: "How Should We Speak to One Another?" Where is the self-compassion in a title like that?
Karen Armstrong needs to take compassion classes such as Compassion Cultivation Training (CCT) - John O. ArmstrongReviewed in the United States on 1 June 2013
A Workshop type read.
If your a looking for a quick read, with little effort, this is not for you. The Compassionate Life is a job of
attainment, and he twelve steps is a chore. The results are well worth the effort, and the ends are life
changing.
As a follower of Karen Armstrong's books, and I have read most. It is edifying just to absorb the way she
writes. Enjoy - mary highamReviewed in the United States on 25 April 2014
Karen Armstrong's Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life
Karen Armstrong's book is excellent. Each chapter builds on the last, building a deeper understanding of what it means to be compassionate. She did such a good job of expressing the need for self compassion before one can extend this compassion to others. Her "assignments" are extremely helpful too: giving a method for building on each of the steps that she speaks of. - PatReviewed in the United States on 2 January 2013
Wonderful book
This book provides a fascintaing historical summary of the major world religions based on the "Golden Rule." Compassion is inherent in all, not just as a concept but also as a lifestyle. It has provided a new filter of compassion for me as I perceive and interact with others in my daily life. Most importantly, it has enlightened me in learning to be compassionate regarding myself. - Dr. Eileen Quinn KnightReviewed in the United States on 30 August 2014
The purpose of the book is to recommend compassion. No one is against that but again ...
It is a well written book but not for 18 year olds. I believe it is a self-help book that is meant for 30 to 60 year olds, before then a person needs assistance with developing their own faith life and not comparing one to another.. The content is for a person who is mature in their own faith and is fluent in their understanding of the words and phases. The purpose of the book is to recommend compassion. No one is against that but again the content is simplistic for most and gives a sense that we can investigate faiths in a superficial manner. - Nancy BurnetteReviewed in the United States on 5 March 2013
thought provoking book
This is a great book with a lot of meat to it. It is not a quick read. It really makes you think about things. I wish i had purcased hard copy instead of kindle as i need to keep flipping back through it.
- R TaylorReviewed in the United States on 14 March 2017
I only have three stars because I was bored to death after awhile by the religious history
It wasn't what I was expecting, but I did finish it. I only have three stars because I was bored to death after awhile by the religious history. I really wanted more "meat" to use towards a journey of a compassionate life. I understand all her concepts and direction, maybe just too deep for me. - J GRADY LACYReviewed in the United States on 13 July 2015
Class Substitute
This book was being used for a Sunday teaching forum this summer at our church. I was going to miss about 1/2 of teaching series because of a mission trip. I ordered the Kindle edition to take with me. It meets its description completely; however, I missed Dcn Judith's teaching insights that I would have gained in the class! - B MayerReviewed in the United States on 4 April 2015
Enlightenment path
Armstrong gives us a way to achieve growth and eventually enlightenment. She doesn't claim it's easy but it is possible. I need that reminder. It is the possibility of a better life for all people of every religion or no religion and every race. Great feel good book for the truth seeker. I will read it again and again. - graceReviewed in the United States on 14 February 2011
Compassion
I enjoy Karen Armstrong words of wisdom. She can be trusted in presenting factual information about world religions. Being a nun in her prevous life - she does bring special insight which is demontrated in her writings. I hope I can follow her 12 steps as I live out my life. Treat thy neighbor as thou you would like to be treated. Very simple concept but difficult to implement. - Lynette JordanReviewed in the United States on 5 February 2013
Compassionate Life
I used this book with a group of recovering adicts to approach a spiritual view of life without focusing on the traditional 12 step programs which had not been a good experience for many of them. It adds a life view which helps to build a moral base without a specific religion that would bring up arguments of the differences in the dogma. - Mark DelaplaneReviewed in the United States on 28 December 2013
A Historical Perspective on Compassion
The steps interwoven in the narrative making it more difficult to use as a guide. A summary of the steps and practices would've been useful. Without the compelling narrative I would have only given this three stars. - CarrieReviewed in the United States on 22 February 2014
Thought provoking!
I wish they would have every senior in high school read this and then have them read it again as a senior in college. What a wonderful community we would all live in if we all had this insight into living this life! This book stays on my night stand for regular inspiration and a reminder of what is important! - JTReviewed in the United States on 16 March 2018
A Golden Rule Revival to awaken the world to its true potential!
This book is even more timely than it was 10 years ago. We need to become the persons who can effect the change necessary to bring love and compassion from the back burner and build it as a bonfire to light the world ablaze in compassion. - Janet A.Reviewed in the United States on 31 January 2016
I did that and have a good grasp of the subject
We are using this for the basis of monthly discussions and I am finding them very helpful to living thoughtfully. The author suggests reading the entire book completely before beginning discussion groups and using it one chapter at a time. I did that and have a good grasp of the subject. - Victoria LindseyReviewed in the United States on 27 October 2012
Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life
I haven't finished the book, but it is very interesting. It gives the history of our three monotheistic religions, and how, through compassion meditation, we can change our world into a more peaceful, happy place.
- Brian KingReviewed in the United Kingdom on 8 August 2012
12 CREATIVE STEPS
Karen Armstrong writes another winner. As thoughtful as ever - and practical. Much that is quotable from the very first page. A book that repays reading and re-reading - and acting upon. The conciseness of this slim volume is inviting, providing much food for thought - and subsequent action for everyone. - RmartinReviewed in the United States on 1 November 2012
12 Steps a "must read" for anyone looking to make positive changes in their life.
I read 12 Steps for a Book Discussion Group that I belong to and I was glad that I did.
Karen Armstrong reminds us that practicing the art of compassion will make us happier with ourselves and others. Powerful points on how different the world would be if we all focused on living a more compassionate life. - Skye IsaacReviewed in the United States on 22 June 2014
What the world needs now is compassion for ourselves, each other and ALL life.
At this time we must stop growing our focus on material growth and grow our inner strengths, values and capacities.
Karen Armstrong gives a clear, thoughtful map for our journey. - Nancy C. BallReviewed in the United States on 6 April 2015
Karen Armstrong is a good writer, but this book of hers was less ...
Karen Armstrong is a good writer, but this book of hers was less stellar than others of hers I have read. The steps were somewhat obvious, I thought. - The NibblerReviewed in the United States on 22 July 2016
Great book, have you ever wondered about the start ...
Great book, have you ever wondered about the start of religions? The similarities? The basic human trait to appeal to our need for a higher purpose ? If everyone read this book and tried to practice her suggestions, the world would be a far better place. - Solitary ManReviewed in the United States on 2 December 2021
Not Much New Here
I am a fan of Karen Armstrong's work, but like all prolific authors, sooner or later they repeat themselves far more than they add something new. She's been working with the idea of 12 steps in a number of books. I just thought she was running on empty by the time she wrote this one. - T Michael SmithReviewed in the United States on 16 August 2017
Excellent
This book gives you the code for compassionate living. This is the only way to live in our interdependent world. - PatriciaReviewed in the United States on 21 September 2012
worth the read!
This is a book that takes the best of many religious beliefs/thoughts and finds the commonality of compassion that runs through all of them. It gets back to true "spirituality" and the ability to improve not only our life, but the lives of those around us. Thoughtful, and uplifting. Practice it, follow its advice!! - Hingle McCringleberryReviewed in the United States on 21 May 2013
Incredible Book
I never buy books - I'm more of a library girl - but I read this and immediately bought my own copy because I wanted to read it again and underline profusely. I'm very happy to own it now, and I'm working to integrate the 12 steps into my daily life. - TrishReviewed in the United States on 27 February 2014
Great Book
It can give the direction for many to make changes in their life with the ability to give them a stronger foundation to grow from. This is a book that most people can benefit from no matter their religious background. Worth the time and money for sure.
- Thomas G. HeydReviewed in the United States on 20 January 2016
This is a book for our times. Read it ...
This is a book for our times. Read it, let it teach you so you can survive this election season. - M. ClarkReviewed in the United Kingdom on 5 June 2013
Learn about compassion
a Good guide though it spends rather too much time considering the role of compassion throughout history for my liking. Shows how compassion plays a vital role in helping develop a well functioning society. - Bob MartinReviewed in the United States on 12 August 2014
Interesting writer! You might need a dictionary. She ...
Interesting writer! You might need a dictionary. She makes many interesting points. Some doable some probably not, but certainly food for thought. - Ronald A. CreteReviewed in the United States on 8 June 2015
Four Stars
Great work for study group exploration. Good clean writing and well researched as usual for Karen Armstrong's books. - Reynaldo ParejaReviewed in the United States on 27 August 2018
Prompt delivery
Book in the condition described which coincided with the price requested - Marcelle MichaelReviewed in the United States on 8 January 2014
An. incite to learn about all
I like the way Karen wrights and her information overall. I've seen her on TV and think she is great. - TimReviewed in the United States on 30 August 2017
One of the best books I have ever read
One of the best books I have ever read. Helps you put a lot of things into perspective. Great book. Reminds you of hoe to be a better person with the way the world is. - Dr.HuntsKorsReviewed in the United States on 2 June 2016
Armstrong Review
I had to read this book for my intro to ethics class, and I didn't find it to be very informative. However, it was an easy read. I would only recommend it if you are required to read it. - N. Judy MontgomeryReviewed in the United States on 29 June 2013
Learning to live
Insightful and inspiring....time for a new way of life, a new world view, new hope ...Are we ready to live it? - LWassonReviewed in the United States on 2 June 2013
class book
Very good book to read with church group and discuss the different chapters about church activities these days easy to follow
- James LeechReviewed in the United States on 29 April 2019
Well-written book on a timely topic
We use this book as part of an interfaith discussion group. The author is a well-known, thoughtful and extremely well-informed writer on religious and spiritual topics. - Sister Dolores LytleReviewed in the United States on 23 March 2016
The vision of a peaceful earth is clearly translated into ...
The vision of a peaceful earth is clearly translated into a program of personal renewal. As each individual, tends to their own life, they are more able to connect with each other and build a meaningful life together. - Peace MavenReviewed in the United States on 25 March 2015
Four Stars
I like Karen Armstrong's writing. This is not her best, but it's pretty good. - Lee SullivanReviewed in the United States on 20 November 2015
Make the World a Better Place.
Karen Armstrong never disappoints. This book is an easy read and is very helpful for dealing with understanding global problems (the "us" against "them" mentality). Used in a book group, it leads to lively discussions. - Frank Healy, HSAMReviewed in the United States on 2 August 2014
A Basic Guide To Compassion
This book is good for someone who needs instruction on compassion. A basic guide. - Mr A. M. BakerReviewed in the United Kingdom on 6 August 2017
A Compassionate Life that does not hector but walks you through.
Brilliant exposition of core themes with true grasp of deep historical reference. A must read for all who want to make that further step in making sense in these baffling times. - earlyriserReviewed in the United Kingdom on 12 October 2013
Really inspiring book
Heard Karen Armstrong speak so well before reading this wonderfully inspirational book. It did not disappoint and I would recommend this to anyone in all walks of life and those who would like to have ethically managed businesses too. - Kelza CarpenterReviewed in the United States on 3 August 2019
Probably depends on what you are looking for
To me it seemed endlessly wordy and wonky. Sometimes even counted how many words in a sentence just for the heck of it. OMG. But if you want to know all that stuff about what many religious traditions have to say about compassion now and in every age past, this is the book for you. - Donald W. FritzReviewed in the United States on 14 February 2015
Bias revealed
Very useful book for exploring the source of prejudices within self. - SkipperReviewed in the United States on 27 February 2013
The Golden Rule
Have you ever wondered where the Golden Rule came from? Or why it could possibly be important now? Ms. Armstrong is one of the most brilliant minds of our time, a religious historian with an overview of what humanity needs to begin living for each other.
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