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11] The Fourth Frame of Reference | The Noble Eightfold Path : 13 Meditation Talks

11] The Fourth Frame of Reference | The Noble Eightfold Path : 13 Meditation Talks

The Fourth Frame of Reference

March 29, 2009

Ajaan Lee often made the point that when you’re focused on the breath, you don’t have just the first frame of reference. You have all four right there. 

  1. The breath is the body in and of itself. That’s the first frame of reference.
  2.  The feelings of pleasure or pain that you’re encountering as you attend to the breath count as feelings in and of themselves. That’s the second. 
  3. As for the mind state you’re trying to develop, you find that it’s either defiled or not. Or as you get further into this third frame of reference, you start noticing when the mind is concentrated or when it’s not; when it’s expanded or enlarged, or when it’s not; whether it’s released or not; whether it’s ever been excelled or not.
  4. And then there’s the fourth frame of reference, the dhammas. Often we don’t have a real handle on how to make use of that fourth frame of reference, because it looks like little more than a list of Dhamma teachings. But it’s much more than that. It’s a list of different frameworks to keep in mind for dealing with problems that come up in the course of your practice. 

You can look at things in terms of 

    • the five hindrances, 
    • the five clinging-aggregates, 
    • the six sense media, 
    • the seven factors for awakening, or 
    • the four noble truths. 

Each list provides a useful framework for looking at what’s actually going on in different aspects of the practice. And not just looking: They also give you guidance in what to do. These are not exercises in bare awareness, because each member of each list carries a specific duty. Once you’ve figured out what’s happening in terms of that particular framework, you know what to do in response. You know what to do proactively.

For instance, as we’re going through daily life, one of the main issues in practice is restraint of the senses. This is an area where it’s good to use the framework of the six sense media. As the Buddha said in this context, 

  • when you’re looking, try to notice: Where is the fetter in the looking? 
  • If you’re listening, where is the fetter in the listening? 

And the “fetter” here is defined as a sense of passion and delight for what you’re looking at, or for why you’re looking. 

It’s not always the case that a sense of delight comes up only after you’ve noticed something delightful. Sometimes you have a very clear idea ahead of time of what you want to look for: You want to get riled up about something, you want to get attracted by something, so you go looking for trouble.


This is especially true with thoughts. Notice, when a thought comes up, “What’s the appeal of this thought? Why do I go for this particular kind of thinking?” 

Once you’ve looked at the appeal, then look for the drawbacks. 

What are the drawbacks of going along with that kind of thinking? 

If you gave that particular kind of thinking free rein in your mind, where would it lead you? 

If you notice a fetter—in other words, you really are delighting in something to the point where it pulls you away from your center—don’t just sit there and say, “Oh, I’m fettered,” and leave it at that. 

You’ve got to do something to cut the fetter—because those fetters are the cause of suffering, which means that your duty with regard to them is to abandon them as soon as you notice them. 

Of course, the big problem here is that we often enjoy our fetters. We actually create them for the purpose of enjoying them. So we have to do something we usually don’t like to do: to look squarely at our enjoyment and see where it’s causing problems. The delight may seem pleasant and entertaining right now, but where is it going to take you down the line?


That’s a framework you can use as you go through the day. And you can use it during your meditation as well. You’re sitting here focusing on the breath, and all of a sudden your mind is off on something you saw last week, something you read yesterday, or something you’re anticipating tomorrow. 

Look for the fetter. Where is the sense of passion? Where is the sense of delight in that particular thinking? What can you do to see through it to pry yourself away from that enjoyment? 

As the Buddha noted, the best thing is to pull yourself away from these unskillful ways of thinking and to encourage harmless ways of thinking instead. From there you direct the mind into concentration.

This is where the two frameworks of the hindrances and the factors for awakening become useful. 

When you sit down and try to get the mind concentrated, it’s useful to figure out exactly, “What’s going on here? Which hindrance is bedeviling me right now?” 

Once you’re able to classify a disturbance as sensual desire, ill will, torpor and lethargy, restlessness and anxiety, or uncertainty, then you know what to do with it. And sometimes just recognizing it as a problem gets you over the hump.

This is because one of the characteristics of the hindrances is that they deceive you

When desire arises, your mind is usually already on the side of the desire. You don’t see it as a problem. The thing you desire really is something desirable. 

When you have ill will for somebody, that person really is awful. 

When the mind is torpid, well, it really is time to get some rest. It’s time to sleep. The mind is getting too tired. 

And so on down the line. 

You have to learn to see these attitudes as genuine hindrances, as real obstacles on your path, and not be fooled into siding with them. 

Ask yourself, “What is this hindering me from?” Well, for one thing, it’s hindering you from learning about the potentials of concentration. You sit here rehashing your old ways of thinking and will never get out of your old ruts.

We read about the ajaans, about the people in the Canon who gained strong states of concentration. 

We read about the descriptions of concentration. 

But what’s the reality of concentration? Exactly what do those words correspond to? If you spend all your time playing around with the hindrances, you never get to know. 

The only way to gain direct knowledge of these things is to bring some appropriate attention to the hindrance, seeing that it’s a cause of suffering. Try to look for where the stress is, look for where the limitation is, to see how that hindrance is squandering your energy. And then look for ways to abandon it.

When you do this, you’re developing the first three factors for awakening: mindfulness, analysis of qualities, and persistence. 

  1. Mindfulness is what helps you remember to look for what’s skillful and unskillful; 
  2. analysis of qualities—which is nurtured by appropriate attention—is what enables you to recognize skillful and unskillful qualities as they arise; 
  3. and persistence is what carries through with the desire to develop the skillful and abandon the unskillful ones. 


Analysis of qualities actually helps you in many ways. It not only recognizes what’s skillful and not, but also helps you figure out how to undercut an unskillful state of mind, like a hindrance, and how to develop the remaining factors for awakening in its place. 

As a set, these seven factors for awakening are a good framework for figuring out how to use discernment to get the mind to settle down. In particular, you look to see that these factors are balanced. If they’re not, how do you bring them into balance?

There’s a sutta that compares this balancing act to getting a fire to burn at just the right level of intensity

In other words, you’re trying to develop 

  • the fire of concentration, 
  • the fire of jhana, 
  • a steady flame of centered awareness. 

Sometimes it looks like it’s about to go out because the level of energy is too low. In cases like that, you don’t want to emphasize qualities like calm, concentration, or equanimity. 

You want to emphasize more active qualities. 

Get the mind moving again. Analyze things as to what’s skillful and unskillful, and then put in whatever effort is needed to get rid of the unskillful qualities and develop the skillful ones. 

In taking this more active role, you can develop a strong sense of rapture, refreshment, as the skillful qualities get strengthened. This further energizes the mind. If, on the other hand, your mind is too active and antsy, that’s when you try to soothe it. Go for calm. Get the mind to focus on easing the breath, calming the breath down, working through tension in the body, until the mind gets more solid in concentration and can come to a state of equanimity and equipoise.

So, again, these frameworks of the five hindrances and the seven factors for awakening are not just guidelines for bare awareness. They’re frameworks telling you what to do if you find yourself facing a particular type of mind state as you’re trying to bring the mind to strong concentration. 

They help you get a sense of what your duty is, where you can find the path out of that particular unbalanced or unskillful state. 

Or if you find that you’re balanced and the mind is doing fine, then your duty is to maintain it. 

You don’t just say, “Oh, that’s what concentration is like,” and just let it drop from fear of being attached to it. You try to keep it going.

 You try to understand what causes it so that you can maintain it. This is where you try to bring in an element of willpower.


A couple of years back, I was talking to a group of people in training to become vipassana teachers. I was mentioning just this element of trying to keep the mind steady, and one of them said, “Well, it sounds like you’re talking about using willpower, but I know that that can’t be what you mean.” 

And I said, “That’s precisely what I mean.” The element of intention is willpower, and it’s something you’ve got to use in the practice. 

But you can’t use just strength of will to get things done. 

You also have to use your understanding of cause and effect so that your use of your willpower is skillful. 

This is what the categories of the fourth frame of reference are for. 

They’re there to help give you guidance, once a particular state comes up in the mind, as to what you’ve got to do if you really want to find true happiness. 

In other words, they’re not just instructions in how to respond to situations. They’re also instructions in how to take a proactive role in giving rise to the path.

This is even clearer in the categories of the four noble truths. You analyze things first in terms of the first noble truth—the five clinging-aggregates—to understand where’s the stress here, where’s the suffering here, where and how you’re clinging to these things. 

In particular, you want to learn how to identify each of the clinging-aggregates—form, feeling, perception, fabrication, and consciousness—as events, activities, to see what spurs them into action and how they stop. 

Then you try to notice how you’re clinging to them, how you keep compulsively repeating them. Then you take your clinging apart. If something’s disturbing your concentration, take it apart in terms of the four types of clinging: Where’s the clinging? What kind of clinging is it? Is it sensual clinging? Is it clinging in terms of habits and practices? Views? Ideas of what you are or what belongs to you? Try to comprehend it—which, after all, is the duty with regard to the first noble truth.

Once you’ve comprehended the suffering or stress, you should be able to see where its cause is. What’s causing you to cling? Where’s the craving? Try to catch it happening. When you can catch it happening, the duty there is to abandon it, to stop doing it. As for whichever aspects of the path that can help you see these things, you develop them, all eight factors of the path, and particularly right concentration. This is where you get proactive.

When you’ve mastered concentration, the framework of the five clinging-aggregates comes in handy again. When all the factors of the path are in a good state of balance, you start analyzing the concentration in terms of the five aggregates to see where it, too, is stressful. Even the equanimity of the fourth jhana has its element of stress. You’ve got to look for that so you can develop dispassion all around.

This is why, when you’ve mastered concentration, it’s useful to take these states of concentration apart in these ways. Where is feeling playing a role there? Where’s the perception? Where are the thought fabrications? Where’s the consciousness of this? Which aspect are you clinging to? Can you see the drawbacks of that clinging? It’s helpful here to look in terms of the three perceptions of inconstancy, stress, or not-self—or of any of the perceptions that help to develop a sense of dispassion. You look for the inconstancy. Once you’ve perceived the inconstancy, you look to see that that’s stressful. When you see the stress, you realize that it can’t possibly be a happiness you’d like to claim as your own. Or you learn to perceive the aggregates that make up your concentration as empty, a disease, a wound. There must be something better.

This line of perceiving, this approach, is what finally gets you past all your attachments and brings you to something really solid, something unfabricated. 

At that point, you can put even these strategic perceptions down, for they’ve done their work. You’ve been carrying out these skillful duties to arrive at something that doesn’t carry a duty. As Ajaan Mun once said, nibbana carries no duty for the mind at all. Each of the four noble truths entails a duty, but nibbana is something beyond the four noble truths, something outside of the framework of the four frames of reference and their attendant duties. It’s not an activity in any way.

So it’s helpful to look at this fourth frame of reference as a series of guidelines for action, as guidelines for your ardency. When a problem comes up, figure out which framework is useful for analyzing where you are in the practice and for pointing the practice in the direction you want to go. 

Learn to see what’s going on in your mind in terms of these frameworks, so you can figure out what to do, what’s the duty here. This helps you to step back from just being in your thought worlds and allows you to take them apart in terms of their elements: the events and activities that put them together. This in turn gives you a much better idea of what to do with them—instead of what you have been doing, which has been to cling to them and suffer.

This is how you take apart this big mass of suffering in the mind. If you learn how to take it apart, you really see it’s not a solid mountain of rock. It’s just a pile of gravel. And each little piece of gravel is not all that heavy. You can deal with it much more easily as a piece of gravel than as part of a solid mass of rock.

So try to familiarize yourself with these different frameworks and you’ll get a much better handle on how to deal with the problems of the mind.



希修

다음 주는 The Fourth Frame of Reference (Mental Qualities)를 할 차례이고 
그 다음 두 챕터는 jhana/선정에 대한 것이니 

매주 한 챕터씩 커버한다면 앞으로 3주가 남은 것인데.. 기술적으로 너무 자세히 들어가는 게 아무래도 지루하게? 복잡하게? 느껴지실 수도 있을 것 같아서, 여러분이 보이시는 반응의 정도에 따라 속도를 조절해 볼까 합니다. 즉, 질문을 많이 하시면 차근차근 3주동안 하고, 질문이 별로 없으시면 남은 3챕터를 2주에 하는 것이지요. 

암튼, Mental Qualities와 Right Concentration/선정 요약은 일단 올려 드리겠습니다.
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< The Fourth Frame of Reference – Mental Qualities >
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1. 명상할 때 올라오는 잡념 혹은 unskillful한 요소들을 알아차릴 것.
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2. 표면적으로는 그 어떤 필요나 정당성을 가장하든 무관하게, 의식에서 인정하든 않든 실은 우리가 그것들을 즐기기 때문.
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3. 때로 그 잡념은 불유쾌한 경험이나 생각인데, 어떤 측면에서 우리가 그것들을 즐기는지 찾아 볼 것. (예) 타인이 내게 잘못한 것을 떠올리는 일은 나를 세상의 중심에 위치시킴. 피해망상이 과대망상이기도 한 이유.
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4. 그 잡념을 계속 추구할 경우 어떤 결과가 될 것이며, 그런 잡념을 즐기고 추구하는 기회비용은 무엇인지 생각해 볼 것.
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5. 어떤 수단을 사용해서라도 제거할 것. (예) 알아차리기, 무시하기, 억누르기, ‘무상, 고, 무아’ 등.

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6. skillful한 방향으로 생각을 리드할 것 = Direct your thought/mind into something skillful. (예) 상대가 내게 ‘잘못’했다는 내 판단의 근거가 무엇인지 따져묻고, 상대가 실제로 잘못했다면 그의 잘못은 그의 업이고 나의 화/짜증은 나의 업임을 기억하면서 상대에게 연민을 가질 것.
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7. 내 마음에서 어떤 일이 일어나고 있는지에 대해 정직함, 정확한 판단/분석, skillful한 요소를 계발하려는 의지, 인과에 대한 이해 등이 모두 필요. 명상은 수동적 관조가 아니라 proactive한 작업.

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希修

< Right Concentration/Jhana/선정 >
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(이하의 내용은 '호흡 명상'이라는 제목의 포스팅 아래에도 댓글로 달아 두었습니다.)
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- Right concentration의 요건: (i) unskillful 요소가 없을 때 ; (ii) discernment에 의해 인도된 팔정도의 1번~7번 요소들이 바탕이 되었을 때; (iii) concentration이 1~7번 요소들의 심화/발전에도 도움을 줄 때.
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- Cause & effect( = 업 = 12연기)를 실험하고 체험하는 작업. Deliberate하고 proactive한 작업이지 수동적으로 관조만 하는 것이 아님. 멍때리기는 더더욱 아님.
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- "한 30분쯤 명상한 줄 알았는데 눈떠 보니 3시간이 지나 있더라!"거나 "명상 중 무슨 일이 있었는지를 어떻게 말로 하느냐? 이성으로 이해하거나 말로 표현할 수 있는 경지를 넘어선 경험!" 등의 얘기는, 그 명상에 mindfulness의 alertness요소가 없었음을 의미. => 잠들지 않았어도 수면과 거의 다름없는 상태였다는 얘기. 의도한 시각에 선정에 들어 예정한 시각에 정확히 눈을 뜨는 등의 '내공'을 보인다 해도 여전히 wrong concentration, wrong jhana.
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- Right jhana를 이루면 깨달음의 4단계들 중의 하나로 들어가게 됨.
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- [출처] SN 54:1, SN 14:11, AN 6:73~74, AN 6:72, MN 20, AN 3:100, MN 137, "The Wings to Awakening" (by Venerable Ṭhānissaro), etc..
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1. Form Jhanas
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1.1. 1st Jhana
- Mindfulness of body에 의해 성취되는 단계.
- Directed thought & evaluation, rapture, pleasure.
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1.2. 2nd Jhana
- Directed thought & evaluation (verbal fabrication)을 멈춤으로써 성취되는 단계.
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1.3. 3rd Jhana
- Rapture를 내려놓음으로써 성취되는 단계.
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1.4. 4th Jhana
- Pleasure를 내려놓아 equanimity를 얻음으로써 성취되는 단계.
- 호흡 (bodily fabrication)이 멈춤.
- Light or radiance (pure bright awareness) fills the entire body.
- 'Beautiful'이라는 perception.
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2. Formless Jhanas
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2.1. Infinite Space
- Form에 대한 perception을 놓고 form 이외의 space에 집중함으로써 성취되는 단계.
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2.2. Infinite Consciousness
- Infinite space에 대한 perception을 놓음으로써 성취되는 단계.
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2.3. Nothingness
- Infinite consciousness에 대한 perception을 놓음으로써 성취되는 단계.
- 여기까지를 perception attainments라고 부름.
- 空/無는 대승불교와 도교에서 절대시하는 개념. 초기불교에서는 空/無조차 그저 거쳐가는 명상 단계들 중의 하나일 뿐, 부처님은 이걸 reality나 본질이라고 보지 않으셨음.
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2.4. Neither Perception Nor Non-Perception
- Nothingness에 대한 perception을 놓음으로써 성취되는 단계.
- Perception이라는 마음 작용이 극도로 미세해짐.
- Remnant-of-fabrication attainment라고 부름.
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2.5. Cessation of Perception & Feeling
- Perception과 feeling 등의 모든 mental fabrication까지도 멈춤으로써 성취되는 단계.
- Cessation attainment라고 부름.
- 2.1~2.4 단계를 거치지 않고 4th jhana에서 곧장 이 단계로 올 수도 있음.
- 고통을 낳는 것은 의식/말/행동의 fabrication이고, fabrication을 낳는 것은 ignorance라는 것이 12연기의 내용.
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10] The Third Frame of Reference | The Noble Eightfold Path : 13 Meditation Talks

10] The Third Frame of Reference | The Noble Eightfold Path : 13 Meditation Talks

The Third Frame of Reference

October 15, 2009

One of the important skills we need to learn to develop as meditators is how to read our own mind

This comes in the third frame of reference, keeping track of the mind in and of itself

Keeping track here means not only 

  1. watching the mind, but also 
  2. figuring out what the mind needs

This is the part that tends to get left out.


In other words, when the mind feels a desire for something, when it feels angry about something, when it’s deluded about things, when it feels constricted, you don’t just leave it there. 

You ask yourself: What is it lacking? 

This comes from the Buddha’s explanation of breath meditation

As you know, those instructions come in sixteen steps divided into four tetrads, or sets of four. 

The third tetrad—which corresponds to the third frame of reference, the mind in and of itself—starts out by saying that 

you’re sensitive to the mind as you breathe in and breathe out, and 

then you train yourself

to gladden the mind, to steady the mind, and to release the mind

as you breathe in, as you breathe out. 

That’s the active side. That’s what you do in response to reading the mind and seeing what’s there.

9] The Second Frame of Reference | The Noble Eightfold Path : 13 Meditation Talks 내가 이해하는 불교의 업이론이고 또 마음공부.

The Second Frame of Reference | The Noble Eightfold Path : 13 Meditation Talks

The Second Frame of Reference

September 21, 2009

As you sit here with this bundle of feelings, there are lots of different feelings you could focus on. There are pains in some parts of your body, pleasant feelings in other parts, and nondescript neutral feelings in still other parts. It’s not that you have just one feeling at any one time. It’s not the case that there’s nothing but pain. As Ajaan Lee once said, if your body were totally in pain with no pleasure at all, you’d die. You’re alive, so there is pleasure someplace. Ferret it out. Look for it.

In the beginning, it may not seem all that impressive, but there already are pleasant feelings in different parts of the body. The mind has a tendency to focus on the pains because that’s what its early warning system is for: to figure out where there’s pain that you’ve got to do something about. But you can cut that switch and focus instead on where the pleasure is instead.


It’s like that old book, Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain, where the author teaches you not to draw eyes, noses, mouths, or other recognizable features of the faces you’re trying to draw. Instead, you focus on drawing the space, say, between the eye and nose, the space between the nose and the mouth. And you end up with a much better likeness because you’re focusing on things you don’t normally focus on.

So it’s the same with the pleasures and pains in the body. Instead of complaining about where there’s stiffness or soreness or a sense of blockage in the body, focus on the areas where things are going well. Again Ajaan Lee: He says it’s like going into a house where you know some of the floorboards are rotten, so you don’t step there. You step where the floorboards are sound. Or when you’re eating a mango, you don’t eat the rotten spots. You eat the spots that are good. And you make the most of them. What this means is that you focus on the pleasure in a way that helps to maintain it and allow it to grow. When it feels good, you can spread it around. As the Buddha says, you want to suffuse the body with the sense of ease, the sense of fullness that grows as you focus on the breath.

All this comes under the second frame of reference: feelings in and of themselves as your frame of reference. 

If you read the Mahasatipatthana Sutta on the topic, it’s possible to understand it as telling you simply to stick with whatever feeling comes up, because there’s just a list of the different types of feeling you could focus on:

  •  pleasant feelings, 
  • painful feelings, and 
  • neutral feelings; 
  • pleasure of the flesh—i.e., pleasures, physical or mental, relating to sensuality
  • pleasure not of the flesh—related to the practice of concentration— pain of the flesh, pain not of the flesh, and so on. 


The way these things are simply listed makes it sound like you just watch these feelings as they arise and pass away, without getting involved in them, without trying to foster skillful feelings or abandon unskillful ones.

But if you read the Mahasatipatthana Sutta in context, you realize that the Buddha is not telling you just to focus on whatever comes up willy-nilly. There’s a sutta where he asks, 

“How do you develop the four establishings of mindfulness? 

You develop them by developing the eightfold path”—

and that includes everything from right view on down through right effort and right concentration. 

Right mindfulness builds on right effort and is a natural continuation of it; it’s meant to lead toward right concentration. 

The Mahasatipatthana Sutta itself talks about ardency as one of the qualities you bring to this practice. The sutta itself doesn’t explain ardency—that’s one of the reasons that it’s not a comprehensive treatment of mindfulness practice—but other passages in the Canon show that ardency means right effort, generating the desire to do what’s skillful and to abandon what’s unskillful. 

So in this context, 

  • some ways of focusing on pleasure are unskillful, and 
  • some ways of focusing on pleasure are skillful.

In some of the other suttas where the Buddha discusses feeling, he explicitly recommends ways to respond to different types of feelings. For example, with physical feelings

  • When pleasures of the flesh arise, you have to watch out for the tendency to get obsessed with passion around them. 
  • When pains of the flesh arise, watch out for the tendency to get obsessed with irritation around them. 
  • If you’re trying to find a good basis for a solid happiness inside, you want to develop the pleasures not of the flesh, i.e., the pleasure that comes from concentration.

So learn how to gain some control over your feelings. Now this may sound strange. How can you control your feelings? 

Sometimes we have the sense that our feelings are who we really are, and that they’re a given. 

But that’s not how the Buddha explains them. He says that 

  • in every feeling there’s an element of fabrication, i.e., an element of intention.
  • This applies to physical feelings as well as to mental feelings. 

You want to learn how to see where that element of intention is, and how to engage in that element skillfully.

As he says that, for the sake of having a feeling, we fabricate these feelings. We take a potential for a feeling and, through our intention to have a feeling, turn it into an actual experience of a feeling

You wouldn’t think that we would want to fabricate pain, but we’re not skillful in our fabrication, so that’s what we sometimes end up with. 

We want feelings of pleasure, but we often end up creating pain

Now there are certain givens: You’ve got a disease in your body, you’ve got aches and pains in your body that come from old kamma. You can’t do much about that.

But, as Ajaan Lee says, it’s not that your body is totally pained. 

And you do have the choice: 

  • Where do you want to focus your attention? 
  • What do you want to maximize? 
  • Do you want to maximize the pain or maximize the pleasure?

What we’re doing as we’re sitting here meditating is learning how to develop the skills for maximizing skillful kinds of pleasure, skillful ways of approaching the pleasure. 

There are even skillful forms of distress

The Buddha talks about household distress and renunciation distress.

 Household distress is when you’re not getting the physical feelings you want: You don’t see the sights you’d like to see or hear the sounds you’d like to hear, smell the smells, taste the tastes, get the physical contacts you’d like to feel.

Then you get upset. And for most of us, the way of dealing with this kind of distress is to try to find the things we want, i.e., replace household grief with household joy. That’s when you get the sights and sounds and smells and tastes and tactile sensations and ideas you’d like.

But the Buddha says that the better course is to abandon household grief by relying on renunciate grief. 

Renunciate grief is when you think about the fact that you haven’t gained awakening yet. 

You’d really like to gain the peace, you’d really like to gain the happiness and the freedom that come with awakening, and the fact disturbs you. 

Now this kind of grief actually goes someplace. It’s like the tension when you pull back on a bow to shoot an arrow. It’s what allows the arrow to fly. This kind of grief focuses you on what you really would like to do, and it focuses you on the fact that there is a path to that awakening.

So instead of just mucking around in the grief and joy that come from losing and then gaining, and losing and then gaining, and losing again the pleasures of the senses, you focus on developing the elements of the path. 

And notice: The Buddha says to 

  1. abandon household grief by relying on renunciate grief. And then he goes on to say, 
  2. abandon renunciate grief by relying on renunciate joy, i.e., when you finally do attain some of that freedom, some of that happiness, some of that peace, through the practice.

But how do you abandon a feeling? 

When the Buddha talks about abandoning, or letting go, it’s not that your mind has a hand that’s grasping things. 

You’re engaged in habitual activities, habitual ways of reacting, habitual ways of thinking, habitual ways of breathing, habitual ways of perceiving things, habitual ways of fashioning feelings. 

And as long as you keep repeating those habitual patterns, you’re holding on.

 To let go means to stop. You realize that those old habits are not getting you what you want, so you just stop

Or you learn how to stop. 

It’s not always automatic, but that’s what you’re aiming for: learning to see where your habitual ways of fabricating your experience are causing stress and pain, realizing that you can develop some alternative skills that don’t produce that pain, and then focusing more and more on those skills. 


As I said earlier, there is an element of fabrication, an element of intention in all of our feelings, and so you want to focus on that.

There’s bodily fabrication, the way you breathe; 

verbal fabrication, the way you direct your thoughts to a topic, such as a feeling, and then 

evaluate that feeling: Is it potentially skillful? Potentially not? What are you going to do with it? 

And then there’s mental fabrication, which consists of the feelings themselves plus the perceptions that you hold in mind. 


Now all those fabrications are things you can learn how to manipulate, learn how to shape. You’ve got the raw materials. Sometimes the raw materials are a little recalcitrant, but there are things you can do with them. 

So even though there’s a pain or a weakness in the body, you don’t have to obsess about the pain or the weakness. 

You can focus on where your strengths are; you can focus on where your pleasures are. 

Focus on different ways of breathing: What kind of breathing would give you more strength? What kind of breathing would give you more pleasure? Experiment. Learn about these things. 

Which ways of thinking about the breath and evaluating the breath give more pleasure? 

Which perceptions of the breath give more pleasure, give you more strength?

 These are all things you can manipulate, things you can play with. 

And just knowing that you’re not simply a hapless victim of your pains helps get you on the right side.


Sometimes a useful perception is seeing the pain as something receding from you. 

Think of yourself as sitting in the back of one of those old station wagons where the back seats face back. 

You’re sitting there watching the road recede away from you as you’re actually headed in the direction behind your back. 

So when a pain comes, it’s not that it’s actually coming at you. 

The pain is going, going, going, going away. 

You’re watching it go, go, go away. 


 Another pain may come to replace it, but that’s just another pain that you’re going to watch go, go, go. Hold that perception in mind, that you’re not on the receiving end of a lot of this stuff, and things will be a lot easier to take. Because you do see that the individual moments of pain do go, go, go, go, go. And as you focus on that, it gives you less of a sense of being a victim, of being a target, and more of a sense of being in charge, of the choices you have.