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알라딘: 배짱으로 삽시다

알라딘: 배짱으로 삽시다

배짱으로 삽시다 - 30주년 기념 개정판  | 이시형 뒤집어 생각하기 1
이시형 (지은이)풀잎2013-12-06
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솔직하고 거침없는 문체로, 한동안 우리 사회에 ‘배짱 신드롬’을 일으킨 이 책은 현재까지 250만 명의 독자들에게 읽히는 스테디셀러로 사랑받고 있다. 이렇게 30년이라는 세월동안 꾸준히 사랑받을 수 있었던 비결은 체면과 소심증, 조급증, 열등감, 대인불안증 등으로 경직돼 있는 우리 사회의 막혀있던 혈류를 속 시원히 뚫어주었기 때문이다.

해설에서 연세대 심리학과 황상민 교수는 이 책을 요즘 유행하는 힐링 서적의 원조라고 평하였는데, 30년이 지난 오늘날 이 책은 타인의 시선과 마음의 굴레를 과감히 벗어던지고 마음껏 행복하게 살기를 권하는 책으로 읽혀질 만하다.

이번 30주년 기념 개정판은 30주년을 기념하는 의미에서 초판의 표지 이미지를 현대적으로 되살렸으며, 매 챕터마다 상황별로 ‘배짱 있는 삶을 위한 팁’을 제안한 것이 특징이다.

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제1장. 체면 _ 옷을 벗어라
제2장. 추진력_ 몸은 바로 마음이다
제3장. 결단력_ 뛰고 나서 생각하라
제4장. 소심증_ 플러스 발상
제5장. 소신_ 소신 있는 거물
제6장. 미안 과잉증_ ‘안돼’라고 말하는 용기
제7장. 열등감_ 남과 달라지는 연습
제8장. 대인불안_ 눈치작전의 대가들
제9장. 조급증_ 미래의식을 가져라
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책속에서
하다가 정 힘들어 실패해도 좋다. 그래도 시작 안한 것보다야 낫다. 끊은 것 만큼 덕이요, 운동한 만큼은 덕이다. ‘아 또 실패했구나‘가 아니라 ‘이만큼 성공했구나‘해는 자부를 해도 좋다. - 금강산


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이시형 (지은이) 
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신간알리미 신청

대한민국을 대표하는 정신과 의사이자 뇌과학자, 그리고 한국 자연의학종합연구원 원장이자 ‘힐리언스 선마을’ 촌장. 경북대 의대를 졸업하고 미국 예일대에서 정신과 신경정신과학박사후과정(P.D.F)을 밟았으며, 이스턴주립병원 청소년과장, 경북의대·서울의대(외래)·성균관의대 교수, 강북삼성병원 원장, 사회정신건강연구소 소장 등을 역임했다. 실체가 없다고 여겨지던 ‘화병(HWA-BYUNG)’을 세계 정신의학 용어로 만든 정신의학계의 권위자로 대한민국에 뇌과학의 대중화를 이끈 선구자이다. 2007년 75세의 나이에 자연치유센터 힐리언스 선마을을, 2009년에는 세로토닌문화원을 건립하고 국민들의 건강한 생활습관과 행복한 삶을 위해 끊임없이 노력한다. 수십 년간 연구, 저술, 강연 등 다양한 분야에서 열정적인 활동을 하고 있다. 저서로는 베스트셀러 『내 삶의 의미는 무엇인가』 『어른답게 삽시다』 『농부가 된 의사 이야기』 『세로토닌하라!』 『배짱으로 삽시다』 등이 있고, 옮긴 책으로 『죽음의 수용소에서』 『삶의 의미를 찾아서』 등이 있다. 접기
최근작 : <이시형의 신인류가 몰려온다>,<이시형 박사가 추천하는 면역증진 다이어트 키친>,<통합의료> … 총 146종 (모두보기)


출판사 제공 책소개

- 밀리언셀러 작가 이시형 박사의 데뷔작이자, 대표작
- 30년을 사랑받아온 돌직구‘배짱 철학’

1982년에 발행돼 국내 출판사상 최초의 논픽션 밀리언셀러로 기록된 ‘배짱으로 삽시다’가 출간 30주년을 맞아 ‘30주년 기념 개정판’을 발간했다. 초판 출간 당시, 이 책의 폭발적인 반응은 누구도 예상하지 못한 것이었다. 이 책 한 권으로 인생이 바뀌었다는 독자들의 감사 인사가 쇄도하고, 배짱이 없어 데이트 신청 한 번 못해보았다는 사람들이 병원으로 몰리기도 했다. 이를 계기로 이시형 박사는 대인공포증 집단치료를 개설, 사회공포증이라는 진단명을 발표했다.

솔직하고 거침없는 문체로, 한동안 우리 사회에 ‘배짱 신드롬’을 일으킨 이 책은 현재까지 250만 명의 독자들에게 읽히는 스테디셀러로 사랑받고 있다. 이렇게 30년이라는 세월동안 꾸준히 사랑받을 수 있었던 비결은 체면과 소심증, 조급증, 열등감, 대인불안증 등으로 경직돼 있는 우리 사회의 막혀있던 혈류를 속 시원히 뚫어주었기 때문이다.
해설에서 연세대 심리학과 황상민 교수는 이 책을 요즘 유행하는 힐링 서적의 원조라고 평하였는데, 30년이 지난 오늘날 이 책은 타인의 시선과 마음의 굴레를 과감히 벗어던지고 마음껏 행복하게 살기를 권하는 책으로 읽혀질 만하다.

이번 30주년 기념 개정판은 30주년을 기념하는 의미에서 초판의 표지 이미지를 현대적으로 되살렸으며, 매 챕터마다 상황별로 ‘배짱 있는 삶을 위한 팁’을 제안한 것이 특징이다.

"이 책은 이 땅의 리얼리스트에게 현실이 아닌 이상을 위해 사는 ‘아이디얼리스트’ 또는 자신의 감정에 더 충실한 ‘로맨티스트’의 삶도 괜찮다고 추천한다. 대한민국에 살고 있는 사람들 중의 50% 이상이 리얼리스트의 모드로 살고 있기에 참 적절한 이야기이다. 자신의 삶에 대해 불안해하며, 위로를 필요로 하는 이들에게 정말 좋은 말이다. 하지만 이미 언급한 것처럼 이들에게 변화라는 것은 위기이다. 즉, 바뀌는 것은 쉽지 않다. 그런 의미에서 이 책은 요즘 한동안 유행했던 ‘힐링’ 서적의 원조라 할 수 있다. "

- 연세대 심리학과 황상민 교수의 해설 중에서
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주위의 눈치를 보지 말고, 나 자신의 내면에 충실하라 [배짱으로 삽시다] 새창으로 보기
이 책의 표지에는 인상 깊은 두 구절의 카피가 적혀 있습니다."아버지가 읽고, 아들딸에게 권해 주는 책""출판사상 최초의 논픽션 밀리언셀러"30년이라면 정말 긴 시간이죠. 아마도 30년 전이면, 이 책의 독자는 주로 남성이었을 가능성이 큽니다. 30년이 지난 지금은, 그 독자가 아버지의 입장이 되어, 그 아들 뿐 아니라 딸에게도 이 책을 읽으라고 권해 주는 모습... 우리는 여기서 여성 역시 당당한 사회 경제 활동의 주역으로 부쩍 성장한 현실에 주목할 수 있습니다. 이 책이 쓰여질 무렵이라면, 여성이 계산원, 비서직, 공... + 더보기
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내가 이 책을 읽게 된 이유는 아무래도 제목에서 오는 매력 때문이었다. 평소에 나는 매사에 자신감이 없이 너무 소심하게 모든 일을 한다. 다른 사람들이 지켜보는 앞에선 그만 잘하던 일도 못하고 벌벌 떨고, 좌석에선 잘 떠들다가도 막상 연단에 서면 그만 말문이 막힌다. 좀 배짱이 있어야 하는데 너무 배짱이 없었다. 그러기 때문에 이 책을 읽으면 나도 배짱 있게 이 세상을 살아갈 수 있지 않을까 하는 기대에서 이 책을 펼치게 되었다.

 

이 책은 정신과 전문의 이시형 박사가 쓴 것이다. 배짱을, 세상의 어려움을 극복하기 위한 소신이 동반된 행동으로 보고 이를 긍정적으로 풀어내 1982년 당시 대단한 베스트셀러가 됐다. 지금도 꾸준히 읽히는 것을 보면 배짱은 역시 누구나 갖추고 싶은 필수 인성이라는 생각이 든다. 하지만 선천적 강심장을 빼고는 배짱을 갖추기란 여간 어려운 게 아닌가 보다. 대부분 사람들이 두둑한 배짱을 동경하니 말이다.

 

‘배짱’이란 긍정과 부정 모두를 포함하고 있다. 그러나 아무래도 긍정적인 면이 더 많은 것 같다.

 

우리나라 사람들은 무척이나 체면을 존중한다. 그로 인해 우리나라 사람들은 배짱이 약하다고 저자는 말한다. 우리나라 사람은 서양 사람들과 달리 춥고 배고픈 백성이기 때문에 체면을 중시한다고 설명하고 있다. 체면이란 자기 얼굴을 내세우는 일이지만, 그건 어디까지나 타율의식이지 자율성의 발로는 아니다. 체면이란 남의 눈을 의식해서 나를 숨기는 일이며, 배고파도 아닌 척, 추워도 더운 척하고 나를 숨겨야 하는 게 체면의 강제성이라고 저자는 말한다.

 

또한 체면 때문에 우리는 겉다르고 속다르다. 표리부동이다. 어디까지가 사실이며 어디까지가 진짜 마음인지 알 수가 없다. 솔직하지 못한 것도 표리부동이란 마음의 이중구조에서 비롯된다. 누가 보든 앞에서 자기 진심을 숨겨야 하는 게 우리나라 사람이다. 그리고 우리는 법을 지켜도 남의 눈 때문에 지킨다. 물론 요즘엔 체면 없는 무리들로 인해 무척 속상한 일들이 많아져가고 있다. 공공의식에 약한 우리 사회가 체면이란 것 때문에 이만큼의 질서가 유지돼 왔는데 말이다.

 

저자는 체면은 있어야 하고 지켜야 한다고 말한다. 그러나 이것이 너무 강하게 작용하여 일상행동에 지장을 초래한다면 문제가 된다고 말한다. 그리하여 저자는 체면의식이 지나쳐서 전전긍긍하는 한국인에게 명예란 걸 생각해보길 권하고 싶다고 한다.

 

현대사회는 바쁘다. 나의 실수담을 오래 간직하고 기억해 줄 친절한 사람은 없다. 짧은 시간에 많은 사람을 만나야 하는 게 현대사회의 인간관계다. 숨긴다는 것도 쉬운 일이 아니다. 솔직해질 수밖에 없다. 그래야 사람을 만날 배짱이 생기게 된다.

 

저자는 “마음의 허식을 벗어야 한다. 그렇지 않고는 매사에 주저된다. 누굴 만나도 떳떳하질 못하다. 움츠러진 어깨가 펴지질 않는 것이다. 허식을 벗어야 참된 내가 된다. 개성적인 인간이 되는 길은 솔직하게 되는 게 먼저다.”(p.49)라고 했다.

 

이 책을 통해서 우리 민족은 너무 체면을 존중하다 보니 실제 아무런 유익이 없는 겉치레에 얽매여 있으므로 과감하게 체면을 벗어던져야 된다는 것과 너무 소심하게 생각하지 말고 무엇이든지 배짱을 가지고 해야 된다는 것을 깨닫게 되었다.

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[배장으로 삽시다] 이시형 박사의 오랜만의 저작물이다.  이책이 나오니는 꽤 오래된것 같아 연대기를 보니 거의 30여년 전 1980년대에 출간된 책이 리 모델링? 된 작품이락 보면 좋을 듯하다.

 

사실 나는 이 작가에 대해서는 잘 알지는 못한다. 다만 어느 정신과의사로서 외국에서 공부한 후 한국에 들어와 보니 수많은 사라믈이 어떤 형식에 얽매여 체면 치레 하는데 급급해 하고 ,  경조사를 우선시 챙기며,  못 먹고 , 굶어 가면서도 옷차림이나 핸드백은 비싼것을 들어야 남들 눈을 의식 하지 않고 활보 할 수 있는등 ,,,, 허례 허식의 대명사인 그 당시 ,,, 1980 년대면 1970년대 유신을 막 벗어나고  군사 독재 정권  1980 년 서울의 봄이 열리는 시절이고 1988 년  온국민이 스포츠 열기의 도가니에 빠지게 만든 올림픽이  연이어 기다리던 시절이다...  더불어 해외여행 자유화의 신호탄이 떠오르던 시저도 그때 쯤이고 ,,, 복부인들이 강남 부동산 투자에 열을 올리던 시절이 바로 그 시절이 아닌가 한다...

 

빈부의 양극화가 심화 되어 가지만 남들 앞에서는 기죽기 싫어 하는 민족성?  으로 혹은 발생지가 중국인 유교 문화 보다도 더 제례 의식참여 에 열심인 민족이 우리다,, 회사라도 들어가면 연공 서열이 정해져 있고 , 군대의 계급장 하나 하나 에도 서열이 있다..   1990 년대 사교육의 열풍이 몰아칠때는 치맛마람의 도가니가 강남을 휩쓸었다... 

 

명문자제 , 명문 고교 에서  서울대 , 외국 대학교 박사 과정의 최고 엘리트 코스로 이어지는 대학 학벌 체제의 맞춘 대한민국은 나머지 청춘들이 기 펴고 부대낄 자리가 없다.  대기업의 서렬 싸우에  한낱 하청 업체들의 직원이란 폄하에 , 억울함과  얇팍한 봉급 봉투로도 마음 추스리면 정장 당당 하게 일하려 해도  사회 구조상으로 바라보는 대기업 중심적인 시각적 서열까지 커버 하진 못한다.

 

나만이 정정 당당히 주문 하고 왜곡된 구조를 바로 잡으려 해도 이방인 으로 몰릴 뿐이어서 조용히 중간이라도 가여 하는 세대 이기도 한것이 80년대90 년대 직장인들이고 , 지금의 아버지 어머니 들이 아닐까 한다..

 

세상이 아무리 바뀌어도 바뀌어지질 않는 것이 있다며 어르신 들의 사고 방식이다.. 제사는 하늘이 무너 져도 지내야 하고 , 유교적인 서열이 깨지는 순간 세상은 망하는 것으로 안다.  서로가 서로에게 보이지 않은 계급의 멍에를 쒸우고  지내다 보면 , 애기 하지않아도 말하지 않아도 스트레스는 발생 하고, 애로사항을 토로해줄 상대 혹은 분출구는 보이질 않는다  화병만 키울
뿐이다..   

 

그러나 세대가 바뀌고 , 빠르게 서구의 문화와 내부의 의식이 성장 속도와 맞물여 2000년대 들어서 그리고 다시 10년이 지난 2014 년도에 들어서는 오늘날은  누가 누구에게 지나치게 예속 받거나 억압 받는 상태에서의 주종 관계를 형성 하기에는 사회 구조가 많이도 투명 하게 바뀌 었고 개개인들의 정정 당당한 의식들이 표출되고 공감을 얻어 사회적인 담론의 장을 형성 하기도 한다.

 

이 책은 그래서 당시 예전에 미처 못 보았던 그러한 개개인의 마음속의 화병, 쌓아만 두었던 어찌 할까 많이 망설여 왔던 정신적 , 행동적 실천 지침이라고 할 수도 있겠다....  실레로 , 집안 경조사로 즐어가는 돈이 솔솔치 않지만 자신의 입장에 맞춰 부조를 하던 축의금을 하던 아님 사정이 여의치 않으면 인사만으로 예를 대신 할수 있다면 당신은 스트레스를 받지 않는다.

 

내가 가진것이 한정되어있고 스스로 배풀수 있는것도 어느 정도 라고 한다면 , 남의 도움을 받을 수도 있는 것이고 이를 부끄러워 할 이유도 없는 것이다..  남의 눈치를 봐서 무리한 빛잔치를 하면 두고 두고 가슴에 멍에가 생기는 것은 자신일 뿐이고  상대방에 대한 주는 것만큼 돌아오지 않는 가치에 대해  두고 두고 상대방을 욕하고 애기 하는 것도 자신일 뿐이다..

 

비우라 ! ..  마음와 행동을 비우고  자신의 처신에 맞은 생각과 행동을 하는것 , 그리고 해결 못할 일을 가지고 해결사 역할을 자처 하는 것만큼  용기와 만용을 크게 착각 하는 경우도 왕 왕 있다. 

 

남을 배려 하는것, 그리고 잘잘못을 어느 정도 용서 해 줄수 있는 아량 , 나만의 길로 가고 자 해도 주변의 협력 없이는 목적지에 도달 하는 것은 쉽지가 않다 .. 세상은 혼자 사는 것이 아님을 닷 한번 느낀다.

 

배짱으로 사는것 , 이면 적인 의미는 정정 당당히 자신의 색깔을 가지고서 세상의 논리에 적용해 나아가는 것으로 나름 데로 해석을 해보면서 ,,  현제 세대가  앞으로 다가올 후배 세댕게 무것을 이어주고 나아갈지에 대한 고민을 잠시 해보는 좋은 시간을

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배짱으로 삽시다.  우리나라 문화와 너무나 친숙한 모습들이 결국 나다움을 방해하는 걸맞지 않는 옷으로 맞지않아 불편하지만 그냥 살아가는 나에서 이제는 맞는 옷을 입는 과정을 거치고, 태어난 그대로의 모습으로 살아갈 수 있는 힘을 갖는것이다.  읽고 나의 사랑하는 딸에게 선물을 준 소중한 책입니다.~~^^
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세상에는 마음이 크고 넓은 사람과, 작고 좁은 사람이 섞여 살고 있는데, 흔히 우리가 말하는 배짱이 두둑한 사람이란, 마음이 큰 사람을 일컫는데, 어느 쪽이 덕 있는 사람인지는 생각하기에 다르겠지만, 대개 마음이 넓고 크면 인생을 즐겁게 보낸다는 사실에는 이견이 없다.

 

반면 마음이 좁고 작은 사람은 대개, 고통스럽게 사는 경우가 많고, 인간관계가 원만하지 못하며, 힘을 쏟는데도 제동 거는 일이 빈번하여, 인생이 이래서야 짜증스럽기 마련이다.

 

이 책은 대한민국의 대표적인 정신과 의사이자 뇌과학자. 한국자연의학종합연구원 원장이자 ‘힐리언스 선마을’ 촌장으로, 뇌과학과 정신의학을 활용한 ‘면역력과 자연치유력’ 증강법을 전파해온 이시형 박사가 세상의 어려움을 극복하기 위한 소신이 동반된 행동으로 보고 이를 긍정적으로 풀어내 1982년에 발행했는데 출간 30주년을 맞아 ‘30주년 기념 개정판’으로 나온 것이다.

 

배짱이란 무엇일까? 용기와는 좀 비슷하지만 다른 것이다. 용기란 우리가 중대한 결정의 순간에 큰 결심을 하기 위해 하는 무엇인가이지만, 배짱이란우리가 삶은 살아가는데 지속적으로 가지는 하나의 사고방식의 결과인 것 같다. 배짱이란 자신감, 주도성, 모험심으로 구성된 하나의 결합체라고 할 수 있다.

 

이 책에서 저자는 우리 민족은 체면을 존중하는 민족이라고 진단한다. 이 체면이란 명분에 매여 내용보다 형식이, 용기보다 만용이, 그리고 실력보다 허세가 더 강하게 작용하게 되어 헛된 자존심이 팽배하고 위신만 앞세워 도무지 실속이 없다.

 

우리나라 사람들이 자주 쓰는 말 가운데 “체면”이라는 것이 있다. “사장님 체면이 말이 아니군요!”, “아버지 체면에 먹칠을 하다니!”, “남편 체면 좀 세워줘!”, “체면 차리지 말고 많이 먹어!” 등 특히 인간관계를 나타내는 대화중에 많이 나타난다.

 

서양 사람들은 ‘나’를 당당히 표현할 수 있는 개인주의를 용납하는 사회에서 사는 반면 우리 동양인들, 특히 한국인들은 ‘나’보다는 ‘남’을 의식하는 문화권에 산다고 할 수 있다. 그래서 혹자는 한국의 문화를 체면문화라고도 한다. 나의 판단과 행동에 대해 내가 평가하는 것보다는 남이 어떻게 평가하느냐가 사회생활에서 핵심적 가치기준이 되기 때문이다.

 

한국인에게 체면은 참으로 중요하다. ‘자존심이 있지, 어떻게 험한 일을 하느냐’면서 놀고먹던 사람도 미국이나 다른 나라에 가면 청소하는 일, 세탁하는 일을 자연스럽게 한다. 체면 때문에 못하던 일도 일단 한국 사람들이 없는 곳에 가면, 혹은 문화가 다른 곳에 가면 바뀔 수 있기 때문일 것이다.

 

체면은 있어야 하고 또 지켜야 한다. 그러나 이것이 너무 강하게 작용하여 일상행동에 지장을 초래한다면 문제다. 구태의연한 체면의식 때문에 위축되어서도 안 되지만, 그렇다고 마음 내키는 대로 행동해서도 안 될 것이기 때문이다.

 

속이 꽉 찬 사람일수록 형식에 구애받지 않는 법이다. 융통성 있게 굽히기도 하고, 질줄 아는 배짱도 있어야 한다. 지나치게 남을 의식하는 것만 고쳐도 우리는 지금보다 훨씬 더 행복하게 살 수 있다.

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Have you ever wondered why we Christians do what we do for church every Sunday morning? Why do we “dress up” for church? Why does the pastor preach a sermon each week? Why do we have pews, steeples, and choirs? This ground-breaking book, now in affordable softcover, makes an unsettling proposal: most of what Christians do in present-day churches is rooted, not in the New Testament, but in pagan culture and rituals developed long after the death of the apostles. Coauthors Frank Viola and George Barna support their thesis with compelling historical evidence and extensive footnotes that document the origins of modern Christian church practices. In the process, the authors uncover the problems that emerge when the church functions more like a business organization than the living organism it was created to be. As you reconsider Christ's revolutionary plan for his church―to be the head of a fully functioning body in which all believers play an active role―you'll be challenged to decide whether you can ever do church the same way again.
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This evocative title put Viola's expertise in church history on the grid. Viola teamed up with research heavy-weight George Barna to create a formidable, devastating, prophetically written tour de force on ecclesiology. From the jolting opening to the challenging ending, this is a bittersweet, compelling, and dramatic progression of historical and challenging content. Love it or lump it, you can't read it and remain settled. This book sparked a revolution that set the stage for Viola's other groundbreaking works, establishing him as a voice that couldn't be ignored. Pagan Christianity is a milestone of raw passion and energy.

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Are we really doing church "by the Book"?

Why does the pastor preach a sermon at every service?
 
Why do church services seem so similar week after week?
 
Why does the congregation sit passively in pews?
 
Not sure? This book makes an unsettling proposal: Most of what present-day Christians do in church each Sunday is rooted, not in the New Testament, but in pagan culture and rituals developed long after the death of the apostles. 
 
Authors Frank Viola and George Barna support their thesis with compelling historical evidence and extensive footnotes that document the origins of our modern Christian church practices.

In the process, the authors uncover the problems that emerge when the church functions more like a business organization than the living organism it was created to be.
 
As you reconsider Christ's revolutionary plan for His church―to be the head of a fully functioning body in which all believers play an active role―you'll be challenged to decide whether you can ever do church the same way again.
 
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Barna is currently a professor at Arizona Christian University and Director of Research at the Cultural Research Center based at the university. His focus at ACU is worldview assessment and development, influential faith, and cultural transformation.

George also serves as the Senior Research Fellow for the Center for Biblical Worldview at the Family Research Council, Washington, D.C. He is engaged in conducting research and providing strategic input for FRC in various areas.

Barna has been the founder and leader of The Barna Group (1984-2009), Metaformation (2009 – present), and the American Culture and Faith Institute (2012-2018). Through those entities he has conducted groundbreaking research on worldview, cultural transformation, ministry applications, spiritual development, and politics. In addition to providing research and strategy for several hundred parachurch ministries, thousands of Christian churches, the U.S. military, and numerous non-profit and for-profit organizations, he has conducted polls and provided strategy input for four presidential candidates.

Barna has written or co-authored more than 50 books, mostly addressing cultural and religious trends, leadership, spiritual development, church dynamics, and cultural transformation. They include New York Times bestsellers and several award-winning books. His works have been translated into more than a dozen foreign languages.

His work is frequently cited as an authoritative source by the media and he has been named by various media as one of the nation’s most influential Christian leaders.

Barna is a frequent speaker at ministry conferences around the world, sharing insights from his various research projects. In addition to his current role at Arizona Christian University, he previously taught at several universities and seminaries. Barna was also the teaching pastor of a large, multi-ethnic church; pastor of a house church; an elder in four churches; and has helped to start several churches.

After graduating summa cum laude from Boston College, Barna earned two Master’s degrees from Rutgers University and received a doctorate from Dallas Baptist University.

George and his wife Nancy attended high school, college, and grad school together before marrying in 1978. They have three adopted daughters and three grandchildren, and currently live on the central California coast and in Phoenix, AZ. He enjoys reading novels, performing and listening to music, viewing fine art, rooting for the Yankees, experiencing the ocean, and playing with his grandchildren and dogs.

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The phenomenon of restorationism (a church body asserting its intentions to recreate the New Testament Church) is not a new one to American Evangelicalism. Generally initiated by those who have little or no understanding of the culture, history, and religious practices of those they wish to emulate, the temptation of a do-it-yourself ecclesiology (with the New Testament as their alleged guide) is irresistible for those feeling alienated by existing church practices.

The telltale signature of restorationist movements is to proclaim existing ecclesial structures to be hopelessly out of step with true Christianity. After all, if the Church needs to be restored, then one would assume something had gone terribly wrong else the entire project of restoration would be a colossal waste of time. Unlike reform movements, whose primary motivation is to pressure the existing Church to renew itself from within, the strategy for restorationists is to wipe the slate clean and imagine the Church could be restarted anew. The inevitable result is the affirmation of their own personal beliefs and practices covered by the authority of eisegetic interpretations of Scriptural passages devoid of any context apart from their own.

The latest installment of this characteristically American enterprise is now enshrined in Frank Viola and George Barna's Pagan Christianity?. Seeking to justify their own peculiarly postmodern American manifestation of what they believe to be "New Testament Christianity", they combine their own prejudices with such a staggering display of historical ignorance, that any informed reader is left shaking their heads at their garbled understanding of the Church's past. In their attacks on anything that smells of structure or authority, one can detect a sense of glee as they engage in their ill-informed attempts at iconoclasm.

Of course, the church that "emerges" from their deconstruction is remarkably like the sort of thing that would be hatched in the mind of a postmodern American with a disdain for hierarchy, tradition, and anything that might have been considered to be of enduring value prior to their own personal conversion. Their "analysis" is a mishmash of outdated secondary sources, out-of-context quotations, unsupported hypotheses, and personal prejudices amalgamated into an "any stick will do" style attack on historical Christianity. Even worse, on those occasions where legitimate experts on the field are cited (i.e., Dom Gregory Dix, Paul F. Bradshaw, Alexander Schmeman) their views are taken so out of context as to have them seemingly ally with the authors when in fact their views are quite the opposite.

Like other revisionists on both the left and right of the ecclesial spectrum, there is an overt removal of the New Testament Church from both the context of the Jewish practice that preceded it and the ecclesial practice that followed it. Once the Church is decontextualized, the inferred meanings of the texts of the New Testament are removed and new meanings assigned. In this sense, restorationists are best seen as sharing the deconstructionist methodology common to many postmodern revisionist thinkers.

Viola and Barna begin their argument with an assault on church buildings. Their concern is not any particular problem with architectural style or the lavishness of furnishings but over the very idea of buildings being used for the specialized purpose of Christian gatherings. While the reason given for this aversion to architectural utility is passages in the New Testament that state the early Christians met in each others homes, the hidden reason is likely that one of the authors has been involved for two decades in the "house church" movement and seems to have made an idol out of a situation that grew out of necessity, was not intended as representative of a command, and was not in fact even followed strictly at the time.

The fact is that the Book of Acts clearly state that the early Christians continued to worship in the Temple and the synagogues and largely carried on the established practices of Judaism. It is only where it came to the specifically Christian cultic practices among that they retreated to their homes - the only place available for them to freely express their faith in Christ - but there is no indication that it was ever intended as normative.

They go on in rapid fire succession to rattle off a series of complaints against church buildings with allegations of their history that have little or no historical support. Many things they claim were adopted from paganism were also present in the Biblical faith of the Jews that God commanded. It never occurs to the authors the same church they accuse of importing paganism is the one that was laying down its lives in martyrdom for its refusal to compromise with paganism.

Their claim that there were no special places of worship prior to Constantine also does not stand up to careful scrutiny. Yes, they often met in houses, but these "houses" were often the villas of wealthy members of the Church. It was common for expensive homes in the Roman era to have special rooms set aside for cultic purposes and these served as places of worship for the local Christian community. There were also theological schools in places like Alexandria and Antioch that developed (a point the authors acknowledge) and these likely also had places of worship associated with them. There have been numerous archaeological finds that have discovered pre-Constantinian Christian worship spaces that were obviously set apart for that purpose. The reason for having few specifically constructed church buildings was simply that Christianity was for much of the first few centuries a persecuted religion In times of severe persecution, the Christians often had to meet in total secrecy and places like the Catacombs in Rome and other secluded spots were employed. Once the persecution ended, such restrictions were abandoned. The authors make much of the grandeur of the basilicas built by Constantine, but fail to mention such notable places were pilgrimage sites and hardly the norm. In most of the Roman Empire, local churches would continue to be rather humble affairs.

The authors' biases are again on display as they go as far in their tirades as to claim Jesus had a negative view of the Temple. Forgetting that the construction of both Jewish temples were ordained by God, they completely distort the obvious meaning of the passage - a negative view of the Jewish authorities - and transfer the negative view to the Temple itself. Jesus referred to the Temple as His Father's House - it contained the very presence of God in the Holy of Holies - and, far from downplaying its significance, chased out the moneychangers for defiling it. The passages they do cite give Jesus' accusations against the Jewish leaders. His statements on the destruction of the Temple was not because the Temple was an evil but because they had rejected the very presence of God who stood before them.

The authors continually make the point that Jesus overthrew the existing Jewish structure and replaced it with a non-hierarchal, non-liturgical ekklesia. But the picture painted in the New Testament is entirely different. In Acts, it states the early Christians kept to the teachings of the Apostles, fellowship, the breaking of bread, and the prayers. In the context of the Judaism the early Christians practiced, there is definitely a hierarchy and liturgy implied in these words.

The "teaching of the Apostles" demonstrates that there were those in authority to teach the truths of the faith and authority implies hierarchy. This is bone out as the Apostles are sought out for all major decisions. When controversy erupted over Paul's mission to the Gentiles, the disagreement was brought before the Apostles and elders at Jerusalem who decided the issue in council. In his epistles, Paul makes a point that he too is an apostle and shares the same authority. Paul instructs Timothy to appoint elders in the churches; throughout the New Testament, the Apostles ordain others' ministries by the laying on of hands.

All of this should not be surprising - the early Christians did not live in an egalitarian society. Even before the Church, there is an implied hierarchy in the Gospels - Peter, James, and John form an inner circle among the twelve and every list of the twelve has Peter first and Judas last. Most importantly, there is a hierarchy within the triune God as the three persons relate to each other in hierarchal fashion. Thus, it is natural that Christ's body is also hierarchal and reflects an order.

The passages cited for their position have nothing to do with the structure of the Church. For example, they cite the worldly desires of some of the twelve who attempt political maneuvers and are rebuked - but the rebuke states nothing about the existence of hierarchy but only their worldly desires. It is quite clear that the authors have long ago came to their conclusions and now are "proof-texting" their answers with passages that have no real bearing on the subject.

The liturgical dimension of the early Christians can be seen in the phrases "the prayers" and "the breaking of bread". The prayers refer to the normal liturgical prayers of observant Jews but now given a Christian emphasis. These would develop over time into the Christian prayers of the divine office. The breaking of bread refers to the communion meal and was thought to reveal Christ to the believers (see the allusions to this in the story of the Road to Emmaus in Acts). The breaking of bread at a meal had long been a liturgical act at Jewish meals similar to our own praying grace. The Holy Communion was ordained by Christ as part of a liturgical meal celebrated by a people for whom the consumption of food followed liturgical rules. Considering that all Christian were at that point observant Jews (else the Council of Acts 15 would have been unnecessary), the thought they were somehow non-hierarchal or non-liturgical is merely an anachronistic application of postmodern American ideals on first century Near Eastern people.

Turning to the evolution of modern Protestant worship, Viola and Barna continue their pattern of misguided historical analysis. First, they infer the source of the Protestant worship was the medieval mass promulgated by Gregory the Great. Here they ignore that the Gregorian Mass was an amalgamation of elements from existing Roman and Franco-Germanic liturgies and these followed the basic pattern of liturgy outlined by earlier writers such as Hippolytus and Justin Martyr and going back to the Didache at the turn of the first century. The Didache itself follows a pattern taking elements of Jewish practice that date back to the Second Temple period. This is further verified by the practices within the Byzantine Churches whose liturgy developed separately but still maintained the early structure indicated by the early Christians. Even the Church of the East, stretching from Persia to China, followed a similar pattern in its own unique liturgy despite being essentially cut off from contact with the Roman Church.

The liturgical developments within Protestantism were, not surprisingly, a mixed bag - some good (the reintroduction of preaching to a key role) and some bad (the anti-sacramental nature of much of its worship) just as the developments in the medieval West had also been much of a mixed bag. Unfortunately, many of the liturgical reforms introduced by American Protestantism is far more reflective of American culture than the practice of the early Christians. Viola and Barna's project, like other restorationist attempts, always end up telling us far more about the participants than the early Church.

Yet it is not just the most formal elements of Christian worship that the authors wish to abandon - even so basic and obvious a part of the service as the sermon is found wanting. Here the authors blame it on rhetoricians and philosophers - an assertion so absurd that it would be funny were it not the fact that the naive will take this drivel seriously. Yes, philosophers and rhetoricians often spoke at length about topics - but so did rabbis and those in authority in any endeavor. The Apostles would preach in the synagogues or in public squares where they could communicate the Good News. They also would speak at length in specifically Christian gatherings where they could teach the truths of the faith to the Church. The authors credit Augustine and Chrysostom with making pulpit oratory part of the faith - and they certainly were wonderful preachers - but fail to mention the many great sermons (available in any collection of the ante-Nicene Church Fathers) of those who preceded them. They fail to accept that God can make use of the gifts He has bestowed that are offered to His service in love. Yes, the original twelve were largely a rather unsavory group but God had no problem making use of the obvious gifts of Paul and Luke who were clearly of a far different social strata.

As low as their opinions are of sermons, the authors think even worse of those who give them - particularly the authority attached to them. They ridiculously claim that there were no "official offices" with slots to fill, yet among the first things they did was choose a successor to replace the position of Judas in the twelve and even gave criteria for their nomination. The emergence of the office of bishop was, contrary to their claims, quite natural. As local church's reached points of self-sufficiency, they no longer needed to rely upon the evangelists or the church that had sponsored them. We see first the Church in Jerusalem having such leadership under James the Just and then both Antioch and Smyrna following under Ignatius and Polycarp. As more churches became established, the practice of episcopal leadership spread.

As mentioned earlier, the early Church had all their leadership ordained by the Apostles. We see this most clearly in Acts and in the letters of Paul. The imposition of hands was a long established practice within most cultures of the time in conferring leadership and this certainly was not lost on the early Christians. Unfortunately, this does not tickle the ears of today's trendy egalitarians and they need go to great lengths to try to make square pegs fit in round holes.

After some rather immature tirades against clerical garb and music ministries, the authors then turn their attention to the sacraments of Baptism and the Lord's Supper. Their obvious biases show by claiming the early Church practiced believers' baptism. There is in fact no evidence of this - baptism was a long standing ritual practice in Judaism (John the Baptist did not invent it) and there were no such restrictions. There are passages in the New Testament where converts' entire families were baptized (presumably including small children) and Paul makes a connection between baptism and circumcision. The sacrament was the entry into the New Covenant with Christ and was open to believers and their children.

Since the early Church was growing primarily through conversion, it is natural that most early baptisms would be of adults. But you simply never hear of the children of early Christians baptized after some peculiarly American version of "being saved." They all claim to be Christians from their childhood. The only period where there was hesitation was due to some believing wrongly that there were great obstacles to salvation if they fell from the faith after being baptized and hence delayed it until close to death but this practice would be condemned.

The Lord's Supper/Communion/Eucharist was an outgrowth of Jesus' liturgical act on the night of His betrayal. The authors make much of the separation of the bread and cup from a full meal as menttioned in I Corinthians but fail to mention that Paul condemns them for their practices and replies with instructions that describe only the bread and cup. They consider the possibility that the separation was done to end abuses but then conclude it was incipient paganism. Their evidence for this: nothing. They just assume a twisted reading of the facts that concludes Christians who were willingly dying for Christ couldn't wait to be pagans. It is almost shocking to read the sheer arrogance of these two pseudohistorians who obviously not encountered the writings of the patristic Church firsthand but rely upon the inaccuracies of anti-Christian writers like Will Durant.

The reasons for later developments are quite clear if one uses the original sources and a little common sense. First of all, only the bread and cup are essential. Nothing else is mentioned in any account of the Last Supper. Then there is the implied connection with between the bread and cup and the Passover lamb. They also came to realize the connection in Hebrews as the central ritual of the priestly order of Melchizadek (a type of Christ who offered up a meal of bread and wine). The Church saw this was no mere dinner but that their sacrifice of bread and wine was being united to Christ's sacrifice on the Cross and that he was "revealed in the breaking of bread".

Of course all of this formal understanding and deep thinking about God's Holy Word is a bad idea and the authors proceed to list their complaints against every center of theological training in Church history from the great theological schools in Alexandria and Antioch to the monasteries to the medieval universities to their Protestant counterparts to the seminaries to the little Bible College down the road. Apparently, the Church would have been better off without them even though they preserved the Scriptures and kept alive the remains of Christian culture during times of great social upheaval.

Oddly enough, after giving us chapter upon chapter of some of the most horrid proof-texting ever put to print, the authors then complain about proof-texting! They also at the end introduce the idea that house churches are not always a good idea and some instruction is needed to lead them. But wait - doesn't such assistance imply something like the sort of stuff given in seminaries and doesn't the idea that some people are needed to train others institute a de facto hierarchy? Oh, and in case you are wondering where all this wonderful training is brought down to a practical level and who will be the trainers - you can get it in one of the authors' other books. One immediately is reminded of what Orwell wrote in Animal Farm: "All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others."

It will be interesting to see what the future holds for the house church movement. Now that so much of the patristic Church is assigned to pagan beliefs, I suspect that the formulations of faith hashed out beginning at Nicea will be called into question. One can expect to see the house churches wrestling with the same heresies the patristic Church faced as new leaders decide the early Church actually believed something else entirely. The refashioning of old heresies in new wineskins is yet another characteristic of restorationist movements.

The sort of nonsense we see in Pagan Christianity is nothing new. Hosts of restorationist movements in the past have mounted similar endeavors - each from their own uninformed perspective. While they all had their unique complaints, all had in common the elevation of American ideals to the level of divine command. For them as well as for Viola and Barna, even this error pales in comparison to their belief that their efforts are unique, revolutionary and important. How typically American!
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Clark Wade
5.0 out of 5 stars AN ECCLESIASTICAL BOMB-SHELL!
Reviewed in the United States on February 3, 2008
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There were two events in the Middle Ages that sparked major reform in the church. The first was the nailing of Martin Luther's Ninety-five Thesis (or topics for debate) on the door of Castle Church at Wittenberg in 1517. The second was the publishing of the New Testament in English by William Tyndale in 1525 (for which he was executed as a heretic). In my opinion, "Pagan Christianity" is a "church-quake" of equal magnitude.

The fact that a major publisher like Tyndale would publish this book is astonishing. Most of Frank's earlier works have been published "in the underground" through his own publishing house, "Present Testimony Ministry." As such, he has had a wide following in the house-church movement, but little known outside. That's about to change. In the preface to "Pagan Christianity," Tyndale offers their explanation on why they would publish such a controversial book stating it was out of their "desire to see the church operate according to biblical principles and be a full expression of God's grace and truth." So the church doesn't operate according to biblical principles, and is not a full expression of God's grace and truth?" Shocking! But that's the main point of "Pagan Christianity" and its plea to return to the beginning. The fact that Tyndale supports this endeavor, and is willing to put their reputation on the line, seems to add potent legitimacy to the most controversial book written since Luther and Tyndale raised such a ruckus 600 years ago.

And while Luther paid lip-service extolling the priesthood of all believers, he did very little "practically" to blur the distinctions between the clerical class and the laity. The same church hierarchy that Luther railed against simply changed its suit. The Catholic priest who officiated over all things spiritual morphed into the Protestant pastor*, who did the same. Ouch!

Consider these words from Paul regarding God's purposes for the Church:

And this is the purpose: that through the church the complicated, many-sided wisdom of God in all its infinite variety and innumerable aspects might now be made public to the angelic rulers and authorities in the heavenly sphere. Eph 3:8-10 (Amp)

Please read those words, carefully, again. Perhaps a third time. Now look at the average "church service". As "Pagan Christianity" points out, the order of the protestant ritual is the same, week after week and year after year. The denomination doesn't matter. High church or low church, all follow the same predictable pattern. Here's what Luther gave us 600 years ago, and what we are still following today:

Singing
Prayer
Sermon
Admonition to the people
Lord's Supper
Singing
Post-Communion prayer
Benediction

"Innumerable aspects?" "Infinite variety?" "Many-sided?" This is not the Chuch of Jesus Christ as described in the heart of God. This is "McChurch." The order of service is the same, and tastes the same, always, no matter where it's served up (and we Protestants think we have something over our Catholic brethren and their "rituals"). "Anointed" preaching? Perhaps. "Charismatic" preacher? Probably. But if it's all coming out of a single funnel, this is not classic Christianity. As Paul writes: "But if the whole were all a single organ (mouth), where would the body be?" I Cor. 12:19. If Paul was asking that question then, imagine what he would be asking now. If His body can't be found, could it be because His headship over His Church has been replaced by human agencies and traditions?

An earlier writer, Elton Trueblood, wrote "prophetically" of the church's return to the primal genesis of the early church. He stated that Luther's reformation has some unfinished business. And just as Tyndale gave the scriptures to the common person, a second reformation will be ignited when the church is given back to the people with the abolition of the laity:

"Our opportunity for a big step lies in opening the ministry to the ordinary Christian in much the same manner that our ancestors opened Bible reading to the ordinary Christian. To do this means...the inauguration of a new Reformation while in another it means the logical completion of the earlier Reformation in which the implications of the position taken were neither fully understood nor loyally followed.

"The more we study the early Church the more we realize that it was a society of ministers. About the only similarity between the Church at Corinth and a contemporary congregation...is that both are marked, to a great degree by the presence of sinners. After that the similarity ends, for we think it is normal for one man to do all the preaching, while the others are audience, whereas in Corinth, many did the preaching, "When you come together," reported their most famous visitor, "EACH ONE a hymn, a lesson, a revelation, a tongue, or an interpretation" (I Cor. 14:26). The ministry of original Christianity was one of its most revolutionary aspects. In contrast to all previous models, the new fellowship emerged as a dynamic force without priest or rabbi or medicine man."

One of the reviewers, if I understand him correctly, implies that the church is "progressive" in nature and questions whether or not we need, or should, return to the New Testament pattern. I suppose by "progressive" he infers that it has "evolved" into its current structure of three songs and a sermon with a "professional" class of Christians performing and an "audience" class of spectators. First of all, we need to be asking ourselves if what we are doing now is an improvement over what happened then. If we are to judge by the fruit of our endeavors with that of theirs, we are forced to concede that we have fallen far from something of sublime power and genius.

Secondly, this idea of the Church progressing into something "new and improved" can't be found in scripture. Contrarily, Paul states prophetically that soon after his departure, ravenous wolves would come in and destroy the flock. Acts 20:29 "Pagan Christianity" really is the historical account of this destruction and the church's departure from the Apostolic blueprint. We can scarcely take any credit for remembering what they taught us and adhering to the traditions they passed on to us. I Cor. 1:11.

Thirdly, the letters to the churches reveal a constant theme regarding church meetings, which is the MUTUAL CONTRIBUTION of ALL members under the HEADSHIP OF JESUS CHRIST. No priestly or pastoral caste system can be found or magically extracted from the New Testament accounts. No sermons, no pews, no passive priesthood:

God has arranged the LIMBS and ORGANS in the body, EACH PARTICULAR ONE just as He wished and saw fit and with the best adaptation. But if the whole were all a single organ, where would the body be? I Cor. 12:17-19.

And He has put all things under His feet and has appointed Him the universal and supreme Head of the church, a HEADSHIP EXERCISED THROUGHOUT(each member), which is His body, the fullness of Him Who fills ALL IN ALL--for in that body lives the full measure of Him Who makes everything complete and Who fills EVERYTHING EVERYWHERE WITH HIMSELF. Eph 1:22-23

In Him EACH SEPARATE PIECE of building, properly fitting into its neighbor GROWS TOGETHER into a temple, consecrated to the Lord. YOU ARE ALL part of this building in which God Himself lives by His Spirit. Eph. 2:22

YOU ALL belong to one body, of which there is one Spirit, just as YOU ALL experienced one calling to one hope. There is one...Father of us all, who is the One OVER ALL, the One working THROUGH ALL, and the One living IN ALL. Eph. 4:4

His intention was the perfecting and the full equipping of (all) the saints, that THEY should do the work of ministering toward building up of Christ's body...Eph. 4:12

For because of Him, the WHOLE BODY, the Church in ALL ITS VARIOUS PARTS closely jointed and firmly knit together...when EACH PART is working properly in all its functions, grow to full maturity, building itself up in love. Eph 4:16.

Let the word spoken by Christ have its home in your hearts...as you TEACH AND ADMONISH AND TRAIN ONE ANOTHER in all insight and intelligence and wisdom in spiritual things. Col. 3:16

But to EACH ONE is given the manifestation of the Holy Spirit...for the good and profit OF ALL. I Cor.12:7

Now you collectively are Christ's body and individually you are members of it, EACH PART severally and distinct--EACH with his own place and function. I Cor. 12:27

If the whole church assembles...(and) ALL prophesy--giving inspired testimony and interpreting the divine will and purpose--and an unbeliever or untaught outsider comes in...he will worship God, declaring that God is among you in very truth. I Cor. 14:23

What then is the right course? When you meet together, EACH ONE has a hymn, a teaching, a disclosure of special knowledge or information, an utterance in a strange tongue or its interpretation. But let everything be constructive and edifying and for the good of all. I Cor. 14:26

I want to bring you some spiritual strength, and that means that I will be strengthened by you, EACH OF US helped by THE OTHER'S faith. Roman 1:12

Open your hearts to ONE ANOTHER as Christ opened His heart to you, and God will be glorified. Rom. 15:7

ALL OF US have no veils on our faces, but reflect like mirrors the glory of the Lord. II Cor. 3:18

You should be most careful that there should not be in any of you that wickedness of heart...but help EACH OTHER to stand firm in the faith everyday, while it is still called "today." Heb. 3:14

And let us not hold aloof from our church meetings, as some do, but let us do all we can to help ONE ANOTHER'S faith. Heb. 10:25

These scriptures, and many others, support what Frank and George have written regarding what went wrong, and the institutional scandal that replaced the "one anothers" of the New Testament with a religous, top-heavy heiarchial** structure of "professional" Christians. Dirty laundry? You bet! But it's time to clean up our act! Christ is returning for a church without spot or wrinkle. Could those be "age" spots? Christ is not returning for an "old" church. He is returning for a church that has renewed the glorious dew of her youth. This is a church that has not only renewed her first love for her Lord but for "each other" as well.

Mathew 19:6 states that whatever God brings together, let no man tear apart. In its infancy, the church was wedded to specific Apostolic teaching regarding spiritual and practical ways she was to conduct herself when meeting together. "Pagan Christianity" exposes the chasm that subverted these teachings and seeks to bridge the gap between what was, what can be, and by the grace of Christ, will be again.

Buy and read this book first and then consider:
Normal Christian Church Life, The
Rethinking the Wineskin: The Practice of the New Testament Church
The Company of the Committed
The Incendiary Fellowship
Unfinished Business: Returning the Ministry to the People of God

Note to Tyndale: Thank you for following the sacrifical example of your namesake in publishing this book. You've done a great service to the church and to those who love the truth, no matter the cost. One suggestion: When "Pagan Christianity" comes out in paperback, please make the footnotes bigger? We "older" bespeckled readers would really appreciate that.

*Note to Pastors: I love you guys. And your love for our Lord is unquestionable. But imagine if all of your efforts were multiplied exponentially. Imagine if in a church of, say, 500, there was not a single "super-star" minister, but 500 ministers, each ministering Christ to one another. That is the paradigm of the New Testament. And ready or not, here SHE comes!

**Interestingly, Eph.4:10 states that the gifts of Christ are given to various persons so "that the whole universe from LOWEST TO HIGHEST might know His presence." Here all ideas of "heiarchy" are turned upside down.
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J McMurdo
3.0 out of 5 stars Good points, but the wheels come off in Chapters 4 and 5
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on August 6, 2013
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The three stars are not because it's a dull book! It is required reading for anyone who needs to ask `how should we do church?' Reading the book for me was like being on a rollercoaster. One minute I am shouting a firm AMEN! The next I am shaking my head in disgust because there is some serious bad teaching. Then I am saying, 'Yes... and... so what?'

There are some extremely important facts in this church which need to be disseminated widely. And yet I frequently felt that the authors* spoiled their message by going too far with their conclusions, creating an unfair straw man representing many churches or interpreting the Bible incorrectly. To me, this book is written by a man* with an agenda rather than someone who I can trust to come up with the whole truth.

Do not give this book to an immature Christian. Most of the book is what I would regard as Romans 15 territory. I need to say:
- You are not guilty because you dress smartly to church
- You are free to go to an East-facing church with an altar if that is where you need to be
- Your haven't sinned because you tithe to a church that owns a building and employs a pastor
- Don't look down on your brother because he goes to Bible College and likes listening to sermons.

In the wrong hands, this book can make one person self-righteous, falsely guilty, or it can even cause someone to withdraw from church completely - one family I know did just this because of Frank Viola's teaching. They later regretted this and joined an elder-led church.

Let's start with what I like about it.

I `get it'! A revolution in our church life needs to take place. The old wineskins are strangling what remains of the Christian church. To the extent that (as the authors* put it) this is a `conversation starter', it is a graet book. And it's a conversation we urgently need to have. I totally, totally agree that:

1. We are wasting far too much money on buildings
2. One-man leadership is unscriptural
3. Too many people are in paid ministry
4. Discipleship begins in the home
5. Church leaders need to spend time in the real world and have vocational skills
6. Many of the most revered men in history - `church fathers' - were false teachers, guilty of paganising, Romanising and Philosophising and intellectualising our faith into something very different form the simple faith our earliest brethren had.
7. We have for years been making believers into dumb, passive spectators, consumers of entertainment even, and we have failed to make them into true disciples.

The chapter on education was one chapter in which I profoundly agreed with the authors*. To quote one sentence, 'Plato and Aristotle are the fathers of modern Christian education'. It would be an eye-opener to many within the church to see how deeply immersed our faith is in Greek Philosophy and I believe a strong case is made. There's also a useful section questioning the role of the Sunday School and the Youth Pastor.

Now comes the health warning. There are some issues on which I profoundly disagree with the authors.

I was bracing myself for their attack on the sermon. And yet what they said did not really impress me.

Quote from Page 88:

'...apostolic preaching recorded in Acts possessed the following features:
- It was sporadic
- it was delivered on special occasions in order to deal with specific problems
- it was extemporaneous and without rhetorical structure.'

Wrong, wrong, wrong!

Firstly, we need to distinguish preaching (announcing the gospel to unbelievers) from teaching (primarily directed at Christians). This is a common error - the Greek words translated thus are consistent here. The chapter indicates that the authors* are actually referring to teaching.

In what way is teaching daily in the temple courts and 'filling Jerusalem with their teaching' and concentrating on the ministry of the word (see Acts 2:42,46, 4:2,18, 5:28, 6:2) sporadic and on special occasions? Is this characteristic of Paul, who taught the Ephesians 'the whole counsel of God' (Acts 20:27)?

Are you seriously accusing Paul, who wrote the incredibly tightly argued Romans, Galatians, Ephesians etc. of not having rhetorical structure??? Bear in mind here that these letters were dictated and not written. And look at how he deals with the crowds and the Roman officials in Acts 21-26. Paul was surely one of the most brilliant speakers of his day. And how could Appollos refute the Jews in public debate without the use of rhetorical structure? (See Acts 18:28).

Whilst I agree that teaching in the early church was more interactive than in the modern church (and I would welcome a return to this), it is simply wrong to suppose that teaching was an 'every member' function. It was reserved for 'faithful men' (1Timothy 2:2) who were suitable qualified. To open up teaching to anyone was to give a platform for false teachers, who were to be silenced (2Timothy 2:16-18, Titus 1:9-10, 2:15, 3:10).

Teaching is not a free-for-all.

My other big gripe with the book is the weak teaching on eldership.

Quote from page 123-124:

'Elders... were recognised by virtue of their seniority and spiritual service to the church. According to the New Testament, recognition of certain gifted members is something that is instinctive and organic. Every believer has the discernment to recognize those within his or her church to carry out various ministries.'

No! No! No!!

If that's the case, then why does Paul warn the elders in Ephesus for three years night and day with tears to be on their guard against false teachers (Acts 20:31)? Why does he bother sending Titus to Crete to examine the character of men before they can be appointed as elders?

The reason is this. It is often the pushiest characters, the cleverest schemers, the most plausible talkers who end up getting positions of prominence in the church. And they can easily fool the majority and end up ruining churches. Elders are appointed and recognised publicly. They need to be above reproach and be tested. Non-elders are commanded to respect and honour them. The process of appointing them is neither 'instinctive' nor 'organic' (whatever the latter term means).

Two other points. Paid ministry is perfectly acceptable scripturally (1Cor 9, Gal 6, 1Tim 5, Luke 8 and 10). And short quotes, 'proof texts' are used frequently by Jesus and the apostles throughout the New Testament. Again, the authors* make some good points here, but carry their arguments far too far.

Most of my Christian life has been spent in less formal churches, led by unpaid elders, or leaders of some description. And it hasn't always been pretty. One of the main problems has been the lack of church discipline, poor knowledge of scripture and sloppiness when it comes to who is allowed to teach and lead. On occasion, plausible leaders have ended up falling into serious sin because nobody bothered testing their character as the Bible says we should. The authors seem to advocate the very type of church I would now run a mile from rather than take my family to.

By all means get the book and see what you think. I believe there are far better books that cover similar ground however. I for one would recommend Steve Malz's book  How the Church Lost the Way: And How it Can Find it Again  as well as David Pawson's  Word and Spirit Together: Uniting Charismatics and Evangelicals  and  The Normal Christian Birth . Also look out for his excellent talk on 'De-Greecing the Church' by doing a google search or purchasing the CDs from his website. All of these materials cover the better parts of 'Pagan Christianity' in a more complete and balanced way.

*There are the names of two authors on the front cover. But whenever the author refers to himself, he says `I (Frank)'. I'm left wondering how much of it George Barna actually wrote. A mischievous part of me asks, 'Does Frank take over his `organic church' meetings in the same way?'
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Many say they are angry at this book. Personally i beleive it to be well researched and sincerely written. It probably saved me from a lot of misery because i had doubts to the way things were going on at church and didnt have the knowledge to question it as it was tradition and who was i to question tradition ?

This book is power to the unsuspecting dumbed down sheeple in christianity, and please forgive me for that phrase but i was there before myself. This is how passionate i am about this book. Clergy / laity is not really biblical in a sense that they are the mediator between you and God but many try to fit that position. This is a clergy nightmare book but i believe it should be taught in church instead of wanting to brush it under the carpet as some would have done.

Many pastors will try and tell you this is a bad book, i say its one of thee most relevant books in the modern age for any chrisitan.

This is the longest review ive ever written, i dont usually review, it was worth it.
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1.0 out of 5 stars PAGAN CHRISTIANITY - Throws the baby out with the bathwater
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Having just finished reading this book my response is that although I agree in principle with many of the authors observations and criticisms of institutional religion, I felt strongly that the author failed to give a convincing alternative.. Even the so-called house fellowships make the same mistakes as the more organised churches. This book raises more questions that it does in providing constructive answers and therefore can be easily misunderstood. My view is that just because a modern church practice is not backed up by a specific verse of scripture, doesn't necessarily make it wrong. Equally, those house churches that try and model a biblical pattern of church life often end up falling into the same trap as the churches that they have left. One final point..Why does the author charge us to buy his book..after all, no one sold books in the NT and made a commission on each sale..Therefore modern publishing should be disregarded as unbiblical!
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4.0 out of 5 stars The history of common Christian practices
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Thought provoking analysis of where the church went wrong in history and where many things came from. To understand the full meaning you really need to read some other Frank Viola books.
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3.0 out of 5 stars In my opinion the authors do a great job in stating what the original church format and ...
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In my opinion the authors do a great job in stating what the original church format and practices were. They also do a commendable job doing likewise with the modern mainstream churches, which bear little if any resemblance to the original church. We could argue all day about how we have gone from then until now and the relevancy of each change as some have done, even as far as producing a book in an attempt to counter this one. The fact is there has been a massive departure from the early church set up by Paul and other Apostles, which in my view is not justified spiritually or scripturally. I found that the authors have represented very well my own observations about how the early church practised their faith and how I see modern Christianity in light of this. I am not too taken up with the details of how each departure from the true faith came about, etc., as overall I do not consider this relevant, as any departure for whatever reason is wrong. The Apostle Jude exhorts us to 'earnestly contend for the faith which was ONCE delivered to the saints,' ie, believers, and Paul warned us that if any man or even an angel from heaven brought another gospel than the one he and his fellow apostles brought, they should be accursed. Strong warnings to get back to the very roots of the faith for all else is vain.

So far so good for Viola and Barna. Five stars would have beckoned, but dear o' dear they nose dive after this. They ascribe most of the changes in Christian structure and practices to the influences of paganism, which may largely be true. They even titles their book 'Pagan Christianity,' yet they themselves have clearly come under the embrace of the greatest and most abominable pagan 'belief' in Christianity in promoting in this same tome the false doctrine of the 'triune god!' This is extremely ironic that those who have produced such an in-depth study of pagan structure and practices in Christianity as we know it, have seriously failed to identify the greatest example of paganism in the Christian 'belief' spectrum. i.e. the trinity concept, This is very difficult to grasp and seriously diminishes the value of this book. I have been kind in granting it three stars on account of my earlier observations. The authors describe (rightly) those from Protestant faiths as 'reformed Catholics,' but they are no better than this themselves as evidenced by their keen support for a false, triune god.
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달라이 라마를 알아야겠다고 결심하게 된 것은 물론 그와 데이비드 봄과의 관계 때문이다.
달라이라마는 1979년 영국여행을 하면서 데이비드봄을 처음 만나게 되었는데, 보는 즉시 친밀감을 느꼈다고 한다. 두 분의 우정은 1992년 봄의 죽음에 이르기까지 평생에 걸쳐 지속되었다.
누구나 알다시피 달라이라마는 1959년 스물넷의 나이에 인도 다람살라에 티벳 망명정부를 세운 이후 전 세계 석학들과 교유관계를 가지며 불교와 과학의 대화에 적극 참여했다.
이 책은 그 대화의 산물이라고 볼 수 있다. 어린시절부터 최고의 스승으로부터 훈련받은 티벳의 영적, 종교적 전통의 계승자가 최첨단 현대과학의 성과를 받아들여 자신의 사상체계에 통합시켜나간 기록이다.
달라이라마의 과학에 대한 관심은 단지 개인적 지적호기심 차원만의 것은 아니다. 그는 “내가 망명하기 전에도, 티베트의 정치적 비극의 원인들 중 하나가 현대화에 대해 문을 여는데 실패한 것이라고 우리는 알고 있었다.”고 말했다.

이 책을 통해 나는 현대과학과 불교철학이 궤를 같이 함을 새롭게 인식하게 됐다. 특히 불교철학중 ‘공(空)’사상에 대한 기존의 편벽된 이해를 딛고 신선한 관념을 얻을 수 있게 되었다.

하이젠베르크의 불확정성원리에서부터 비롯된 ‘관찰자의 역할’이라는 주제는 양자역학의 기본문제들 중 하나이다. 전자의 운동량과 위치를 동시에 정확하게 파악할 수 없다는 이 원리는 관찰자가 전자의 운동량 알기를 선택하느냐, 위치 알기를 선택하느냐에 따라 측정값이 달라진다고 해석된다(물론 반론도 있다). 즉, 관찰자가 관찰되는 실재성의 참여자 위상을 갖게 된다. 이는 ‘이중슬릿실험’ 등 물리학계의 단골메뉴로 재론되는 주제이기도 하다.

그런데 달라이라마는 마음과 물질의 관계에서 이 ‘관찰자의 역할’이라는 주제가 불교사상에서 오랫동안 논의되어 왔다고 한다.
불교철학에는 대립되는 양극단이 있는데, 그 한 극단은 불교실재론자들의 자리다. 그들은 물질적 세계가 나눠지지 않는 입자들로 이루어졌으며, 객관적 실재성이 관찰자의 마음과 무관하다고 주장한다. 그 반대 극단에는 속칭 유심론자들이 있는데 바깥세계의 어떠한 객관적 실재성도 거부하면서 이를 관찰자 마음의 외연으로 여긴다.(나는 사실 이 유심론이 불교의 전부인 줄로만 알았다. 일체유심조라는 말을 어렸을 때부터 들어왔으니까.)

여기서 달라이라마는 티벳전통에서 가장 높은 존중을 받고 있는 견해를 소개하는데, 이에 따르면 바깥세계의 실재성이 부인되지는 않지만, 상대적인 것으로 이해된다. 물질은 실재하지만, 관찰자와 상관없이 객관적으로 감지될 수 있다는 독립적인 실재성이란 개념은 용납될 수 없다(혹은 용수의 이제설에 따라 속제의 실재론과 진제의 비실재론으로 나누어 파악한다).
즉 실재성을 인정하되 실재성의 근본적 의존성(연기설)이 세상과 인간존재의 근저에 있다는 것이다. 그리고 여기서 공(空)사상이 등장한다. “물질과 사건은 불변적인 본질이나 내재적 실재성이나 고립을 뜻하는 절대적 존재를 갖고 있지 않다는 점에서 ‘공(空)”이다.

달라이라마에 있어 ‘공(空)사상’은 빅뱅우주론과 연결되어서도 재해석된다.

빅뱅이 전체 우주의 기원인가, 아니면 우리 특정 우주계의 시작을 지칭하는 것이냐는 현대 우주론과 불교의 공통문제인데, 철학원리상 하나의 한정된 시작, 절대적 시작이 있다면 논리적으로 두가지 선택이 남아있다.
하나는 유신론(有神論)인데, 우주는 완전히 초월적이어서 원인과 결과의 법칙을 벗어난 지성적존재에 의해 창조되었다고 제안하는 것이다. 또 하나는 우주가 전혀 아무런 원인 없이 존재하게 되었다는 것이다.
불교전통(아비달마 우주론이 아닌 칼라차크라 우주론)은 이 두 선택을 거부하고 우주의 영원한 순환을 이야기한다.
이 순환우주론을 따르면 세상은 다섯 원소로 이루어져있다. 공간을 받치는 요소 및 네가지 기본요소들인 地水火風이 그것이다.

이 때 우주는 성주괴공(이루어질成, 머무를住, 무너질 壞, 비어있을 空)의 단계를 거치며 진화하는데, 이를 떠받치는 공간은 아무것도 없는 상태가 아니라 아주 섬세한 공간입자, 공(空)입자를 위한 매질로 되어있다고 한다.
이 공간요소인 공(空)입자가 우주의 사대원소(흙, 물, 불, 바람)의 진화와 붕괴의 바탕이며, 그로부터 네가지 원소들이 창조되고 다시 그 속에 흡수된다.

순환의 한 단계인 이 물질이 비어있는 공(空)의 기간에도 공(空)입자들이 존속하고, 이 입자들로부터 새 우주 속 모든 물질이 만들어진다. 형성이전의 어느 특정 우주라도 그 속 모든 물질 원소들이 공(空)입자라는 잠재성의 형태로 실재한다.
 
특정우주 속에서 진화하기에 알맞은 유정들의 업보적 특징이 무르익었을 때, 공(空)입자들은 서로 모이기 시작해서 물질로 현현하는데, 우주적 바람(風)을 시작으로 에너지(火) 그 다음에 흐르는 것(水), 단단한 것(地) 순서를 따른다는 것이다.

나는 모른다.

이 두개의 공(空)이 구체적으로 어떠한 연결성을 가지고 있는지. 다만 실재의 궁극적 차원을 해명하는 논리로서 공(空)이 우주론과 존재론의 바탕에 있다는 것을 감지할 따름이다.
또한 이 공(空)이라는 것이 우주공간의 대부분을 차지하고 있다는 ‘암흑물질론’, 물질계가 양자적 진동에서 태어났다는 소위 ‘양자수프론’, 옛 신비가들이 말하는 존재의 거푸집이라는 ‘에테르론’과 뭐가 다르고 겹치는지 알 수 없다.

다만 데이비드 봄이 다큐멘터리 <Infinite Potential>에서 말한 바를 떠올릴 뿐이다.
“밤하늘의 별들을 바라볼 때 우리는 보통 우리가 보는 대상은 저 별들이고 우주공간은 그 배경이라고 생각하지만, 밤하늘을 또 다르게도 볼 수 있습니다. 우주공간을 ‘충만한’ 공간으로 보고, 공간사이의 별들, 즉 물질은 광대한 바다의 작은 거품으로 보는 겁니다.”

아마도 데이비드 봄과 달라이라마는 함께 밤하늘을 바라보았을 것이다. 같은 인간의 무한한 호기심을 가지고 우주의 신비를 바라보며 이심전심으로 고개를 끄덕였을 거다.
달라이라마는 불교적진리성을 내세우는 법이 없다. 단지 양자이론과 신경생리학 등 현대과학의 성과가 불교전통적 사유와 어떻게 접목되는지 그 경계선상에 일어나는 문제의식과 접점에 접근하여 조심스럽게 드러낼 뿐이다.

달라이라마는 나의 지적 영적 질문에 대해 다 답해주지는 않지만 나의 모든 질문을 다 수용하여 펼쳐놓고 자신의 역량을 다해 응답해준다.
그러므로 이 책은 해답지가 아닌 문제집으로 보인다. 하지만 이런 질문을 가슴에 품을 수 있다는 것만으로도 좋은 것이다.







Spiritual in My Own Way: One Man's Gritty Search for Meaning and Peace of Mind: Bergmann, Rev. Gudjon: 9780997301267: Amazon.com: Books

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In this honest, vulnerable, and philosophically challenging memoir, Icelandic-American author Gudjon Bergmann describes the ups and downs of his spiritual quest, how he navigated his way through a rebellious youth, the pitfalls of cultural Christianity, the many faces of New-Age spirituality, sobriety, and an obsession with yoga, until, finally, a multi-faceted integral approach led him to revive his respect for the faith traditions and become an interfaith minister. 

Bergmann’s tale equally highlights the epiphanies and stumbling blocks he experienced along the way and he never shies away from the shadow aspects of his spiritual search. This book is dedicated to spiritual seekers everywhere, many of whom have found their aspirations, experiences, and philosophical musings reflected in Bergmann's modern quest.

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In his works, Icelandic-American author Gudjon Bergmann combines his passion for spirituality and religion with his deep interest in human psychology and two decades of experience as a workshop facilitator, personal coach, mindfulness teacher, and professional speaker. He has written two novels and several nonfiction books about self-development, yoga, meditation, smoking cessation, stress management, interfaith, spirituality, writing, and more. Born in Iceland in 1972, Bergmann moved to the USA in 2010 and became a U.S. citizen in 2013. He is married with two children and lives just south of weird in Texas. Today, he owns and operates Be Here Get There Coaching.

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Self-Care to World-Care: Three Examples | Gudjon Bergmann

Self-Care to World-Care: Three Examples | Gudjon Bergmann


Self-Care to World-Care: Three Examples
JANUARY 2, 2023 BY GUDJON BERGMANN

To influence the world around us, even in minor ways, the real work begins inside and emanates outwards. We don’t need to be perfect to do good deeds in the world, but we must be sincere in our efforts. 

If we are in a continual state of discord (i.e., outraged, negative, demanding, judgmental, spiteful, etc.) while we try to promote bridge-building and common ground, we are bound to fail.

To paraphrase Emerson, 

‘how people act speaks so loudly that we can’t hear what they are saying.’

 For best results, peaceful efforts should come from within, and an alignment of thought, word, and deed is preferable.

From Self-Care to World-Care

Carol Gilligan’s model for moral development shows that human beings generally move from being selfish to being able to care for others in their near environment to, in rare cases, showing genuine care for people they don’t know (here, care is defined as an action, not merely a nice thought).

When we compare her model to others in the same vein—including Piaget, Loevinger, Erikson, Steiner, Beck, Graves, Kohlberg, Peck, Fowler, Wilber, and others—moral growth corresponds with people’s ability to see the world from an ever-increasing number of perspectives and act accordingly; a classification that rhymes with compassion, defined as the sympathetic consciousness of other’s distress together with a desire to alleviate it.

Simply put, moral growth leads to increased compassion and care.

Let’s briefly look at the progression from selfish to care to world-care.

Stage One = Selfish

At stage one, a selfish person can only see the world from his or her point of view. The healthy version of selfishness produces self-care and win-win situations. In contrast, the unhealthy version produces battles and win-lose scenarios, where selfish desires are achieved at other people’s expense. Society has several names for the latter, including narcissism, vanity, egotism, and self-absorption.

Stage Two = Care

At the second stage, care, individuals become generous towards those within their circle of care, including spouses, family, friends, and near-community. A person who has begun caring for another is willing to sacrifice time, energy, and money unselfishly so that another may grow and flourish (M. Scott Peck’s definition of love). The ability to care for others epitomizes the underpinnings of civilized society. Without a tapestry of caring, civilization would collapse into a chaotic every-man-for-himself battlefield.

Stage Three = World-Care

The third stage of development, world-care, is relatively uncommon. It depends on people’s ability to show care (take action) for others they do not know. World-care can start with minor things, such as a genuine willingness to pay taxes for the greater good or reducing personal consumption to curb carbon emissions. However, as empathy grows, people at the stage of world-care will genuinely attempt to care for everyone, often at their own expense.

Expanding the Circle of Care

If individuals want to increase their aptitude for care and compassion, they need to establish self-care and expand their abilities. The most common metaphors are: learn how to swim before you attempt to rescue a drowning person, when pressure falls in an airplane cabin, put the oxygen mask on yourself first and then on your child, you have to earn money before you can give money, and demonstrate love for those who are near you before you attempt to love the entire world.

The underlying principle is always the same. Caring is an ability. How can you care for others if you cannot care for yourself? Expanding the circle of care looks something like this:

Each successive circle denotes an increased ability to care for more and more people. Let’s look at three examples of this behavior: Gandhi, Mother Teresa, and Nelson Mandela.

Gandhi: India’s Great Soul

Mohandas Mahatma Gandhi (1869-1948) was a towering historical figure. He lived his philosophy of nonviolent resistance (satyagraha) to the best of his ability. His approach, which grew into a full-fledged ideology with many specific tenets, was primarily based on acts of self-control, developing peace from within, and standing firm when it came to righteous convictions, never at the expense of others but always at one’s own expense. He preached that satyagrahis should never hate the doer, only resist the action and that no human being was beyond redemption, repeatedly stating that:

“It is easy enough to be friendly to one’s friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion. The other is mere business.”

Gandhi was not beyond reproach as a lawyer, activist, spiritual figure, and politician. Still, looking at his life, one can hardly doubt the sincerity of his convictions nor argue against their effectiveness.

Preparation for South Africa

His road from self-care to world-care began with a spiritual upbringing in India and a legal education in England, both of which became central to his later work. Pride was the seed that flowered into a lifetime of activism. After buying a first-class train ticket via mail, Gandhi was thrown out of his prepaid cabin and off the train merely for being an Indian. That incident so insulted his dignity that he went to work for the civil rights of the Indian community in South Africa. It was there, with inspiration from Thoreau, among others, that he developed his philosophy of nonviolent civil disobedience.

Expanding the Circle

After success in South Africa, Gandhi returned to India and expanded his circle of care to include the Indian people, who quickly bestowed on him the honorary title Mahatma, which means Great (Maha) Soul (Atman). He spent most of his adult life working towards Indian independence at a tremendous personal expense. Sacrifice was really at the heart of his philosophy; the will to suffer until the suffering became unbearable in the eyes of the oppressors.

Peace in the World

Partly thanks to his efforts, India finally gained independence in 1947, one year before his assassination. In the final year of his life, Gandhi felt a deep need to expand his circle of care to include all of the world’s inhabitants and was increasingly worried about world peace, but since his life was cut short, we will never know what kind of work he would have engaged in.

Exceptional and Flawed

Today, Gandhi is a revered historical figure, sometimes to the point of deification (especially in India), but he was simultaneously an exceptional servant of humanity and a flawed human being. He readily admitted to some of those flaws in his autobiography, while other shortcomings have been exposed in the light of modern values.

Spiritual Foundation

What we can surmise from Gandhi’s story is this. Without a modicum of self-care—including a spiritual upbringing and high-quality education—he would not have been prepared to fill his role of service and would likely have failed. Personal pride may have been the instigator of his activism, but he grew into the role and became more selfless every year. His vocation required tremendous sacrifices, especially concerning his family, as Gandhi spent much of his adult life in and out of prison. His expansion was realized step-by-step by living an intentional life focused on service.

Mother Teresa: Nun, Teacher, Mother, Saint

Mother Teresa (1910-1997), born Anjezë Gonxhe Bojaxhiu in Albania, left her home in Albania in 1928 to join the Sisters of Loreto in Ireland and become a missionary. That led her to India in 1929, where she taught at St. Teresa’s School until she experienced “the call within the call” in 1946 when she had been helping the poor while living among them during a retreat. The work for which she is known worldwide began in 1948, and was formally granted permission from the Vatican in 1950 when she founded the Missionaries of Charity. She, along with the sisters in her order, took vows of chastity, poverty, obedience, and wholehearted free service to the poorest of the poor.

Working With the Poor

The first several years of her work were enormously difficult. She had to beg for food and supplies while experiencing loneliness and a yearning for the comforts of convent life. She wrote in her diary:

“The poverty of the poor must be so hard for them. While looking for a home I walked and walked till my arms and legs ached. I thought how much they must ache in body and soul, looking for a home, food and health. Then, the comfort of Loreto [her former congregation] came to tempt me. “You have only to say the word and all that will be yours again,” the Tempter kept on saying … Of free choice, my God, and out of love for you, I desire to remain and do whatever be your Holy will in my regard. I did not let a single tear come.”

Deserve to Die Like Angels

Thanks to her steadfast devotion, the work continued. She founded hospices where people received medical attention and were allowed to die with dignity per their faith. Muslims were read the Quran, Hindus received water from the Ganges, and Catholics received final anointing, all in accordance with Teresa’s belief that no matter their status in life, people deserved to die like angels—loved and wanted.

Expanding Her Reach

By the 1960s, she had opened orphanages, hospices, and leper houses throughout India. In 1965, she expanded her congregation abroad and opened a house in Venezuela with five sisters. Her reach increased with every passing year, and in 2012 her order had over 4500 sisters active in 133 countries and was managing homes for people dying of HIV/AIDS, leprosy, and tuberculosis and operating soup kitchens, dispensaries, mobile clinics, family counseling programs, orphanages, and schools.

As her circle of care grew, Teresa proclaimed:

“By blood, I am Albanian. By citizenship, an Indian. By faith, I am a Catholic nun. As to my calling, I belong to the world.”

Mother Teresa drew praise for her work and an array of criticism—much of which was aimed at her rigid belief structure. She was canonized in 2016. Today she is known within the Catholic Church as Saint Teresa of Calcutta.

Nelson Mandela: The Prisoner Who Kept an Open Heart

Nelson Mandela (1918-2013) was a complicated man. He trained as a lawyer and openly opposed apartheid (a system of segregation in South Africa that privileged whites). In his early years, Mandela was attracted to Marxism and wanted to engage in nonviolent protests, but he crossed the line into sabotage against the government in 1961 out of frustration. That was one of the factors used against him when he was sentenced to life in prison for conspiring to overthrow the government. Nevertheless, his commitment to democracy was evident, even at his trial, where he said:

“I have fought against white domination, and I have fought against black domination. I have cherished the ideal of a democratic and free society in which all persons will live together in harmony and with equal opportunities. It is an ideal which I hope to live for and to see realized. But if it need be, it is an ideal for which I am prepared to die.”

Decades in Prison

Mandela spent the next twenty-seven years in prison. He wrote his autobiography in secret during that time and garnered support from people all around the world. Outside pressure mounted until he was finally released in 1990.

Refused to Be Consumed

The most remarkable thing about Mandela’s story is that he was not consumed with anger, hate, or a need for vengeance after he was set free. Instead, he worked with his oppressors to end apartheid, ran for president of South Africa, and led an unparalleled racial reconciliation process.

Forgiveness is truly the most miraculous aspect of being human. That was certainly the case for Mandela. Seeking revenge would have been most understandable after everything he went through, but he chose to be a unifier instead. He kept his heart open despite a lifetime of adversity. That won him the Nobel Peace Prize in 1993.

Global Efforts

After his term as president, Mandela kept on combating poverty and HIV/AIDS through his charitable Nelson Mandela Foundation and worked tirelessly to bring about peace. In a 2002 Newsweek interview, he confessed:

“I really wanted to retire and rest and spend more time with my children, my grandchildren and of course with my wife. But the problems are such that for anybody with a conscience who can use whatever influence he may have to try to bring about peace, it’s difficult to say no.”

 

Remarkable Role Models

As I have made clear in my writings, I do not believe in perfection. That is why I never put people on pedestals and worship them. Yet, I do see people as role models. I see behaviors that can be replicated.

That is what Gandhi, Mother Teresa, and Mandela are to me. Role models. They weren’t flawless, yet they stepped into the public square—where everyone gets criticized, no matter who they are and what they do—and devoted their lives to caring for others in the best ways they knew how. They showed an ability to stay centered during times of tremendous pressure and overcame periods of grief, doubt, and despair with a devotion to causes larger than themselves. Selfish needs were supplanted by selflessness. When they could have stopped, when they could have retired and thought only of themselves, all four continued to work for the benefit of people they did not know because it was the right thing to do.

When I have challenging days of my own, I often think of them, and that helps me get back on track. I try to emulate their admirable actions and forgive them for their limitations.

* This article was curated from Co-Human Harmony: Using Our Shared Humanity to Bridge Divid


Gudjon Bergmann
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