Introduction: What This Book Can and Can't Do for you -- Preparation For Love: Walking a Path of Truth and Loving Kindness -- If the Buddha Dated--or Anyone on a Spiritual Path -- Ground Yourself with Spiritual Wisdom -- What Is This Longing for an Intimate Relationship? -- Stay Loyal to Your Journey -- Notice the Stories You Tell Yourself -- Accept the Dance of Oneness and Separateness -- Be Willing to Cook in the Spiritual Fire -- Be Guided by Spirit, Not Ego -- Spiritual Equality: One Set of Rules for Men and Women -- Practice Loving Kindness to Yourself and Others -- Awaken Your Desire: Who Are You? What do You Want? -- Call Out to the Universe -- Seek a True Equal -- Explore the Ways You Bond -- Fused or Free?: Understanding the Path to Intimacy -- Define What You Want -- Define What You Have to Give -- When to Trust the Power of Attraction -- Free Your Heart-Make Peace with your Parents -- Resolve "Unfinished Business" with Family, Friends, and Past Lovers or Spouses --...