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The Wisdom of Yoga: A Seeker's Guide to Extraordinary Living by Stephen Cope | Goodreads

The Wisdom of Yoga: A Seeker's Guide to Extraordinary Living by Stephen Cope | Goodreads







The Wisdom of Yoga: A Seeker's Guide to Extraordinary Living

Stephen Cope
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For modern spiritual seekers and yoga students alike, here is an irreverent yet profound guide to the most sophisticated teachings of the yoga wisdom tradition–now brought to contemporary life by a celebrated author, psychotherapist, and leading American yoga instructor.

While many Westerners still think of yoga as an invigorating series of postures and breathing exercises, these physical practices are only part of a vast and ancient spiritual science. For more than three millennia, yoga sages systematically explored the essential questions of our human existence: 
  • What are the root causes of suffering, and how can we achieve freedom and happiness? 
  • What would it be like to function at the maximum potential of our minds, bodies, and spirits? 
  • What is an optimal human life?

Nowhere have their discoveries been more brilliantly distilled than in a short–but famously difficult–treatise called the Yogasutra. This revered text lays out the entire path of inner development in remarkable detail–ranging from practices that build character and mental power to the highest reaches of spiritual realization.

Now Stephen Cope unlocks the teachings of the Yogasutra by showing them at work in the lives of a group of friends and fellow yoga students who are confronting the full modern catastrophe of careers, relationships, and dysfunctional family dynamics. Interweaving their daily dilemmas with insights from modern psychology, neuroscience, religion, and philosophy, he shows the astonishing relevance and practicality of this timeless psychology of awakening.

Leavened with wit and passion, The Wisdom of Yoga is a superb companion and guide for anyone seeking enhanced creativity, better relationships, and a more ethical and graceful way of living in the world.
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First published January 1, 2006


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Stephen Cope is the director of the Kripalu Institute for Extraordinary Living, the largest yoga research institute in the Western world—with a team of scientists affiliated with major medical schools on the East coast, primarily Harvard Medical School. He has been for many years the senior scholar in residence at Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health in Lenox, Massachusetts, and is the author of four best-selling books.

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September 26, 2011
This is the 1st book i've read about yoga and its deeper purpose. As an atheist, I am intrinsically weary of self-help and spiritual books but I am also deeply in love with yoga so I thought I'd give this book a go since I've heard great things about it. There was a lot of amazing insight in it for me, and I really like how he talks about the fact that scientists have studied what happens in our brains when we meditate and practice yogic physical and mental movements. That part of it speaks to me. Though I've done yoga on and off for probably 15 years, it never really did much for me until I needed it and in the last 2 years it really changed the way I think and live. Cope talks a lot about some of the initial changes that occur when you start practicing yoga and I can relate. I didn't connect with the latter half of the book because the whole idea of living in a yoga retreat for months on end just screams of a certain type of privilege that again, I am just intrinsically weary of. How does that apply to real peoples' lives when the insights in the book from its characters come from months (and sometimes years) of living in a cabin out in the woods? Who can really do that? Maybe some day in the future I will relate with those sections of the book as well but now, not so much.

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Stephen Cope is a psychotherapist and a longtime Kripalu Yoga teacher. In this book he integrates the Buddha’s insight of suffering into the daily lives of a series of friends who are fellow yoga practitioners. He provides a thorough teaching on the overlap of Patanjali’s yoga sutras with Theravada Buddhism, while respecting both traditions. The book provides a feel for how you might start to incorporate mindfulness in your own daily life.
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January 27, 2010
There was a lot of meat on this bone. I have been practicing yoga for about eight months, and as I become more familiar with the physical aspects of yoga, I find myself more interested in the mental side as well. So there is a pull factor involved in exploring the wisdom of yoga. There is also a push factor, in that I am increasingly uneasy about my relationship with my church. There have been a lot of changes within the Catholic Church - new pope, new archbishop, new pastor - none of which resonate with me, so my needs for community are changing.

Pope's book fits into this niche very well. There is almost nothing on the physical aspects of yoga here. There is more about meditation, which I found very useful. The device Pope uses to reveal the wisdom of yoga is a group of yogis that he was a part of during a two year period. This group came together at Kripalu Yoga Center, where Cope has a position.

These people are a composite of people that Cope has met through Kripalu. This method is useful, but sometimes annoying. They are very different, and I found myself becoming very interested in the people and how yoga has helped their growth. In many ways they are archetypes, the Beautiful Woman, the Wizened Old Lady, the Accomplished Guru, the Powerful Lawyer, the Fat Lady and of course, the Conflicted Scholar (the author). Two things are annoying about this convention, first that I found myself caring about them. They are fictional characters, for goodness sake. The other is the detail that Cope burdens us with. I don't think it is necessary for me to know what type of tea they were drinking as they had a particular conversation.

But the device works. Cope explains a lot about the yoga sutras within this context, applying his knowledge and experience with these people to their specific problems, many of which I identify with. For instance, craving and aversion. Most of us are drawn to certain things, food, comfort, sex, money, excitement. We also have aversion to other things, conflict, physical work, cold, etc. Cope tells us how these people have used the guidance of the yoga sutras to resolve their problems.

This book has given me a further push down the yoga path. It contains a lot of solid information and inspiration.

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February 14, 2016
I felt this book made a lot of wisdom clear and accessible. Unfortunately, the author quotes Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh/Osho a couple times toward the end and that put a damper on things for me. No matter how insightful BSR/Osho's pull quotes seem, he was a deeply corrupt person who deeply corrupted his followers and did great harm. His ideas and words do not deserve the esteem they are given.

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January 6, 2013
Fantastic book. Patanjali's Yoga Sutras can be very hard to read as they are written in short and sometimes cryptic messages of wisdom. However, this book will take you through the lives of people and their struggles and apply the sutras (and more) to their life trials and tribulations. It's a great read for anyone whether you're in to practicing yoga or not.

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November 14, 2019
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For some reason, as of lately, I have been struggling with reading spiritually awakening books, yoga books, self-help books, etc. It might have to be because of the low scoring on the last two reads. Who knows. What I do know is that something happened when I read this book. All the other books were factual and gave me clarity on yoga, meditation, and finding your own path. The Wisdom of Yoga, however, touched a part of me and opened it up.

I had been struggling in my yoga practice, as well as the grind of daily life. My control was slipping and I decided to finally bite the bullet and pick this book up...hoping that it could give me an enlightenment that I have not already read.

My heart connected to each of the stories that Cope presents of his friends. You have Susan the compulsive eater, Kate the self-centered, Jacob the overly aggressive romantic, Maggie the story-teller, and Rudi the enlightened. In each of Cope's interactions with his friends, I found myself opening up piece by piece. I found a connection with Susan and her disordered eating due to my own years of anorexia. I found myself entering Jacob's body when it came to the lack of love, and believing I will never find anyone. Each of their struggles became my own and each of their enlightenment's brought clarity to my own situation.

I can't explain this feeling that washed over me once I finished the book, but for the first time in months I was....calm. I haven't been calm or clear-headed in quite a few months and I could finally breathe. It was like the teachings that each of these individuals had including Stephen Cope resonated inside myself. To some this might be hocus-pocus, but to someone like me who has been trying to find a book to finally make some ground with my own practice and healing. This book is truly a blessing.

I did find a few things that I did not like. All the science and backstory given about yoga. He would switch between stories and the yoga science that connected to those stories. Or connect to other spiritual yogi's that have gone down the same path. While I did like some of the insight given, once again you got that taste of medical writing from a doctor and it, at times, would throw the entire experience and story off. While I did find that some of the insights were pertinent to what Cope is teaching us. I could have done without some of the beginner yoga explanations. Especially since this book is more advanced than a beginner's guide, actually this is not a guide at all.

While I can't explain my own experience with the book, I do recommend that others pick up the book to finally find clarity in their own lives and their own paths that they take. This book has done wonders at opening up something inside me that I didn't even know existed. A calm state. Which most of us can agree that we feel very little of these days.

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March 25, 2011
I read this book for my Yoga Book Club here in Portland. As a yoga teacher, I really enjoyed how author Stephen Cope wove the Yoga Sutras throughout the book, making them less esoteric and more accessible than I've experienced in the past. He touches on psychology, neurology, and Buddhist philosophy as well as dozens of years of yoga scholarship to describe the yogic path to wisdom.

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August 14, 2022
Not bad for a bunch of privileged folks finding enlightenment.

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December 14, 2022
Another step further down the exploration of the yogic wisdom. On the one hand one wanted to know what will happen to the characters encountered serving as „real life“ examples on the other that is an exercise in the witnessing practice. On the other hand it was a valiant effort in bringing the Yoga Sūtras to a mainstream mind challenging the neurones to come to grips with the what is what and the when is when of the manyfolded path.

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At first, I was intimidated by this book. I almost took it right back to the library to find a fluffy little novel that I could rip through. However, I felt drawn to finish it and knew I could learn something from its pages. After reading it, I am grateful I chose to stick it out. It is a book that you will be thinking about weeks after you’ve put the jacket back on, and you may even find yourself returning to it in the future.

Cope’s stories of his friends at the yoga center help keep the book accessible to those with very little knowledge of ancient Yoga like myself. While each character has a distinct set of issues that they have to work through, they find commonality in their quest to finding peace within themselves. Even the more technical side of the book was very interesting to me. While I know I won’t be enlightened anytime soon, the teachings of traditional Yoga can be applicable to anyone. Patanjali teaches that “the causes of suffering are not seeing things as they are.” For example, if you fixate on that which you don’t possess, i.e. a new car, a dream job, a plot of land, or worldly travels, you will be unhappy. However, if you can recognize the gifts in your life and simply be grateful, you will find happiness that you didn’t know you possessed. I think this is a very simple lesson that everyone can use.

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April 28, 2012
This book helps explain the yoga-sutra to a layperson such as myself. By using personal stories of people he's known the author shows how the concepts or sutras are manifested and/or can be put into practice. Part Five of the book (the last part) was the only part I found too existentialist, but perhaps I'm just not ready for that yet. I liked how he provided a comparative of raja-yoga and Buddhism- having read some works of lama surya das i was thinking I was seeing similarities...but wasn't sure. The author also provides a translation of the complete yoga-sutra for reference.

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January 14, 2013
Beautiful work!!! Cope has brought Patanjali's yoga sutras to life for me more than anything else i have read to date! Although he occasionally lost my interest with his foray into theoretical psychology, by framing the book around personal experience he has created a very modern day identification and the opportunity for personal application of this ancient wisdom.

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March 2, 2017
Okay so i only give 5 stars if the books changed my life.THIS BOOK CHANGED MY LIFE! 1. I have been mistaken my entire life on the most fundamental factors of being human. 2. I am now convinced Jesus was a Yogi. 3. Erratidating Duhka from my life will be but a byproduct of the life upon which i am embracing as of today. 4. WOW!

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July 1, 2017
This is the first yoga book that I have read and found it very interesting and inspirational. I want to read Stephen's other book next....love the practice of yoga and want to continue reading more about the philosophy and practical applications.

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Love this book so much! 10 outta 5!
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November 18, 2016
I like the combining aspects of Western Psychology with the inner mind working of yoga practice and meditation. Very inspiring to deepening my own practice.

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March 13, 2021
Stephen Cope is a psychotherapist and a Yoga teacher at the Kripalu centre. In this book, Stephen takes the reader through Patanjali's Yoga Sutras, integrating them with western psychology and aspects of Buddhism. Stephen keeps it real by weaving the Yoga Sutras into the lives of real people. How the practice of Yoga helps and can be used as a tool for transformation and finding the peace within, is what this book talks about. It is an interesting read and takes one into a mode of reflection by looking into oneself and asking some fundamental questions. The story of each yogi mentioned in the book is very relatable and also gives one the hope that we all can reach the state they reached if we practice what they practiced. Highly recommended for psychotherapists and yogis alike.

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July 15, 2021
Preface: have only read about 60% of the book

An enjoyable read as it is written more as an autobiography than a guide, but Unless you are unfamiliar with some of the basic concepts of Vedic philosophy or you don't quite understand them and you think reading about them in real-life situations would help, then this is more of an autobiography with a philosophical bent than it is a guide to moksha.
I do however think it would be a great introduction to some of the concepts of Vedic philosophy and the importance of some of its teachings to our lives for those that have not explored it deeply on their own and could lead to some profound realisations for some as to their perspectives on their lives and belief systems.

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April 13, 2018
This is an excellent book and enjoyable to read. It goes deep into meditation and provides some insight into what the possible actually is. It takes time for most of us to realize that “self” is a great deal more than what we see in the mirror. In a world full of meds to relieve depression and anxiety,any would be well served to take charge of their own healing and one does that by trying to figure out what’s going on in our head. I love speculating that many of the people that bought this book after attending a few yoga sessions at their local community center expecting tips on and a discussion on what goes on when they are on the yoga mat and discover this book is about so much more.

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March 14, 2022
This was a little woo woo for my taste, and I am
skeptical of the Western privileged perspectives. Most of the characters in this book are unrelatably successful, which is off-putting and adds a tension of expectation on the “less successful” listener, which I won’t further analyze here.

Nonetheless, I found some useful methods for thinking through anxiety, and I’m glad to have read this. What I keep reading in Chatter, Body Keeps the Score, Come As You Are, and this book is: try to take an outside perspective, and embrace undesired feelings and sides of yourself with non judgment. Life goals, right?

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July 24, 2018
Muy recomendable si te interesa la filosofía del yoga y la meditación. Se basa en hacer digerible para occidentales el tratado del Yoga-Sütra de Patañjali. Te permite ver que el Yoga es algo más que una colección de posturas. Me sorprendió comprobar las profundas relaciones que existen entre el raja-yoga y el budismo, ambas corrientes se influenciaron mutuamente.
Me gustó también que el autor utilizara las historias personales de su grupo de Yoga para hacer más comprensibles los conceptos que explica.
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May 31, 2020
Stephen Cope gives the perspective of a psychotherapist (and Kripalu Yoga teacher) on Patanjali's Yoga Sutras. The presentation through individual stories is helpful. The appendices contain a translation of the sutras, as well as some distinction from Buddhism.
This book was not at all about asanas and physiology though, and more about states of conciousness and breathing -- as in Buddism.
I picked it up to learn more about the physical practice, but in the end still got a lot out of reading it.

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August 14, 2020
I really love the premise and structure of this book - a balanced blend of narrative, Western psychology, and yogic philosophy. This was probably my own personal taste but I found the narrative explorations much more compelling than Cope’s analysis or interpretations of the Yoga Sutras. I found this writing slightly too technical still, or just too far-reaching to really drive home specific teachings of the Sutras. The irony in this is that through the book Cope admits his own struggle with being too scholarly or technical in his writing, which makes me forgive my own experience of this book.

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November 24, 2017
I studied with Stephen Cope twice at Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health and found him to be a very engaging and intelligent person. I spent a lot of time reading this book, as it's one to sip rather than guzzle. Stephen relates Patanjali's Yoga Sutras to his experience as a yoga seeker. As a yoga teacher, I'm hoping to use some of this in my teaching. The book is much more theoretical than I anticipated and quite dense.

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March 23, 2019
After having read Alistair Shearer's translation of "The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali" (an excellent translation, in my opinion; very accessible), this book expounded on the Sutras & brought them to life nicely. This book was also a nice story/journey with the characters that are followed in the book. Makes me want to head to Kripalu ... (a venture that has been on my mind for many years before this book came along!) and LIVE there.
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December 28, 2018
An easy, relatable read that doesn’t skimp on depth. Diving into the yoga sutra and the ordinary struggles of life, readers gain a well rounded understanding of questions and experiences that humans have had for thousands of years. This is going up on the list of one my top books. Transformative in nature, especially for those who practice yoga and meditation wanting to sink deeper. Recommended!!

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October 7, 2019
A deep, profound book that I did not give into reading even though I had bought the book in 2013. I did not feel ready. I could not relate. I savored this book over almost 6 months this year, reflecting deeply on my new life, and putting it to work in my daily and constantly evolving yoga practice.
While I don't seek as much as I walk everyday, this book is unforgettable. I will always return.

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June 26, 2020
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Ho comprato questo libro per ovviare alle spese di spedizione di altri 2 libri.
E si è rivelato un libro molto interessante. Leggere lo yoga dal punto di vista di uno psicoterapeuta era qualcosa che mi mancava.
Fa molte analogie con la psicologia occidentale e, come si legge, gli yogi antichi avevano scoperto questi concetti da ben prima.

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January 26, 2021
Long and rambling with a few brief moments of actual insight. I found the characters thin and their issues and phobia conveniently introduced only to be nearly instantly resolved. I wasn't looking for a self-help book, rather a deeper understanding of the physical practice of yoga, so the book was a disappointment to me.

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October 20, 2022
I had had Stephen Cope recommended to me, and I can see why. Having completed this one, I already have thoughts about returning to reread it, which is relatively unusual for me.

This particular book is written in a very approachable manner, presented as a series of anecdotes to highlight the philosophical concepts .

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January 4, 2019
One of the most helpful things about this book is how the author clearly articulates the similarities between Buddhism and the yogic tradition (along with a few of the differences). It's a little dense, but helpful for anyone looking to understand the philosophy behind those stretchy poses.

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January 13, 2019
This book was part of my yoga teacher training recommended reading list..... Goodreads just (re)recommended it to me. I often return to the journey my inner world took during this book.... ‘transformative’ is accurate. Stephen Cope walks his talk and is a very good role model.

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October 2, 2019
This was a fantastic read! Personally, I would have preferred more of the “technical stuff” and less stories, but that’s just me. There’s a ton of information here and I really enjoyed each chapter. If you are AT ALL interested in the philosophy of yoga, I think you’ll enjoy this book too.
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February 3, 2020
More of a guided psychological book of how to live your life based on yogic and buddhist principals, its a really good book to live your life by, I found lots of ways to incorporate actions into my daily life, and new ways of looking at old situations.

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April 29, 2020
This was the perfect book to read at this moment in time... I savored every page, especially the last chapter. I forced myself to read it slowly and went right back to the beginning when I read the last page. This is a book that I will keep close and return to again and again.


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February 7, 2021
Cercavo una guida che mi permettesse di studiare, di apprendere, di comprendere con facilità gli insegnamenti degli Yogasutra, e l’ho trovata.
Da leggere, sottolineare, e ri leggere tra qualche tempo per metabolizzare e guardare dentro se.

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January 4, 2023
An amazing dive into the teachings of patanjali and yoga through the perspective of the narrarator’s learnings by interacting with a small group of friends. This more social-approach makes it feel much more relatable and breaks up the density. I highly recommend this book on yoga.

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June 12, 2017
Interesting case studies and how the experiences of individuals evolve in response to their introspective and meditation practices.
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July 17, 2017
Required reading for yoga teacher training

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5.0 out of 5 stars Such a beautiful book
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Read it in two sittings. Loved how the author intertwines wisdom with real life stories, making it such a compelling read with so many amazing lessons in it. Highly recommend!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Wow
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Truly amazing and enlightening book that will leave you wanting more. The end is really good but is the beginning of wanting to find concentration of a different nature. I have read two of his books and will re-read them both,wow and wow.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Experience over theory
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This book is a sly exposition of the key parts of yoga philosophy in a deliberately non-scholarly way. The emphasis is on direct experience, the acts of seeking, and the Importance of community. Cope comes at the Sutras from a different angle than most and in that fresh approach is clarity
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5.0 out of 5 stars I am so thankful that I found this book!
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I enjoyed every page and got inspired so much! I can recommend it to everyone who is interested in yoga and want to get more knowledge packed in a great story!
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Dr. V
5.0 out of 5 stars Warm, personal, lived version of the Yoga Sutras
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This book is Stephen Cope's commentary and explanation of Patanjali's yoga sutras. However, it is not a dry commentary, even though it is scholarly. Cope brings together Yoga (as lived by himself and a group of seeker friends) with scholarly but accessible explanations of phenomena addressed by the Yoga Sutras. The explanations are drawn from both Eastern and Western psychology. He often illustrates concepts with quotes from Western literature, most frequently Thoreau. Each chapter begins with a person's story and struggle - which is then explained in terms of both the Yoga Sutras and Western concepts about the self. The book helps the reader join virtually the admirable group of friends Cope was a part of during a period of about two years, when they each (and all) sought freedom from their own kind of suffering. It provides a warm and personal, lived version of the Yoga Sutras, and thus makes them much more accessible to the average (but not only) reader. The book is not a complete treatise on the Yoga Sutras. And I am not sure it is necessarily a guide, since it is really explanatory, not prescriptive. But it is beautifully, wisely, and warmly written, and it will get the reader closer to the essence of Yoga - which has very little to do with physical postures.

I love Cope's combination of rigorous scholarship, spirituality, self-disclosure, warmth, and humor. His voice comes through clearly in this book and is very personable. For me, this is one of the books I hope to come back to again and again.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Textbook for a course I'm to take...
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I've participated in yoga courses for quite a few years now on and off, --some excellent and some not so great, depending on the instructors. I have an excellent teacher now and she is about to offer a new course in meditation and yoga. This is the text for it. I am excited to be learning more about what yoga is all about on spiritual/philosophical/meditative levels. This book is easy to read and offers insights about yoga for the average Westerner and how it can both simplify and enrich your life and help you understand more about yourself and others, how you can become more mindful in your daily life. Life in the 21st century is crazy, fast-paced, and full of pressures, stresses, and negativity (war, global warming, worries about the economy). Yoga is one of various paths to greater understanding, serenity, clarity, and wisdom. Earlier this year I took a course called Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction which included some yoga as well as meditation, and other exercises for reducing stress. This course resulted in my wanting to learn more about what is behind yoga and meditation, their history, to understand more about their modern-day and past expert practitioners. I guess the only thing that bothers me at all about the book is all of the unfamiliar terms that are introduced that I can't get fixed in my mind, but perhaps taking the course will help with that, or perhaps that doesn't matter so much. The book is easy to read and understand and is very informative and insightful.
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Sara Smithie
5.0 out of 5 stars Mind Blowing approach on the depth of yoga
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Stephen Cope has become a writer I will follow for several reasons. This book has changed my life regarding yoga and its power to change us. His writing is comprehensive and inspiring - and actually, down right mind-blowing in what he brings to the reader. I will read more if his work. Thank You Stephen Cope.
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Erick DuPree
3.0 out of 5 stars not bad... for a beginner, but not philosophy either
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This is the 1st book i've read about yoga and its deeper purpose. As an atheist, I am intrinsically weary of self-help and spiritual books but I am also deeply in love with yoga so I thought I'd give this book a go since I've heard great things about it. There was a lot of amazing insight in it for me, and I really like how he talks about the fact that scientists have studied what happens in our brains when we meditate and practice yogic physical and mental movements. That part of it speaks to me. Though I've done yoga on and off for probably 15 years, it never really did much for me until I needed it and in the last 2 years it really changed the way I think and live. Cope talks a lot about some of the initial changes that occur when you start practicing yoga and I can relate. I didn't connect with the latter half of the book because the whole idea of living in a yoga retreat for months on end just screams of a certain type of privilege that again, I am just intrinsically weary of. How does that apply to real peoples' lives when the insights in the book from its characters come from months (and sometimes years) of living in a cabin out in the woods? Who can really do that? Maybe some day in the future I will relate with those sections of the book as well but now, not so much
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Jamie O'Connell
5.0 out of 5 stars Great 1st yoga book
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I started hot yoga six months ago for back pain and it has changed my life. Now, I want to have a deep understanding of it and started to study at home in addition to spending a session almost every day at my local studios.

After googling for "best yoga books", "great yoga books", and "yoga books"...this one kept on appearing at the top of many lists, so I decided to purchase it. The book is great, reads like a novel and is highly recommended for those who are looking to increase their knowledge of yoga off the mat.
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Rachael Enright
5.0 out of 5 stars Story of discovery
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This book was very refreshing I am usually so drawn to facts and non-fiction. Whereas this book is a story of friends on the path of self discovery. The disclosure of each person's patterns and blocks gives you a great perspective of the range of people and issues which can attract you to yoga.

The book itself is a sweet discription of what mindfulness is and the various stages in which you fall deeper into practice and peace.

I felt like this book was really reaffirming. Nice read.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Beautifully written, wonderful journey into the most important principles of a 'yoga' kind of life
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This is probably one of the most beautiful books I've ever read, one that wish it wouldn't end. One that I will come back again and again to remind me who I am and how to get back to my center every time I feel astray.
Stephen Cope writes humbly, beautifully and so satisfying for both a fiction lover as well as for a scientific minded reader. It takes the basic principles of yoga, opens them to the understaing of us all and shows them applicability in different stories of his characters.
It's a book for beginners, for those who don't know what yoga is and for advanced practicioners at the same time.
It has really changed both my perspective on meditation, it changed my yoga practice and my way of seeing things in general
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R Sharpe
5.0 out of 5 stars Tonic for the soul
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I’ve just read three of Stephen Cope’s books in succession and loved them all: The Great Work of Your Life, The Wisdom of Yoga and Deep Human Connection. They each offer a valuable distillation of more complex works enabling the lay reader, like me, to absorb truths that I otherwise may not have accessed. Stephen has a beautiful writing style and peppers his own thoughts and other quotes with stories that make his writing come alive. Each of the books I have is beginning to look rather battered as I have a tendency to keep referring back to them.
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Amanda
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book for Yoga Teachers
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I ordered this book before I did my yoga teacher training, since it was on the recommended reading list.

It's a fascinating book that reads almost like a novel. I started reading it, then actually started over when I was just a few pages in so I could get a highlighter and mark the passages that really sang to me.

The best part of this book, for me, was learning about metta meditation. Doing that meditation was the first time I was really able to let myself sink into a meditation, and it taught me an appreciation for and interest in further study of meditation.

You might not find this book interesting if you're not into yoga. I would definitely recommend it, certainly for any yoga teacher or aspiring yoga teacher.
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Caitlin
5.0 out of 5 stars Best Book Ever
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I saw someone reading this book and asked them about it, they told me that it was life changing. Now I hear that about a lot of things this day and age, but, being the book feign I am, I just had to go and buy it. I'm here to tell you anyone who want to know if they should by this or not, BUY IT! The book has nothing to do with poses and such, its more about the deeper knowledge and how the lessons of yoga can effect and change your life. Mixed in with the message of the book, they do however give you ideas on what to do and how to do them. Amazing and outstanding. I would buy this book for all my friends if I could
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K. Jolly
1.0 out of 5 stars No thanks
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Recommended reading for a teacher training program. Would never have purchased otherwise. Nothing of substance to be found within these pages.
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M. Gordon
5.0 out of 5 stars now I get it- thanks Stephen
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There is little need for another rave review about this book as I agree with the other positive reviews. I just would like to add this: I became a Cope fan reading his articles in Yoga Journal and his first book. Most of my yoga instructors learned at Kripalu. Amrit Desai, who started Kripalu, requires 2 years of daily yoga practice before you can take his teacher's training course. Now I understand why, as I have been practicing hatha yoga daily for that long now. A daily practice, from a few days a week for decades, has opened me up in ways that I would never have imagined. Reading and absorbing this fantastic, understandable interpretation of the Sutra I have now been given the gift of validation for how I manage to live an "extraordinary life" and can manage my "human" moments. Read this book and then...practice, practice, practice.
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Barbara A. Parcells
5.0 out of 5 stars A real treasure.
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This is my second time around reading this book. With a little age and wisdom behind me, it takes me much deeper and answers the questions I couldn't have answered before without experiencing life a bit more. The author does get a bit technical from a psychology point of view, but it is in the stories of the individual people and their struggles to find an authentic, peace filled way to live that we learn and grow from it. I don't doubt that at some point I will revisit these stories again in the future.
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Erik C. Pihl
5.0 out of 5 stars Some answers to a few of life's persistant questions
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In his book, "The Wisdom of Yoga," Stephen Cope has created a small masterpiece. He has not tried to answer questions about man's place in the universe or or the existence of an external world. He has, however, by means of telling vignettes from the lives of people he knows well and insightful comments about what must be one of the most gnomic series of insights into the practice of Yoga, given the average reader a sence of what it is to become involved in the practice of Yoga and some of its life-changing potential. In addition to this, he has included illustrations from other belief systems, specifically Buddhist thought and Christianity that provide a wider context for his practice. The Yoga practioner, as well as the average person who would like to learn a little about Yoga, could both benefit from the wonderful book.
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Francie Nolan
3.0 out of 5 stars I Found Myself Skimming Too Much
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I just started doing yoga and Googled the top ten books on yoga. This was named number one on one of the lists, so it had a lot to live up to.

I found myself skimming way too early. The stories he weaves in about his friends were a distraction. I didn't feel it contributed to this book at all.

When I skim, I read the first sentence of each or every other paragraph until one holds me. Sometimes I found very interesting and riveting information. Sometimes not.

I didn't finish the book. Stopped about half way. I think the writer is a great guy. I loved his energy, but the book needed a better editor IMO.
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Debra Newman
5.0 out of 5 stars a wonderful book that brings yoga wisdom home
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I love this book from the first page to the last! The introduction, prologue and appendices are quite helpful in providing vital information to the reader. Cope takes some everyday people and their life's challenges and brings to light some answers to the struggles of the human condition. The book reads like a novel, in a way, but is very scholarly and cites the words and philosophies of many pundits in the field of religion such as Mircea Eliade, Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche, Thomas Merton and Georg Feuerstein, to name but a few. I didn't want the book to end and the final chapter made me cry with joy of the knowledge of contentment, despite challenges, in our lives. Thank you Stephen Cope!
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Stephen Cope, Yoga and the Quest for the True Self

Yoga and the Quest for the True Self
Stephen Cope
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Millions of Americans know yoga as a superb form of exercise and as a potent source of calm in our stress-filled lives. Far fewer are aware of the full promise of yoga as a 4,000-year-old practical path of liberation—a path that fits the needs of modern Western seekers with startling precision. Now Stephen Cope, a Western-trained psychotherapist who has lived and taught for more than ten years at the largest yoga center in America, offers this marvelously lively and irreverent "pilgrim's progress" for today's world. He demystifies the philosophy, psychology, and practice of yoga, and shows how it applies to our most human dilemmas: from loss, disappointment, and addiction, to the eternal conflicts around sex and relationship. And he shows us that in yoga, "liberation" does not require us to leave our everyday lives for some transcendent spiritual plane—life itself is the path. Above all, Cope shows how yoga can heal the suffering of self-estrangement that pervades our society, leading us to a new sense of purpose and to a deeper, more satisfying life in the world.
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Stephen Cope is the director of the Kripalu Institute for Extraordinary Living, the largest yoga research institute in the Western world—with a team of scientists affiliated with major medical schools on the East coast, primarily Harvard Medical School. He has been for many years the senior scholar in residence at Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health in Lenox, Massachusetts, and is the author of four best-selling books.

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It is not often I use the “M word” to describe a book. No, I’m not talking about munchkin books or maleficient books. I’m talking about masterpieces. I am not certain if Stephen Cope’s bestseller is a masterpiece. Maybe it is, maybe not. Either way, it is pretty damn good.

This is one of those books that entertains and educates you in a visceral way right from the start. Large chunks are written in immediate narrative format–as in “he said,” “I said,” etc. It is Stephen Cope’s personal yoga story–a sort of “pilgrim’s progress,” if you will–as well as the yoga story of his many friends and acquaintances before and during his long and continuing stay at the Kripalu Center for Yoga & Health in Stockbridge, Massachusetts.

We meet a man, a practicing Boston psychotherapist, who for a variety of reasons was feeling unsettled and dissatisfied with his life and then, somewhat to his dismay, found himself joining a religious community to do…what? Much of the book is an answer to that and related questions: What did he want? Why? What was he trying to do at Kripalu? What was–is–the meaning of yoga? What is enlightenment? Is such a thing possible? Are there enlightened people in this world? And what happens when all the things we try to keep hidden are revealed for the world to see?

Stephen Cope furrows through all these questions and more. His sincerity, his intensity, his intelligence, make the book a gripping read. Its pages educate the reader even as Cope the protagonist is educated by his experiences in the ashram. Yoga philosophy is pondered over, its depths turned up, and its many connections to Western psychotherapy reflected upon, all in gratifyingly sober, lucid prose. This is no idealistic hippy’s tale, nor a wide-eyed New Age search for Reality. In point of fact, it is one man’s search for himself, even as he helps us understand that the discipline, the science, the art of yoga, is there to help us lay ourselves bare to ourselves.

“You will know the truth and the truth shall set you free.” This book is a testament to these words, but it goes beyond them for the “truth” as yoga reveals to Stephen Cope is an ever living, organic thing, the stuff of our lives, which we either enjoy and let go of or cling to and warp, eventually to destroy.

You will find yourself in this book. In one of the many personal portraits Cope draws, you will find your own symptoms and neuroses, your fears, dreams and failings. And when you do, you will know that yoga has something to offer you. There is so much teaching here, and it is given in such generous, gentle and wise ways. Most of all, I think the primacy of ourselves as bodily beings, as thinking, feeling, dreaming animals of earth, is borne out. The body really is our temple, and yoga is our puja, an act of adoration, discipline and feast. Cope nails it in what might be the defining statement of the book: “Because yoga asanas are not so much about exercise as they are about learning and unlearning, it is not the movement itself, but the quality of attention we bring to the movement that makes postures qualify as yoga” (230). If this is so–and I know it is–then any act, any breath, any thought done with full and alive attention, is yoga.

Bobby Fischer once said “Chess is life.” I would say “Yoga is life,” and Stephen Cope’s book has made this truth abundantly clear.

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I picked this book up on a whim because I have been doing yoga and reading up on it, and I was intrigued by the title. Cope is a therapist who went to Kripalu (a yoga center in Western Massachusetts) and basically never left. He writes very well, and tells a lot of stories. There was something about the book I found vaguely annoying, maybe all the upper middle class angst of many of the people he was talking about. There was also a lot more psychiatric jargon than I was interested in; I'm nore interested in spiritual practice than in therapy. That having been said, the book has stayed with me, and the basic concept of a false vs. true self seems quite true to me. One can't do justice to it in a few words, but basically the false self is one that we create out of concepts; the true self is the one that is living our daily physical life, and that we too often avoid by going off into our heads. He also mentioned something that R.D. Laing said at a conference of Buddhists and therapists that keeps coming back to me: Human beings are afraid of three things. Their own minds, other people, and death.

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As a yoga teacher, I figure I am supposed to read yoga books. However I find within three chapters of most books on the subject I am either distracted or bored, or I have already absorbed what I need from the author. That was not the case with this book, which I read daily and finished within two weeks. Yoga and the Quest for the True Self was recommended to me years ago, and I didn't even read it when my yoga studio 8 Limbs held a book group around it. But when a writer friend urged me to give it a chance, I finally relented, to my great advantage. Cope, a psychotherapist who has lived at Kripalu for several decades, uses a memoir framework to deliver some of the most personally valuable teachings about yoga I have received. I recommend this book to yoga practitioners of all levels. Be here now. Read it. Now.

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I loved this book! I didn't quite know what to expect when I picked it up, but yoga has been dear to me all my life, and of course, the quest for the true self is central to yoga philosophy, so I had to read it. It's a well-written, well-researched book, but with none of the pedantic clinginess to theory - which is difficult to avoid when the author's trying to deal with a 4,000 year old philosophy, that has evolved and morphed over all those years.

But Stephen Cope brings a delightful fresh eye to yoga by bringing the reader along on his journey as a student of yoga. It's a satisfying journey to be part of, from the moment he decides to step into Kripalu Yoga Center, to how he integrates the different teachings into an understanding of his own in the end. I was surprised that he included the stories about the falling apart of Kripalu amidst the scandals of its leader, and then how the community came together to rebuild it again. I also appreciated the appendix about the metaphysics of yoga.

It was a valuable read. I took lots of notes. And I'll probably revisit it from time to time.

If you're interested in spirituality, philosophy, yoga, etc., join my Old Souls Book Club (https://www.goodreads.com/group/show/...) for other recommendations and thought-provoking conversations!
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This classic goes on my to reread, reread, and reread shelf. So many lessons in living, spirituality, psychology. Cope says it best: "Such a simple lesson. Such a dfficult lesson. It doesn't matter what you call it: Yoga. Buddhism. Christianity. Relaxation. Consciousness. As Ajahn Chah says, 'Teach the essence of freedom from grasping and call it what you like.' "

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Absolutely transformational. Revolutionized the way I see yoga, myself, life, and relationships with people. There is so much to learn and so much more growth needed, but grateful for a read that deepened my spirituality and religious convictions and changed my perspective for the better.

And my notes from the book because it is a library book and I couldn't underline:

“Most of the branches of Vedanta hold one fundamental view in common: all individual souls are one with the ground of being, the Absolute. Because all beings are one with the great river of life, we are all, in effect, just a single soul. We are, in the classical dictum, ‘One without a second’” (page 42.)

“what we are seeking is already at the core of our nature. ‘We are that’ which we seek. We are already inherently perfect; we have already arrived; and we have the potential in each moment to wake up to our true nature. In the words of one extraordinary teacher whom we’ll meet later on in the book, ‘everything is already OK’” (page 42).

“When we begin to see clearly who we really are, according to this view, we feel a natural friendliness toward all beings. Beneath the surface of our separation, we feel the hidden,unseen threads that link us. We know that we’re exactly alike inside. We’re the same being. As author John Welch says, ‘We are each like a well that has its source in a common underground stream which supplies all. The deeper down I go, the closer I come to the source which puts me in contact with all other life’” (page 43).

“All mystical paths have taught that the union with God, or with the Absolute, subtly transforms the self. Each time we penetrate into samadhi, we have a small death-rebirth experience. Samadhi the world as we know it—its boundaries and categories. The deeper into union I penetrate, the less I am ‘I,’ and the more I am ‘we.’ For this reason, the merger with the One is known to create psychological upheaval and world-shattering shifts in perception” (page 43).

“This love is so overwhelming that you will lose consciousness of the conventional world. You will not be able to entertain the slightest feeling of personal ownership, not even toward the body, which is the most precious and jealously guarded possession of most persons. There will no longer be any instinctive notion that the body or the mind constitutes your being” (page 44).

“The word yoga itself means, literally, to be ‘yoked’—or to be in union. Eventually, repeated penetrations into mystic union transform the physical structure of the body, the personality, and the mind” (page 44).

“In Christianity, don’t you have this understanding: God is both—what do you say—immanent and transcendent? God is both here, within, right now, and is also everywhere? At the same time? It is the same God, the same Reality. Just our language has trouble capturing it. This is the wonderful thing about yoga. You find God right here, right now. In the body. You become a fully alive human being. You become jivan mukta—awake this lifetime. As a human being. Not in, what did you say? Transcendent realm with the angels. No. Not at all. You see, you are an angel” (page 48).

“‘Deep eternity,’ in Emily Dickinson’s phrase, is right here, right now. It is the subtle interior anatomy of the body—and the subtly interior anatomy of this entire world of form.
‘The goal of human life,’ says Ramakrishna,’ is to meet God face to face.’ But the magic is this: if we look deeply into the face of all created things, we will find God. Therefore, savor the world, the body. Open it, explore it, look into it” (page 55).

“When we pay close attention to the world of the many, we inevitably discover the One” (page 58).

“Gitanand was telling the story of a dialogue between a Vedic master and a Western student. ‘The student, confounded by the radically different worldview embodied by his teacher, asks, “Do we live in the same world?” Replies the teacher, ‘Yes, we do. It’s just that you see yourself in the world, and I see the whole world in myself.’ Yogis insist on seeing the world from the inside out” (page 70).

“We can experience the entire reality of the universe directly through a full exploration of the phenomena of our own bodies, feelings, minds. There is nothing that is ‘out there’ that is not also ‘in here’” (page 70).

“‘Disappointment,’ he said, ‘is a much more fertile ground for spiritual practice than dreams’” (page 89).

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“In order for us to fully inhabit our bodies, we need certain kinds of responses from our environment. These include empathic holding, nurturing, mirroring, challenge, optimal frustration, and optimal disillusionment. Problems begin to happen in our developing sense of self when, as infants and children, our real emerging needs and capacities are not met with adequate mirroring, nurturing and sustaining responses. In the post industrial West, the problems of the disembodied sense of self are pandemic. The reasons for this are simple: Because of the breakdown of the extended family in the latter half of this century, we depend upon the depleted resources of small nuclear families, where hard working parents may already feel stretched and needy themselves. This nuclear family upon which we place most of our hopes is all too often an impoverished emotional environment for children. Overburdened parents feel fragmented, insecure, and in some cases terrified by the needs they feel they should be meeting but cannot. They’re hungry to get their own unsatisfied needs met” (page 91).

“The false self is born when the environment does not welcome the self to be as it is” (page 93).

“There is no telling precisely at what chronological age the self will come to one of these crossroads. One thing is certain: these times of meltdown are precious. A delicate window is opened into the very terrain explored and mastered by yogis and buddhas and seers of all kinds. In these times, the soul has a heightened potential to discover the real. There is a palpable longing for the mother, for matter, for the earth, and along with this an openness to the father, to the spirit, to consciousness.
In his commentary on the Yogasutras, Bhagwan S. Rajneesh identifies this meltdown of ‘me’ and ‘mine’ in adulthood as the entry point into yoga” (page 97).

“May we be protected together.
May we be nourished together.
May we work together with great vigor.
May our study be enlightening.
May there be no hatred between us.
Om peace, peace, peace.

Lead us from the unreal to the real.
Lead us from darkness to light.
Lead us from death to immortality” (page 100-101).

“‘Just being in my body makes me happy. I don’t have to do anything, or prove anything. What freedom!’ For the first time in her adult life, Amy had tasted the possibility of a life not lived in the head—or in the abstraction of the edo-ideal—but in the very real world of current direct kinesthetic experience” (page 106).

“The body likes living in reality. Stepping down onto the solid ground of reality always feels better than living in delusion. It may be painful, but there is life in it, energy in it, and, like the ground, it holds us up in a way that delusion does not. ‘Only reality is wholly safe’” (page 112).

“The genius of yogic practice is that it cultivates the capacity to experience a close-range, moment-by-moment inspection of reality. In fact, yoga teaches that living fully in the moment is the only doorway into the hidden realities of the Self” (page 113).

Amrit Desai:
“If you want to experience the joyous ecstasy that life offers, there is one commitment that is absolutely fundamental: the commitment to live in the moment. With that commitment as your guiding focus, whatever you do in your daily life is part of your transformational process. Your commitment to living in the moment becomes your vehicle for spiritual growth.

Living in the moment, however, is the most dangerous situation anybody ever faces in life, because everything you have ever avoided is revealed to you when you live in the moment. You get to face all the denied contents of your subconscious as the reappear again and again through the events of your life” (page 113-114)

“the goal of the reality project is not to disengage from the phenomenal world, but to turn to embrace it more deeply—to discover its hidden depths. And in order to do that paradoxically, we do not reject the vicissitudes of the embodied life. We no not reject suffering. Rather, we turn and go through the doorway of suffering. We turn to embrace our neuroses, our conflicts, our difficult bodies and minds, and we let them be the bridge to a fuller life. Our task is not to free ourselves from the world, but to fully embrace the world—to embrace the real” (page 115).

“Through the practice of yoga, the physical structure is said to be ‘baked,’ or refined, creating a form strong enough to tolerate and hold the powerful energies of the fully alive human being without being roiled or destroyed by them. Without the creation of this hard wiring, as Viveka saw, it was simply not possible to tolerate the subtle levels of awareness into which the quest would take him. Like Viveka, without the development of a compassionate and equananimous body and mind, we literally cannot bear what the seer reveals to us” (page 124).

“‘Laymen often think that the best way to deal with any difficult situation is not to deal with it—to forget it. But you and I have the experience that the only way you can forget is to remember” (page 130).

“do we uncover conflict or do we build up the self?...Both of these pillars of the reality project have to be developed in the context of relationship. We cannot become real in isolation” (page 139).

“My grandparents were most important self-objects for me, allowing me to relax into the stable, calm, nonanxious, powerful, and protective environment that they created with their care. Within the vast and safe container of their nurturing, I was allowed to discover my true self” (page 142).

“The truth is, however, that all the yoga postures in the world cannot create the opening of the heart. In their original context, yogic practices were completely submerged in a web of relationship” (page 142-143).”

“that which is damaged in relationship must also be healed within relationship, and character can only truly be transformed through relationship—not through solitary practice” (page 144).

“Ramakrishna always used the language of the mother and child in explaining his relationship with God. As he once put it, ‘One must have the yearning for God of a child when his mother is away’” (page 145).

“about the importance of other human beings in the ongoing creation of th self. He understood that only other human beings can initiate us into the Real. One of his most useful proverbs was this: ‘Company is more powerful than willpower’” (page 166).

“When we carry a heavy load of repressed, hidden, and unitegrated experience, we are constantly seeking out relationships that will help us hold this experience, to reveal it in the actual dramas of our lives, and, hopefully, eventually bring it to a more successful conclusion—to heal it” (page 182).

“Reality must be, in a sense, triangulated. It takes two sets of eyes, not just one, to accurately locate the third point in space. The ‘third’ becomes a powerful still point, constructed out of the interaction of two minds and hearts” (page 183).

“‘Sometimes, rest is the highest spiritual practice’” (page 241).

“Real healing happens in relaxation, and unless we’re relaxing, we are not healing” (page 242).

“What begins as an experientially grounded practice—one that asks us to take nothing at all on faith, indeed, asks only that we pay attention to the body—brings us finally and inexorably back to God. The physical is revealed to be spiritual. The spiritual is revealed to be physical” (page 268).

“You thought that union was a way you could decide to go.
But the soul follows things rejected and almost forgotten.
Your true guide drinks from an undammed stream” -Rumi (page 273).

people to look into:
Marion Woodman: student of Carl Jung
Sylvia Boorstein: psychologist and senior American teacher of Buddhism
Jacquelyn Small: pioneer in the synthesis of spirituality and addictions work
Tom Yeomans: poet, psychologist, and leader in field of spiritual psychotherapy

“‘This is so much that wisdom of Jung,’ continued Marion (Woodman). ‘If we allow ourselves to be ravished the by the irrational, we are compelled to face our own evil. Trust takes on a new dimension. In knowing our own darkness, we know what another’s darkness can release. We learn to forgive and to love. Then, we don’t know from moment to moment what will happen next. As your Pashupats clearly understood—this is God’s country, not ours’” (page 289).

“After long searches here and there, in temples and in churches, in earths and in heavens, at last you come back, completing the circle from where you started, to your own soul and find that He, for whom you have been seeking all over the world, for whom you have been weeping and praying in churches and temples, on whom you were looking as the mystery of all mysteries shrouded in the clouds, is nearest of the near, is your own Self, the reality of you life, body, and soul” -Swami Vivekenanda (page 290).

“In order to hear the teaching, we must slow down, cultivate awareness, and tune in. Most of all, we have to drop our hopes and dreams and preconceived notions of how it should be. We must look at how it is. We must look with a mind that lets go. Then we will see” (page 292).

“And the worst part is that at the same time that we’re leaning in toward the magic powers [of another], we will miss the real, more subtle, ordinary magic of transformation in our lives” (page 295).
“As I sat with myself…” (page 295). emphasis added, with not by

“Whatever transformation was happening was surely going to be by grace, not effort. Through letting go, rather than hot pursuit” (page 295).

“When all is said and done, most of the stages of spiritual practice are stages of grief work” (page 296).
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May 19, 2021
This book is the opposite of enlightening. Written for a narrow audience of upper-middle class white people, it reads like a sustained advertisement for the Kripalu Center. It should be renamed "A Western Psychoanalyst Encounters Kripalu Yoga," as it is entirely tethered to 1) the author and his psychoanalytic worldview and 2) the institution of Kripalu.

The content is also unbearably superficial and contains distortions and inaccuracies. A good example of Western fetishism of Eastern spiritualities.
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I wrote a totally brilliant review of this book that will reveal all the secrets of yoga. However, I was on a public terminal and the session timed out, losing the entire review. You lose.

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This was the book that first introduced me to Vipassanna meditation which I eventually took part of in the sub-tropical alps of south central Mexico.
I'll call it the beginning to a new me.

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This book changed my life.

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Elizabeth
2.0 out of 5 stars Western ideas of yoga.
Reviewed in Australia 🇦🇺 on 20 August 2019
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The author introduces Yoga to a Western audience. From one particular school of thought. He also interlaces modern psychological ideas throughout.
It wasn't what I was looking for, I wanted to read more first hand accounts, rather than the psychoanalysis of people.
It is well written, just not my cup of tea.
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Sydney S
4.0 out of 5 stars Surprisingly worth it!
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 4 November 2017
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I bought this book because I understood it to be a study of a typical Westerner's experience of yoga beyond exercise and mindfulness. However, I could barely get though the first few chapters with my constant eye-rolling over the long-winded privilege of someone who could take months off from work to pursue a deep yoga practice. How could I relate to this person and how could they write what I thought this book was going to be? Eventually I picked it back up and I'm glad I did. The author's background as a psychotherapist is nicely melded with yogic principles without being too direct about the psychotherapist lens. If you're well read in such things, you'll easily recognize tons of elements of emotional intelligence, various aspects of trauma and recovery (such as reconnecting to the body), even a bit of Internal Family Systems, and not to mention lots of completely relatable types of stressors most of us deal with regularly. All of these things you might read about or learn in psychotherapy are, apparently, well established in the practice, metaphysics, and ideology of yoga. The author's expertise may have originated in privilege, but this book has a lot to offer pretty much everyone. If you're not well read in some of the things I described, some of what he talks about may still sound fairly new-agey, but all I can say is read it, try yoga, and see what happens. I'm super new to yoga exercise so I can't speak to my own experience, but I can speak to the legitimacy of at least much the ideology discussed. My only criticisms (other than the beginning of the book) are that the yogic vocabulary, though explained, can still be pretty hard to keep up with, and the "crash course" chapter at the end doesn't do enough to hold your hand through that learning curve. It's definitely a book to read more than once to fully get the most from it.
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A.M Nelson
5.0 out of 5 stars One of the best books I've ever read re. spiritual growth
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 18 October 2020
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This book surprised me. I picked it up in order to read about the mental aspects behind yoga, but it was so much more. This contains the best description of spiritual growth--what it looks like and feels like, and how it can look different for different people--that I've ever read. It also looks at aspects of healthy spiritual community vs. unhealthy spiritual community, which is applicable in different contexts (I've seen the same dynamics in church settings.) This book is much more in depth, well researched, and insightful than most "spiritual growth" books I've ever read. I'm at the point in my life where I avoid such books like the plague. But this one is excellent and helpful.

Cope gets criticized because many of the people in his books seem to have the luxury of time and money to pursue yoga/spiritual growth in a focused way. He works at a yoga retreat center after all. You don't have to take months off from life and live at a yoga center to pursue personal growth. The examples and principles are still helpful and still apply.
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Miss M Wilkinson
5.0 out of 5 stars Fabulously enlightening book on the spiritual/psychological aspects of yoga
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 6 July 2019
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I don't normally leave reviews but I wanted to express just how much I've loved reading this book and what a vital tool I've found it on my yoga path. I've been practising yoga for several years to manage my physical and mental health, and because I never feel closer to myself or more at peace than when I'm in a posture or being with my breath. So I found the blending of a psychoanalytic and yogic perspective really exciting, and it answered a lot of questions about how best to use yoga as a tool for healing and to get closer to your true self. I found the section on developing one's equanimity practice to keep up with the insights gained in awareness practice particularly useful as I have found myself somewhat overwhelmed by the latter in recent times. So this book came at the right time for me and I would absolutely recommend it to anyone who loves yoga or is looking for a way to manage their suffering. I found the first chapter a little slow but after that I couldn't put it down so if you find that too then stick with it, it's so worth it :)
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Ray
5.0 out of 5 stars Wow
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 22 November 2022
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I could read again and again. Inspiring words and thoughts. Helps you to understand where the true meaning is in life
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Bruce Kusko
5.0 out of 5 stars Arrived quickly, great condition
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 5 September 2022
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Book arrived quickly and was in like-new condition.
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Julia
3.0 out of 5 stars Wasn’t expecting perfect
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 2 August 2022
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And it definitely wasn’t, and it wasn’t in new or even good condition either.
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Ursa
1.0 out of 5 stars Unchecked, "unintentional" racism
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on 22 December 2021
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What truly ruined this book for me - and I'm rather shocked it hasn't been flagged - was what I believe was meant to be a sort of cute, humourous remark that one of Cope's friends says when he is about to embark on his journey to India:

"But if you come back wearing a towel on your head or any other item of weird non-American clothing, we're building a back door to the office suite".

Please, just take a moment and sit with that sentence. Do you feel how dehumanizing that is?

I am a POC and I couldn't gloss over this. I think it's very revealing and part of a larger afflication within the western yoga world where racism seems to go undetected.

I am heartbroken that someone like Jack Kornfield would endorse this book. And I can't get over how the editors allowed for this either. White surpremacy and racism are built into our systems and, sadly, this book.
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Alexander John
5.0 out of 5 stars Must Read
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 28 April 2019
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This book helped me in a time in my life in which I really needed some direction with yoga and meditation. I finally got past doing yoga simply as a means to an end (for physical health reasons), and started viewing it as a spiritual practice. Another reviewer said he/ her rolled his/ her eyes at the idea of taking a year off of work to find yourself in practice... but that's exactly what some people need if they are single and working 50+ hours a week in a high-stress (high-paid) job. There's little point of making excessive amounts of money if it leads to a nervous breakdown.

Yoga can potentially help those with substantial depersonalization and derealization (DP/DR) issues. Giving up 90% of processed foods can help, too.
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lit-lover
5.0 out of 5 stars Great for Yogis
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 1 February 2022
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I’m a yoga teacher, and I definitely enjoyed this read. Lots of interesting information and a pretty engaging story Cope tells about his own spiritual path. Easy to read and compelling. I’d recommend this book.
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