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The Headspace Guide to Meditation & Mindfulness by Andy Puddicombe | Goodreads

The Headspace Guide to Meditation & Mindfulness by Andy Puddicombe | Goodreads

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'If you're thinking about trying mindfulness, this is the perfect introduction....I'm grateful to Andy for helping me on this journey.' BILL GATES

'It's kind of genius' EMMA WATSON


Feeling stressed about Covid/Brexit/everything? Try this...

Demystifying meditation for the modern world: an accessible and practical route to improved health, happiness and well being, in as little as 10 minutes.

Andy Puddicombe, founder of the celebrated Headspace, is on a mission: to get people to take 10 minutes out of their day to sit in the now. Here he shares his simple to learn, but highly effective techniques of meditation.

* Rest an anxious, busy mind
* Find greater ease when faced with difficult emotions, thoughts, circumstances
* Improve focus and concentration
* Sleep better
* Achieve new levels of calm and fulfillment.

The benefits of mindfulness and meditation are well documented and here Andy brings this ancient practice into the modern world, tailor made for the most time starved among us.

First published as Get Some Headspace, this reissue shows you how just 10 minutes of mediation per day can bring about life changing results.
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About the Author
ANDY PUDDICOMBE is currently the only Clinical Meditation Consultant in the United Kingdom with Medical Advisory Committee clearance for private practice. As a former Buddhist monk, he has trained extensively in meditation all over the world for more than 15 years. He returned to the UK in 2004 and set up the Headspace organization with one simple aim in mind: to demystify meditation and make it accessible and relevant to as many people as possible.

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"[Puddicombe] teaches techniques that can be practiced on a crowded subway or even while wolfing a sandwich during a quick lunch break at your desk.... Ed Halliwell ["The Guardian"] said Mr. Puddicombe is 'doing for meditation what someone like Jamie Oliver has done for food.' And like Mr. Oliver, he's ready to conquer the United States." - "The New York Times"

"The expert's expert." - "The Times" (UK)

"There is definitely no religion, and nothing touchy-feely about the [Headspace] workshop... By the end of the day, with the online resources for support, I feel equipped to join the ranks of those who make daily meditation part of their busy lives." - "Time Out"

"Om's the word, meet the "Sunday Times Style"'s amazing new meditation guru." - "Sunday Times Style" (UK)

"Andy bubbles over with enthusiasm and is so easy to follow that most of us leave convinced and with every intention of an attempt to sustain our relaxed/alert state." - "Easy Living Magazine"

"Mindfulness is a hot topic in neuroscience. I consider the techniques in this book essential for maintaining a healthy brain and a happy mind. Andy is living proof that the ancient practice of mindfulness benefits modern day living." - Dr. Elena Antonova, Neuroscientist, King's College London


[Puddicombe] teaches techniques that can be practiced on a crowded subway or even while wolfing a sandwich during a quick lunch break at your desk.... Ed Halliwell ["The Guardian"] said Mr. Puddicombe is 'doing for meditation what someone like Jamie Oliver has done for food.' And like Mr. Oliver, he's ready to conquer the United States. "The New York Times"

The expert's expert. "The Times (UK)"

There is definitely no religion, and nothing touchy-feely about the [Headspace] workshop By the end of the day, with the online resources for support, I feel equipped to join the ranks of those who make daily meditation part of their busy lives. "Time Out"

Om's the word, meet the "Sunday Times Style"'s amazing new meditation guru. "Sunday Times Style (UK)"

Andy bubbles over with enthusiasm and is so easy to follow that most of us leave convinced and with every intention of an attempt to sustain our relaxed/alert state. "Easy Living Magazine"

Mindfulness is a hot topic in neuroscience. I consider the techniques in this book essential for maintaining a healthy brain and a happy mind. Andy is living proof that the ancient practice of mindfulness benefits modern day living. "Dr. Elena Antonova, Neuroscientist, King's College London""


[Puddicombe] teaches techniques that can be practiced on a crowded subway or even while wolfing a sandwich during a quick lunch break at your desk.... Ed Halliwell [The Guardian] said Mr. Puddicombe is 'doing for meditation what someone like Jamie Oliver has done for food.' And like Mr. Oliver, he's ready to conquer the United States. The New York Times

The expert's expert. The Times (UK)

There is definitely no religion, and nothing touchy-feely about the [Headspace] workshop By the end of the day, with the online resources for support, I feel equipped to join the ranks of those who make daily meditation part of their busy lives. Time Out

Om's the word, meet the Sunday Times Style's amazing new meditation guru. Sunday Times Style (UK)

Andy bubbles over with enthusiasm and is so easy to follow that most of us leave convinced and with every intention of an attempt to sustain our relaxed/alert state. Easy Living Magazine

Mindfulness is a hot topic in neuroscience. I consider the techniques in this book essential for maintaining a healthy brain and a happy mind. Andy is living proof that the ancient practice of mindfulness benefits modern day living. Dr. Elena Antonova, Neuroscientist, King's College London

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Demystifying meditation for the modern world: an accessible and practical route to improved health, happiness and well being, in as little as 10 minutes. --This text refers to an alternate kindle_edition edition.
Review
"[Puddicombe] teaches techniques that can be practiced on a crowded subway or even while wolfing a sandwich during a quick lunch break at your desk.... Ed Halliwell [The Guardian] said Mr. Puddicombe is 'doing for meditation what someone like Jamie Oliver has done for food.' And like Mr. Oliver, he's ready to conquer the United States." --The New York Times

"The expert's expert." --The Times (UK)

"There is definitely no religion, and nothing touchy-feely about the [Headspace] workshop... By the end of the day, with the online resources for support, I feel equipped to join the ranks of those who make daily meditation part of their busy lives." --Time Out

"Om's the word, meet the Sunday Times Style's amazing new meditation guru." --Sunday Times Style (UK)

"Andy bubbles over with enthusiasm and is so easy to follow that most of us leave convinced and with every intention of an attempt to sustain our relaxed/alert state." --Easy Living Magazine

"Mindfulness is a hot topic in neuroscience. I consider the techniques in this book essential for maintaining a healthy brain and a happy mind. Andy is living proof that the ancient practice of mindfulness benefits modern day living." --Dr. Elena Antonova, Neuroscientist, King's College London

--This text refers to an alternate kindle_edition edition.
Review
The expert's expert - Britain's top meditation guru. - The Times
Learn to live in the moment with GET SOME HEADSPACE by top meditation guru Andy Puddicombe. His practical guide will help you de-stress and have a calmer, happier life. - Grazia
If you've always wanted to try meditation, then this is the perfect guide to 'mindfulness' and finding yourself ten minutes of Zen. - Scotsman Magazine
Andy bubbles over with enthusiasm and is so easy to follow that most of us leave convinced and with every intention of an attempt to sustain our relaxed/alert state. - Easy Living
A quiet mind is the key to feeling less stressed, less tired and having a new level of calm and contentment. - Woman's Way --This text refers to an alternate kindle_edition edition.
From the Publisher
Andy Puddicombe is a meditation and mindfulness expert. An accomplished presenter and writer, Andy is the voice of all things Headspace.
In his early twenties, midway through a university degree in Sports Science, Andy made the unexpected decision to travel to the Himalayas to study meditation instead. It was the beginning of a ten year journey which took him around the world, culminating with ordination as a Tibetan Buddhist monk in Northern India.
His transition back to lay life in 2004 was no less extraordinary. Training briefly at Moscow State Circus, he returned to London where he completed a degree in Circus Arts with the Conservatoire of Dance and Drama, whilst drawing up the early plans for what was later to become Headspace.
He has been featured widely in international press, appearing in Vogue, NYT, FT, Entrepreneur, Men's Health and Esquire, to name but a few. He also makes regular appearances on TV and online, having been featured on BBC, Dr Oz, Netflix and TED.
Andy currently lives in Venice, California, with his wife Lucinda. --This text refers to an alternate kindle_edition edition.
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ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0050C863G
Publisher ‏ : ‎ Coronet (26 May 2011)
Language ‏ : ‎ English
File size ‏ : ‎ 1653 KB
Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
Sticky notes ‏ : ‎ On Kindle Scribe
Print length ‏ : ‎ 225 pages


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Becca
5.0 out of 5 stars Lovely read
Reviewed in Australia 🇦🇺 on 25 July 2022
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I loved this book. I am so grateful that Andy’s shares his knowledge in such an approachable way. I have been an on and off meditator for about 2 years and I still learnt so much reading this. It links in so well with the Headspace app too. I love having theories and stories that link to concepts so I can better understand them & that is what this book does.
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CassW
5.0 out of 5 stars Great start to getting into mindfulness
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I found this book a great support whilst getting into mindfulness. I also used the app, but the book was useful to know the 'how' and 'why' of mindfulness. Would recommend to others!
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Ben
3.0 out of 5 stars Good starting point
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A good book for beginners to meditation. Helped a lot with starting a practice and understanding how to use it in every day life/activities.
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Matt
5.0 out of 5 stars Great read
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Really good book as an intro to Headspace and just some background story on Andy’s adventures.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Taking10
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This book is great. Covers every hitch I came across, and prepared me for some I hadn't reached yet. Assured me I wasn't hopeless at meditating, but had to focus on the actual meditation time and being mindful instead of the end result.
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Ahmed Ibrahim
5.0 out of 5 stars A Guiding Light to Inner Peace: The Headspace Guide to Meditation and Mindfulness
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The Headspace Guide to Meditation and Mindfulness is an absolute treasure. With clarity and simplicity, this book offers a practical and accessible approach to meditation. It provides invaluable guidance on navigating the journey towards inner peace and mindfulness. The author’s expertise shines through as he demystifies meditation and offers a wealth of techniques and insights. Whether you’re a beginner or experienced practitioner, this guide is a must-have. It has transformed my daily practice and brought a sense of calm and clarity into my life. A resounding five stars for this transformative gem.
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Ismael de Leon H.
4.0 out of 5 stars A very good and easy-to-follow guide to meditation
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 10 January 2021
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I have read several books about meditation and none is as good as this one. It is well explained, easy to read, to-the-point and concise. It is an excellent read that explains what is meditation, mindfulness, their benefits and the way to practice them. I highly recommend it.

For many years I have dedicated considerable effort to meditation, with no results that I can be proud of. However, since I was a child I became familiar with those concepts for having read Timothy Gallwey’s books (The Inner Game of Tenis, Golf, etc.). At that time books did not mention the term “mindfulness” as they do now, but I understood the existence of different levels of consciousness, which Gallwey referred to as “egos”, inside our minds. I learned that it was necessary to quiet one of those egos in order to perform better at sports. Quieting that ego was no easy task though, but it was possible with the help of certain mental tools that ended up astounding me when I could perform considerably better than expected, with no effort, much pleasure, as if by magic, as if the performance was done by someone else. Such result is what today is called “being in the zone”.

But in spite of this, I could never show such results in other aspects of my life just by practicing meditation. Mindfulness and other techniques helped me in sports, but I cannot say that I had a similar success in my professional or personal life. Up until now, meditation has been to me just another chore.

Puddicombe says in his book that he is concerned about some people considering it a chore, but I am concerned about his concern. The great majority of meditation instructors insist on the importance of routinely meditating, time and again for longer periods, in order to get some results, which not always show-up. In fact, there is a section in his book in which he narrates the experience of a monk that invested a long time to improve his patience, just to end up comically showing that he did not succeed. Evidently it is easy to end up practicing many long meditation sessions fruitlessly and that is when meditation becomes a chore.

Being deeply aware of life’s simple and not-so-simple experiences (mindfulness) is something that can be intellectually understood and I do have had the opportunity to obtain its benefits in a few occasions, although more frequently in sports. But what is important is to be able to apply meditation and mindfulness concepts to our everyday lives. In other words, we need to be able to export mindfulness tools to our jobs and personal relations in such a way that we can keep a good balance among our performance, learning and enjoyment in every aspect of our lives. To explain these tools and the means to export them is what Puddicombe does so well.

Puddicombe says that no book can give you the benefits of mindfulness just by reading it. In fact, that same statement is mentioned in an 80’s movie “The Razor’s Edge”, when a miner hands a book (The Upanishads) to the main character, a monk-to-be. But I do not completely agree. I do have the experience of having consciously read Thureau's classic, “Walden”, and experienced a profound sense of acceptance of everything, that I am OK and that I do not need anything at all to continue being that way, only by reflecting about the writing and my own past experiences. Even so, I do agree that it must be easier to experience the benefits of mindfulness by practicing it.

This is the best book I have read in this subject and made me want to come back to the practice, from a freshly new perspective. I have invested an important amount of time and money in books and apps and even so, I will try it again.
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5.0 out of 5 stars mind reading
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5.0 out of 5 stars ✅ If you've ever wondered what it means to meditate, this is the right book! Reviewed in Italy 🇮🇹 on 1 April 2021 Verified Purchase Several years ago in an attempt to find a way to reduce anxiety, brain full of thoughts, I suspended my cynicism, turned off my cell phone and tried to take a meditation class of two days. After forty-eight awkward hours of chanting, bell ringing, and dead silences, I was sent home with a personal mantra and a recommendation to practice "doing it" for thirty minutes twice a day. Guess what happened? I did not! Every time I sat down, hoping to regain my composure, I ended up making mental to-do lists. When time was up, I'd leap out of my chair feeling frantic and annoyed that I'd wasted half an hour of my life. I've read other books on the subject over the years and been in and out. Sometimes the advice to "imagine my thoughts as fluffy clouds on a summer day" worked but, more often than not, it didn't. I started reading Get Some Headspace after an enthusiastic recommendation from a friend, who also used the Headspace app. I really like Andy's simple language and his personal stories. I can relate to his desire to handle the negative voice
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rahulraj
5.0 out of 5 stars A perfect book for a novice
Reviewed in India 🇮🇳 on 14 December 2022
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A perfect book for someone who wants to know what is medidation and mindfulness. It is written in a very easy to understand language which i thoroughly enjoyed. Definitely recommended.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Get Some Headspace
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Headspace combines a lot of great ideas.

Mindfulness. There was a time in America when meditation was the domain of gurus and cults. After a bevy of research proved that meditation has long-term benefits for the brain, many practitioners began using the term mindfulness. Mindfulness is also a specific aspect of meditation which seems to have the most clear benefits. In short, even for the most jaded person who doesn't understand meditation, you can still see how beneficial it would be for someone to practice sitting still and being quiet for a few minutes a day. Do this every day, perhaps first thing after you wake up, and you're almost guaranteed to have a better day.

A completely friendly approach. The author opens the book with a story about how he escaped by night from a monastic compound because- at that point in his life- silent meditation just wasn't for him. Keenly aware that other people might have a similar reaction, Headspace first and foremost builds a happy and safe environment for all. Cute animated characters, anecdotes, and self-reinforcement messages are sprinkled here and there to help you stick with this new skill.

A lovely voice, and a lovely perspective. Andy Puddicombe has the sort of voice to put anyone to sleep. He's honed this talent into a relaxed, soft speaking method for guided meditation. I'd highly recommend anyone interested in this book to also download the Headspace app to try a guided meditation directly from the master. It's really something special. Failing that, there's plenty in the book to help you understand the ins and outs. I would at least encourage everyone to find a video of Andy speaking online, because reading the book in his voice will certainly make it a more enriching experience.

The Headspace book covers it all. The benefits of meditation. The history of meditation. How to get started meditating. Roadblocks you might hit during your meditation- from your first session to your second decade practicing. It's all here, it's all friendly, and it exists to benefit you. Give it a try.
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Brad Feld
4.0 out of 5 stars Solid Addition to the Headspace Online Program, Which is Awesome
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 2 March 2014
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My exploration into meditation continues. I started on February 5th when I wrote the post Learning To Meditate. Since then, I've been practicing every day, read a few books on meditation, talked to a lot of people about it, and explored several iPhone / web apps.

The impact on me has been awesome.

After talking to Jerry Colonna for a few hours about meditation on the snowy Sunday after I started, he recommended I take a look at Headspace. I signed up that night and started doing the Take10 meditations. For the first few days, I did it once a day, but then quickly starting practicing twice a day, once in the morning and once before I went to bed. Occasionally I'd toss in another session at lunch time, although sometimes I just did a silent meditation instead for 10 to 15 minutes.

After about a week I was deeply hooked. I grabbed the iPhone GetSomeHeadspace app and untethered myself from my desk. We've got a meditation room in our new house and even though it's very sparse right now (just one sitting pillow), it's a magnificent sanctuary for my meditation.

I noticed that Andy Puddicombe, the founder of Headspace, had written a book called Get Some Headspace: How Mindfulness Can Change Your Life in Ten Minutes a Day. I downloaded it and read it last night and this morning. Since I'm deep into the Headspace program, a lot of it was familiar to me. But Andy's description of his own meditation journey is fascinating, and reinforces a lot of things he guides you through in the Headspace program.

Near the end, he has a great chapter on different forms of meditation beyond sitting. He covers walking, sleeping, eating, and running. These are forms that intrigue me, especially since I run a lot, eat too fast, and am exploring different sleep patterns.

Overall, the book is a nice addition to the Headspace program. If you are intrigued about meditation, it's a fast, easy, helpful read. But there's nothing like just practicing. For that, I recommend you hop on line and try the free Headspace Take10 program.
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Kushal
4.0 out of 5 stars Opened me to meditation
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Very detailed analysis of what the mind goes through. You will the issues relatable. The solution offered through meditation is also very practical and easy to implement.

Andy is a true entrepreneur. He has made meditation accessible for all people which was before a thing that only closed group did.

I hope I can continue following Headspace as it making small difference in my every day life. I do have a habit of getting back into old habits of doing things. So it is going to be a long journey before I feel more comfortable and confident about this.
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Ken
5.0 out of 5 stars Nice Book
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on 10 February 2023
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Nice book. A lot of good information.
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Eggy
5.0 out of 5 stars Read at the same time as starting the Headspace App - latter very good for actually training oneself to do it!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 16 April 2013
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I have rather liked the "idea" of meditation after doing a brief Buddhist meditation intro years ago & being impressed that they didn't push religion in anyway. Unfortunately I was always too busy/ stressed/ happy to get into the habit of doing it. Anyway after a stressful Xmas, when I didn't get a break, I was searching for something easy to teach me a bit of mindfulness & came across this as a sample on Kindle. I know that mindfulness is trending in NHS circles as being a useful aid to prevention of depression & can make changes in the brain on MRI scans. This book is a remarkably easy & down to earth read. It didn't quite make me cross the barrier of actually doing it - however then I realised that there was a Headspace App & this really has changed inner thought processes. the1 st 10 x10 min are free & gave me the thought holiday I needed. then I was curious, but somewhat cynical, as the hard sell to buy in is rather off putting- however I coughed up the money & 4 months down the line I now do daily, - well almost, & it is great!
I was a bit embarrassed to have signed into & paid for this sort of thing to admit it to anyone at 1st, but now i tell everyone!
I have calm ( well a bit more than I had before) & often increased clarity & surprisingly more creative thoughts which I hadn't looked for. I noticed my spouse, ha,ha, so they are pleased too.
On the App site & website there are some animations which are similar to the book but I still feel that reading the book at the beginning of commencing the App was useful & gave me extra impetus to try. As did signing up to the Lift motivational App. The Andy Puddicombe TED talk on YouTube & some of the Guardian web articles on him & BBC ones on mindfulness are also worth a look for anyone thinking about mindfulness meditation.
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4.0 out of 5 stars The start of the journey
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I read this book about a year ago after reading another book on Mindfulness called "The Mindfulness Manifesto".

I found Get Some Headspace to be easy to read and generally entertaining, and it gave me a good introduction to Mindfulness and meditation. I have been practising meditiation since. It is a long and sometimes difficult journey, but I can honestly say that it has changed me for the better. I am a bit calmer and less of a slave to my emotions, and am also able to stop and appreciate things a bit more. There is still a long way to go, and I couldnt tell you exactly how mindfuless has made a difference, but it has. I would say that somehow it has increased my self-awareness, and therefore given me more choices about what I do and how I behave in certain situations. The start of that was reading this book and also The Mindfulness Manifesto (and I should probably give Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Dummies a mention too, as that helped me at times).

I would therefore have to say this this book is well worth the money. I have been following the guided meditations on the Headspace website for some time now, and these are good also in my opinion. However only the first 10 are free, just to make everyone aware.

So for me, this book was the start of a difficult but rewarding journey that will probably go on for the rest of my life.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Looks like it's going to be a good read for me as a beginner
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Just arrived and new to meditation. The reviews look great
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Kishore Jasotani
5.0 out of 5 stars It's really genius
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The book covers everything and details everything in a story telling manner with great wisdom embodied in each story. Some books on meditation while describing the approach repeat the same thing again and again. Andy keeps focusing on approach but with something extra to learn in each lesson. Andy was a former monk and now runs a clinic, so he explains the concepts scientifically, with logic and at the same time the wisdom he gained in monastery reflects in everything he explains. Best thing about the book is that it really makes the barrier to entry low enough for the people who are new to the world of mindfulness, both in understanding and in practice, at the same time explaining everything. I don't think there could have been any better or wise explaination condensed in a 200 pages book. You never feel the redundancy and your wisdom earns a new badge with every paragraph in it. If you are really exploring "The Book" on mindfulness, your search ends here. I searched a lot, read a lot. Trust me, this is "The Book" you are looking for.
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Kelly
4.0 out of 5 stars Good companion to the app, definitely not Eat Pray Love
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This book is a great companion to the headspace app, which I am really enjoying these days. It answered some of the questions I had, and I suppose I'm old enough that I'd rather find answers in a book than in on-line help forums. How would it stack up against other "how to meditate books?" Good question. I think the genius of Andy's approach is his ability to hit all the salient points with phenomenal brevity, and a generally encouraging tone that contributes to making the material very accessible. He's very matter-of-fact, never overplays anything. In fact, I would have liked some vivid descriptions. But I am not very far along on the headspace journey, i.e., learning to meditate, and I am still attached to thoughts that are organized into stories. I must confess I was hoping for more detail about the personal journey from regular guy to monk to secular meditation guru. I mean, it is after all a book by a guy whose story gives him amazing cred. He includes some food-related insights and escapades, but I never found out whether he went through anything trippy, mystical or otherwise really compelling in all those years of meditation. I don't think the book as much as alludes to, let alone describes, a single religious experience. So to sum up, the book has a lot of good pointers for new meditators, but it could have been juicier, in the conventional sense of what a lifetime of reading conditions one to expect from a book.
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Sandeep Gondhalekar
3.0 out of 5 stars Very bad print too light
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Hope the printing was better and easy on eyes to read
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This program was previously published as Get Some Headspace: How Mindfulness Can Change Your Life in Ten Minutes a Day.

Quiet the mind, feel less stressed and less tired, and achieve a new level of calm and fulfillment in just ten minutes a day.

Andy Puddicombe, a former Buddhist monk, the Voice of Headspace, and the UK's foremost mindfulness expert, is on a mission: to get people to take 10 minutes out of their day to sit in the here and now.

Like his readers and students, Andy began his own meditation practice as a normal, busy person with everyday concerns, and he has since designed a program of mindfulness and guided meditation that fits neatly into a jam-packed daily routine - proving that just 10 minutes a day can make a world of difference.

Accessible and portable, The Headspace Guide to Meditation and Mindfulness offers simple but powerful meditation techniques that positively impact every area of physical and mental health: from productivity and focus, to stress and anxiety relief, sleep, weight-loss, personal relationships...the benefits are limitless. The result? More headspace, less stress. Andy brings this ancient practice into the modern world, tailor made for the most time starved among us.

Switch off after work
Fall asleep at night
Feel less anxious, sad, or angry
Control your cravings
Find a healthy weight

©2011 Andy Puddicombe (P)2012 Macmillan Audio
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Andy Puddicombe, born September 23, 1972, is the founder of Headspace; an award-winning[1] digital health platform that provides guided meditation sessions for its users. A former Buddhist monk with a degree in Circus Arts. According to The Times, he is also considered the "international poster boy for the modern mindfulness movement".[2] As both author and public speaker,[3] Puddicombe is known for his simple, accessible and secular approach, which has led to over 1 million users of the Headspace platform. The New York Times claims "Puddicombe is doing for meditation what Jamie Oliver has done for food". (source: Wikipedia)

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I stopped listening to music and watching TV in my 20s. It sounds extreme, but I did it because I thought they would just distract me from thinking about software. That blackout period lasted only about five years, and these days I’m a huge fan of TV shows like Narcos and listen to a lot of U2, Willie Nelson, and the Beatles.

Back when I was avoiding music and TV in the hope of maintaining my focus, I knew that lots of other people were using meditation to achieve similar ends. But I wasn’t interested. I thought of meditation as a woo-woo thing tied somehow to reincarnation, and I didn’t buy into it.

Lately, though, I’ve gained a much better understanding of meditation. I’m certainly not an expert, but I now meditate two or three times a week, for about 10 minutes each time. Melinda meditates too. Sometimes we sit to meditate together. (We use comfortable chairs; there’s no way I could do the lotus position.)

I now see that meditation is simply exercise for the mind, similar to the way we exercise our muscles when we play sports. For me, it has nothing to do with faith or mysticism. It’s about taking a few minutes out of my day, learning how to pay attention to the thoughts in my head, and gaining a little bit of distance from them.

Andy Puddicombe, the 46-year-old cofounder and voice of the popular Headspace app, was the person who turned me from skeptic to believer. Prior to finding Headspace, I had read several books about meditation, all of which intimidated me. They made me think that the investment in terms of time and energy was just too high. Headspace made the barrier to entry low enough for me. It’s just 10 minutes a day of listening to Andy’s soothing British accent and trying to stay with him. Andy has taken some heat from hard-core meditators for his low-barrier approach, but he got me to take up meditation and stick with it. I’m glad he did.

If you want to try meditation for yourself, one good way to ease into it—especially if you’re as skeptical as I was—is to pick up a copy of Andy’s book, The Headspace Guide to Meditation and Mindfulness. Andy’s a witty storyteller and offers lots of helpful metaphors to explain potentially tricky concepts, which makes the book an easy, enjoyable read. Andy presents the evidence base behind these practices in sections called “What the research shows” so you know the benefits are legitimate. And the book also helps you see that Andy himself is legitimate. He’s an ordained Buddhist monk who trained for many years in monasteries in India, Nepal, Myanmar, Thailand, Australia, Russia, and Scotland.

The book begins with Andy describing one of them: “Locked in, day and night, surrounded by high stone walls and with no way of contacting anyone on the outside, at times it had felt more like a prison.”

At another monastery, the monks served trainees curry and rice every day, and they made the trainees eat it very slowly over the course of exactly an hour. One super hot day, the monks placed in front of each trainee a wonderful surprise: ice cream. “It was like being a child at a birthday party when the cake comes out.” Unfortunately, the trainees soon discovered they were not allowed to touch the ice cream until they had eaten their curry and rice in the painfully slow way they’d been taught. As the ice cream melted in front of him, he felt angry, then sad and guilty for feeling angry—just as the monks knew would happen.

It turns out that monastic life wasn’t right for Andy. As we learn in the book, after ten years he left and—I kid you not—became a circus clown in London. He wanted to be fully engaged in the world rather than cloistering himself away in artificially quiet retreats.

While he was a clown, he started teaching meditation to those with severe anxiety and other conditions. A few years later, he started Headspace to bring meditation to the masses. He felt that meditation was a skill everyone could learn without sitting behind high stone walls or being subjected to mind games.

Melinda and I enjoyed Andy’s work so much that we reached out to him to see whether he might be willing to spend some time teaching our family. He was glad to do it, which was a real treat for us. For a day and a half, Andy helped us and two of our kids through exercises that are similar to the ones you’ll find in the book. Andy was just as warm, humble, and real as we’d imagined from reading his book and listening to him on the app.

I’m not sure how much meditation would have helped me concentrate in my early Microsoft days, because I was monomaniacally focused without it. But now that I’m married, have three children, and have a broader set of professional and personal interests, it’s a great tool for improving my focus. It’s also helped me step back and get some ease with whatever thoughts or emotions are present. I like what I’m getting from my 10 minutes every few days. I’m grateful to Andy for helping me on this journey.

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Several years ago I suspended my cynicism, switched off my mobile phone and went on a two-day meditation course. After an awkward forty-eight hours of chanting, bell ringing and deathly silences I was sent home with a personal mantra and a recommendation to practice ‘doing it’ for thirty minutes twice a day. Guess what happened? I didn’t do it. Every time I sat down, hoping to find calm, I ended up compiling mental to-do lists. When the time was up I’d leap out of the chair feeling frantic and annoyed that I’d wasted half an hour of my life. Over the years I’ve read other books on the subject and dipped in and out. Sometimes the advice to ‘imagine my thoughts like fluffy clouds on a summer day’ has worked but, more than often, it hasn’t. I started reading Get Some Headspace after a friend’s enthusiastic recommendation. I really like Andy’s down-to-earth language and his personal stories. I can relate to his desire to manage the negative/rambling voice in his head and his initial struggles to achieve positive results from meditating. I’ve registered online, downloaded the app (which is brilliant because you can have a guided meditation anytime, anyplace), and I’m enjoying my ten minutes everyday. I think this system works because it offers accessible support and encouragement and it enables me to easily incorporate meditation into a busy day. To my amazement, I’m beginning to think ten minutes isn’t long enough!

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My exploration into meditation continues. I started on February 5th when I wrote the post Learning To Meditate. Since then, I've been practicing every day, read a few books on meditation, talked to a lot of people about it, and explored several iPhone / web apps.

The impact on me has been awesome.

After talking to Jerry Colonna for a few hours about meditation on the snowy Sunday after I started, he recommended I take a look at Headspace. I signed up that night and started doing the Take10 meditations. For the first few days, I did it once a day, but then quickly starting practicing twice a day, once in the morning and once before I went to bed. Occasionally I'd toss in another session at lunch time, although sometimes I just did a silent meditation instead for 10 to 15 minutes.

After about a week I was deeply hooked. I grabbed the iPhone GetSomeHeadspace app and untethered myself from my desk. We've got a meditation room in our new house and even though it's very sparse right now (just one sitting pillow), it's a magnificent sanctuary for my meditation.

I noticed that Andy Puddicombe, the founder of Headspace, had written a book called Get Some Headspace: How Mindfulness Can Change Your Life in Ten Minutes a Day. I downloaded it and read it last night and this morning. Since I'm deep into the Headspace program, a lot of it was familiar to me. But Andy's description of his own meditation journey is fascinating, and reinforces a lot of things he guides you through in the Headspace program.

Near the end, he has a great chapter on different forms of meditation beyond sitting. He covers walking, sleeping, eating, and running. These are forms that intrigue me, especially since I run a lot, eat too fast, and am exploring different sleep patterns.

Overall, the book is a nice addition to the Headspace program. If you are intrigued about meditation, it's a fast, easy, helpful read. But there's nothing like just practicing. For that, I recommend you hop on line and try the free Headspace Take10 program.

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January 16, 2019
It was a relaxed, slow-paced, lite book on meditation and a method of doing it.
I enjoyed the book, however, it didn't gave me a heavy insight into meditation, but it gave me fairly good understand of what involves in a good practice of meditation. And also it brought the importance of its integration into other parts of my life. I should mention that though the book explains some meditation practices, it cannot do the job of the app, and vice versa. Although I think the book was intended as an independent product with the same aim as the app.
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Often in life we get so caught up in the analysis, the dissection of every possible outcome, that we miss an opportunity altogether. Of course, some things require careful consideration, but the more we live mindfully, in the moment, the more we start to get a sense of what feels right. Whether you think of it as a gut feeling, intuition, being guided, or just knowing for yourself that it’s the right thing to do, this can be an incredibly liberating discovery.

Do your thoughts define the way you feel? Or does the way you feel define your thoughts?

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This book contains very basic information on mindfulness and meditation. If you are a beginner or have been having trouble following a practice, this may contain the guidance you need. I was a little upset about the blatant commercialism of this book. The use of cute copyrighted terms like "headspace©" and "Take10©" turned me off. The book also repeatedly references the author's website where very little information is available without registering. It looked and smelled like a moneymaking machine that I would prefer to avoid. I did enjoy reading about the author's experiences as a Buddhist monk, especially the "Screaming Man Story".

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Wow. I sort of cannot believe how much I liked this book. I have never been good at quieting my mind and that was BEFORE having kids. And since? It is so noisy- I want a break from my thoughts. Enter this book. I think I read somewhere that meditation is a gym membership for the mind. It's true, guys! I have downloaded the Headspace app and I LOVE it. It is perfect for a beginner like me b/c the app uses guided meditation. All it requires is ten minutes of your time a day. And after that ten minutes? So relaxed.
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[I've also written a longer review of the book in my blog. You can find it here.]

I had already used the Headspace meditation app for a year before reading the book. Still, the book was definitely worth it! For example, the Headspace book goes deeper in the theory and reasoning than the app. The clear explaining also helped me correct some misconceptions I still had about meditation.

The Headspace book does a great job of teaching mindfulness in a very easy-to-understand way. Instead of giving the reader an information overload, the book has a clear focus on the most important information. It also helps that Andy Puddicombe is a very engaging and entertaining writer.

If I'd need to recommend just one book for someone who wants to learn mindfulness and meditation, I'd hand them "The Headspace Guide to Meditation and Mindfulness".

Ps. "The Headspace Guide to Meditation and Mindfulness" and "Get Some Headspace" are listed as different books in Goodreads, but make no mistake: "The Headspace Guide..." is just a re-branded version of the exact same thing.
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September 14, 2020
3.5 stars.

I am quite convinced of the benefits of mindfulness and meditation, which was why I read this book. The instruction surrounding the concept of mindfulness as a form of meditation made more sense than the 'traditional' idea of meditation, i.e. a state of having no thoughts in one's mind. I had tried that kind of meditation many times with all those breathing techniques with picturing one's third eye and the flow of prana, etc etc, but it never worked. The only thing that left me feeling a bit cold is the whole idea that people who are already so reliant on their smartphones are now reaching for it to help them meditate through an app. This is truly a sign of our times.
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February 6, 2019
While this book was an entertaining, gentle, and refreshingly irreverent introduction to meditation, from my perspective it didn't live up to the glowing reviews I'd heard about it. I've read a number of books and guides to meditation over the years, from Western approaches to Eastern religious texts (Hindu and Buddhist), and it's true that many of them can make the practice of meditation seem incredibly intimidating. This book takes a much less formal approach, and guides the reader through both the why and how of basic meditation techniques with joy and humor. As others have pointed out in their reviews, the book is made stronger both by his reference to studies that have demonstrated the value of meditation, as well as the endless personal stories which bring color to the sometimes dry material. In the end, though, the book just doesn't contain that much real information about meditation, and most of what it has to teach could easily have been covered in a chapter or two. It was an enjoyable read, so this is acceptable, but intermediate or advanced meditators are not going to find much new here.

I will admit that this book, unlike the many others I've read, did get me to start a meditation practice, both at home and in some of the situational mindfulness practices he describes (walking, riding the bus). I don't follow his take-10 methodology exactly, but I did find the framework he presents helpful in coming up with a practice that works for me. Only time will tell if this will prove useful for me, but this is more committed than I've been to a practice than ever before.

A note about the audiobook - the author reads very slowly, and it was hard to handle this book at less than 2.5x. As such, I found the HeadSpace app unbearable, as you must listen to the guided meditations at 1x. The last chapter in the book does have a version of each guided meditation, but I did not find this particularly useful.

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Though I stand by the content of my review, I've updated my rating from three stars to four. This is primarily because I've found the lessons and techniques in this book to be remarkably "sticky" - it has not only led me to consistent practices of both sitting and walking meditations, various concepts, images, and techniques from the book keep coming back to me as I shape my own practice. It's a book I'll definitely be recommending to others, and as such it deserves at least four stars.

[Update 2/5/19 - bumping up to five stars. Despite its quirks, this book was incredibly helpful to me, and it has taken a couple of months to see the full benefits. As I mentioned in my last update, the book got me to finally start a meditation practice, and now I've found several real world situations where being able to use that muscle of clearing my mind has been incredibly useful. I'm now going back through "Peace is Every Step," and even that book is proving far more meaningful now that this one got me on the path to a daily practice.

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The Pragmatist's Guide to Relationships: Ruthlessly Optimized Strategies for Dating, Sex, and Marriage by Malcolm Collins | Goodreads

The Pragmatist's Guide to Relationships: Ruthlessly Optimized Strategies for Dating, Sex, and Marriage by Malcolm Collins | Goodreads


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The Pragmatist's Guide to Relationships: Ruthlessly Optimized Strategies for Dating, Sex, and Marriage
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The Pragmatist’s Guide to Relationships presents a data-driven dissection of sex, dating, and marriage by taking a deep dive into academic literature and stress testing strategies advocated by “marriage gurus” and self-styled pick-up artists. Combining insights from these disparate fields, we construct novel models detailing how humans secure partners and make long-term relationships work while exploring how these systems can be exploited to one’s advantage in a world of broken dating markets and plummeting marriage rates.

This guide acts as an instruction manual for mate acquisition strategies of all stripes, providing the foundation needed to excel at any number of tricky tasks—be it getting laid, writing a marriage contract, training a spouse, determining whether a partner cheated, exploring the world of non-monogamy, or finding the perfect long-term partner.

As with all Pragmatist Foundation books, the proceeds from this book go to nonprofits. In line with the foundation's goals, the book attempts to explore the topic of human relationships without pushing the agenda of any particular ideological team.
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The Pragmatist's Guide to Relationships is what I would expect from any practical field guide on a subject: A bit of history, broad overviews of important facets, warnings, tactical tips, and helpful explanations, carefully categorized in a manner that is easy to skip around and targeted (meaning chapters that really only apply to certain audiences, like younger people who are only just starting to date, are neatly organized in the appendix and not boring general audiences). This is somewhat amusing considering that most relationship advice is packaged in a much more emotionally sensitive (and less professional and no-nonsense) package. If you want a guide to relationships that isn't going to hold your hand and tell you that you are perfect as you are and everything is going to be OK, you will not enjoy this book, but if you enjoy practical guides and would like to pick up some interesting insights on dating and relationships, you'll be glad you gave this book a try.

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This is a bit of a mad book, in that I highly suspect it's one of the most thought out and ruthless ways to arrange a relationship, the authors essentially advocate for relationships that enable you to become greater than the sum of your parts, which sounds pretty innocuous but in actuality, the methodology within is highly deliberate and thought through.

That said the book is deliberately open-minded and lists a variety of different relationship styles that could work for various different circumstances.

I think it might be the relationship guide for achieving success out there. It definitely did make me want a partner that propelled me forward in life!

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I am really proud of the work our team put into making this book as comprehensive as it is.

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This book has a lot of information in its appendix and you can design your reading experience by selectively reading the chapters relevant to your personal goals and life. What I like about the book is that the book was cowritten by a man and a woman, making the points they present relatable to readers of both genders.

I recommended this book to my male friends who are struggling with the dating scene as well, since I personally found this book to be insightful and useful. I think bearing in mind that the concept of BATNA (best alternative to negotiated agreement), aka Opportunity Cost in Economics (the second best alternative you can get next to the option you are evaluating), is incredibly important while dating, as the authors are trying to remind us readers. You should always know what your objectives are, how much you are willing to concede and if nothing works, what truly can make you happy in your personal life, BEFORE going into a relationship or even falling head over heels over someone.

I also wrote to the authors after reading the book and actually discussed with them about my thoughts on the content. They have a network of actual professionals (counseling, coaches, etc.) that they are happy to connect you with. Or if they have insights on the very topics you have follow up questions on, they will write back. I think that really helps readers understand their message more and could also improve their content over time, if they were to release more publications.

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This book WILL challenge you.

There's a lot to question/disagree with, but as advertised, it's on me to dig deeper. (Challenge accepted!). This is the second of three books in the "pragmatist" series [we're] reading together. I have no doubts as to the usefulness and value of what Simone and Malcolm have written!

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October 23, 2021
I struggle to even draft a mental list of all the useful insights in this book. If you are serious about looking for relationships or improving the one you are in, then this is simply a must-read that will open your eyes to concepts and insights you are not likely to find anywhere else.

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June 16, 2023
This book put words to the experiences that I've had over the past few years in the long-term relationship dating market. The clarity of categories in this book is very helpful.

I can't get over Malcom and Simone Collins as a tag-team pair who dissect a wide variety of topics. Their series of Pragmatist's Guide books is very exhaustive surrounding each topic.

Also the book contains a link to a free reading of the book! It's not professionally done (just Malcolm and a microphone somewhere in his own home), but a free audiobook is very amazing.

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For a "pragmatist's guide" there is very little actually actionable advice in this book. It's mostly a collection of research summaries of varying usefulness, without any practical conclusions.
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The Pragmatist’s Guide to Sexuality: What Turns People On, Why, and What That Tells Us About Our Species by Malcolm Collins | Goodreads

The Pragmatist’s Guide to Sexuality: What Turns People On, Why, and What That Tells Us About Our Species by Malcolm Collins | Goodreads



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The Pragmatist’s Guide to Sexuality: What Turns People On, Why, and What That Tells Us About Our Species
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Those in the US who get turned on by watching a predator eat a person outnumber the entire population of Massachusetts, a random American is about as likely to be turned on by parent-child roleplay as they are to be Black, and more Americans are turned on by feces than have a PhD. What the heck is going on here? Why do strange, often-inconvenient things activate a system that presumably evolved to compel humans to reproduce? Why do some things arouse some while repulsing others?

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• Been aroused by something . . . unexpected?
• Stumbled upon bizarre porn and wondered how it could possibly turn people on?
• Wondered why something that turns on many of your friends is super gross to you?

The Pragmatist’s Guide to Sexuality takes a deep dive into research surrounding human sexuality while also presenting one of the most comprehensive studies into what arouses people, using this data to explore everything from the social structures of early hominids to the future of dating.

As with all Pragmatist Foundation books, the proceeds generated from the sale of this work go to nonprofits.
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"The average person is aroused by a whopping 22 weird things."

This book does what I like best in a nonfiction book: It radically changes how I understand something, in a way that is so smooth and easy to read and so obvious that I hardly notice that I've fundamentally changed my understanding.

I don't think I can go back to the way I used to understand sexuality. I'm not even sure I can remember how I used to think about it. The concept of arousal and aversion plus volume is so clear and so after-the-fact obvious. They do a great job of explaining. The sections on aversion were fascinating. The idea that most of the population has "kinks" was surprising and discussed very pragmatically. (I would have liked to see some discussion of pedophilia, but since it is criminal I can understand the difficulties involved in researching it.)

The conversations about sexual identity are logical and persuasive, explaining how some of the current language currently lumps different arousal paths together and thus doesn't adequately account for important sexual differences . The last section was written in a very fun style and relaxed tone. Yes, some of it is wildly speculative but it's all good fun and there are so many refreshing thoughts and ideas there.

This was my first "Pragmatist's Guide To" book but now I'm going to read more. I never heard of the NeoCorp model of family and I'm looking forward to reading about that. Sounds intriguing.

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July 24, 2020
I'll be completely honest: I saved this book for last when reading The Pragmatist Guide series because most of their books are on the 'challenging academic' end of the spectrum and I thought this would be a racy, scintillating read. Alas, as I started reading this book, I quickly realized that this, too, is a very rigorous and sometimes challenging read. Those looking for fluffy, scandalous pop psychology paperbacks on human sexuality might be a bit dissappointed; Simone and Malcom Collins really focus on persenting grounded, logical, ratoinal commentary on various aspects of human sexuality to a point at which it stops feeling... sexy. Don't let that turn you away, however: What you'll take away instead is a profoundly deeper understanding of what turns people on and why, plus several ideas shared in the book might even really surprise you and make you look at sex/relationships/human history/humans in general totally differently.

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July 24, 2020
Somewhere near the begining of this book the authors prefecases things by saying they won't be citing studies much. Surpise suprise, they cite studies more frequently than any author I have ever read. I supose it is more a reflection of the standards they holds themselves to and really indivicative of the academic rigor behind a book that is otherwise very accesible and written in the vernacular.

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July 19, 2020
A great book that a large team put a lot of effort into create

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August 19, 2020
To be fair, I know the authors, which is why I checked out this book. I really appreciated their first book The Pragmatist's Guide to Life and was eager to read their next two books, including this one. This is a very thorough, very carefully researched overview of human sexuality full of surprising statistics, interesting studies, and intriguing models (presented as an alternate to what Simone and Malcolm see as outdated frameworks, such as the Kinsey scale). If you find this subject to be interesting (and frankly, if you're interested in psychology in general), I think you'll enjoy this book.

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August 5, 2020
I have not been able to put this book down.
I'd never read any of the Pragmatist Guides before, but the superb, but totally accessible presentation of genuinely ground-breaking research is beyond any expectation I held. This book is full of extraordinary insights into what, and where everyone's unique arousal pathways are. It dispels common sexual myths with rigour - the fact that the average person finds 22 unusual things sexually arousing is a wonderful starting point for the in-depth exploration of what those are.
It is the presentation of the data that lifts this book from good to great. It is absolutely for the layperson. It's thoughtful, challenging, sensitive to the difficult issues, but most of all laugh out loud funny in the way it reflects on the beautiful craziness of what arouses us.
As it acknowledges, it won't have the academic rigour that some will want, but in something so wide-ranging that would have been impossible. Instead, it makes that weakness a strength and challenges us to come up with our own answers and dig deeper into those things that aren't yet clear.
If you are curious about what turns people on, where that might come from, and how you fit into it, read this book. It's a masterpiece of research and a truly great read.

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This isn't exactly what I was expecting, but I really should have because it's just what the title says it is. Nowhere else have I seen so much information, percentages and comparisons regarding what people like and theories as to why. For example, do you think the weird kink you have stems from something that happened to you in childhood? Nope. This book gives evidence that you were likely just born with whatever preferences you have when it comes to all kinds of sexuality. And that's only the tip of the iceberg. Fascinating.

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What I like about this book is that it unashamedly attempts to tell the truth without bearing offence or politics. It's probably the most evidenced backed and well-written book on sexuality out there.

There are definitely some shocking points and information within, but ultimately gives you a better understanding of human sexuality and how it developed. The dominance/submission angle is also quite interesting.

I wrote so many notes I won't include them here, feel free to message me for a copy.

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It's... a lot. One-hundred and twenty four chapters. That's either a good thing or a bad thing depending on what you're looking for. I'm maybe 10% of the way through the book at the time of this review, but I'm here typing because I'm just too excited to say something good about the Collins's writing.

Simone and Malcolm Collins consistently provide a thorough, well-researched, hyper-intellectual teardown for all of their content, and this book is no exception. It's difficult to power through any of their books in one sitting. Any given chapter might turn my world on its head, and I need to pause the book and chew on the content for a while before returning to the work.

In their "Pragmatist's Guide" series, Simone and Malcolm provide practical advice on achieving specific goals. Here's a goal you might want, here's the current state of the world, and here's how you might go about pursuing your goal in such a world. "The Pragmatist's Guide to Sexuality" is not that. Everyone else seems to be having a good time, and Simone and Malcolm want to know /why/.

For example: Early in the book, Simone and Malcolm assert that arousal is the opposite of disgust. A kink is just a very specific exception in a person's disgust system, and those exceptions are somehow erotic. Just as disgust is involuntary, so too is arousal.

While there seems to be no clear goal of the book, the implications of their findings are still very helpful. For example, if you have a weird kink (I definitely have at least one weird kink), you can depersonalize yourself from any shame around it. Everyone has a weird kink, kinks seem to be unchangeable, and arousal is involuntary. Your personal responsibility is in how, who, and when you engage in the kink with; but because the kink is involuntary, you can release all your shame around having the kink.

Again, this is just the content from the opening of the book. There's so much more here than just this.

Knowledge is power, and this is entirely too much knowledge.
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I love the authors' transparency to mention the studies that don't support their notions. Some of the statistics are really surprising like "the significant percentage of men who get attracted to female form, also feel aversion to vagina" , "Significant percentage of men who don't prefer live action porn" and so on. The cognitive model of arousal/aversion to understand some of the kinks, Making sense of arousal patterns with Neuroscience and Evolutionary principles, The chapter on Evolutionary Psychology that makes clear of some misunderstandings, Mating market analysis in the concluding chapter and all the awesome data in the supplement - This book is highly recommended for anyone interested in human sexual behaviour.
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The Pragmatist’s Guide to Life: A Guide to Creating Your Own Answers to Life’s Biggest Questions
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As humans, we get to choose what we believe and who we want to be. This book is a ruthlessly pragmatic guide to creating your own answers to life's biggest questions.

Each of this book's four chapters covers one of the most important questions a person must ask themselves:

What is the purpose of my life? How can I best realize the purpose of my life? Who do I want to be? How do I want other people to think of me?
Rather than give you answers to these questions, this guide provides a framework that helps you develop your own answers while equipping you with the neuroscientific tools necessary to transform yourself into whomever you choose to be.

If you are looking for a light read that will make you feel good about yourself, this isn’t the book for you. If you want to take the time to think hard, take full ownership of the person you have allowed yourself to become, and permanently transform yourself into the best iteration of that person then you have found your book.


The book was created as the work of a non-profit institution (http://pragmatist.guide/) dedicated to helping people think through the big questions in life without leading them to a specific answer, all proceeds from the sale of the book go to the nonprofit and not the author.



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Ionia
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The pragmatic way I read this book was to tolerate most of it, appreciate a few portions of it and roll my eyes at the rest. I was willing to see what this couple had to say about life and how they believe it can be improved, and there were even a few points I agreed with them on. But, sadly, that is the nature of a book like this. Any book that begins by telling you that you can be whatever you want to be and that you should learn to break away from harmful societal ideologies and then proceeds to command you to listen to the author and do exactly as they say (no cheating kids!)during a series of increasingly more pathetic thought experiments seems like a melting pot of hypocrisy that I find it hard to take seriously.


I was almost okay with this book, until I got to the section near the end, where they suggest that you create a public persona and expect a good way for you to do this is to go to tvtropes and choose one for yourself, and then add to the ridiculousness of this idea by telling the reader that they should also carefully consider adding an annoying flaw to their made up personality so that they are memorable for only that one character flaw. Apparently, that's how we can become the next president.


I was particularly fond of the portion of this book where they claimed that the American public only thought that Bill Clinton's infidelity was offensive because he chose to have sex with an ugly woman. Not that he was wrong and that he was a jerk for cheating on his wife, but that he was only wrong for not choosing a foxier playmate. Wow. Just wow. You know, three stars might have been a bit generous for this review, actually.


In any case, there were some parts that I agreed with. I liked the part where there were no more words and the book was over. I really am sorry, but I cannot take this seriously.


Also, I am now Batman. And I fart. In public. Remember me.

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April 2, 2018
Whether you are interested in general “life guide" books, psychology, or are simply wanting a good and stimulating read, this book is definitely worth a shot! It is clearly written and done so in a unique way, drawing from classic and modern influences suitable for any readership. It offers a new and fresh perspective on a subject which is well-documented and is written in an engaging and informative way which will leave readers feeling they have accomplished something after finishing and are able to reflect on the points contained within. Overall, very worthwhile read!

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April 19, 2018
If I had to describe this book I would call it the crossfit of the self help genre. It is the type of book that would roll its eyes dramatically at the concept of “learning to love yourself” instead demanding that you learn to be someone worthy of love or learn to stop expecting the world to love you. If that type of pragmatic view of the world jives with you, you are going to go nuts for this book.

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Having a clear goal/purpose/vision is crucial in Life. We usually get carried on by day to day affairs. Adversaries sometimes knock us down. Having clear cut vision which we can refer back as our guide is the important skill. This book is at it - The intentional living.

Goal/Purpose/Vision - These are referred together as objective function. The idea is that our decisions can be better made to maximise our objective function. The objective function can be "Spread happiness as much as possible", for example. But, We have to get better clarity at it.

For example, If our goal is to reduce the current weight, It helps immensely when we make it more concrete. Why do we want to reduce the weight? Is it for its own sake? Is it to show off our self control? Is it to become beautiful? Is it to become healthier? Is it to compare with a slim friend? Without knowing the clarified reason which we deeply believe as personal truth, We are prone to derail. If our ultimate objective is to be healthier, What is the point in comparing with a slim person and get demotivated?

So, This is how the objective function of our life too works - giving better clarity and guidance at crucial decisions. This is what the book talks and there are lots of thought experiments to get better clarity while choosing the objective function.

Our Ideologies are the models that we believe them to work to maximise our objective function. By making this distinction, It is possible to not to be driven by our ideology. If our objective is to maximise the social welfare, Communism may be an ideology to do that. But If the evidences convince us that there are better models, Then this way of thinking allows us to shift our ideology rather than blindly sticking to it. And The book discusses on how we can decide ideology and get the evidences to make it better.

The self image and the social image are the two important tools to make our goals/visions possible. In the discussion of self image, There is a closer but different model, like in cognitive behaviour therapy. How we perceive ourselves is also very important in how we react to the circumstances. If one perceives himself as a saint, He may not get angry unnecessarily which may go against his perceived self. We have to align our self image with the objective function.

There are lots of information on how to change the habits for better, How to better regulate emotions and so on, based on this model. The final chapter talks about the social image. One may wonder why we have to have different social image? Won't it be better to have social image that reflects the self? The book shows the clear distinction here. I love the analogy of software. The coding is like the self image But One cannot post the coding on the software package, rather We post the important features that others can understand. This understandable version is the social image. The book discusses it deeper in the final chapter.

Overall This is not the bed time self-help book. It needs open mindedness and It is the very thoughtful book. I recommend this as a guide, to get some idea on how to think about the big questions of Life!

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August 8, 2018
Couldn't even make it through the first chapter. Her description of their first date set of every red flag in my head. He sounds exactly like my abusive ex.

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August 11, 2018
One of the most impactful books I have ever read. It is the closest thing I have to a personal bible. It is just so darn good at getting you to look at things from a new perspective without telling you what to think.

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kindle unlimited, We all always have choices. It is merely a question of whether we make a choice one way, the other way, now many choices there are, and if some decide to not make a decision at all. Pretty much the entire book is all hypothesis with few choices and even fewer proofs. A life, a being of any type, is a whole jigsaw puzzle, so without the entire, completed puzzle is part of the whole which cannot be without the separate pieces, and just perhaps the corner peices or the outline pieces are more important but just in the way that they are the framework, the guideline for the rest, the entire thing. Mentioning the Tree then acting as if all parts are always the same quality or 'weighted' is, again, akin to looking at just the leaves but not the trunk nor the roots, and is therefore illogical, undoable, and therefore of not much real worth. It is 'logical inconsistencies' to believe in a loving god who could wipe out a whole planet over what amounted to a badly misbehaving child being killed versus disciplined. It is more likely to happen when it's something from someone's deeper beliefs or training, but it is not equal to 'conspiracy theory'. Parents/Spouse deaths are not 'mitigated' they are dealt with or there are psychological issues to follow.

No, 'we' do not prefer to being told what to believe to defend what what we wish were true; some of the 'we' were not born, formed, nor made that way. There is spirtuality versus religion, and too many other areas which I disagree with or totally repute. Something such as animal sentiency or feelings, and what level those are, would not only be depended upon what type animal but what genetics have brought forth and even strengthened. Purpose is not a 'thing' or even way of life, it is the whole life and actions, reactions, and cause and effect of all that. How is intrinsic value determined by, as the writers claim, when they have already started in on that people are basically biased in their thoughts and actions, and perhaps not intentionally but still go on to see things within the framework they know, no matter how 'enlightened' they are. Beliving or not believing a cows life, itd experiences, presuppose sub-human treatreatment/abuse, where there are have been and are more and more free range and other more 'humane' practices for birthing, raising, and living.

The next part sounds more akin to a paper on adrenaline junkies versus out of shaped and/or unlimited time, but without some 'purpose' there is...no purpose, so what is the purpose of even being, so in effect cancels out part of the other things being claimed. To presuppose that all people equate a supposedly simple term as, for example, Athiest, is also ridiculous, because those of the Agnostic category have had that changed, redefined, and totally turned around by some and now doesn't even get the same dictionary listing much less agreement by different people/religions in general. A test, expecially psycholgical and like ones, are only as good and/or helpful as the people that made the tests, as well as the mindset and personality of the person taking the test. There are different types of 'intelligence', including mental, emotional and others, so again cannot equate apples and oranges beyond that they are fruits. Repeatedly stating that everyone's objective function and then {directly opposite} of what the book proposed to do {supposedly help someone pick their objective funtion, within even the framework of the book, which keeps telling them tat they will be wrong, regardless it seems. Who gets to rule that a person's or other species has 'intrinsic value', becuase assuredly many would disagree, and for various reasons.

Also no, changing the way a question is considered 'cheating' BUT NOT if one is a thinking breathing living human being with their own mind, of any decent mentality, that is considering the question/s but at the same time is also thinking in and out of context; 1 + 1 = 2....unless basic math is not used but something such as algebra or other such maths that change the meaning in some ways. There are too many types of people, too many types of religions, too many types of personalities, of mindsets, of beliefs which have subsets. What {all} I belive, and do which is not necessarily the same thing, is to deny that any such supposedly complex 'thing' is so black and white, with no grays or exeptions or addendums or even tweeks. Just as stating that not accepting or accepting no negative feelings completely ignores the psychological findings that show without one how is someone to feel or even recognize what is is and what it is for. There is no light without dark, no good without bad, so one cannot attempt what is basically an economist's 'vacuum' versus free or closed market...it's all based on supposition of just one fact affecting everything else, even when that is obviously not the true world. How is 'mental-scapes' not the same or in the same section as ideas?

No, someone's guessed mental states, even for something such as being alone in a movie house, noticing it, etcetera, presupposes that the person is not a loner, did not intend and/or want to be there alone, and/or affected in any way, if they even noticed it at all, and wrong suppositions such as that are throughout the book, always going for one thing, few possible reactions, and not considering any other things or ways at all, so yes basically pseudo science, heavy on psuedo. It is a total mishmash of several self help type books, one that claims to not use overly scientific words/explanations, as a way to basically ignore the scientific facts already in evidence, then oxymoronically adding in mental states for a very long section, yet in other parts claiming that can or should be over-rode or in direct opposition learn to change them all, with pseudo science babble. There are huge parts that don't seem to have any use, beyond being 'filler' for an already overly long medically oriented rambling mess. As for more 'normal' vocaulary being used in this book, I have been consistently tested with one of the highest vocabularies mixed with other needed factors including retention and word pre- and suffixes, and I had to keep stopping to look up terms. Was very intensely BORED & migraine-d.


As humans, we get to choose what we believe and who we want to be. This book is a ruthlessly pragmatic guide to creating your own answers to life's biggest questions.

Each of this book's four chapters covers one of the most important questions a person must ask themselves:
What is the purpose of my life?
How can I best realize the purpose of my life?
Who do I want to be?
How do I want other people to think of me?
Rather than give you answers to these questions, this guide provides a framework that helps you develop your own answers while equipping you with the neuroscientific tools necessary to transform yourself into whomever you choose to be.

If you are looking for a light read that will make you feel good about yourself, this isn’t the book for you. If you want to take the time to think hard, take full ownership of the person you have allowed yourself to become, and permanently transform yourself into the best iteration of that person then you have found your book.

The book was created as the work of a non-profit institution (http://pragmatist.guide/) dedicated to helping people think through the big questions in life without leading them to a specific answer, all proceeds from the sale of the book go to the nonprofit and not the author.

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Overly simplistic, confused.

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I'm too old to waste time finishing bad books.

On the surface, this book holds promise. The overall idea--figure out what you believe and then live your life according to those baseline beliefs--makes sense. But beyond that one sentence, things go downhill. The authors are self-congratulatory to a fault and extremely anti-intellectual. Actual philosophy and such--you know, the entirety of human thought for millennia--is "stuffy" and impractical. But these two entrepreneurs have all the answers if you'll just follow their agenda.

The thought exercises offered in the first half of the book (which is as far as I read) are often sophomoric and more often intellectually dishonest, setting up false dichotomies designed to funnel the reader into accepting the authors' authority rather than to stimulate actual critical thinking. They create unsolvable dilemmas and then, when the reader gets tangled, they offer seemingly clear solutions--to problems that they created. Oh, and if you turn to philosophy to solve these dilemmas, you're imprisoned by ideology and not living your true values.

Also, be warned that this "guide to life" is completely amoral. If you decide that your baseline values are to promote your own benefit at the expense of others or that you really derive pleasure from, say, torturing small animals, the premise of this book is that you should order your life to maximize those values. It's moral relativism in the extreme crossed with a particularly virulent form of modern solipsism and white American entitlement.

Finally, the account written by Simone of how she was perfectly happy in her life until she met Michael and he showed her that her life was shallow and meaningless and now she lives according to his rules and she's *so much happier* is one giant neon red flag. Maybe Michael is a fantastic guy. But the way Simone describes her "conversion" reads like a memoir of an abusive marriage or becoming a cult member. It's creepy and sad and at least as big a turn-off as the intellectual laziness, amorality, and dishonesty in their "philosophy." In fact, if you'd like to know what trying to reason with a narcissistic sociopath is like, just read this book. Better yet, skip the gaslighting and condescension and read some real philosophy.

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Every page was a learning experience!

I took my time, had to, checking words definitions nearly every page. Rereading pages, paragraphs or sentences nearly as often. Learning, questioning and laughing (those questions such as setting off a bomb, made me gasp in shock, but boy did I think, think again and rethink my answers) driving me to new thoughts. Challenging everything I thought I knew, but I've purchased the next two books, so yes, intriguing for sure.

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The Pragmatist’s Guide to Crafting Religion: A playbook for sculpting cultures that overcome demographic collapse & facilitate long-term human flourishing by Simone Collins | Goodreads

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Humanity consists of coevolving software (our religion and culture), firmware (our hardcoded proclivities, such as language acquisition), and hardware (our brains). Ripping out a third of the equation has led to innumerous unintended—and typically negative—consequences. This book offers a guide to rebuilding or fortifying this increasingly neglected aspect of the human condition. Specifically, The Pragmatist’s Guide to Crafting Religion serves as a playbook for those looking to strengthen traditional cultures in the face of collapsing birth rates or craft entirely new cultures designed to impart strategic advantages to adherents. Should You Read This Book?




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I didn't agree with everything said in the book, but there are a lot of good ideas here that can be replicated in your own home.

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‘Exploring the value of cultural and religious traditions’ - Profound and entertaining!

Authors Simone and Malcolm Collins as a couple promote ‘pronatalism,’ the idea of having more children to combat ‘fertility collapse.’ They founded The Collins Institute, working with Teach for America’s Reinvention Lab helping visionary entrepreneurs and leaders reinvent or dramatically improve the American education system. Their Pragmatist’s Guide series challenges readers to pause, think, consider, and motivate change - personally and culturally. This fifth volume opens with a ‘warning’ - ‘This book will be wildly offensive to most people…Within it you will find a heavily annotated playbook for constructing a cultural/religious framework optimized to preserve (rather than erase) the individual traditions, values, and worldviews of those who join while maximizing autonomy and individual efficacy…useful to those who want to build a family culture that is intergenerationally durable.’

Given that excitement generating ‘warning,’ the authors survey morality, spirituality, cultural language, sexuality, dating, marriage contracts, gender roles, etc, focusing on the now social media hyped falling birthrate and consequences as affected by culture. ‘Biological evolution provides some basic coding, much like a low-level programming language might for a given hardware, whereas cultural evolution manipulates the high-level, object-oriented code that lets us program highly nuanced behaviors.’ The content is turgid at times, but at all times spiced with wry wit and humor, a factor that makes reading the book intoxicating and magnetizing. Both intelligent and stimulating, this book is a must read for all those who ponder evolutionary progress. Highly recommended.
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The Pragmatist’s Guide to Crafting Religion: A Playbook for sculpting cultures that overcome demographic collapse & facilitate long-term human flourishing (The Pragmatist's Guide 5) Book 5 of 5: The Pragmatist's Guide | by Simone Collins and Malcolm Collins. Simone and Malcolm Collins delve into a pressing question of our era: how can we preserve cultural and religious practices for a brighter tomorrow? Alarming societal norms, including declining fertility rates, threaten our institutions and may lead to economic collapse. The Collins' research reveals surprising predictors of above-replacement fertility levels, such as tribalism and dogmatism, posing challenges to Western liberalism. They discuss various cultural types and highlight the threat of a "supervirus" that undermines institutions. Engaging personal anecdotes, pop culture references, and exploration of diverse aspects of culture make this an essential read. Brace yourself for their audacious vision of the future. Highly recommend it for an incredibly thoughtful and interesting read.

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Not necessarily everything discussed in the book needs to be agreed upon but definitely worth giving a thought.

The Pragmatist's Guide to Crafting Religion by Simone and Malcolm Collins offers a thought-provoking exploration of the value of cultural and religious traditions. The authors skillfully argue that neglecting this aspect of the human condition has resulted in unintended and often harmful consequences. Their book serves as a playbook for fortifying traditional cultures in the face of declining birth rates or creating new cultures that provide strategic advantages to adherents. The authors promote pronatalism and inspire readers to pause, think, and motivate change on both personal and cultural levels.

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June 19, 2023
The blurb intrigued me, but I don’t entirely know how I feel about this book yet. I think I’ll probably end up re-reading it, and letting my brain mull over everything presented a bit longer. It is well-written, and presented decently, but the concepts are a bit odd to me. I’m giving this four stars because it was so well-written, and even though the topics get quite deep, it’s not very hard to read, even if I’m not entirely sure if I agree with everything said. I have a feeling the target audience for this is more conservative than I am, but I can’t find fault with the writing. Just be warned, if you lean more liberal, you may not enjoy reading this.

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The Collins’ identify the problem with declining global fertility rates but their solution is greatly lacking.
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