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Mindfulness for Beginners: Reclaiming the Present Moment—and Your Life eBook : Kabat-Zinn, Jon, Ph.D.: Amazon.com.au: Kindle Store

Mindfulness for Beginners: Reclaiming the Present Moment—and Your Life eBook : Kabat-Zinn, Jon, Ph.D.: Amazon.com.au: Kindle Store



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An Invitation to the Practice of Mindfulness

We may long for wholeness, suggests Jon Kabat-Zinn, but the truth is that it is already here and already ours. The practice of mindfulness holds the possibility of not just a fleeting sense of contentment, but a true embracing of a deeper unity that envelops and permeates our lives. With Mindfulness for Beginners you are invited to learn how to transform your relationship to the way you think, feel, love, work, and play—and thereby awaken to and embody more completely who you really are.
Here, the teacher, scientist, and clinician who first demonstrated the benefits of mindfulness within mainstream Western medicine offers a book that you can use in three unique ways: as a collection of reflections and practices to be opened and explored at random; as an illuminating and engaging start-to-finish read; or as an unfolding “lesson-a-day” primer on mindfulness practice.
Beginning and advanced meditators alike will discover in these pages a valuable distillation of the key attitudes and essential practices that Jon Kabat-Zinn has found most useful with his students, including:
Why heartfulness is synonymous with true mindfulnessThe value of coming back to our bodies and to our senses over and over againHow our thoughts “self-liberate” when touched by awarenessMoving beyond our “story” into direct experienceStabilizing our attention and presence amidst daily activitiesThe three poisons that cause suffering—and their antidotesHow mindfulness heals, even after the factReclaiming our wholeness, and more.
The prescription for living a more mindful life seems simple enough: return your awareness again and again to whatever is going on. But if you’ve tried it, you know that here is where all the questions and challenges really begin. Mindfulness for Beginners provides welcome answers, insights, and instruction to help us make that shift, moment by moment, into a more spacious, clear, reliable, and loving connection with ourselves and the world.
Includes digital access to five guided mindfulness meditations by Jon Kabat-Zinn, selected from the audio program that inspired this book.
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Review

Jon Kabat-Zinn is one of the finest teachers
of mindfulness you will ever encounter.
JACK KORNFIELD
Author of A Path with Heart


Jon Kabat-Zinn provides access to the
essence of meditation and its applications
for both the beginner and those who
wish to deepen and expand their practice.
He embodies what he describes.
DEAN ORNISH, MD

"Jon Kabat-Zinn is one of the finest teachers
of mindfulness you will ever encounter."
-JACK KORNFIELD
Author of A Path with Heart

"Jon Kabat-Zinn provides access to the
essence of meditation and its applications
for both the beginner and those who
wish to deepen and expand their practice.
He embodies what he describes."
-DEAN ORNISH, MD

"Jon Kabat-Zinn is one of the finest teachers of mindfulness you will ever encounter."
JACK KORNFIELD
Author of A Path with Heart


"Jon Kabat-Zinn provides access to the essence of meditation and its applications for both the beginner and those who wish to deepen and expand their practice. He embodies what he describes."
DEAN ORNISH, MD"--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

From the Back Cover


What if you could profoundly change your life just by becoming more mindful of your breathing? According to Jon Kabat-Zinn, you can. What if paying attention on purpose (and nonjudgmentally) could improve your health? Again, according to Dr. Kabat-Zinn-it can.

On Mindfulness for Beginners, this internationally known scientist, bestselling author, and teacher who brought mindfulness meditation into the mainstream of medicine and society gives you immediate access to a practice that can potentially add years to your life, and will certainly enhance the quality of your moments and your years.

Join Dr. Kabat-Zinn to:

Explore five guided meditations that lead you breath-by-breath into the essence of Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), a program offered in medical clinics and hospitals around the world
. Cultivate the Seven Key Attitudinal Factors of MBSR-qualities of heart and mind that lay the foundation for mindfulness practice and for seeing and accepting things as they are as a first step to working wisely and compassionately with stress, pain, illness, and sorrow as well as life's joys and pleasures
. Free yourself from limiting perspectives, and become more intimate with your own boundless awareness

You're already in the perfect moment for inhabiting this liberating awareness, which is always available, teaches Jon Kabat-Zinn. With Mindfulness for Beginners, he invites you to cultivate mindfulness as if your life depended on it, which it surely does, and experience the magnitude and beauty of who you already are.

Course objectives:

Apply an understanding of the concept of mindfulness
. Utilize simple guided meditations led by Kabat-Zinn
. List the ethical and attitudinal foundations necessary to cultivating mindfulness
. Assess how we can choose where to focus our awareness
. Plan to use mindfulness to help us develop compassion and insight into our true nature--This text refers to an alternate kindle_edition edition.

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From Australia

Reviewed in Australia 🇦🇺 on 14 February 2019
Very easy to listen to to and understand he has a way of explaining things that everyone can relate to , I have listened to it twice now and come out feeling better and with more understanding about yourself
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Reviewed in Australia 🇦🇺 on 30 January 2015
If you feel as though meditation is to monotonous then this book happily dispels that notion
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Reviewed in Australia 🇦🇺 on 10 August 2022
I bought this book 2 years ago based on the recommendation of my therapist and I ignored it. After many psychology books which recommended me to read this one, finally I did. Be aware of how your mind is working to be happy. Yes, it is about how to be happy, to be free and to enjoy of everything the life brings you. Read it and may be you can simplify your life and be happy.
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From other countries

Andrew Roberts
5.0 out of 5 stars book
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 30 May 2023
love it
SC
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book on mindfulness
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 20 April 2023
This is an excellent book for beginners as the title states. If you are new to the subject, then this is the book for you!
Joel Shiver
5.0 out of 5 stars Comparison with Jack Kornfield's "Meditation for Beginners."
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 6 April 2011
I have been looking for a way to explain mindful meditation to my deeply religious friends, who, here in the southeast, tend to put up a wall against anything they think may be asking them to challenge their faith in the Lord. Of course, one cannot speak of mindfulness meditation without mentioning the Buddha, and Kabat-Zinn does so by placing him in the context of the great thinkers, e.g., Einstein, Newton, who have innovated ideas of such profundity that they dramatically altered our understanding of what's going on here. This is a wonderful cd for that. However, it is based significantly in an intellectual discussion and requires full attention and replaying it over and over to understand everything he is saying here. In that regard, it is exactly what I had been looking for.

I prefer it, as well, to Jack Kornfield's 
 Meditation for Beginners . Kornfield places more emphasis on the spirituality of mindfulness. My thought is that the practice of mindfulness will deepen one's spirituality. It's the direction of the causal arrow. I pursue mindfulness because of its practical applicability to my daily life. As a consequence, my spirituality is deepened. This is opposed to the causal arrow going the other way: I want to deepen my spirituality and took up Buddhist practices, and got the practical benefits of mindful meditation as a consequence. It's the same door, I suppose, but it's how the door looks, say, to a devout Christian. One looks like the door to a tool shed, the other looks like a forbidden door to to some alien mysticism. Thinking that a Christian will find the first door less intimidating or threatening, I prefer to turn my Christian friends onto the benefits of mindful mediation by handing them the Kabat-Zinn cd and saying, "This will make you a better Christian," which it will. Jack Kornfield's approach injects a little more of the spiritual aspect up front. He even tells of a cartoon he saw one time where this fellow was walking down the sidewalk with a sandwich board which said, "Jesus is coming soon." There was a little fellow behind him with a sign that said, "Buddha here now." My Christian friends would find that offensive and they would turn away from mindfulness because of its being a perceived threat to their spirituality.

Whereas Kornfield comes to it from his training as a Buddhist monk, Kabat-Zinn comes at it from his training as a scientist. If you prefer the more spiritual approach, then go with Kornfield. If you prefer the more deeply intellectual approach, go with Kabat-Zinn. By using these terms to describe the different approaches, by no means do I disparage either one. I understand that by my stating my preference for Kabat-Zinn, it could feel as if I am speaking against Kornfield. I am not. They both lead to the same place, and both will be very very good at helping you get there.
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5.0 out of 5 stars If you have tried meditation and have failed at it, try this
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 25 September 2009
If you have tried to meditate only to discover that it's extremely difficult, this CD can get you going on the right path. If you are an experienced meditator, you may find this CD unnecessary.

The package includes two CDs. In the first CD, the author starts by explaining what mindfulness is: "paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, as if you life depended on it, non-judgmentally". It explains how the mind is always busy thinking about one thing after another, incessantly. I have listened to this CD more than once, and every time I get something more out of it.

In the second CD the author gives you several guided mindfulness exercises that allow you to quiet the mind in a progressive way. This is perhaps the most valuable aspect of this CD, that it guides you, through baby steps, down the path of meditation.

The author leads you first to focus on a simple task: eating a raisin. As you discover that you can focus on that, the CD then takes you to focus on other things like sounds, and sounds only. As you do the sound exercises, you begin to witness your thoughts, how you judge the sounds, how you interpret the sounds and so forth.

The last exercise is mindfulness as pure awareness. You no longer focus on anything but experience life by witnessing everything: sounds, thoughts, emotions, and anything else that comes in and out of your awareness. This step has the odd effect of giving you extreme peace of mind.

I have bought other products by the same author: a book called "Wherever you go, there you are", "Coming to your senses" and a "Mindfulness Meditation" CD. I recommend getting the Mindfulness for Beginners first and if you find it useful, then read these other books and get the meditation CD. I have also bought several copies of this CD as a gift to friends and family, not everyone has taken to it, but those that have spent the time going through the exercises have told me that the exercises have helped them become more relaxed and "at ease in their own skin".

On my end, mindfulness has completely turned around my life. I went from worrying about the future, worrying about what people thought of me, to enjoying life as it unfolds. Kabat Zinn was recommended to me by an organizational consultant that saw me stressed out worrying about my job and my life in general. Up until then, I had tried meditation multiple times by focusing on my breathing, but I failed miserably at it. When I started listening to this CD, I began to break through a wall of thoughts, thoughts, and more thoughts, circling in my head.

If you have been curious about meditating but struggled to do it, this CD can get you unstuck and on a journey of self discovery that will completely transform your life.
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hollybrat72
5.0 out of 5 stars Great way of seeing things
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 7 March 2023
I enjoy the concept of mindfulness. A therapist introduced this to me and gave me the name Jon Kabat Zinn, so I decided to buy this book. It is a great beginning into the world of mindfulness. "Do no harm" and "experience your life, the good and the bad"
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TomcatMWI
3.0 out of 5 stars Meh
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on 3 August 2022
Flatulent, pretentious and overly mystical. It goes on overexplaining simple things chapter after chapter, and says very little about what mindfulness is, or why is it good for you. It was a pain to chew through this book, and at the end, I learned nothing new. What I did, is that basically mindfulness is a Western simplification of Buddhist meditation, but in turn that's an oversimplification of Indian Vaishnava teachings, which I'm familiar with. So it's like re-learning an ancient philosophy through another ancient philosophy, in turn a modern, materialistic ("scientific", as they like to put it) filter, through someone who has trouble explain simple things in simple terms. To be fair with the author, his main audience is American everyday people, who have zero connection to any spirituality, except maybe horoscopes in chick magazines. At the end I learned nothing about meditation techniques, just a quick rundown on the last few pages, summarized as "yea, you can do that too, bye."
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3.0 out of 5 stars The paper back doesn't come with the guided meditations
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 30 March 2023
Unfortunetly the paper back version doesn't come with the 5 audio guided meditation as advertised in the back flap. The book is interesting, but i'm disapointed with the missing meditations.
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Jeanne Espenan
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book- highly recommend to everyone
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 30 November 2022
WOW. What a great book! I suggest everyone read this. It has short, easy to read chapters even for busy people. The principles in the book are practical and do-able. It has lots to teach us on the topic of mindfulness. Mindfulness helps us to focus back on what's important and what's at hand right now. It's about being kind to ourselves first then to others. In our busy world, we all could use more mindfulness in every day. Great book.
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Curtis Jones
4.0 out of 5 stars Great if you have experiences even a little "living in the moment" in your life.
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 30 November 2020
Recently, I had a mindfulness experience that once I described to a friend, she said was mindfulness. It was dramatic and sudden - and felt amazing. I bought this book which is amazing. As I read the book, I kept saying, "Damn! Yes! That makes sense!" My only concern is that if I had had an interest in this topic but hadn't yet experienced any of this or felt any living in the moment, I wonder if I would get something out of the book or if I would ask if the author had been taking drugs and speaking in a drugged-out state. I think if at all possible, the author could have brought it down to earth just a little bit more, it might be more effective for people who may not even know what mindfulness is. I might be completely wrong here ... and maybe if someone has the interest enough to read the book, they are pre-disposed to being able to pick up some of this.
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Daniel F. Hammang
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Introduction, especially for folks on the go
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 27 September 2017
This set of CDs is a great introduction to mindfulness narrated by Jon-Kabat-Zinn who pioneered the use of it within a structured program for use in health services. The multidisciplinary approach used by the program which combines mindfulness and yoga has been replicated in many places. Kabat-Zinn's low key explanations are helpful and often soar with inspiration.

In the introduction to his paper book with the same title he describes the first CD as having grown out of a series of lectures that he had given that in his words, "...described the practice of mindfulness and explained why it might be valuable to engage in its cultivation to begin with." There are ten tracks totaling about an hour of recording. Please note that it is not a recorded version of the paper book with the same title. It is an excellent alternative for folks who might not have the time or inclination to sit down and read but who might have the time to listen while doing something like driving.

The second CD has 5 guided meditations, each ranging from 10 to 18 minutes long. His gentle, knowledgeable directions are terrific signposts leading into a daily practice. I think it would be helpful to beginners as well as to seasoned practitioners.

The paper book of the same title is a very helpful companion guide. It is written in very short chapters, most are two to three pages, that could be read before or after a meditation as a short reflection. The 166 page book can lead one much deeper into the practice and can serve as a steadying hand as the entrant navigates their way into finding a space for mindfulness in often demanding schedules.

I'd recommend it to anyone interested in mindfulness.
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Bill Gallagher
5.0 out of 5 stars Not Just for Beginners
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 9 January 2012
In the introduction to Mindfulness for Beginners (p.4) Jon Kabat-Zinn tells us he has covered material on mindfulness in greater detail in other books such as Full Catastrophe Living. But as anyone who has read FCL knows, that's a big thick book which was published enough years ago that a fair bit of it had to focus on justifying meditation and mindfulness as a worthwhile endeavor. In Mindfulness for Beginners, JKZ assumes you know the value of bringing greater awareness into your life, allowing him to focus on inspiration and instructions.

The book is not presented like a conventional "Intro to Meditation" with a first you do step A and then B. Rather, there are many short entries, that introduce one to mindfulness in a gradual way with the understanding you will use the enclosed guided meditation CD. While initially slightly disoriented by this, when you think about it, this is a more real-life way to learn mindfulness techniques as life doesn't usually work in a Step A-Step B way--especially for something as encompassing as greater awareness (JKZ wisely emphasizes the importance of not restricting increased awareness to the meditation bench or cushion).

The greatest strength of the book is Jon Kabat-Zinn himself. I once had the great pleasure to talk to him one-on-one. Within a very short time he made me feel very comfortable and as though he had all the time in the world for me. Despite his renown as a meditation teacher and author, he was very down-to-earth. There was nothing of the aloof meditation teacher about him. That warm and realness comes through in this book. He never puts ideology ahead of effectiveness. This is why he is such a great teacher. Almost all of us can benefit from what he has to offer.
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Kindle Customer
4.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful Read
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 31 May 2022
This book is very simply put but has great suggestions on becoming awre thruogh mindfulness in easily digestible chapters. I highly recommend!!!
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Lea
4.0 out of 5 stars Heavenly Bliss in first Session.
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 31 December 2014
I received this CD yesterday & immediately opened and popped in CD1 of 2 disks. The first is purely an explanation of what mindfulness is and how it can benefit you. The entire disk runs for approximately 30/40 mins and have to admit, my attention only managed to capture about 10mins in total. His voice is quite melancholic and so you easily lose focus.

However, on disk 2 is where all the good stuff is at. There are 5/6 different meditations, using different senses and by the fourth meditation I were in heavenly bliss. I suffer from crippling, disabling anxiety and depressive states that make me housebound and can't take the traditional antidepressant medication, so I'm constantly looking for different avenues. This is most definitely one avenue I will be exploring far more. It has a lot of potential.

The one thing I will say is you will only get out what you put in, so from what I've seen so far this is one way of 'being' that is worthwhile investing in.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Mindfulness is awareness in the present moment
Reviewed in Germany 🇩🇪 on 18 July 2022
We all have our desires to achieve things to change things happening around us. However, this can put us in a doing mode where we completely forget to reconnect with ourselves. Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn touches wonderfully on the subject of mindfulness. The book is excellent for beginners like me with each chapter touching on the concepts beautifully. Highly recommended!
richuk8
4.0 out of 5 stars Fully functional though slightly lacking
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 4 January 2008
This was my first taste of Jon Kabat-Zinn, though I've studied mindfulness before. As a general introduction to the subject it is fine. Jon is a gentle and engaging speaker, and on the first CD gives you a thoughtful, basic understanding of mindfulness. There are several meditations (as mentioned) on the second CD, which are also basic, but clear and helpful.

I liked his presentation and have ordered his 'Full Catastrophe Living' as a result of listening to these CDs. I would, however, reccomend this set as an aid, rather than as a proper introduction. It is a very nice addition, if you are interested in stress reduction and/or mindfulness, and can help both to clarify understanding of the system and fine tune your meditation technique. If you are looking for a thorough introduction to the subject though, I would reccomend the book 'Mindfulness in Plain English' by Bhante G. For around the same price, you get a much more thorough understanding.
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toni r
3.0 out of 5 stars Good book
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 25 December 2022
Good book
Self-help junkie
5.0 out of 5 stars Take time to savour - there is so much in this small book
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 6 March 2012
Very, very slowly I feel that I am getting to grips with understanding mindfulness and what it might be about. I have been reading books on and off for years, and dabbled in formal mindfulness practice. But this year, 2012, I have suddenly been making connections about how mindfulness might actually be not just a nice relaxing thing to do, but in fact a really essential part of living in a crazy world - that's the outer world and my own internal world too!.

Jon Kabat-Zinn is, of course, the Mindfulness 'guru' for many people and I've certainly used my fair share of his books and tapes. This new book doesn't, in a way, present anything new. But somehow I just love it - and find each small chapter perfect for quiet reflection and pondering. Maybe I'm just at the 'right' point in my life to hear what has been there all along, but his writing touches on so many of the questions I have about mindfulness, its use, its understanding of 'the self', about how mindfulness can possibly help in situations of real danger, pain or loss...

Sip slowly, savour and swallow mindfully! There is so much here to nourish. I hope it help you as much as it is helping me.
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J. Holroyd
5.0 out of 5 stars An enlightening read! Love it!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 1 August 2014
I loved this book. I kept thinking I didn't get it, so I had to re-read bits to fully understand everything. However as it's in such short chapters it helps making it easier to read and digest.
I have been diagnosed with dysthymia, I never really got the point of life, and was told by a mental health professional that I probably never would, which was very depressing to say I'm only in my early 30s, so there could be a lot more life to endure, which is how life often feels an endurance not an enjoyment. However reading this book and doing the meditation suddenly enabled me to see what life is all about, experiencing the moments life offers,and suddenly I can see a point to existence! I still have good and bad days, but I feel to understand myself more and try to make time for meditation. I am reading more around mindfulness and depression to understand how to try to prevent further episodes of depression.
I can understand how it's not for everyone, but it definitely helped me as a starting point! I can also see that if I was experiencing an episode of depression that this book would be beyond me!
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Dr. Kaman C. Hung
4.0 out of 5 stars Short and concise, but not shallow.
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 9 October 2018
I am a mindfulness practitioner and teacher and this is the book that started it all for me. I originally bought other books however this was the book that gave me the best overview and with the CD at the back of the book, I just listened and absorbed as much as I could. I gave this book four stars because there is little research in the book, unlike Kabat-Zinn's other books, specifically: "Full Catastrophe Living", this book is a little thin. While I would recommend it if this is the first time you've actually been exposed to mindfulness, you will be able to immediately turnkey the information in this book and move onto more complicated literature that will get you deeper. This book takes a secular approach to mindfulness, if you are looking for something more non-secular (more religious/spiritual), another book that I would recommend is "Mindfulness in Plain English" by Bhante Gunarantana.
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John boynton
5.0 out of 5 stars Peace
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 11 April 2022
Learn to appreciate the present moment, accept what happens lightly, appreciate it and move on.
The lessons taught in this book about mindfulness and warding away anxiety and stress was truly a breath of fresh air, and fundamentals of thought moving forward in life. Worth every penny. Also highly recommend ‘wherever you go there you are’
Probably my favorite book of all time
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Luiz Cézar
4.0 out of 5 stars Excelente livro para quem deseja compreender melhor a atenção plena.
Reviewed in Brazil 🇧🇷 on 10 March 2022
Embora não seja num livro tão longo, ele cobre vários aspectos importantes da atenção plena para quem deseja compreender melhor o tema e iniciar, ou solidificar, uma prática diária com qualidade.
Recomendo a leitura.
L. Cameron
3.0 out of 5 stars new PB copies do NOT include CD
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 26 July 2021
I purchased my copy as a new paperback through Amazon Prime, from this webpage, which notes in product title: Mindfulness for Beginners: Reclaiming the Present Moment and Your Life(Book & CD)). I think the book will be very interesting, but I expressly wanted the CD because I have a CD player in the room where I wanted to set up my meditation practice.

Well, as the back cover and table of contents of the book itself confirms, and some other reviewers noted, resources are online only.

I had asked the question on the buyers' Q&A, and had a reply that yes it did come with a CD... but I really should have waited for a reply from the current edition's shipper. Lesson learned.
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doug hone
4.0 out of 5 stars A Good Place To Start
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on 11 July 2020
If you are looking for yourself, this is a good place to start. I think that what the book is trying to say is, "If you are lost in the woods, and need help, stop moving around. You will be easier to find." Life being a journey without maps can make it difficult enough to find yourself.
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RAS
4.0 out of 5 stars Une introduction
Reviewed in France 🇫🇷 on 7 May 2018
Une introduction au mindfulness par un des spécialistes mondiaux de la discipline. La version Kindle n'a pas de CD avec les paroles prononcées par Kabat-Zinnn, mais on peut les télécharger sur Internet, l'adresse est indiquée dans le livre. Il n'y a pas de doutes, le mindfulness est à la mode, comme il y a eu d'autres courants qui ont un moment défrayés la chronique. En restera-t-il quelque chose, ce livre répond d'emblée par l'affirmative. On ne doit croire en rien, ne faire partie d'aucun courant et ne pas pratiquer des exercices compliqués. Quels sont les principes, les méthodes, les preuves scientifiques et les principales erreurs?
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Frank Zepp
4.0 out of 5 stars A Good Primer
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 14 March 2011
I recently graduated with a Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. During my studies, I came upon two concepts that piqued my interest for further study. One being Positive Psychology and the other Mindfulness.

As I was reading Mindfulness by Shapiro, Jon Kabat-Zinn's name kept coming up, so I bought the CD. The package contains two CD's. Disk one is lecture format where Kabat-Zinn explains the basics of mindfulness. His conversational tone is easy on the ears. I appreciate the way he dispels myths about Budhism and other beliefs about mindfulness.

Disk two is a series of mindfulness exercises that one can practice. At first I felt a bit silly trying them, but then as time went on, grew more comfortable progressing through them. (The first exercise has you examining a raisin and eating it. I don't like raisins so I substitued chocolate covered peanuts).

I highly recommend the CD for those wishing to engage in the practice of mindfulness and/or those, who like myself, may be exploring the possibility of using it as a technique in clinical practice.
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Fawn A.
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent product for beginners at meditation and for those who want to restart their meditation practice
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 13 May 2015
My husband purchased this CD as a means to try introducing himself to meditation. He has been very stressed with his job, raising a preschooler, and putting up with our puppy (okay...and maybe his wife, too...lol). He listens to Howard Stern, who strongly recommends meditation, and specifically recommends John Kabat-Zinn as a meditation leader. The Howardd Stern endorsement is what made my husband decide to give this a try (not my recommendation for years, as I have used meditation for stress relief for a long time). He bought this CD with another meditation CD that is highly recommend by other Amazon customers, but he has mainly used this CD, as he finds that this CD really helps him to really help him to de-stress during his meditation practice, but this CD has helped him to de-stress (he even listens to it in the car to calm himself before work). We both would highly recommend this CD for people who are beginning their meditation practice, and for those who want to add restart their meditation practice with simple techniques and exercises.
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Denis Tarasov
5.0 out of 5 stars A great introduction from great author
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 26 October 2013
The practice of mindfullness can be really a life-changer and Jon Kabat-Zinn is by far the best author to learn from. This book contains very compact and vivid explanation of what mindfull is and why is it important. Book also gives valueable tips, directing reader to find the best way of cultivating mindfullness.

Yet, if you are new to mindfullness, you should note that this book alone is not sufficient, nor is it inteded to be a compehensive guide. If you get your hopes on it too high you are likely to be disaapointed. This book as it title says is "Introduction". If you want not just introduction to mindfullness to satisfy your curiosuty, but intend to become serious practionier, guided meditation CDs are "must have" since no book can teach you mindfullness without practice, and after reading this book, you probably should consider other books by Jon Kabat-Zinn as well, particulary, "Full Catastrophe Living" will be good next step.

That said, "Mindfullness for beginners" is excellent "gateway" to the world of mindfullness.
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5.0 out of 5 stars The book is best used as a good motivation before starting out practice.
Reviewed in India 🇮🇳 on 8 October 2018
The title suggests it as an absolute beginners book.But it actually makes more sense after getting some introduction from other soures.It is still a very good second book to read.I had my introduction from Dan Harris's 10% Happier app.The introduction from Joseph Goldstein makes you understand the world of meditation really well.But after you get some idea, this book becomes an amazing read, particularly because you would have experienced everything Dr.Zinn mentions.And it would then certainly create enough motivation for sustainig practice. His experience really comes to play here because everything he says is quite accurate about how you would havefelt.
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3.0 out of 5 stars I Would Have Preferred More Exercises
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Die-hard fans of "Monk" who are into meditation, or want to try, should find these tapes right to their tastes, as Mr. Kabat-Zinn sounds very much like, and shares a speaking manner with the TV character "Monk". I would imagine that coming to this blind would also be better for you than it worked for me, as I had just read Kabat-Zinn's "Wherever You Go There You Are" and thought CDs would be helpful. As a result, I found that too much of the CD is devoted to explanations I'd already read, while not enough goes into actual exercises--which are all on the second disc.

The only play list is on the front of each CD, so if you forget which tracks you wanted to revisit, you either have to be able to display that info on your device, or take the CD out. I would have preferred a printed play list on the jacket, especially given that so much of it is blank and so perfectly suited to the idea.

It's a good quality CD with nice packaging, and for a beginner with no exposure to meditation concepts, should more than do the trick. For someone who wants more exercises, or more specific explanations to things like "Moments", I would think this particular set would come up lacking.
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5.0 out of 5 stars This is a very good CD.
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I bought this CD at the recommendation of a social worker. I'm a perfectionist, which frequently leads me to experience anxiety. I've lived this way for 50+ years but it's not healthy. However, it has been the norm for my life. Yes, I've done some counseling over the years, which has been extremely helpful but I constantly battle with trying to do too much, making it all perfect and then dealing with the anxiety that follows.

Although I've tried relaxation techniques in the past, I learned that Jon Kabat-Zinn's information is more than relaxation. It is learning to incorporate "mindfulness" into my busy, waking day. I found the information in this CD to be very informative. I've only listened to the CD two times and will need to repeat several more times to better learn this technique. Kabat-Zinn is the narrator and his voice is excellent as a reader or narrator. I highly recommend this CD, as well as the follow-up CD I am now listening to, "Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Mediation in Everyday Life".
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5.0 out of 5 stars Mind-blowing and eye opening
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This book really opened my eyes to so many questions and realizations. This kind of book is meant for anyone and everyone but not everyone will embrace it and really give it a chance. I do recommend giving it that chance and really be patient.
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If you have come across this area of focus, and you are ready for it, there is no better introduction to the concept of mindfulness than this book. As someone who's sought a solution to the general feeling of inauthenticity in life, this really explained to me -- in clear, sensible and non "touchy-freely" terms -- what the meaning of mindfulness is, why it is important, how to understand and practice it, and its value for a happier existence. I paged through numerous self-help books from the Shambalas of the world, and if that's your interest and passion, those are fine, but too much spirituality for me. I was looking for pragmatic insight into anxiety and stress reduction, and Kabat-Zinn's work is straightforward and practical. The book started me off but more helpful were his introductory CDs with mindfulness exercises. Really helped me a lot.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Great guide on mindfulness
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I really loved this book. It is short and profound and not overwhelming. It really simplifies mindfulness so that I have been able to incorporate it into my everyday life. It’s getting easier to catch myself and instead be aware, nonjudgmental of myself and others.
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2.0 out of 5 stars Not what most beginners are looking for
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 26 January 2014
This is not a book on HOW TO DO Mindfulness meditation but a book ABOUT Mindfulness meditation. Its kind of funny as the book is in some ways a giant contradiction to the statements he makes in the very begging. I will be honest I gave up half way through this as I kept wanting to get to the part where I would get instructions on how to meditate and it just never came. Instead its this non-stop sales pitch of how great it is and how much it will change your life. I kept thinking over and over as I read it "OK! I get it, you have sold me, now lets get to it?!??". But it never did.

I browsed ahead to near the end of the book and it just kept being more about meditation and never got close to instruction on how to start. Maybe this book finally gets there, I don't know. But the way its written has turned me off of this book and the author so I'm done. I'm going to find another book.

Do not waste your time on this if you are looking for help in actually meditating. This book might be good for more advanced people that already know how to meditate and what to learn more about the benefits and history of the practice but honestly it didn't seem that well written for that either.
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5.0 out of 5 stars It is probably the best introduction to meditating with mindfulness
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It is probably the best introduction to meditating with mindfulness. Jon is an excellent teacher and he should be since he is the creator of MBSR program at Boston University Medicine School. The Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction program has expanded widely worldwide. Jon Kabat-Zinn is a master of the processes involved in meditation. The book was written in a language understandable by the common reader and yet, it's inspirational. I have read it several times and go back to it every once in while. This book and Jon's videos that you can watch in the web convinced me to start meditating with mindfulness every day, for several months now. I can breath and go back to mindfulness every time I need to focus my wandering mind.
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Stephen Cope, Yoga and the Quest for the True Self

Yoga and the Quest for the True Self
Stephen Cope
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Millions of Americans know yoga as a superb form of exercise and as a potent source of calm in our stress-filled lives. Far fewer are aware of the full promise of yoga as a 4,000-year-old practical path of liberation—a path that fits the needs of modern Western seekers with startling precision. Now Stephen Cope, a Western-trained psychotherapist who has lived and taught for more than ten years at the largest yoga center in America, offers this marvelously lively and irreverent "pilgrim's progress" for today's world. He demystifies the philosophy, psychology, and practice of yoga, and shows how it applies to our most human dilemmas: from loss, disappointment, and addiction, to the eternal conflicts around sex and relationship. And he shows us that in yoga, "liberation" does not require us to leave our everyday lives for some transcendent spiritual plane—life itself is the path. Above all, Cope shows how yoga can heal the suffering of self-estrangement that pervades our society, leading us to a new sense of purpose and to a deeper, more satisfying life in the world.
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Stephen Cope is the director of the Kripalu Institute for Extraordinary Living, the largest yoga research institute in the Western world—with a team of scientists affiliated with major medical schools on the East coast, primarily Harvard Medical School. He has been for many years the senior scholar in residence at Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health in Lenox, Massachusetts, and is the author of four best-selling books.

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It is not often I use the “M word” to describe a book. No, I’m not talking about munchkin books or maleficient books. I’m talking about masterpieces. I am not certain if Stephen Cope’s bestseller is a masterpiece. Maybe it is, maybe not. Either way, it is pretty damn good.

This is one of those books that entertains and educates you in a visceral way right from the start. Large chunks are written in immediate narrative format–as in “he said,” “I said,” etc. It is Stephen Cope’s personal yoga story–a sort of “pilgrim’s progress,” if you will–as well as the yoga story of his many friends and acquaintances before and during his long and continuing stay at the Kripalu Center for Yoga & Health in Stockbridge, Massachusetts.

We meet a man, a practicing Boston psychotherapist, who for a variety of reasons was feeling unsettled and dissatisfied with his life and then, somewhat to his dismay, found himself joining a religious community to do…what? Much of the book is an answer to that and related questions: What did he want? Why? What was he trying to do at Kripalu? What was–is–the meaning of yoga? What is enlightenment? Is such a thing possible? Are there enlightened people in this world? And what happens when all the things we try to keep hidden are revealed for the world to see?

Stephen Cope furrows through all these questions and more. His sincerity, his intensity, his intelligence, make the book a gripping read. Its pages educate the reader even as Cope the protagonist is educated by his experiences in the ashram. Yoga philosophy is pondered over, its depths turned up, and its many connections to Western psychotherapy reflected upon, all in gratifyingly sober, lucid prose. This is no idealistic hippy’s tale, nor a wide-eyed New Age search for Reality. In point of fact, it is one man’s search for himself, even as he helps us understand that the discipline, the science, the art of yoga, is there to help us lay ourselves bare to ourselves.

“You will know the truth and the truth shall set you free.” This book is a testament to these words, but it goes beyond them for the “truth” as yoga reveals to Stephen Cope is an ever living, organic thing, the stuff of our lives, which we either enjoy and let go of or cling to and warp, eventually to destroy.

You will find yourself in this book. In one of the many personal portraits Cope draws, you will find your own symptoms and neuroses, your fears, dreams and failings. And when you do, you will know that yoga has something to offer you. There is so much teaching here, and it is given in such generous, gentle and wise ways. Most of all, I think the primacy of ourselves as bodily beings, as thinking, feeling, dreaming animals of earth, is borne out. The body really is our temple, and yoga is our puja, an act of adoration, discipline and feast. Cope nails it in what might be the defining statement of the book: “Because yoga asanas are not so much about exercise as they are about learning and unlearning, it is not the movement itself, but the quality of attention we bring to the movement that makes postures qualify as yoga” (230). If this is so–and I know it is–then any act, any breath, any thought done with full and alive attention, is yoga.

Bobby Fischer once said “Chess is life.” I would say “Yoga is life,” and Stephen Cope’s book has made this truth abundantly clear.

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I picked this book up on a whim because I have been doing yoga and reading up on it, and I was intrigued by the title. Cope is a therapist who went to Kripalu (a yoga center in Western Massachusetts) and basically never left. He writes very well, and tells a lot of stories. There was something about the book I found vaguely annoying, maybe all the upper middle class angst of many of the people he was talking about. There was also a lot more psychiatric jargon than I was interested in; I'm nore interested in spiritual practice than in therapy. That having been said, the book has stayed with me, and the basic concept of a false vs. true self seems quite true to me. One can't do justice to it in a few words, but basically the false self is one that we create out of concepts; the true self is the one that is living our daily physical life, and that we too often avoid by going off into our heads. He also mentioned something that R.D. Laing said at a conference of Buddhists and therapists that keeps coming back to me: Human beings are afraid of three things. Their own minds, other people, and death.

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As a yoga teacher, I figure I am supposed to read yoga books. However I find within three chapters of most books on the subject I am either distracted or bored, or I have already absorbed what I need from the author. That was not the case with this book, which I read daily and finished within two weeks. Yoga and the Quest for the True Self was recommended to me years ago, and I didn't even read it when my yoga studio 8 Limbs held a book group around it. But when a writer friend urged me to give it a chance, I finally relented, to my great advantage. Cope, a psychotherapist who has lived at Kripalu for several decades, uses a memoir framework to deliver some of the most personally valuable teachings about yoga I have received. I recommend this book to yoga practitioners of all levels. Be here now. Read it. Now.

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I loved this book! I didn't quite know what to expect when I picked it up, but yoga has been dear to me all my life, and of course, the quest for the true self is central to yoga philosophy, so I had to read it. It's a well-written, well-researched book, but with none of the pedantic clinginess to theory - which is difficult to avoid when the author's trying to deal with a 4,000 year old philosophy, that has evolved and morphed over all those years.

But Stephen Cope brings a delightful fresh eye to yoga by bringing the reader along on his journey as a student of yoga. It's a satisfying journey to be part of, from the moment he decides to step into Kripalu Yoga Center, to how he integrates the different teachings into an understanding of his own in the end. I was surprised that he included the stories about the falling apart of Kripalu amidst the scandals of its leader, and then how the community came together to rebuild it again. I also appreciated the appendix about the metaphysics of yoga.

It was a valuable read. I took lots of notes. And I'll probably revisit it from time to time.

If you're interested in spirituality, philosophy, yoga, etc., join my Old Souls Book Club (https://www.goodreads.com/group/show/...) for other recommendations and thought-provoking conversations!
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This classic goes on my to reread, reread, and reread shelf. So many lessons in living, spirituality, psychology. Cope says it best: "Such a simple lesson. Such a dfficult lesson. It doesn't matter what you call it: Yoga. Buddhism. Christianity. Relaxation. Consciousness. As Ajahn Chah says, 'Teach the essence of freedom from grasping and call it what you like.' "

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Absolutely transformational. Revolutionized the way I see yoga, myself, life, and relationships with people. There is so much to learn and so much more growth needed, but grateful for a read that deepened my spirituality and religious convictions and changed my perspective for the better.

And my notes from the book because it is a library book and I couldn't underline:

“Most of the branches of Vedanta hold one fundamental view in common: all individual souls are one with the ground of being, the Absolute. Because all beings are one with the great river of life, we are all, in effect, just a single soul. We are, in the classical dictum, ‘One without a second’” (page 42.)

“what we are seeking is already at the core of our nature. ‘We are that’ which we seek. We are already inherently perfect; we have already arrived; and we have the potential in each moment to wake up to our true nature. In the words of one extraordinary teacher whom we’ll meet later on in the book, ‘everything is already OK’” (page 42).

“When we begin to see clearly who we really are, according to this view, we feel a natural friendliness toward all beings. Beneath the surface of our separation, we feel the hidden,unseen threads that link us. We know that we’re exactly alike inside. We’re the same being. As author John Welch says, ‘We are each like a well that has its source in a common underground stream which supplies all. The deeper down I go, the closer I come to the source which puts me in contact with all other life’” (page 43).

“All mystical paths have taught that the union with God, or with the Absolute, subtly transforms the self. Each time we penetrate into samadhi, we have a small death-rebirth experience. Samadhi the world as we know it—its boundaries and categories. The deeper into union I penetrate, the less I am ‘I,’ and the more I am ‘we.’ For this reason, the merger with the One is known to create psychological upheaval and world-shattering shifts in perception” (page 43).

“This love is so overwhelming that you will lose consciousness of the conventional world. You will not be able to entertain the slightest feeling of personal ownership, not even toward the body, which is the most precious and jealously guarded possession of most persons. There will no longer be any instinctive notion that the body or the mind constitutes your being” (page 44).

“The word yoga itself means, literally, to be ‘yoked’—or to be in union. Eventually, repeated penetrations into mystic union transform the physical structure of the body, the personality, and the mind” (page 44).

“In Christianity, don’t you have this understanding: God is both—what do you say—immanent and transcendent? God is both here, within, right now, and is also everywhere? At the same time? It is the same God, the same Reality. Just our language has trouble capturing it. This is the wonderful thing about yoga. You find God right here, right now. In the body. You become a fully alive human being. You become jivan mukta—awake this lifetime. As a human being. Not in, what did you say? Transcendent realm with the angels. No. Not at all. You see, you are an angel” (page 48).

“‘Deep eternity,’ in Emily Dickinson’s phrase, is right here, right now. It is the subtle interior anatomy of the body—and the subtly interior anatomy of this entire world of form.
‘The goal of human life,’ says Ramakrishna,’ is to meet God face to face.’ But the magic is this: if we look deeply into the face of all created things, we will find God. Therefore, savor the world, the body. Open it, explore it, look into it” (page 55).

“When we pay close attention to the world of the many, we inevitably discover the One” (page 58).

“Gitanand was telling the story of a dialogue between a Vedic master and a Western student. ‘The student, confounded by the radically different worldview embodied by his teacher, asks, “Do we live in the same world?” Replies the teacher, ‘Yes, we do. It’s just that you see yourself in the world, and I see the whole world in myself.’ Yogis insist on seeing the world from the inside out” (page 70).

“We can experience the entire reality of the universe directly through a full exploration of the phenomena of our own bodies, feelings, minds. There is nothing that is ‘out there’ that is not also ‘in here’” (page 70).

“‘Disappointment,’ he said, ‘is a much more fertile ground for spiritual practice than dreams’” (page 89).

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“In order for us to fully inhabit our bodies, we need certain kinds of responses from our environment. These include empathic holding, nurturing, mirroring, challenge, optimal frustration, and optimal disillusionment. Problems begin to happen in our developing sense of self when, as infants and children, our real emerging needs and capacities are not met with adequate mirroring, nurturing and sustaining responses. In the post industrial West, the problems of the disembodied sense of self are pandemic. The reasons for this are simple: Because of the breakdown of the extended family in the latter half of this century, we depend upon the depleted resources of small nuclear families, where hard working parents may already feel stretched and needy themselves. This nuclear family upon which we place most of our hopes is all too often an impoverished emotional environment for children. Overburdened parents feel fragmented, insecure, and in some cases terrified by the needs they feel they should be meeting but cannot. They’re hungry to get their own unsatisfied needs met” (page 91).

“The false self is born when the environment does not welcome the self to be as it is” (page 93).

“There is no telling precisely at what chronological age the self will come to one of these crossroads. One thing is certain: these times of meltdown are precious. A delicate window is opened into the very terrain explored and mastered by yogis and buddhas and seers of all kinds. In these times, the soul has a heightened potential to discover the real. There is a palpable longing for the mother, for matter, for the earth, and along with this an openness to the father, to the spirit, to consciousness.
In his commentary on the Yogasutras, Bhagwan S. Rajneesh identifies this meltdown of ‘me’ and ‘mine’ in adulthood as the entry point into yoga” (page 97).

“May we be protected together.
May we be nourished together.
May we work together with great vigor.
May our study be enlightening.
May there be no hatred between us.
Om peace, peace, peace.

Lead us from the unreal to the real.
Lead us from darkness to light.
Lead us from death to immortality” (page 100-101).

“‘Just being in my body makes me happy. I don’t have to do anything, or prove anything. What freedom!’ For the first time in her adult life, Amy had tasted the possibility of a life not lived in the head—or in the abstraction of the edo-ideal—but in the very real world of current direct kinesthetic experience” (page 106).

“The body likes living in reality. Stepping down onto the solid ground of reality always feels better than living in delusion. It may be painful, but there is life in it, energy in it, and, like the ground, it holds us up in a way that delusion does not. ‘Only reality is wholly safe’” (page 112).

“The genius of yogic practice is that it cultivates the capacity to experience a close-range, moment-by-moment inspection of reality. In fact, yoga teaches that living fully in the moment is the only doorway into the hidden realities of the Self” (page 113).

Amrit Desai:
“If you want to experience the joyous ecstasy that life offers, there is one commitment that is absolutely fundamental: the commitment to live in the moment. With that commitment as your guiding focus, whatever you do in your daily life is part of your transformational process. Your commitment to living in the moment becomes your vehicle for spiritual growth.

Living in the moment, however, is the most dangerous situation anybody ever faces in life, because everything you have ever avoided is revealed to you when you live in the moment. You get to face all the denied contents of your subconscious as the reappear again and again through the events of your life” (page 113-114)

“the goal of the reality project is not to disengage from the phenomenal world, but to turn to embrace it more deeply—to discover its hidden depths. And in order to do that paradoxically, we do not reject the vicissitudes of the embodied life. We no not reject suffering. Rather, we turn and go through the doorway of suffering. We turn to embrace our neuroses, our conflicts, our difficult bodies and minds, and we let them be the bridge to a fuller life. Our task is not to free ourselves from the world, but to fully embrace the world—to embrace the real” (page 115).

“Through the practice of yoga, the physical structure is said to be ‘baked,’ or refined, creating a form strong enough to tolerate and hold the powerful energies of the fully alive human being without being roiled or destroyed by them. Without the creation of this hard wiring, as Viveka saw, it was simply not possible to tolerate the subtle levels of awareness into which the quest would take him. Like Viveka, without the development of a compassionate and equananimous body and mind, we literally cannot bear what the seer reveals to us” (page 124).

“‘Laymen often think that the best way to deal with any difficult situation is not to deal with it—to forget it. But you and I have the experience that the only way you can forget is to remember” (page 130).

“do we uncover conflict or do we build up the self?...Both of these pillars of the reality project have to be developed in the context of relationship. We cannot become real in isolation” (page 139).

“My grandparents were most important self-objects for me, allowing me to relax into the stable, calm, nonanxious, powerful, and protective environment that they created with their care. Within the vast and safe container of their nurturing, I was allowed to discover my true self” (page 142).

“The truth is, however, that all the yoga postures in the world cannot create the opening of the heart. In their original context, yogic practices were completely submerged in a web of relationship” (page 142-143).”

“that which is damaged in relationship must also be healed within relationship, and character can only truly be transformed through relationship—not through solitary practice” (page 144).

“Ramakrishna always used the language of the mother and child in explaining his relationship with God. As he once put it, ‘One must have the yearning for God of a child when his mother is away’” (page 145).

“about the importance of other human beings in the ongoing creation of th self. He understood that only other human beings can initiate us into the Real. One of his most useful proverbs was this: ‘Company is more powerful than willpower’” (page 166).

“When we carry a heavy load of repressed, hidden, and unitegrated experience, we are constantly seeking out relationships that will help us hold this experience, to reveal it in the actual dramas of our lives, and, hopefully, eventually bring it to a more successful conclusion—to heal it” (page 182).

“Reality must be, in a sense, triangulated. It takes two sets of eyes, not just one, to accurately locate the third point in space. The ‘third’ becomes a powerful still point, constructed out of the interaction of two minds and hearts” (page 183).

“‘Sometimes, rest is the highest spiritual practice’” (page 241).

“Real healing happens in relaxation, and unless we’re relaxing, we are not healing” (page 242).

“What begins as an experientially grounded practice—one that asks us to take nothing at all on faith, indeed, asks only that we pay attention to the body—brings us finally and inexorably back to God. The physical is revealed to be spiritual. The spiritual is revealed to be physical” (page 268).

“You thought that union was a way you could decide to go.
But the soul follows things rejected and almost forgotten.
Your true guide drinks from an undammed stream” -Rumi (page 273).

people to look into:
Marion Woodman: student of Carl Jung
Sylvia Boorstein: psychologist and senior American teacher of Buddhism
Jacquelyn Small: pioneer in the synthesis of spirituality and addictions work
Tom Yeomans: poet, psychologist, and leader in field of spiritual psychotherapy

“‘This is so much that wisdom of Jung,’ continued Marion (Woodman). ‘If we allow ourselves to be ravished the by the irrational, we are compelled to face our own evil. Trust takes on a new dimension. In knowing our own darkness, we know what another’s darkness can release. We learn to forgive and to love. Then, we don’t know from moment to moment what will happen next. As your Pashupats clearly understood—this is God’s country, not ours’” (page 289).

“After long searches here and there, in temples and in churches, in earths and in heavens, at last you come back, completing the circle from where you started, to your own soul and find that He, for whom you have been seeking all over the world, for whom you have been weeping and praying in churches and temples, on whom you were looking as the mystery of all mysteries shrouded in the clouds, is nearest of the near, is your own Self, the reality of you life, body, and soul” -Swami Vivekenanda (page 290).

“In order to hear the teaching, we must slow down, cultivate awareness, and tune in. Most of all, we have to drop our hopes and dreams and preconceived notions of how it should be. We must look at how it is. We must look with a mind that lets go. Then we will see” (page 292).

“And the worst part is that at the same time that we’re leaning in toward the magic powers [of another], we will miss the real, more subtle, ordinary magic of transformation in our lives” (page 295).
“As I sat with myself…” (page 295). emphasis added, with not by

“Whatever transformation was happening was surely going to be by grace, not effort. Through letting go, rather than hot pursuit” (page 295).

“When all is said and done, most of the stages of spiritual practice are stages of grief work” (page 296).
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This book is the opposite of enlightening. Written for a narrow audience of upper-middle class white people, it reads like a sustained advertisement for the Kripalu Center. It should be renamed "A Western Psychoanalyst Encounters Kripalu Yoga," as it is entirely tethered to 1) the author and his psychoanalytic worldview and 2) the institution of Kripalu.

The content is also unbearably superficial and contains distortions and inaccuracies. A good example of Western fetishism of Eastern spiritualities.
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I wrote a totally brilliant review of this book that will reveal all the secrets of yoga. However, I was on a public terminal and the session timed out, losing the entire review. You lose.

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This was the book that first introduced me to Vipassanna meditation which I eventually took part of in the sub-tropical alps of south central Mexico.
I'll call it the beginning to a new me.

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2.0 out of 5 stars Western ideas of yoga.
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The author introduces Yoga to a Western audience. From one particular school of thought. He also interlaces modern psychological ideas throughout.
It wasn't what I was looking for, I wanted to read more first hand accounts, rather than the psychoanalysis of people.
It is well written, just not my cup of tea.
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Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 4 November 2017
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I bought this book because I understood it to be a study of a typical Westerner's experience of yoga beyond exercise and mindfulness. However, I could barely get though the first few chapters with my constant eye-rolling over the long-winded privilege of someone who could take months off from work to pursue a deep yoga practice. How could I relate to this person and how could they write what I thought this book was going to be? Eventually I picked it back up and I'm glad I did. The author's background as a psychotherapist is nicely melded with yogic principles without being too direct about the psychotherapist lens. If you're well read in such things, you'll easily recognize tons of elements of emotional intelligence, various aspects of trauma and recovery (such as reconnecting to the body), even a bit of Internal Family Systems, and not to mention lots of completely relatable types of stressors most of us deal with regularly. All of these things you might read about or learn in psychotherapy are, apparently, well established in the practice, metaphysics, and ideology of yoga. The author's expertise may have originated in privilege, but this book has a lot to offer pretty much everyone. If you're not well read in some of the things I described, some of what he talks about may still sound fairly new-agey, but all I can say is read it, try yoga, and see what happens. I'm super new to yoga exercise so I can't speak to my own experience, but I can speak to the legitimacy of at least much the ideology discussed. My only criticisms (other than the beginning of the book) are that the yogic vocabulary, though explained, can still be pretty hard to keep up with, and the "crash course" chapter at the end doesn't do enough to hold your hand through that learning curve. It's definitely a book to read more than once to fully get the most from it.
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A.M Nelson
5.0 out of 5 stars One of the best books I've ever read re. spiritual growth
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 18 October 2020
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This book surprised me. I picked it up in order to read about the mental aspects behind yoga, but it was so much more. This contains the best description of spiritual growth--what it looks like and feels like, and how it can look different for different people--that I've ever read. It also looks at aspects of healthy spiritual community vs. unhealthy spiritual community, which is applicable in different contexts (I've seen the same dynamics in church settings.) This book is much more in depth, well researched, and insightful than most "spiritual growth" books I've ever read. I'm at the point in my life where I avoid such books like the plague. But this one is excellent and helpful.

Cope gets criticized because many of the people in his books seem to have the luxury of time and money to pursue yoga/spiritual growth in a focused way. He works at a yoga retreat center after all. You don't have to take months off from life and live at a yoga center to pursue personal growth. The examples and principles are still helpful and still apply.
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Miss M Wilkinson
5.0 out of 5 stars Fabulously enlightening book on the spiritual/psychological aspects of yoga
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 6 July 2019
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I don't normally leave reviews but I wanted to express just how much I've loved reading this book and what a vital tool I've found it on my yoga path. I've been practising yoga for several years to manage my physical and mental health, and because I never feel closer to myself or more at peace than when I'm in a posture or being with my breath. So I found the blending of a psychoanalytic and yogic perspective really exciting, and it answered a lot of questions about how best to use yoga as a tool for healing and to get closer to your true self. I found the section on developing one's equanimity practice to keep up with the insights gained in awareness practice particularly useful as I have found myself somewhat overwhelmed by the latter in recent times. So this book came at the right time for me and I would absolutely recommend it to anyone who loves yoga or is looking for a way to manage their suffering. I found the first chapter a little slow but after that I couldn't put it down so if you find that too then stick with it, it's so worth it :)
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Ray
5.0 out of 5 stars Wow
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 22 November 2022
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I could read again and again. Inspiring words and thoughts. Helps you to understand where the true meaning is in life
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Bruce Kusko
5.0 out of 5 stars Arrived quickly, great condition
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 5 September 2022
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Book arrived quickly and was in like-new condition.
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Julia
3.0 out of 5 stars Wasn’t expecting perfect
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 2 August 2022
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And it definitely wasn’t, and it wasn’t in new or even good condition either.
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Ursa
1.0 out of 5 stars Unchecked, "unintentional" racism
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on 22 December 2021
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What truly ruined this book for me - and I'm rather shocked it hasn't been flagged - was what I believe was meant to be a sort of cute, humourous remark that one of Cope's friends says when he is about to embark on his journey to India:

"But if you come back wearing a towel on your head or any other item of weird non-American clothing, we're building a back door to the office suite".

Please, just take a moment and sit with that sentence. Do you feel how dehumanizing that is?

I am a POC and I couldn't gloss over this. I think it's very revealing and part of a larger afflication within the western yoga world where racism seems to go undetected.

I am heartbroken that someone like Jack Kornfield would endorse this book. And I can't get over how the editors allowed for this either. White surpremacy and racism are built into our systems and, sadly, this book.
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Alexander John
5.0 out of 5 stars Must Read
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 28 April 2019
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This book helped me in a time in my life in which I really needed some direction with yoga and meditation. I finally got past doing yoga simply as a means to an end (for physical health reasons), and started viewing it as a spiritual practice. Another reviewer said he/ her rolled his/ her eyes at the idea of taking a year off of work to find yourself in practice... but that's exactly what some people need if they are single and working 50+ hours a week in a high-stress (high-paid) job. There's little point of making excessive amounts of money if it leads to a nervous breakdown.

Yoga can potentially help those with substantial depersonalization and derealization (DP/DR) issues. Giving up 90% of processed foods can help, too.
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lit-lover
5.0 out of 5 stars Great for Yogis
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 1 February 2022
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I’m a yoga teacher, and I definitely enjoyed this read. Lots of interesting information and a pretty engaging story Cope tells about his own spiritual path. Easy to read and compelling. I’d recommend this book.
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