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When Einstein Met Tagore: A Remarkable Meeting of Minds on the Edge of Science and Spirituality – Brain Pickings

When Einstein Met Tagore: A Remarkable Meeting of Minds on the Edge of Science and Spirituality – Brain Pickings



When Einstein Met Tagore: A Remarkable Meeting of Minds on the Edge of Science and Spirituality
Collision and convergence in Truth and Beauty.
BY MARIA POPOVA


On July 14, 1930, Albert Einstein welcomed into his home on the outskirts of Berlin the Indian philosopher, musician, and Nobel laureate Rabindranath Tagore. The two proceeded to have one of the most stimulating, intellectually riveting conversations in history, exploring the age-old friction between science and religion. Science and the Indian Tradition: When Einstein Met Tagore (public library) recounts the historic encounter, amidst a broader discussion of the intellectual renaissance that swept India in the early twentieth century, germinating a curious osmosis of Indian traditions and secular Western scientific doctrine.

The following excerpt from one of Einstein and Tagore’s conversations dances between previously examined definitions of science, beauty, consciousness, and philosophy in a masterful meditation on the most fundamental questions of human existence.




EINSTEIN: Do you believe in the Divine as isolated from the world?

TAGORE: Not isolated. The infinite personality of Man comprehends the Universe. There cannot be anything that cannot be subsumed by the human personality, and this proves that the Truth of the Universe is human Truth.

I have taken a scientific fact to explain this — Matter is composed of protons and electrons, with gaps between them; but matter may seem to be solid. Similarly humanity is composed of individuals, yet they have their interconnection of human relationship, which gives living unity to man’s world. The entire universe is linked up with us in a similar manner, it is a human universe. I have pursued this thought through art, literature and the religious consciousness of man.

EINSTEIN: There are two different conceptions about the nature of the universe: (1) The world as a unity dependent on humanity. (2) The world as a reality independent of the human factor.

TAGORE: When our universe is in harmony with Man, the eternal, we know it as Truth, we feel it as beauty.

EINSTEIN: This is the purely human conception of the universe.

TAGORE: There can be no other conception. This world is a human world — the scientific view of it is also that of the scientific man. There is some standard of reason and enjoyment which gives it Truth, the standard of the Eternal Man whose experiences are through our experiences.

EINSTEIN: This is a realization of the human entity.

TAGORE: Yes, one eternal entity. We have to realize it through our emotions and activities. We realized the Supreme Man who has no individual limitations through our limitations. Science is concerned with that which is not confined to individuals; it is the impersonal human world of Truths. Religion realizes these Truths and links them up with our deeper needs; our individual consciousness of Truth gains universal significance. Religion applies values to Truth, and we know this Truth as good through our own harmony with it.

EINSTEIN: Truth, then, or Beauty is not independent of Man?

TAGORE: No.

EINSTEIN: If there would be no human beings any more, the Apollo of Belvedere would no longer be beautiful.

TAGORE: No.

EINSTEIN: I agree with regard to this conception of Beauty, but not with regard to Truth.

TAGORE: Why not? Truth is realized through man.

EINSTEIN: I cannot prove that my conception is right, but that is my religion.

TAGORE: Beauty is in the ideal of perfect harmony which is in the Universal Being; Truth the perfect comprehension of the Universal Mind. We individuals approach it through our own mistakes and blunders, through our accumulated experiences, through our illumined consciousness — how, otherwise, can we know Truth?

EINSTEIN: I cannot prove scientifically that Truth must be conceived as a Truth that is valid independent of humanity; but I believe it firmly. I believe, for instance, that the Pythagorean theorem in geometry states something that is approximately true, independent of the existence of man. Anyway, if there is a reality independent of man, there is also a Truth relative to this reality; and in the same way the negation of the first engenders a negation of the existence of the latter.

TAGORE: Truth, which is one with the Universal Being, must essentially be human, otherwise whatever we individuals realize as true can never be called truth – at least the Truth which is described as scientific and which only can be reached through the process of logic, in other words, by an organ of thoughts which is human. According to Indian Philosophy there is Brahman, the absolute Truth, which cannot be conceived by the isolation of the individual mind or described by words but can only be realized by completely merging the individual in its infinity. But such a Truth cannot belong to Science. The nature of Truth which we are discussing is an appearance – that is to say, what appears to be true to the human mind and therefore is human, and may be called maya or illusion.

EINSTEIN: So according to your conception, which may be the Indian conception, it is not the illusion of the individual, but of humanity as a whole.

TAGORE: The species also belongs to a unity, to humanity. Therefore the entire human mind realizes Truth; the Indian or the European mind meet in a common realization.

EINSTEIN: The word species is used in German for all human beings, as a matter of fact, even the apes and the frogs would belong to it.

TAGORE: In science we go through the discipline of eliminating the personal limitations of our individual minds and thus reach that comprehension of Truth which is in the mind of the Universal Man.

EINSTEIN: The problem begins whether Truth is independent of our consciousness.

TAGORE: What we call truth lies in the rational harmony between the subjective and objective aspects of reality, both of which belong to the super-personal man.

EINSTEIN: Even in our everyday life we feel compelled to ascribe a reality independent of man to the objects we use. We do this to connect the experiences of our senses in a reasonable way. For instance, if nobody is in this house, yet that table remains where it is.

TAGORE: Yes, it remains outside the individual mind, but not the universal mind. The table which I perceive is perceptible by the same kind of consciousness which I possess.

EINSTEIN: If nobody would be in the house the table would exist all the same — but this is already illegitimate from your point of view — because we cannot explain what it means that the table is there, independently of us.

Our natural point of view in regard to the existence of truth apart from humanity cannot be explained or proved, but it is a belief which nobody can lack — no primitive beings even. We attribute to Truth a super-human objectivity; it is indispensable for us, this reality which is independent of our existence and our experience and our mind — though we cannot say what it means.

TAGORE: Science has proved that the table as a solid object is an appearance and therefore that which the human mind perceives as a table would not exist if that mind were naught. At the same time it must be admitted that the fact, that the ultimate physical reality is nothing but a multitude of separate revolving centres of electric force, also belongs to the human mind.

In the apprehension of Truth there is an eternal conflict between the universal human mind and the same mind confined in the individual. The perpetual process of reconciliation is being carried on in our science, philosophy, in our ethics. In any case, if there be any Truth absolutely unrelated to humanity then for us it is absolutely non-existing.

It is not difficult to imagine a mind to which the sequence of things happens not in space but only in time like the sequence of notes in music. For such a mind such conception of reality is akin to the musical reality in which Pythagorean geometry can have no meaning. There is the reality of paper, infinitely different from the reality of literature. For the kind of mind possessed by the moth which eats that paper literature is absolutely non-existent, yet for Man’s mind literature has a greater value of Truth than the paper itself. In a similar manner if there be some Truth which has no sensuous or rational relation to the human mind, it will ever remain as nothing so long as we remain human beings.

EINSTEIN: Then I am more religious than you are!

TAGORE: My religion is in the reconciliation of the Super-personal Man, the universal human spirit, in my own individual being.



Science and the Indian Tradition: When Einstein Met Tagore is a sublime read in its entirety. Complement it with physicist Lisa Randall on the crucial differences between how art, science, and religion explain the universe, then revisit Einstein’s correspondence with Freud about violence, peace, and human nature, his little-known exchange with W.E.B. DuBois on race and racial justice, and his letter to a little girl in South Africa on whether scientists pray.

Thanks, Natascha

The Sex Diaries: Why Women Go Off Sex And Other Bedroom Battles by Bettina Arndt | Goodreads

The Sex Diaries: Why Women Go Off Sex And Other Bedroom Battles by Bettina Arndt | Goodreads

The Sex Diaries: Why Women Go Off Sex And Other Bedroom Battles

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'From the time I started working as a sex therapist back in the early 1970s, people have been talking to me about their sex lives. What I hear about most is the business of negotiating the sex supply. How do couples deal with the strain of the man wishing and hoping while all she longs for is the bliss of uninterrupted sleep?' In "The Sex Diaries" leading sex therapist Bettina Arndt uncovers the night-time drama being played out in bedrooms everywhere - the creeping hand and feigning of sleep, the staying up late in the hope that he will doze off. It is one of the great inconvenient truths of relationships that after the first blissful years together, most men want more sex than their female partners. Bettina Arndt recruited 98 couples to keep diaries, revealing their intimate negotiations over sex. Who feels like having sex? Who doesn't? And how do couples cope if one person wants it more than the other? She draws on her 35 years as a sex therapist and psychologist to provide an insightful analysis, and with her characteristic humour proposes a new approach to how couples can enjoy regular sex - and sustain loving relationships. (less)

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Andrew Gills
Aug 11, 2011rated it it was amazing
Shelves: non-fiction
This book was fantastic and should be required reading for anyone in or wanting to be in a relationship. While Arndt's respect for and analysis of men's sexuality and needs is criticised by many feminists I found it refreshing. It was wonderful to finally read an acknowledgement that men and women have different sexual and intimacy needs.

By understanding the differences between myself and my wife we were both able to greatly improve our relationship (i.e. we both were able to make changes and to keep doing the things we were doing right).

This book is easy to read and isn't either academic or gratuitous. Despite the title including the word 'sex', this is not a pornographic book. It's a fantastic and honest account of that part of ordinary people's lives that is rarely discussed in polite company, much less discussed honestly.

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Shelleyrae at Book'd Out
Well worth the read especially if you have been married a while/have a bunch of kids/ still love your husband - wish I could get my husband read to it too.
Brian
Jul 24, 2020rated it really liked it
It would be interesting to know the gender composition of the readers of Bettina Arndt's insightful Sex Diaries book. Guessing from the subtitle, "Why Women Go Off Sex And Other Bedroom Battles", I'm guessing that the majority of readers are, like myself, heterosexual males longing to understand their mate's declining libido. Indeed, when I mentioned to my wife that I was reading this book, she said that women don't need to read it, as the divergent sex drives over time make perfect sense from an evolutionary perspective. After all, she said, why would women seek as much sex once they had achieved their primary biological function of producing their desired number of offspring?

For me, it was interesting to better understand the spectrum of sexual libido in both genders and, even more helpful, was the detailed stories of how many couples had found ways of bridging the gap. It was fascinating to see how sufficiently large and prolonged gulfs in sexual interest were often the primary cause for divorce, dispite the huge financial and practical hassles - especially where children were involved.

Arndt's research provided me valuable perspective, helping me to appreciate that my marriage is of a garden variety, and that my wife is much more understanding and accomodating than many. I suspect that if more couples with mismatched desires for intimacy were to read and discuss this book, many marriages could be improved and some divorces avoided.
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Cole Astaire
Apr 17, 2019rated it it was amazing
Incredible!
How do you do "it"? - a question I wouldn't dare ask married friends or family. No need! Arndt cleverly outlines the insight and wisdom I seek. A must-read for anyone serious about maintaining a fruitful relationship through life. This book changed my perspective on relationships, and I have no doubt that I will be a better husband for it.
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Logan Streondj
May 29, 2021rated it it was amazing
It's everything it claimed and more. Really got to see a lot of different relationship dynamics. And it also helped me come to terms with the relationship dynamics I have with my own wife. As well as have more compassion for her perspective. (less)
Virva Lehto
Jul 10, 2020rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2020
Aluksi ällötti vain suurellisesti naisnäkökulma. Sitten tuli kyllä miehistäkin näkökulmaa. Hyviä ajatuksia ja huomioita.
Rachel
Aug 22, 2015rated it really liked it
An interesting book that looks at the sex lives and relationships of many couples through the window of their diaries. I found it quite heartbreaking that there are so many people out there yearning for a sense of love and connection with the person they are with, yet unable to find it.
Maybe we have been tricked and bought a whole load of lies about romance, expectation and how things ought to be. Maybe the reality is the unglamorous decision to try and met each other's emotional needs and not to take the self righteous stand that some needs are more worthy than others (romance is more worthy than sex...) A thought provoking book (less)
Liz Young
Heard Bettina speak on 891 ABC Adelaide and was amazed and inspired by what she was saying. I knew i had to go out and read the book and I was definitely not disappointed. After years of thinking there was something wrong with me, I have finally realised that I'm normal! Hooray! At the same time i have been able to open discussions with Hubby and our nocturnal activities have definitely improved...well, I think that have anyway! Every couple should read this. (less)
Jussi
provides a number of interesting and largely sad insights into her clients' lives and generalisations and some explanations of value for her readers. but the author t is provokingly enamored of hormone related sociobiological rationales which do not really add. she should've stayed with behavioural story. (less)
Chloe
bit strange - got it free from wrok - but some really interesting and often sad insights into other people's lives ...more
Wonderperson89
First class very helpful read.
I want to read her What men want in bed book but at £999 it's a bit out of my range.
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Jacques
Mar 20, 2010rated it liked it
This is a very useful book, the future of monogamy is on the line, to be sure.
Penny
Jul 06, 2013rated it liked it
Mildly interesting. Would be more relevant if:
A. I was older
B. I was in a committed long term relationship
or
C. I had any sex life to speak of;)
Jitka Egressy
Dec 22, 2014rated it it was amazing
Such an amazing window to real life, real relationships, real sex life!

Highly recommend!
Gisela
May 11, 2013rated it it was amazing
Fascinating and graphic though rather sobering and perhaps depressing read in parts.



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The Sex Diaries
By Jacqueline Lunn
March 21, 2009 — 4.46am

https://www.smh.com.au/entertainment/books/the-sex-diaries-20090321-gdtfir.html

I READ the hype. I listened to the outcry. I heard a couple of people giggle like extras from a Carry On movie, then I read Bettina Arndt's The Sex Diaries: Why Women Go Off Sex And Other Bedroom Battles and thought, "Has someone put the wrong cover on this book?" I've experienced more controversy at a six-year-old's birthday party when a parent dared to announce there would be only one winner of pin-the-tail-on-the-donkey.

Arndt's book has generated a lot of media huffing and puffing primarily due to one chapter titled Just Do It, where she proposes that even if women are not in the mood sometimes they should have sex. "Once the canoe is in the water, they do paddle happily," Arndt, a clinical psychologist and sex therapist, says backing up her idea with studies and first-person testimonials. This call to get paddling - even when your arms are tired and your fingers want to poke somebody's eyes out because they refuse to throw out pyjama bottoms that have lost their elastic - has been condemned by some as a return to the dark days when women were expected to do their "wifely" duty.

A woman being convinced of the benefits of having sex when she doesn't want to is nothing new. From sexual health experts promoting books to 19-year-old boys promoting "blue balls", I have heard this call before and the answer is a big fat "no".

 Although I didn't agree with her argument, I didn't find this chapter controversial; Arndt presented her supporting evidence in a measured way and was quick to acknowledge that not everyone agreed with her proposition. I found the focus on this chapter a shame because Arndt's book is so much more than "Just Do It".

In 2007 Arndt asked 98 "ordinary Australian couples" to keep a diary for six to nine months, writing about their "daily negotiations over sex". There are couples who can't keep their hands off each other, there are couples whose sex life is becoming toxic, like a relationship poison they sip from daily. Between the sex-starved and the sex-sated, there are the couples with young children; couples married for decades; couples dealing with serious health issues; couples in love with their vibrators; couples who have forgotten why they fell in love in the first place. It's a smorgasbord of ordinary, completely mixed-up couples.

Arndt's main exploration focuses on the negotiations over the "sex supply" and the impact of differing sex drives on relationships. What happens when one partner wants sex more than the other? Why does this happen and how does it affect the relationship?

Nine times out of 10 it was the male who wanted more sex and it is these entries - from men trying so hard to do the right thing, men who started out in their relationships with great sex lives, men who are frustrated and hurt, men whose touch at night is repeatedly met with a slap away - that make for heartbreaking and fascinating reading

As Arndt says herself, women talk and joke about the sex supply to each other; men keep quiet and, finally, through these diaries, they started to talk and tell their secrets.