- It means that instead of living in illusory bubbles and fairy tales, we should examine the reality and aspire for knowledge and understanding.
- We should challenge our beliefs by questioning them.
- We should strive to find the truth that often gets lost.
- It means pushing ourselves to higher and higher levels of our spiritual selves.
- Most people follow the same patterns throughout their lives. They follow the same script without even looking whether it’s right or not.
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1-Sentence-Summary: The Road Less Traveled is a spiritual classic, combining scientific and religious views to help you grow by confronting and solving your problems through discipline, love and grace.
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One thing that’s become abundantly clear to me after I finished Ryan Holiday’s latest book, Perennial Seller, is that creating a piece of work that stands the test of time is no easy task. Especially when you think beyond the trend wave any new release rides, maybe even beyond your own life. The Lindy effect is a good test: If a non-perishable thing like a technology, movie, or book has been around for 20 years, we can expect it to last another 20.
If this theory holds up, then The Road Less Traveled will sell well until at least 2058. Published in 1978 by then little-known American psychiatrist M. Scott Peck, this evergreen’s 40th birthday is fast approaching. Until now, it’s sold a staggering ten million copies.
Using his experience from counseling many clients throughout his career, he lays out a recipe for a fulfilled life that’s based on self-discipline, love, spirituality, and a mysterious force he calls grace. Mastering these is essential to maintain personal growth, he suggests, which in turn is key to a happy existence.
Here are 3 lessons from the first three categories he discusses:
- Stay open to change your perspective of reality at any moment.
- The action of loving is much more important than the feeling, which is fleeting.
- We’re all religious, because religion is nothing more than a distinct perception of the world.
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Lesson 1: Always be willing to update your view of the world.
Most of our decisions to be dishonest originate from irrational thinking. When we lie, consciously or not, we’ve often just fallen prey to so-called cognitive biases, like the backfire effect, survivorship bias or irrational escalation. It’s easy to raise a finger and say: “Always be honest!” A lot of gurus do that.
That’s why I like the words Peck uses: A dedication to truth. He doesn’t emphasize being honest so much, as that’s often out of our control. What matters, he suggests is that we remain open to being wrong. How willing are you to change your opinion at a moment’s notice? It’s hard. It takes a lot of humility.
Sometimes, even when we’re presented with an opportunity to get a better understanding of reality, like facts that prove we’re wrong, we still can’t change our mind. Worse, we might even reaffirm our rusty and false beliefs (this is the backfire effect in action). You don’t have to cheer when you learn you’re on the wrong track, but if you can pause and entertain the idea of a new opinion at any time, you’re already closer to the truth than most people.
Lesson 2: Love is an action, not a feeling.
One of Sigmund Freud’s many contributions to the field of psychology was the idea of cathexis. It’s defined as the investment of emotional energy into an object or a person, often to an extent that’s unhealthy. Think of it like a romantic obsession or overdose of sexual desire.
Peck says cathexis happens when we intently focus on the “falling in love” aspect of a relationship that often happens early on. As a consequence, our love might burn with a bright flame, but soon fizzle into sparks before extinguishing altogether. To prevent this, he suggests we think of love as an action, not a feeling. If our love is genuine, it won’t require lots of feelings at all, since it’s much bigger than cathexis.
For example, in a well-functioning marriage both partners continue to choose their spouse, because they made a commitment to support that person and strive towards their goals together. Even if they disagree and occasionally get angry at each other, they don’t get swayed by those passing feelings.
In this sense, showing your love is as simple as giving your attention, listening and helping your partner reach their goals. No crazy feelings needed. This is similar to the distinction Jonathan Haidt made in The Happiness Hypothesis between passionate and companionate love. Without the latter, no relationship can last long-term.
Lesson 3: Religion is just a way of viewing the world, which means we all have one.
We mostly view religion as a set of strict rules and traditional rituals that a certain group follows in order to worship a or multiple deities. Peck begs to differ. He says we need to expand our definition of religion and uses it synonymously with ‘worldview.’ Our perspective of life is mostly shaped by our education in school and at home, as well as the family environment we grow up in.
For example, one of Peck’s clients was brought up by extremely conservative, devout and physically abusive parents. As a result he thought the world was an evil place, trying to punish him for every mistake he made. His religion was “everyone is out to get me, so I must play by the rules.” Notice how there’s no God involved in this.
What can we do to improve our religion, then? This goes back to the first lesson: Be open to change. Peck says taking a scientist’s approach allows us to continue exploring and questioning the world around us, so we can constantly improve our opinions and view of the world.
The Road Less Traveled Review
The Road Less Traveled strikes a great balance between science and religion, declaring neither superior to the other, which is likely a big part of its allure. Besides discipline, love and spirituality, Peck also describes grace as a mysterious force of positive growth in our lives. It universally adds serendipity in ways we can’t quite explain and thus comes as close to a miracle as it gets. A good read for everyone who leans heavily towards either side of the science-religion spectrum.
Who would I recommend The Road Less Traveled summary to?
The 17 year old, who returns home each day to a hostile household, the 29 year old single, who can’t explain why none of her relationships last and anyone who’s very religious or agnostic.
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Seeing God everywhere : a practical guide to spiritual living
by Shraddhananda, Swami, 1907-
Publication date 1996
Topics Spiritual life -- Hinduism, Hinduism -- Doctrines
Publisher Hollywood, Calif. : Vedanta Press
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Seeing God Everywhere: A Practical Guide to Spiritual Living Paperback – 3 October 1996
by Swami Shraddhananda (Author), Pravrajika Vrajaprana (Author, Editor)
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This is a book about realizing the highest spiritual experience by what seems like the almost to easy pracice of seeing God everywhere. And the book is more than that. It conveys the joy of spiritual practice and experience. The swami stresses that religion must be lived rather than discussed. It is to be gained from day to day as a tangible experience of the Spirit.
This edition is now out of print. Please see our alternate edition published in India, isbn: 8175051930.
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This is a great book. I was borrowing it to read; but I couldn't put it down. So I bought my own copy as reference. Almost every chapter has amazing insights. I wanted to highlight almost the entire book! I think this book is explains topics so clearly, that it would be good for beginners to spiritual life. If you are looking to progress on your spiritual journey, this is a good book for you.
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Seeing God Everywhere: A Practical Guide to Spiritual Living Paperback – 4 January 2016
by Swami Shraddhananda (Author)
4.2 4.2 out of 5 stars 8 ratings
This is a book about realizing the highest spiritual experience by what seems like the almost too easy practice of seeing God everywhere.
And the book is more than that. It conveys the joy of spiritual practice and experience. The swami stresses that religion must be lived rather than discussed. It is to be gained from day to day as a tangible experience of the Spirit.
This is a book that was a real pleasure to publish!
"Conveys the beauty and joy of mystical experience... to say that it is worth reading doesn't begin to do justice to the book." - Huston Smith, author of The World's Religion and Why Religion Matters.
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Seeing God Everywhere
A Practical Guide to Spiritual Living
By Swami Shraddhananda
Ponders the human adventure as an attempt to realize the divinity within us.
Book Review by Frederic and Mary Ann Brussat
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In this book, the late Swami Shraddhananda, head of the Vedanta Society of Sacramento, ponders the human adventure as an attempt "to realize the divinity within us and to manifest it in our daily life." Referring to the Upanishads and to the lore about Kali, Krishna, and Vishnu, the author writes about the search for God, overcoming obstacles, understanding the mind, and spiritual practices. Shraddhananda sees silence, diving deep, and freedom as essential elements in a sacred life.
The Gita proclaims that God's presence is found in things, in the natural world, and in our relationships. The author repeatedly emphasizes the immanence of the Holy One and the necessity of practicing attention, wonder, and gratitude. "Seeing God Everywhere" is a fine introduction to Hindu spirituality.
Vedanta Press, 12/95
ISBN: 0874810523
$12.95 Paperback
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