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There's a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem Paperback – Deckle Edge, 14 August 2003
by Dr Wayne W Dyer (Author)

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In this inspiring book, bestselling author Wayne Dyer draws from various spiritual traditions to help us unplug from the material world and awaken to the divine with.

With his trademark wit, wisdom, and humor, bestselling author Wayne Dyer offers compelling testimony on the power of love, harmony, and service. When confronted with a problem, be it ill health, financial worries, or relationship difficulties, we often depend on intellect to solve it. In this radical book, Dyer shows us that there is an omnipotent spiritual force at our fingertips that contains the solution to our problems.

The first part of the book provides the essential foundation for spiritual problem solving, drawing from the wisdom of Patanjali, a Yogi mystic; 

the second half is organized around the prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi, whose legacy is one of love, harmony, and service. 

Each chapter contains specific practical applications for applying the teachings of these wise men to everyday problems, including affirmations, writing exercises, and guided meditations.

Profound and thought provoking, yet filled with pragmatic advice, 
There's a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem is 
a book about self-awareness and tapping the healing energy within all of us. 
As Dyer writes, 
"Thinking is the source of problems. 
Your heart holds the answer to solving them.

288 pages

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About the Author
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer was the bestselling author of 20 books and had a doctorate in counseling psychology. He lectured across the country to groups numbering in the thousands and appeared regularly on radio and television. He passed away in August of 2015.
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Publisher ‏ : ‎ William Morrow & Company; Reprint edition (14 August 2003)
Language ‏ : ‎ English
Paperback ‏ : ‎ 288 pages
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Lorna Vince
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I'm still working my way through this book but it is for me life changing. It has similarities to A Course in Miracles, but more reader friendly. Wonderfully meaningful, understable and do-able. You have to apply it and work at it but I feel motivated by it. I'm obviously ready for it - I recommend it.
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SmilingInside
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One of my favourite books by the amazing Wayne Dyer. The advice and guidance offered in this book will nourish your soul and help you connect with the higher peaceful energies and reject the lower slower ones.
Peace and love to you reading this. 🙏🏽

 
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Fantastic book but one thing I did notice about the book where he mentions relationships like all is always gonna be ok if you change your mindset yet he divorced lol
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TomD
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It's clear that Dr Dyer has read very widely and he uses a lot of spiritual literature as the basis for the points he makes. Unfortunately, there is a lot of repetition but if you can put up with that, it's worth a read. 
I can't help feeling that he could have made the same points and impact with less pages.
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June Vernon
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I found content of this book very believable and uplifting. It's nice to pick up and read when feeling a little confused with life.
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Maybe it's just me, but I have a problem with people telling me how to live when it doesn't look like they can do what they suggest the rest of us should do.

Let's take for example Dr. Wayne Dyer's There's a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem.' Wasn't there a spiritual solution to prevent any of his three marriages from ending in divorce? Or didn't he think divorce was a problem? I'm assuming he took the same vows all married people take, the ones that include 'Until death do us part.' Don't those vows apply to him? Instead of writing Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life,' maybe he should've written 'Change Your Mind, Change Your Wife.'

Wayne Dyer leads the self-help brigade appearing on the highly regarded PBS channel. PBS, which stands for PUBLIC Broadcasting System means that your donations help fund his programs. In addition to what he gets paid to appear in the studio, he gets to promulgate his products during breaks in the program.

"Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into," says Dr. Dyer. How we do that is something of a mystery. What is obvious, however, is that if you can write a fluffy inspirational book packed with maxims sans substance, you can make a bundle. Just open up and let the universe send you its abundance. "Successful people make money," he says. "It's not that people who make money become successful, but that successful people attract money. They bring success to what they do."

Is money the only barometer of success? Does anyone really understand how to "attract money?" Doesn't that sound a little passive to you? If you want money, I always thought you had to work for it. But that concept isn't going to sell any books, tapes, CDs, DVDs, or tickets to speaking engagements.

How much money do you think we spend for self-help advice? "Americans spend upward of $8 billion every year on self-help programs and products," says one industry expert. American pop psychology and pseudo spirituality is an industry that offers a quick fix to whatever ails us, but never actually delivers the payoff. One book, after another CD, after another DVD comes out restating essentially the same message: "If you follow my program, you'll achieve a life beyond your wildest dreams." I see a lot of people buying the products, but not many living a life beyond their wildest dreams.
Am I saying that people like Dr. Dyer do more harm than good? Not necessarily. What I'm saying is that there's no quick fix, no shortcut to living the life of your dreams. It requires a little luck and a lot of hard work. No one can tell you the meaning of life. The purpose of your life is the purpose you give it. Don't rely on a self-help guru to neatly package a solution to your individual problems. That's your job. If you're successful, even if you never utter a word or write a book, how you live will speak volumes about you.

As Dr. Wayne Dyer says, "Your children will see what you're all about by what you live rather than what you say."

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The principal message of this book can be summarized with the universal maxim, as you think, so shall you be. It’s that simple and you can either dismiss this book as hippy dippy or you can embrace the fact that spirituality and positive energy need not be complicated. From the teachings of mystics to the prayer of St. Francis of Assisi, Dr. Dyer leads you through the practical applications of their wisdom and how you can shift low energy vibrations (fear, anger, guilt, envy, etc.) to a higher energy frequency (insight, consciousness) that abstains from destructive thoughts and toxic people. I listened rather than read this book and it was as if Dr. Dyer was easing me through meditation. Henceforth, this will become my go to when I need a spiritual tune up and find my determination waning.

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I am beginning to believe that anything by Wayne Dyer is amazing, but I may be partial. I love his soothing voice, his wonderful sense of humor, and his brilliant messages. If you are struggling in any area of your life, or if you're having a great time and want ti to get even better, then you really shoudl consider this book. According to him, there are no problems in life. We create the problems. I had to listen to this part several times because it's difficult to grasp. Life doesn't have to be struggle - we create our problems through our thoughts and how we react to things happening around us. (I'm also reading through Conversations With God - Book 3 and the message is synonymous with that of Dyer.) Nothing is real. Everything is an illusion. When we understand that we can let go of fear and doubt and negative thoughts and really start to LIVE the live that we were intended to.

There was a segment in the move that was particularly intriguing to me. Dyer references a man by the name of David Hawkins, who performed kinesthetic tests on people using things that would be bad for your body and things that would be good (i.e. Sweet&Low artificial sweetener and natural vitamin C). He tested people's individual strength when one of these things was held by each person. Amazingly, each person appeared weaker in strength when holding the product of chemicals, and stronger when holding the item found naturally in nature. Dyer suggests reading Hawkins' book titled Power Vs. Force, which explores this in much greater detail.

I highly recommend this book to everyone. Don't be put off by the word "spiritual" in the title. This isn't a relgious book. In fact, you don't even have to believe in God to get something from this book. It's an inspiring book chock full of positive suggestions on how to lead a better, happier, more rewarding life.

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HIGHLIGHTS:
1. All your conflicts with others are never between you and them = They are between you and God.
- Love your body as the temple that God gave you to house your soul on this journey.

2. The empowering way is to view trials as lessons and opportunities to choose differently.

3. True abundance is an absolute knowing that everything you need will be supplied.

4. Give the world your spirit and detach from the outcome of your efforts and your energy field becomes less and less contaminated.

5. Every experience of sadness provides valuable lessons to learn and doors to open to higher spiritual awareness. Therefore, give thanks when such opportunities surface.

6. Joyful people rejoice in their strengths, talents, and powers and don’t compare themselves to anyone.
- Joy comes from rejoicing in all that you are, all that you have, all that you can be, and from knowing that you are divine, a piece of God.
- Finding joy means consciously deciding to process your life in ways that focus on gratefulness for what you have.

7. It is always about how you choose to process events, not the events themselves that determine your level of peace.

8. In the faster vibrational frequencies, you are able to invoke intuition, insight, and other potentials that are dormant when you are in ordinary human awareness.
- How you look upon the world and the images you have within you determine what you will get in your life.

9. Success: Highly successful people are those who have knowledge about resolving problems, and they are not focused on proving their point to anyone.

10. Passion – When successful people harden their will they become immune to outside forces that might attempt to dissuade them from their inner passion.
- Burning desire to achieve an inner objective.
What you intend in your thoughts with passion, you will act upon and ultimately create.
- If you keep the vision of what you want, you will not be able to do anything but act upon that energy.
- Happiness is an inside job. You don’t get it from anyone or anything; you bring it to everyone and every event of your life.
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Some books on spirituality are life changing. This is one of them for me. All of our problems are created in our minds/ego. They can be nullified by seeking a spiritual connection instead.
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It was good enough that I've just finished it a second time and bought a used copy for my own library. Much of the book is derived from the Saint Francis prayer. "The spiritual solution to any and all despair is one, to move your energy up by making conscious contact with God and trusting in that contact, thereby dissolving the images of negativity and pessimism, and two, to radiate outward this higher 'up' energy toward others who are believing in and therefore living, lives of quiet desperation."
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got it for a quarter in a garage sale...but it is becoming worth way more than that...priceless

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There's a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem
By Wayne Dyer   

Examines the aphorisms of a Yogi mystic and the most famous prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi as a spiritual approach to life.

Book Review by Frederic and Mary Ann Brussat

Wayne Dyer is the bestselling author of more than 20 books and has a doctorate in counseling psychology. At the outset of this paperback, he writes:

"Spirituality is from within, the result of recognition, realization, and reverence. My personal understanding of spiritual practice is that it is a way of making my life work at a higher level and of receiving guidance for handling problems."

Dyer turns to the writings of Patanjali, a Yogi mystic who wrote sometime between the fourth century B.C. and the fourth century A.D. He takes five of his aphorisms and uses them as a foundation for seeing a spiritual solution to every problem:


1. Identify yourself beyond ignorance.
2. Calmness is the peace of God within you.
3. You create obstacles, you do not sin.
4. Be steadfast in abstaining from falsehood.
5. Be steadfast in abstaining from harmful thoughts and acts.
Dyer then proposes that everything is energy and that faster vibrations means getting closer to "spirit." But in our spiritual evolution, it is necessary that we slow down. We can do this by meditation and other practices to ease the mind. The author quotes the Sufi master Hazrat Inayat Khan: "The solution to the problem of the day is the awakening of the consciousness of humanity to the divinity within." The awareness of our infinite nature puts things in perspective and we see:

"If my message to the universe is 'What can I give?' or 'How may I serve?,' the message I receive from the universe will be 'How may I serve you?' or 'What can I give you?' Then I experience the magic of sending generous thoughts and energy out wherever I go."

The second half of this book focuses of the famous prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi which begins "Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace." Dyer dissects each line and sees it as very practical advice for implementing spiritual solutions. Here's one of his suggestions for becoming an instrument of peace:

"Practice thinking peace. Remember, you become what you think about all day long. How often do you clutter your mind with thoughts of nonpeace? How many times a day do you say out loud how terrible the world is? How violent we have all become? How uncaring we seem to be? How racist we are? How little the government cares about us? All of these thoughts and their expression are indications that you have become trapped in a nonpeaceful mind and, therefore, a nonpeaceful world."

Dyer maintains that there is a spiritual solution to every problem when we can learn to follow Saint Francis and sow peace, love, pardon, faith, light, and joy. These practices will serve as antidotes to turmoil, hatred, injury, doubt, despair, and sadness.
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There's a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem
By Wayne Dyer
Examines the aphorisms of a Yogi mystic and the most famous prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi as a spiritual approach to life.
Book Review by Frederic and Mary Ann Brussat
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Wayne Dyer is the bestselling author of more than 20 books and has a doctorate in counseling psychology. At the outset of this paperback, he writes:

"Spirituality is from within, the result of recognition, realization, and reverence. My personal understanding of spiritual practice is that it is a way of making my life work at a higher level and of receiving guidance for handling problems."

Dyer turns to the writings of Patanjali, a Yogi mystic who wrote sometime between the fourth century B.C. and the fourth century A.D. He takes five of his aphorisms and uses them as a foundation for seeing a spiritual solution to every problem:


1. Identify yourself beyond ignorance.
2. Calmness is the peace of God within you.
3. You create obstacles, you do not sin.
4. Be steadfast in abstaining from falsehood.
5. Be steadfast in abstaining from harmful thoughts and acts.
Dyer then proposes that everything is energy and that faster vibrations means getting closer to "spirit." But in our spiritual evolution, it is necessary that we slow down. We can do this by meditation and other practices to ease the mind. The author quotes the Sufi master Hazrat Inayat Khan: "The solution to the problem of the day is the awakening of the consciousness of humanity to the divinity within." The awareness of our infinite nature puts things in perspective and we see:

"If my message to the universe is 'What can I give?' or 'How may I serve?,' the message I receive from the universe will be 'How may I serve you?' or 'What can I give you?' Then I experience the magic of sending generous thoughts and energy out wherever I go."

The second half of this book focuses of the famous prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi which begins "Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace." Dyer dissects each line and sees it as very practical advice for implementing spiritual solutions. Here's one of his suggestions for becoming an instrument of peace:

"Practice thinking peace. Remember, you become what you think about all day long. How often do you clutter your mind with thoughts of nonpeace? How many times a day do you say out loud how terrible the world is? How violent we have all become? How uncaring we seem to be? How racist we are? How little the government cares about us? All of these thoughts and their expression are indications that you have become trapped in a nonpeaceful mind and, therefore, a nonpeaceful world."

Dyer maintains that there is a spiritual solution to every problem when we can learn to follow Saint Francis and sow peace, love, pardon, faith, light, and joy. These practices will serve as antidotes to turmoil, hatred, injury, doubt, despair, and sadness.

 

알라딘: 마음의 습관 웨인 다이어 There's a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem

알라딘: 마음의 습관


마음의 습관 
웨인 다이어 (지은이),유영일 (옮긴이)이레2006-12-15


'삶은 한 번의 큰 기회가 아니라, 마음의 작은 습관들로써 바꿀 수 있다.' <행복한 이기주의자>의 저자 웨인 다이어가 우리 삶에 필요한 '마음'의 역할에 대해 이야기한다. 마음 또한 일종의 에너지임을 밝히고, '마음의 습관'과 그 작용이 인간에게 미치는 영향을 분석한 책이다.

지은이에 따르면, 우리 안에는 생명을 유지시키는 보이지 않는 힘이 존재한다. 이 근원의 힘은 인간의 모든 문제를 풀 수 있는데, 다만 접근법이 알려져 있지 않다는 것. 그는 이 에너지를 가리켜 '마음'이라고 부른다. 그리고 마음에 접속하여 문제를 해결해나가는 구체적인 길을 안내한다.

위대한 마음의 스승들이 가르쳐 온 행복의 원리들을 과학적이고 실용적인 측면에서 접근한 책이다. 해결 불가능하다고 생각했던 문제들로부터 벗어나는 일곱 가지 방법, 그리고 자신이 원하는 삶으로 나아가기 위한 일곱 가지 습관이 일목요연하게 정리되어 있다.


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프롤로그 : 마음의 습관이 나를 만든다

1. 나의 생각이 문제의 근원이다
문제는 내가 만든 환상일 뿐이다
마음에 접속하는 법
마음으로 문제를 풀어가는 7가지 방법

2. 마음과 만나는 길
누구나 기적을 만들 수 있다
첫 번째 아포리즘 - 가장 큰 무기는 자기 자신을 잘못 아는 것이다
두 번째 아포리즘 - 깨달은 마음은 어디에서나 평화를 찾아낸다
세 번째 아포리즘 - 죄란 존재하지 않는다
네 번째 아포리즘 - 거짓을 버려라
다섯 번째 아포리즘 - 다른 사람이 옳다고 인정하는 법을 배우라

3. 나의 마음이 우주의 마음이다
모두가 다 에너지
행복의 주파수를 찾아라
마음은 경험하고 뇌는 기록한다
문제를 문제로 두지 말라
마음을 품으면 혼자서도 충분하다

4. 정말로, 정말로, 정말로, 정말로 원하는 것을 얻기
생각하는 대로 존재한다
원하는 것을 얻는 사람들의 4가지 특징
당신은 지금 제정신이 아니다

5. 깨끗한 에너지가 넘치는 사람 되기
몸과 마음, 환경의 에너지 장
난 내 몸의 좋은 친구인가?
두려움의 페로몬, 사랑의 페로몬
마음의 평화 지대로 가라

실천편 - 행복 에너지를 높이는 7가지 마음의 습관
평화의 감성을 키우라
사랑은 실패하지 않는다
치유가 불가능한 병은 없다
두려움과 믿음 사이
영원한 낙관주의자가 되라
아름다움과 진실을 즐겨라
기쁨의 레퍼토리로 채우라

에필로그 : 기억하라, 당신은 당신이 하루 종일 생각하는 바로 그것이 된다
옮긴이의 말 : 써도 써도 다함이 없는 당신 안의 충전소
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책속에서


'내가 지난 사흘 동안 당신을 모욕하고 갖은 험담을 늘어놓았는데도, 내게 줄곧 사랑과 친절을 보여줄 수 있는 비결은 무엇입니까?' 붓다는 거기에 대해 하나의 질문으로써 대꾸했다. '만약 어떤 사람이 당신에게 선물을 주었는데 당신이 그 선물을 받지 않는다면 그 선물은 누구의 소유가 되겠는가?'

어떤 사람이 당신에게 ... 더보기



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웨인 다이어 (Wayne W. Dyer) (지은이)
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전 세계 5천만 명의 인생을 바꾼 존경받는 심리학자이다. 1940년 미국 미시간 주 디트로이트에서 태어났고, 아버지의 부재로 어린 시절 고아원과 위탁가정을 전전하며 자랐지만 특유의 긍정성과 굳은 의지로 꿈을 포기하지 않았다. 웨인 주립대학교에서 교육학 박사 학위를 받았고, 뉴욕 세인트존스대학교에서 학생들을 가르쳤다. 꿈, 인생, 행복, 삶의 태도 등에 대한 글을 쓰고 관련한 내용을 더 많은 사람에게 전하고 싶어 종신 교수직을 포기하고 세상 속으로 뛰어들었다.
오프라 윈프리, 루이스 헤이 등 세계적으로 성공한 인사들이 존경하는 인생 철학자이자 멘토로 TV와 라디오, 강연 등을 통해 수많은 사람에게 행복하게 살아가는 방법들을 전달하고 인생을 통찰하는 낯선 질문들을 던져왔다. 《행복한 이기주의자》, 《인생의 태도》, 《마음의 연금술》 등 40여 권의 책을 펴냈으며 그중 절반이 〈뉴욕타임스〉 베스트셀러에 선정됐다. 2015년 하와이 마우이에서 세상을 떠났다. 이 책은 베스트셀러 《인생의 태도》의 실전편으로 웨인 다이어가 평생에 걸쳐 자신에게 물어왔던 질문과 그의 핵심 메시지를 담은 글 60가지를 한데 모은 것이다. 매일 60일간 그의 글을 읽고 질문에 답을 하다 보면 바쁜 일상에 파묻혀 알지 못했던 진정한 자신의 모습을 발견하게 되고, 어제보다 오늘을 더 행복하게 살아갈 수 있을 것이다. 접기

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“나는 누구인가?”라는 의문부호를 안고 살면서 책과 명상을 통해 자기 안에 이미 내재된 신성의 빛을 깨닫고, 확대 증폭하는 길을 걷고 있다.
옮긴 책으로 『내 안의 나』, 『보이지 않는 공급자』, 『인피니트 웨이』, 『문: 길은 언제나 내 안에 있다』, 『지금 이 순간을 살아라』, 『볼텍스』, 『나는 지금 누구를 사랑하는가』 등이 있으며, 지은 책으로 『백일 감사: 백일만 하면 행복이 춤춘다』, 『마하무스 이야기』(우화), 『말할 수 없는 위안』(공저, 잠언 시집) 등이 있다.

최근작 : <백일 감사>,<당신 안의 그리스도>,<말할 수 없는 위안> … 총 55종 (모두보기)

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내 마음의 습관에 변화를 일으킨 시간
여행스케치 2008-10-01 공감 (0) 댓글 (0)
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마이리뷰


습관을 고치는 계기를...



불가에서는 "일체유심조"를 이야기하며 모든 삼라만상이 마음으로 이루어져 있음을 이야기하고

기독교에서는 하나님이 아니계신 곳이 없음을 이야기 하며 마음속에 진리가 존재함을 이야기하였다.

한의사 입장에서 모든 병이 마음에서 기인함을 확신하지만,

사람들의 마음을 내가 꺼내 볼수 없으니 보이지 않는 비물질적인 마음을 이야기하고 치료하기에는 많은 어려움이 있다.

사람이 행동을 바꾸게 되는 것도 결국 마음이 바뀌어야 행동이 변할 수 있으나 많은 사람들이 "작심삼일"의 틀속에서 벗어나기 힘들다.

기적 중에 기적은 사람이 날아 다니고, 죽은 사람이 살아나는 것이 아닌 마음의 변화가 참 기적이라고 본인은 생각한다.

그러므로 이 책은 마음의 습관을 아는데 많은 도움이 될 것 같다.

그리고 이 책과 동시에 마음으로 추천하고 싶은 책은 "살아서 하늘사람 되는 방법"을 추천하고 싶다.

우리가 보통 가지고 있는 고정관념을 깨어내어 변화를 줄 수 있는 서적이 될 것 같다.
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만만히 볼 책은 아닌듯.



웨인 다이어의 책에는 관심이 있기에,(자유롭게-는 그다지 기억에 남지 않지만) 신간이 나오는대로 살펴보는 편이다. 여느 때처럼 알라딘을 두리번거리다가 보게 된 책 소개 중, 이 글을 보고 뒤통수를 얻어맞는 듯한 충격을 느껴서 구입했다.

"내가 지난 사흘 동안 당신을 모욕하고 갖은 험담을 늘어놓았는데도, 내게 줄곧 사랑과 친절을 보여줄 수 있는 비결은 무엇입니까?" 붓다는 거기에 대해 하나의 질문으로써 대꾸했다. "만약 어떤 사람이 당신에게 선물을 주었는데 당신이 그 선물을 받지 않는다면 그 선물은 누구의 소유가 되겠는가?"

사람을 덥벅덥벅 잘도 좋아하는지라 사회생활을 하면서 가슴 아픈 일이 많이 있었다. 나는 진심으로 대했는데도 상대는 오로지 일에 필요했기 때문에 잘 대했다가, 일에 관련된 간판이 떨어지는 즉시 차갑게 돌변한다든지 하는. 글로 잘 설명이 안되는데 처음에는 그것이 몹시도 상처였으며, 지금도 솔직히 익숙해지진 않았다. 그 때마다 나는 이를 앙 다물고 울지 않으려 애쓰며 생각했다.
- 억울해, 어떻게 이럴 수가 있어? 다시는 잘 모르는 사람들에게 잘 해주지 않을거야. 안전하게 살거야.
하고. 그런데 그러면 어쩐지 나도 그이들과 비슷해질 듯한 그 찜찜함이라니.
그 찜찜함을 풀어준 말이 저 글귀였다. 나는 서둘러 책을 폈다.

.....그런데 잘 읽히지가 않는다. 음. 이 책 속에 나오는 말을 보고 다이어의 전작 '행복한 이기주의자'가 1970년대에 나온 책이라는 걸 비로소 알았다. 이십몇년이 지나는 동안 다이어는 약간 도인이 된 듯한 느낌. 그 느낌이 마구 넘쳐자는 책이 이것이다.
어쩐지 그런 광경이 떠올랐다. '행복한 이기주의자' 를 보고 실용적인 팁과 제법 쏠쏠한 재미, 가벼운 깨달음을 얻은 이들이 이 책을 보고 당황하는 모습. 명상, 신, 영성(기독교적인 의미로 쓰인건 아니었다), 본성...등등의 낱말이 마구 튀어나오면 어찌 대응해야할지 몰라하는 모습.

한마디로 이 책은 '행복한 이기주의자' 등의 전작처럼 술술 읽히지도, 쉽지도 않다. 어쩌면 그런 추상적인 개념을 싫어하는 사람들에게는 끝까지 읽기조차 어려울 수도.

(그런데 목차 소제목들은 어쩜 그리 실용서처럼 잘 뽑았담!)
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나의 세계를 깨어넘기란...



[삶은 한 번의 큰 기회가 아니라, 마음의 작은 습관들로써 바꿀 수 있다.]

생각대로 하면 되고~~ 라는 CF song이 떠오른다.



우리가 이루는 하루는 우리가 하루 종일 생각하는 바로 그것이 된단다. 이 책은 종교적 접근과 문학적 접근을 통해 심도있게 마음의 습관을 다루고 있다.



전에 가족상담교수님께서 말씀하신 인생각본이 생각난다.



사람들은 저마다의 인생각본속에 살아간다는...



그래서 너무나도 신기할 정도 반복된 패턴으로 사람을 대하며 살아간다고... 이 말은 어찌보면 굉장히 무서운 말이다.



나의 인생각본이 내가 원하는 것이 아니라도 그 각본대로 살아야 된다는 것이기 때문이다.



하지만!!! 변화될 수 있다.



다만 그 변화를 위해서는 자기자신을 바꿀 수 있을 만큼의 강인함이 필요하다. 한마디로 강인함이 없으면 변화되기 매우 어렵다.



'새는 알을 깨고 나온다. 알은 새의 세계다. 태어나려는 자는 한 세계를 파괴하지 않으면 안된다' 라는 문구가 정확하다고 말해야 할까?







나 또한 나의 한 세계를 깨기위한 강인함이 필요하다.

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오래된 마음의 습관을 바꾸고 싶다면, 이 책을 읽자

마음에 접속하는 첫 번째 단계 - 인정하고 받아들임, 두 번째 단계 - 깨달음, ... + 더보기
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문제를 이르키는생각과 마음을변화시키는 방법을 이끄는 좋은책이다.

문제를 이르키는생각과 마음을변화시키는 방법을 이끄는 좋은책이다.
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