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The Hidden Pleasures of Life: A New Way of Remembering the Past and Imagining the Future
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The story of a search for a new art of living. How can one escape from work colleagues who are bores and from organisations that thrive on stress? What new priorities can people give to their private lives? When the romantic ideal is disappointing, how else can affections be cultivated? If only a few can become rich, what substitute is there for dropping out? If religions and nations disagree, what other outcomes are possible beyond strife or doubt? Where there is too little freedom, what is the alternative to rebellion? When so much is unpredictable, what can replace ambition?
Questions include: What is the great adventure of our time? What is a wasted life? How can people lose their illusions about themselves? What alternatives are there to being a rebel? What can the poor tell the rich? What could the rich tell the poor? How many ways of committing suicide are there? How can an unbeliever understand a believer? How can a religion change? How can prejudices be overcome? How can one think about the future, without trying to predict it or worrying about it? Is ridicule the most effective form of non-violent protest? How does one acquire a sense of humour? What stops people feeling completely at home in their own country? How many nations can one love at the same time? Why do so many people feel unappreciated, unloved and not fully alive? How else might women and men treat one another? What can replace the shortage of soul-mates? Is another kind of sexual revolution achievable? What can artists aim for beyond self-expression? What is more interesting than becoming a leader? What is the point of working so hard? Are there more amusing ways of earning a living? What else can one do in a hotel? What more can the young ask of their elders? Is remaining young at heart enough to avoid becoming old? What is worth knowing? What does it mean to be alive? Where can one find nourishment for the mind?(less)
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Mar 30, 2016Suha Hallab rated it liked it
To me, reading this book was like having a long long conversation with someone you love in the middle of the night about all the crazy curious questions you might have… a deep rich conversation…
So, this book represents 28 essays each titled by a question about a certain thing of which I’ll mention the ones I liked: what is a wasted life? How can a religion change? Why do so many people feel unappreciated, unloved and only half alive? What is the point of working so hard? What is worth knowing? and the best of the questions was, what does it mean to be alive?
Briefing about the author, he is a Russian-Jewish scholar at Oxford, born in 1933 in جبل الكرمل in Palestine. He and his parents moved to the UK where he pursued his studies in philosophy, history and latin. His best work was a 2000 pages book “The French” that was divided into 5 volumes: Ambition & Love, Intellect & Pride, Taste & Corruption, Politics & Anger and Anxiety & Hypocricy. He also wrote a replica of Orwell 1984 of how would the world look like if all desires are achieved under the title of “Happiness”.
This book is published in May 2015, and the author was 81 years and discusses with us the 28 different topics as if he s thinking out loud and talking to you as a friend however, as an 81 year old friend with expertise in life and writing based on huge array of sources and cultures.
For example, in his chapter titled what is worth knowing, I loved how he described that we should be nourished by knowledge and not bloated; nowadays many of us are just obese with knowledge it makes us sick. What use of information if there is no wisdom? He spoke about history as fiction, since past can never be told unless it’s from the perception of the historian… what matters is not how much knowledge we have but what we do with our knowledge, it is more like painting a picture which gradually takes shape.
And in the question of How can a religion change, he speaks about different religions, even the ones you wouldn’t expect to hear about like Zoroastrianism, he also quotes Islamic and Christian shcolars and Chinese and indian religions. He laments the hostility created by religions and that most of hostility is due to people telling each other how to behave. In india, there are 2.5 million places of worship and only 75000 hospitals.
Mainly, the writer would want a better world where people interact more in a meaningful way. He wants the hotels to become a hub for learning about each other whether we’re guests, having dinner or simply work there. In his world, Nobel prizes would be given to humorists instead of economists and the insurance companies would create opportunities for the young instead of creating fear of the old.
Regarding the style, the writing style is pretty simple, the book is fancy and the cover design is nice too. I also liked the notes on the side of each page, the ideas that should be remembered for example: “A family of the mind” , “Einstein and God”, competition “an awful kind of salvery”.
Personally, this book did not add anything to me. However it made me feel like I am sitting with an old friend at midnight with a glass of wine, and just talking y. It also made me think of my own answers and my own understanding of these topics as I also discussed them with my own friends. On the other hand, there are big parts of the book that feels like he just saying things to say, like a friend who is happy sharing what’s on his mind. What I also disagree with, is him stressing on interaction as nourishment, hence the people who prefer to spend time alone and not engage in any sort of conversation are less alive. In my opinion it is the opposite.
I do recommend as a light read, don’t expect to learn but to have a conversation through this book.
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Nov 13, 2016Virditas rated it it was amazing
This is a fantastic book. Zeldin is an engineer of optimism, change, and openness. If this book were required reading for everyone, we would live in a very different world. This is a human book about human scaled possibilities. Please read this.
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Mar 25, 2018nedim rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
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one of the most impressive books I've read lately.
the book says "try to see all the colors in the world"
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Jul 02, 2016Neglectedbooks rated it really liked it · review of another edition
Building on his 1998 book, Conversation: How Talk Can Change Our Livesand his Conversation Menu project, Zeldin offers 29 essays in which he discusses questions ranging from "What is the great adventure of our time?" and "What is a wasted life?" to "What is the point of working so hard?" and "What is worth knowing?"
In most, he starts by introducing a person-- sometimes someone famous from the past (the painter Lucian Freud, the poet and novelist Rabindranath Tagore), sometimes someone from the present (Ikea founder Ingvar Kamprad), sometimes someone relatively obscure (the Indian memoirist Haimabati Sen)--and describing some aspect of his life and the choices he made. He then considers the larger questions that one might draw from each specific example and the choices they might inspire in us as individuals or as a society.
This is not a book to read if you're looking for simple answers, or even answers at all. Zeldin is really simply interested in opening doors and windows, in stimulating us to ask our own questions. A historian by training, Zeldin is very attuned to the importance of our pasts on our futures: "Humans have never yet created something out of nothing": "No-one lives only in the present"; "Knowledge is never raw."
Some reader may find this book extremely frustrating, as Zeldin often leaves one with more questions than answers. This is, however, his intent:
I hope that eavesdropping on my conversations will make my readers want to interrupt and disagree, and feel impelled to start their own book, from their own perspective, evoking the past that is most meaningful to them, and imagining a future that would give more hope to the present.
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May 27, 2017Lisa rated it really liked it · review of another edition
Some wonderful ideas, things to contemplate, especially about being more open to other people's ideas, disagreements, contradictions. I am even more inclined to get out and meet new people, talk to them about what they've experienced, what they've learnt....
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Jun 14, 2019Sebastian Beltrán rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
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This book is a collection of 28 essays, each posing a question that "most of us leave half-answered in the back of our minds", such as "What is a wasted life?","How many ways of committing suicide are there?" or "What else can one do in a hotel?". Theodore Zeldin uses these themes as a vantage point from which he starts an argument. He manages to write a book that doesn't feel like a lecture and monologue but more like an intimate and lengthy conversation with a good friend over the dinner table.
A central theme of his and also his patent recipe for many of our problems are conversations. He discusses our lack of them, how our environment whether in our jobs or family hinders them and thinks about alternative ways in which we could increase the quality of our social interactions. In my favorite chapter Nr. 24 "What else can one do in a Hotel" he relates the life of the Russian Author Fjodor Dostojewski and how his four years in Siberia changed the way the thought of the poor and criminals because he got to know them and changed his way of talking with them. Dostojewski felt initially isolated, surrounded by strangers but after talking to them noticed that he had much to learn. From there on Zeldin draws a parallel to the way modern hotels are also quite isolated island. They may offer accommodation but seldom do they offer connection. How else might we relate to the chambermaids instead of ignoring them on the way out ? Isn't there a more exciting way of getting to know a foreign country instead of only looking at monuments of old but never speaking to an inhabitant of now?
What I've really liked is the way in which Zeldin uses history. He doesn't just see history as a collection of events in succession, or a series of stages but rather as a toolbox. He poses a question and then goes on to look at how people from other periods and lands have dealt with this problem. But this isn't to say that he draws on positive examples on how you should live, much rather he intends to show what the possibilites are.
Although Zeldin has said in interviews that he doesn't want to be called philosopher or historian, in my eyes he outshines many members of both professions. This book brings to light the good aspect of philosophy that I so like to read. Not at all theoretical, splitting hairs about the use of this or that technical term but focused on the practical aspects. Not on how you shouldthink differently, but on how you could.
What I wouldn't give to be even half as fluid in thought, open to new ways of thinking and humble with 81 years of age as Zeldin appears to be. He is what I would call in the discordian fashion a Catmatist, the opposite of a dogmatist. Instead of holding to a certain belief, no matter what evidence presents itself, he stresses the importance of the ambiguity of facts, how belief and religion changed. On p. 378 he describes his way of thinking as:
"Every time i encounter an object, a person or an experience, I do not see only it, but also how else it could be. I am always asking Myself: How could it be otherwise? This is the question that has made humans what they are today, for without it we would still be living in the tree-tops."
My biggest issue with this book is that although I really liked reading it, I found it quite challenging to think his questions through for myself and putting my thoughts and his suggestions into practice. Maybe it is because his discussion of the question that he puts forth is filled with a lifetime of learning, thinking and wisdom, making any answer that I come up with seem mostly inadequate in my mind. Maybe this will change with time as my thoughts mature. Maybe the nature of these sorts of questions is that your response will always fall short. (less)
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Jul 12, 2017Venky rated it liked it · review of another edition
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The 81 year old historian and philosopher Theodore Zeldin in a series of conversational essays, tackles head on the vicissitudes and woes faced by mankind during the course of living. This he does in an unconventional manner. Every Chapter in his book "The Hidden Pleasures of Life" begins with a probing and provocative question. Oscillating between the arcane and the obvious, it is as though Zeldin conceives each question after being racked by a bout of epiphany. One may also forgive the reader for harbouring a perception that Zeldin throughout the course of the book is zealously embarking on a quest to discover eternal serendipity and egging the reader on for company.
Some of the questions for which Zeldin tries to wean out introspective answers are:
What is a wasted life?
What can the poor tell the rich?
Is another kind of sexual revolution achievable? What is worth knowing?
What does it mean to be alive?
What can the rich teach the poor?
What is the point of working as hard as one is currently working?
What else can one do in a hotel?
In answering each of the questions, Zeldin takes inspiration from an eclectic mix of personalities, past, present and future. For example in a Chapter where Zeldin attempts to understand the intricacies surrounding stereotypical prejudices, he resorts to the life and works of the Nobel Laureate Rabindranath Tagore who aimed to destroy class conventions and caste hierarchies by establishing a non-conventional educational institution and naming it “Shantiniketan” or “The Abode of Peace”. The philosopher poet also spawned a cultural and social revolution through his works which had at its core bridging the schism of perception that separated the ways of the East from the Western style of living.
Similarly in a Chapter concentrating on the perils of ignorance, Zeldin quotes the example of the great and inveterate Iranian traveler of the 19th Century Hajj Sayyah who with a view to escaping a forced marriage, left home and explored myriad realms, kingdoms, Caliphates and countries, both accumulating and imparting wisdom during the course of his extraordinary circumlocution of the world. “The Hidden Pleasures of Life” spans cultures, seeks inspiration from sources both renowned and remote, and seeks to engage the reader in a honest quest for truth. A truth that would facilitate an escape from the mundane and the monotony that has almost come to represent the modern way of life. Zeldin’s “Hidden Pleasures” is more a plea to introspect than a run-of-the mill self-help manual that promises access to the Holy Grail in 21 easy to follow, practical to implement steps. More than proving solutions, Zeldin teaches exhorts us to pose the right questions. Questions which shape the very manner in which should live as opposed to how we desire and continue to live at present.
Zeldin has been termed the modern day Balzac. It is not surprising to understand why especially after grasping the unique mix of curiosity, concern, and clairvoyance permeating the pages in “The Hidden Pleasures of Life”
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May 29, 2017Asma rated it really liked it · review of another edition
Zeldin's tone in The Hidden Pleasures is very soothing. There is a certain meticulousness in the questions he asks and explores. He weaves in stories and statistics that are both relevant and enjoyable. It is deeply philosophical that I agreed with what he said, and disagreed with others. The one thing I found lacking while reading the book though, is a definitive stance from Zeldin on these questions. He kind of left it for the readers to decide, and while that's not bad, I was curious to know how he, the writer, would answer these very questions that he posed to us.
This is only a minor frustration though. I enjoyed reading the book, and dwelling on what he put forth.
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Jan 09, 2018LWoods rated it really liked it · review of another edition
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Truly a profound book. Found myself noting whole sentences and paragraphs.
It introduced me to fascinating characters in history who I'd never heard which resulted in me sourcing more information on them.
I loved this book! Granted I sort of idolise Theodore Zeldin, as his books always make me think differently, he certainly won't be to everyone's taste.
I'd liken the book to a 'chef's dining experience'; you don't know what you're being served up at each chapter....that you'd never thought of a topic that way...that you're not sure you're going to like it...but when you think on it, it's actually quite interesting. The ideas are just tasters that leave you wanting to discuss more!
Ultimately this book left me wanting to engage with other people differently.(less)
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May 15, 2017Suzanne rated it really liked it · review of another edition
Reading this book is an enriching experience. Zeldin draws on his exploration of cultures and texts, many from the Orient and ancient, to distill knowledge and wisdom, frequently providing new perspectives on items as diverse as IKEA and American hotels. Particularly interesting to me were his reflections on knowledge, rendered vivid by his analogy with food:"knowledge, like food, tastes and looks different depending on who cooks it and how it is served and what meals the diner has eaten before." This is a book to be indulged in in small sips, leaving time for reflection on the points raised in order to discover and fully appreciate those hidden pleasures. (less)
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Dec 29, 2018Laura Schlosberg rated it really liked it · review of another edition
This is a provocative book to read in spurts. In invites reflection and challenges you to think and live differently, and engage with strangers and those you know with more integrity, courage, and curiosity. “Being alive is not simply a matter of having a heart that beats, it is also being aware of how other hearts beat and other minds think in response to one another.” My only wish for this book was a bibliography listing all the sources fir the quotes.
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An Intimate History of Humanity
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A provocative work that explores the evolution of emotions and personal relationships through diverse cultures and time. "An intellectually dazzling view of our past and future."--Timemagazine
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1. How humans have repeatedly lost hope, and how new encounters, and a new pair of spectacles, revive them
2. How men and women have slowly learned to have interesting conversations
3. How people searching for their roots are only beginning to look far and deep enough
4. How some people have acquired an immunity to loneliness
5. How new forms of love have been invented
6. Why there has been more progress in cooking than in sex
7. How the desire that men feel for women, and for other men, has altered through the centuries
8. How respect has become more desirable than power
9. How those who want neither to give orders nor to receive them can become intermediaries
10. How people have freed themselves from fear by finding new fears
11. How curiosity has become the key to freedom
12. Why it has become increasingly difficult to destroy one’s enemies
13. How the art of escaping from one’s troubles has developed, but not the art of knowing where to escape to
14. Why compassion has flowered even in stony ground
15. Why toleration has never been enough
16. Why even the privileged are often somewhat gloomy about life, even when they can have anything the consumer society offers, and even after sexual liberation
17. How travellers are becoming the largest nation in the world, and how they have learned not to see only what they are looking for
18. Why friendship between men and women has been so fragile
19. How even astrologers resist their destiny
20. Why people have not been able to find the time to lead several lives
21. Why fathers and their children are changing their minds about what they want from each other
22. Why the crisis in the family is only one stage in the evolution of generosity
23. How people choose a way of life, and how it does not wholly satisfy them
24. How humans become hospitable to each other
25. What becomes possible when soul-mates meet (less)
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Feb 27, 2009Wayne rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
Recommends it for: all human beings
Recommended to Wayne by: the titles of the chapters!!!
Shelves: buddhism-self-help, conversations, history, philosophy, anthropology
14 YEARS LATER:ie December 14th 2015
I AM SHOCKED...AMAZED !!!
I thought I may have read this book about 6 or 7 years ago...that is how much THIS BOOK is STILL with me.
..and it is August 2001 that I finished reading it..can't believe it is that long ago!!!
This is a book of which I so often think:"I MUST read that book again."
I am still searching out copies to give to friends.
I often glance in its direction where it sits with many other books in my bedroom.
MUST be time to read it AGAIN!!
REVIEW BEGINS:
This was a rich and astonishing read.
AFTERMATH:
For years after I read it I could not put it back on a bookshelf.
To do so was like admitting that the reading was OVER, whereas I just wanted to keep exploring everything this book offered and opened up.
PURCHASING:
The title was enough to excite.
Then with chapter headings such as these...
*How new forms of love have been invented.
*Why there has been more progress in cooking than in sex.
*How men and women have slowly learned to have interesting conversations.
*How respect has become more desirable than power.
*Why toleration has never been enough.
*How even astrologers resist their destiny.
*How the art of escaping from one's troubles has developed, but not the art of knowing where to escape to.
...the book was soon travelling home with ME!!
READING:
Obsessive and provocative, stimulating and thought-provoking.
STRUCTURE:
Each chapter begins with a look at the life of a real person who somehow typifies the chapter's heading. Then there is a general look at the issue,its history, opinions, problems and solutions etc.
CONCLUSION:
There are probably 1,000 books to read before you die.
I think this might be Number ONE!!!
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Oct 24, 2012Lisa rated it it was ok
I could not figure out why reading this book made me feel enraged. I wondered if it had something to do with the way it says everything about nothing and nothing about Everything. Zeldin shares 1st person narratives from people who were weirdly philosophical about themselves and their lives. Is it because many of them are French. C'est l 'absurd. This book got rave reviews and the truth is that I was too annoyed to finish it. It was like eating food made of air.
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Nov 07, 2008Catherine rated it really liked it
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Zeldin's work, despite the name, isn't really historical scholarship. Instead it's far closer to philosophy, and his use of history is kin to Foucault's - by picking and choosing key moments in the global past, what do we learn that might help us navigate our present?
It's a fascinating text, if so broad and expansive that sometimes it feels too much to take in. Zeldin tries to pinpoint the things that make us human, tries to find our commonalities instead of focusing on differences, and asks what we might learn from each other to better fulfill our purpose while we live. He touches on war, enmity, friendship, love, commerce, religion, political movements, and psychology, and every page asks the reader to talk back to the text, to agree, disagree, or simply clarify each idea for themself.
It would be a great text for teaching - there are no end of points of departure for discussion, and the tone of the piece is so gentle and conversational that I can't help but think students would find it hard to be defensive in reaction to his points in a way that they can't *help* but be defensive in response to Appiah's Cosmopolitanism.
There are places where Zeldin gets things wrong - one section on American Indian people stereotyped all cultures based on Plains ideas, for example, and his conclusions therefore plain don't hold for masses of indigenous people in the Americas - but it struck me that this too is a teachable moment. Zeldin, no less than the rest of us, is a product of his time, place, and culture - if he can get something so wrong, what does that say about the rest of us? What should be wary of, alert to, conscious of as we work and think? (less)
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Mar 07, 2013Nick Davies rated it really liked it · review of another edition
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Bought cheaply from a clearance table in an Oxfam bookshop three or so years ago, on the strength of an unusual cover and a title which piqued my interest, this turned out to be very interesting indeed.
Zeldin writes of human nature - the book is part sociology, part philosophy, part cultural history in discussing a number of statements which are explored in the context of interviews with French women, and are then challenged with reference to cultural norms throughout the ancient and modern world. It's an educating journey.. taking in subjects as diverse as sexual equality, Gandhi, art and architecture, sleeping arrangements, romance, friendship, sex and consumerism. My only criticism, made with the acknowledgement that I read this on my commute and hence not 'at my most concentrating', was that I didn't feel the author completely managed to tie the whole book together into a complete 'message' - to me it was full of interesting and enlightening information, much of which I know I will soon forget. Consequently I am keen to re-read this more studiously in a year or two.
I would, however, not hesitate to recommend this to readers interested in sociology and human history - it's a very well-written and fulfilling book which I am sure most people will find plenty of interest within. (less)
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May 03, 2012Lachlan rated it really liked it
It's taken me some time (Goodreads informs me 3 months), but I have finally finished reading Theodore Zeldin's ambitious book, 'An Intimate History of Humanity.'
Zeldin's stated objective is to provide us with a history of humanity that surpasses stale cataloging of kingdoms epochs, and ages. Instead, he turns his attention to some of the most important and defining dynamics of human society. He takes our fixed assumptions about the nature of humanity, and, through an exposition of engaging historical examples, reveals them to be far less fixed than we have previously assumed.
This quote perhaps sums it up best:
"Nothing influences our ability to cope with the difficulties of our existence so much as the context in which we view them; the more contexts we can choose between, the less do the difficulties appear to be inevitable and insurmountable."
That is the crux of Zeldin's mission; he wants to provide readers with the tools and inspiration to look beyond narrow cultural and social assumptions, and imagine new ways of being; new forms of politics, ethics and morality. His is essentially an optimistic, humanitarian vision. Once more I quote:
"It is not enough to focus only on the minute synapses of personal encounters. It has become possible, as never before, to pay attentinon to what is happening in every corner of the globe. Humans each have a personal horizon, beyond which they normally dare not look. But occasionally they do venture further, and then their habitual way of thinking becomes inaequate. Today they are becoming increasingly aware of of the existence of other civilisations. In such circimstances, old problems take on a new appearance, because they are revealed as being parts of larger problems. The shift in interest away from national squabbles to broad humanitarian and environmental concerns is a sign of the urge to escape from ancient obsessions, to keep in view all the different dimensions of reality, and to focus simultaneously on the personal, the local and the univeral."
But how well does he succeed? The book begins with a brief introduction that outlines his intent. From there, we are presented with an almost relentless anthology of chapters that follow the same structure - pick a theme, provide an initial modern case study to open up the discussion of that theme, then delve into the other possibilities of being that are supported by examples cherrypicked from throughout human history.
Here is a sample of some of those chapter headings:
- How men and women have slowing learned to have interesting conversations
- How some people have acquired an immunity of loneliness
- How new forms of love have been invented
- Why there has been more progress in cooking than in sex
- How respect has become more desirable than power
- Why the crisis of the family is only one stage in the evolution of generosity
Clearly Zeldin has not set his sights on low hanging fruit. Each chapter focuses on a particular thought or feeling, like toil, the art of conversation, voluntarism, compassion, attitudes on class and social status, and authority.
Throughout this book, there are signs that Zeldin would wrap up with an impressive, overarching concept - and indeed he does, but after finishing 'An Intimate History of Humanity' I cannot help but think that a re-reading would be immensely beneficial. The concluding chapters provide essential context that I feel was missing from the introduction, and they really help illuminate the value in Zeldin's approach and his objectives.
Perhaps his introduction is too brief. Perhaps it would have paid Zeldin to revisit his objective in detail before the final concluding chapters. I feel as though his concept was not explained as well as it could have been from the outset; and that this would have made for a more engaging book if he had taken more time to do so.
Undeniably, many of the ideas in this book were intoxicating. Zeldin has immense scope of vision. His concept strongly appeals to my desire for a universal view of human nature and history - to cut through mere cataloging and classifying, and to draw out a better understanding of human nature drawn from across millenia.
While certainly not flawless in its execution, this book is groundbreaking in it's approach, and will prove a worthy inspiration for anyone seeking a deeper level of understanding of human nature and the human condition. I finish this book very curious to where Zeldin's thoughts and understanding are at today (the book was published in 1997), and hope that future writers can build off his concept. It might prove to be a exceedingly fruitful method of philosophical inquiry.
Addendum: another beautiful encapsulation of Zeldin's concept:
"The sea is eternal: when it heaves
One speaks of waves but in reality they are the sea."
- Hamzah Fansuri
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Jul 19, 2012M.D. Lachlan rated it it was amazing
One of my favourite books and a real eye opener. One of the few books I read again periodically. It's the history of love but touches on many other aspects of philosophy. A page turner, which isn't something you often say about a philosophical novel. Like Alain De Botton but without the descents into banality.
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Mar 24, 2009Dan rated it liked it
If you've ever wanted to read the history of some of our most common dreams, desires, and fears this is a good place to start. Well-written, and occasionally poetic.
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Dec 25, 2007Kevin rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
Recommends it for: lost hungry souls (everyone!)
Shelves: favourites, non-fiction, history, gender
This is not a typical history book. It's perfect for someone hungry for knowledge but put off by history written as a succession of dates and wars by a detached, passionless author. Sometimes it almost reads like a self-help book-- but don't worry, cynics! It offers no quick solutions, only useful questions. Fluffy and condescending? Nay! Encouraging and inspiring? Yay!
Divided into chapters like "How humans have repeatedly lost hope, and how new encounters, and a new pair of spectacles, revive them" or "Why there has been more progress in cooking than in sex", it attempts to understand what humanity means by telling the stories of both anonymous people alive today (mostly French women the author interviewed) and historical figures (often those forgotten or undervalued). It's very ambitious.
There was a point about two-thirds of the way through when I felt almost overwhelmed by the scope of the book, particularly in the way it lays out so many contradictory opinions on how one should live one's life. But this is the nature of humanity, isn't it? Some of his interview subjects seem to contradict themselves within the same breath but they probably don't realize it. I think the book demands to be read slowly, maybe even dipped into again over the years.
Another great thing about it is that each chapter ends with a sample of Zeldin's sources, a suggested reading list, so you can further explore a theme, period or person of interest. (less)
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May 25, 2015Nevzat rated it liked it · review of another edition
Shelves: history, society, non-fiction
i had really high expectations of this book and didn't like it as much as i expected in the end. the problem for me was that the personal stories of french women at the beginning of each section was really nice and enjoyable but in most chapters i found it hard to relate their stories to the historical events and customs author picked. and the lack of connection between them made most of the book seem like a common "fun historical facts" blog. the other problem is that i find history or traditions told as anectodes meaningless in most cases for what makes an event or a custom meaningful is it's place in the whole context of that society and it seems like you can find anything in history to prove any point, without caring much about its relations with other traditions or events. (less)
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Oct 10, 2012Ci rated it liked it
I was impressed by the first 40 pages, with the author's promise of delving into the psyche and emotional history of humanity. Evidently erudite, this author alluded to references to historic events but promised to interpret them "intimately" and classic theoretic ideas but would use them "relevantly" so we don't get drowned in the details. The idea of starting with a particular person's life story held attraction as well -- till a point (page 40 onward) which becomes a mediocre collection of sn ...more
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Oct 10, 2009Ed rated it it was amazing
An amazing book that I just came across on my shelves having read it in 1994ish. Each chapter takes a contemporary French woman from many layers of society and uses it to weave the history of humanity. Really interesting different take on history. Intriguing.
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Oct 05, 2013Al Bità rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
This book was first published in 1994, and I must admit I had never heard of it until alerted to it by my good friend Wayne, who gave me a copy, and for which I am extremely grateful. This is a truly wonderful work, and one which should grace the personal library of anyone interested in a history which differs from the usual run of history books. It uses a very readable technique which is immediately charming (the list of chapter titles in the Table of Contents will be enough to intrigue even the most cursory of glances! — the first, for example, reads: How humans have repeatedly lost hope, and how new encounters, and a new pair of spectacles, revive them.) and one’s interest is grabbed instantly, and maintained throughout.
Zeldin achieves this in a way I believe is rather unique. The work consists of 25 chapters. Apart from the last, each of the chapters begins with carefully selected and edited stories (at least one, but often enough more than one) of women he interviewed who lived in France during the period of the mid 1990s. Most, but not all, are French, and not necessarily of French cultural backgrounds. These stories are intensely personal. The cleverness of using women for his starting points may indicate an appreciation that they, especially in the ’90s, were more forthcoming about their personal and private lives than men would have been. Even so, the stories do not eschew men’s positions within these stories; they are often part and parcel of the implications and consequences for the women involved, and thus are equally central to the main issues. Consequently, this initial foray in each chapter raises certain issues and these are summarised by the individualistic and quirky chapter heading.
Zeldin then proceeds through the second part of the chapter to look at the various ways and means people have in the past dealt with these same issues. This is the main substance and essence of the work, and the range of reactions explored most definitely does not remain in France, nor even just in Europe, nor limited to gender limitations, but embraces all cultures and all regions of the world in various degrees. It also allows Zeldin to inert his own comments and considerations as he sees fit. This part of the chapter, then, can be quite dense with mind-expanding world-wide personal responses, successful or otherwise, which give the reader many concepts and ideas to deal with. One can understand how some people would find that these responses, albeit in general briefly summarised, create a kind of surfeit of information which tends to make one stop and meditate on them (in the sense of ‘think about’). For me, this response made me want to stop reading; made me want to relish the ideas and thoughts expressed; made me want to savour the different flavours of varying responses… I did not want to read on regardless — and this feeling applied to each and every one of the chapters. Delicious!
The third part of each chapter (not including the last chapter) consists of rather extensive bibliographies of the issues raised in the chapter. So, if one were particularly impressed by one or more suggested responses, there are many references one can turn to for further exploration.
What all this teaches us is that there are many other ways that ‘history’ can be written. Too often, history books deal mostly with what we call the ‘major issues’ — wars, revolutions, politics, etc. — often with a grand overarching theme associated with them. What they tend to leave out is the individual person and their needs and aspirations, particularly if they are not specifically linked to any major trend. Even then, the tendency is to leave such matters to novelists and poets, almost as if these are really only of secondary interest to the ‘true’ historian. Zeldin’s work makes one much more aware that, in the personal lives of people everywhere, there are equally fascinating histories not normally dealt with, and which perhaps are more centrally related to core historical values than one might think. It is, in a sense, surprising how immediate one’s own personal response is to the attempts of people from all countries and cultures in dealing with issues which obviously concern all of them. We understand them!
If there is one small niggling aspect which might cause some to be cynical: the fact that the book was written in the mid ’90s, and that Zeldin’s opinions and comments are therefore limited to the ideals and aspirations of the Western world during those comparatively innocent and perhaps hopeful times. To do so, however, would do a disservice to the main thrust of the work. Zeldin is adamant that, regardless of what the ‘big-picture’ history throws up, people and their dreams and aspirations and needs remain steadfast throughout the centuries. He calls for Compassion, Understanding, and Acceptance as being both the ancient, recent and future hope of humanity, and which underlies everything else, no matter how wonderful or how brutal we have behaved to ourselves and to others. There is no sense of sentimentality or softness about this approach in Zeldin’s work. He simply presents his facts, and suggests that those facts, bittersweet as they might be, are universal.
For me, this Humanistic understanding makes Zeldin’s work a masterpiece of writing. It slowly and thoroughly weaves its spell on the reader — and we instinctively know that this is a true and honest appraisal of humans everywhere. By opening our minds and our hearts to this message, one cannot help but fall in love with this book. It is very, very beautiful.
And if that is not enough for the more cynical among you, consider this: it is the adoption of this humanistic understanding of the world that allows us to read, relish, appreciate, understand and be moved by any literature from anywhere in the world, regardless of the language, culture, religion, politics, or social conditions which generated it. It touches all of us, because it represents the true history of ourselves to ourselves.
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Oct 18, 2017Tom Baxter rated it it was amazing
A book that stays with you through the years - extraordinary.
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Jun 08, 2019John Cross rated it liked it
Interesting perspective on people as the true component of history. People, not nations and institutions. But it jumps around quite a bit and needed clearer and more unifying themes.
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Nov 12, 2017Sertac rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
What an incredible book! There have been similar books (e.g. popularSapiens: A Brief History of Humankind) written before / after this, however when you see the amount of footnotes, references and connected-dots you understand how Theodore Zeldin thinks, researches and elaborates the concepts which directly mean a lot for social, daily and business life today. Anyone who wants to find answers to 'why's and 'how's about human behaviour should read this masterpiece periodically.
Right before finishing this book, I purchased his other provocative book The Hidden Pleasures of Life: A New Way of Remembering the Past and Imagining the Future by Zeldin who has a very unique way of interpreting events, phenomenas and characters. Definitely the best book I've read this year and I've read more than 50 books this year. (less)
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Jan 29, 2013Angela rated it it was amazing
An interesting and intellectually challenging read. Arranged in short chapters making it convenient to read randomly from anywhere in the book. Great for busy times or when on the move. Catchy and memorable chapter titles such as " Why compassion has flowered even in stony ground", " Why even the rich and successful are somewhat gloomy about life" " How men and women have learnt to have interesting conversations". However, not always entirely convinced by the prescriptions given (which are proba...more
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Oct 09, 2011Lexie rated it it was amazing
Shelves: humanity-culture, my-perennials, mind, relations, standouts, history
I've had this book for over a decade now; it's one of my perennials. It's the first book of history that I fell in love with. Still in love!
Theodore Zeldin does something so original here that the book is fresh every time I open it. He begins each chapter with a person's story -- often related as though a conversation is in process. The individual story is expanded to encompass all of humanity, across all (recorded) history, and across all cultures. History is all of us; we all impact the larger world:
"No history of the world can be complete which does not mention Mary Helen Keller (1880-1968), whose overcoming of her blindness and deafness were arguably victories more important than those of Alexander the Great, because they have implications still for every living person."
A few more quotes:
~ You belong with those people with whom you can sympathize, in whatever century they lived, in no matter what civilization.
~ Marco Polo has such curiosity that he forgets fear.
~ Again and again, apparently intelligent people ooze contempt to protect themselves from what they cannot understand, as animals defend their territory with foul smells.
(The above three quotes are all lifted from the same page! This book is dense with beautiful ideas...)
~ The most elaborate remedy for gloom so far devised is the consumer society, but it has not succeeded in eliminating it...
~ ...for the last 5,000 years, the vast majority of humans have been submissive, cringing before authority and, apart from short-lived outbursts of protest, sacrificing themselves so that a small minority could live in luxury.
~ The major changes in history have resulted less from revolutions displacing kings, than from individuals ignoring kings and giving their allegiance to spiritual values instead.
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Jan 18, 2018Māra rated it it was amazing
A great book for those skeptically hopeful ones, who get joy out of life by trying to change something while understanding the smallness of it...
The book provides you with many, many different examples from different times in human history of how they have tried to organise themselves better, to love in so many different forms and shapes, to learn to talk to each other, to be better, more alive, more something. The constant urge for change and the many forms that different civilisations have tried. It can sound depressing as in - ok, it looks like they've tried it all, and nothing works. But it's quite the contrary - the never ending willingness to try is inspiring. Or, as the author puts it at the very end of the book:
" It is in the power of everybody, with a little courage, to hold out a hand to someone different, to listen, and to attempt to increase, even by a tiny amount, the quantity of kindness and humanity in the world. But it is careless to do so without remembering how previous efforts have failed, and how it has never been possible to predict for certain how a human being will behave. History, with its endless procession of passers-by, most of whose encounters have been missed opportunities, has so far been largely a chronicle of ability gone to waste. But next time two people meet, the result might be different. That is the origin of anxiety, but also of hope, and hope is the origin of humanity." (less)
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Oct 21, 2007Nicholas Whyte added it · review of another edition
http://nhw.livejournal.com/786755.html[return][return]I got this ages ago, as it promised to be an interesting investigation of the history of how humans relate to each other. Unfortunately it isn't; it is a series of conversations with French women, one by one, with an attempt by the author to draw universal conclusions from each one individually. I got through less than a tenth of it before I reached my "Tonstant Weader fwowed up" moment, when one of the interviewees confided that[return][return]"When someone broke her favourite teapot, she did feel anger for two minutes, but then she said to herself, 'Everything has a life, everything has an end.'"[return][return]Well, that was certainly the end for me. (less)
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