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Healing Resistance: A Radically Different Response to Harm

by
Kazu Haga (Goodreads Author),
Bernard LaFayette Jr. (Foreword),
David C. Jehnsen (Foreword)

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Activists and social change agents, restorative justice practitioners, faith leaders, and anybody engaged in social progress and shifting society will find this mindful approach to nonviolent action indispensable.

Nonviolence was once considered the highest form of activism and radical change. And yet its basic truth, its restorative power, has been forgotten. In Healing Resistance, leading Kingian Nonviolence trainer Kazu Haga blazingly reclaims the energy and assertiveness of nonviolent practice (utilized by the Women's March and Black Lives Matter), and proves that nonviolent civil resistance remains the most effective strategy for social change in hostile times. 

With over 20 years of experience practicing and teaching Kingian Nonviolence, Haga offers us the practical approach to societal conflict first begun by Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. during the Civil Rights Movement, which has been developed into a fully workable, step-by-step training and deeply transformative philosophy. Kingian Nonviolence takes on the timely issues of endless protest and activist burnout, and presents tried-and-tested strategies for staying resilient, creating equity, and restoring peace. (less)





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"Kazu Haga's deep, nuanced, and principled commitment to nonviolence has challenged and inspired me and many others who've had the privilege of encountering his work."
--Michelle Alexander, author of The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness

To resist today's violence exploding everywhere, in ways that can actually heal our world, seems a pipe dream--until Kazu Haga makes it real. In his wry, funny, and utterly grounded fashion, he helps me believe we can do it, and begin to become the Beloved Community. We need this book like oxygen. Kazu is my teacher.
-- Joanna Macy, author of World as Lover, World as Self

Kazu Haga reminds us of the power of nonviolence, building on the work of Gandhi and King and informed by his own life and insight in a way that touches us all today. Haga teaches us that true belonging ... is a challenging process that takes constant work and training from the internal to the interpersonal to the institutional. But that the work is worth the reward of building Beloved Community. We owe a debt of gratitude to Haga for his work and words and have in this book a manual for loving and for living nonviolence that will guide and inspire generations to come.
--john a. powell, director of the Othering and Belonging Institute at UC Berkeley and author of Racing to Justice: Transforming Our Concept of Self and Other to Build an Inclusive Society

"Kazu Haga has written an accessible, thorough, and deeply personal introduction to nonviolence as a power for personal and social transformation. He reflects upon common myths about nonviolent resistance, offers practical insight from his own experiences, and challenges readers to consider a radical, healing approach to confronting injustice. An inspiring read."
--Erica Chenoweth, Berthold Beitz Professor in Human Rights and International Affairs at Harvard Kennedy School and author of Civil Resistance: What Everyone Needs to Know

Kazu Haga is a masterful teacher connecting our internal and external experiences: of intending, of doing, and of being--living together with care and justice.
-- Larry Yang, core teacher at the East Bay Meditation Center, member of the Spirit Rock Teachers Council, and author of Awakening Together: The Spiritual Practice of Inclusivity and Community

In Healing Resistance, Kazu Haga takes on the why of violence, breaks it down, and then builds us up for the work we need to do now."
--Mushim Patricia Ikeda, Buddhist teacher, racial justice community activist, and author of viral article "I Vow Not to Burn Out

"At a time when the literature is often divided between advocates of nonviolence out of principle and advocates of nonviolent action for strategic and utilitarian reasons, Kazu Haga puts forth a compelling argument as to why both are important to challenge the forces of oppression and build a better world."
--Stephen Zunes, professor of politics and international studies at the University of San Francisco and author of Nonviolent Social Movements
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Activists and social change agents, restorative justice practitioners, faith leaders, and anybody engaged in social progress and shifting society will find this mindful approach to nonviolent action indispensable.
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Publisher ‏ : ‎ PARALLAX (14 January 2020)
Language ‏ : ‎ English
Paperback ‏ : ‎ 296 pages

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Pam McDonald
5.0 out of 5 stars This is the oneReviewed in the United States on 15 February 2020
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If you read one book this year about how to deal with conflict, this is the one. His language is crisp, his examples simple to understand, his reasoning is easy to follow. Best of all, he interprets Dr. King's Philosophy of Nonviolence through his own, hard-won experience with organizing in Oakland, CA, Occupy Wall Street and myriad other struggles. All that experience has taught him that Dr. King was right to focus on relationship building. Kazu asks the hard questions, toughs out the answers, learns from myriad mistakes and shares his hard-won lessons with us. He also references some great resources.

I gave this book 5 stars. Normally I would have awarded 4 stars, because there are some typos sprinkled throughout the book. However, I added back that star because the book is so very well-written, absolutely authentic to the Kingian Nonviolence curriculum, and urgently useful NOW. Kingian Nonviolence (not non-violence) is more useful and effective than any other strategy, for the long-term, and often for the short term as well. Let's build this world of Beloved Community. Thank you Kazu, Dr. Lafayette, and Dr. King, for giving us a head start.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Handbook!Reviewed in the United States on 27 April 2020
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This is a great book for anyone from beginner to seasoned activist. Kazu Haga breaks down Kingian Nonviolence and other justice and healing modalities in a way that makes them very accessible to a wide array of readers. I plan to give this to several elder activists - and my 14 year old niece.

Haga breaks down the Six Principles of Kingian Nonviolence, Restorative Justice/Practices (RP), separates & defines four types of conflict as well as other clarifying enumerations of large concepts. As an RP practitioner, I found his handling of restorative work to be excellent, and I found the Kingian principles revelatory and beautiful.

Kingian Nonviolence dispels the myth that nonviolence is passivity "Nonviolence is not about what not to do. It is about what you are going to do", and has clear steps toward justice and conflict work that have proven efficacy. Haga's handling of nuance and contradiction is unique and powerful, as well as his personal approach to understanding alternate perspectives (listening to right wing radio on regular basis - with an open mind -for instance). More than one thing can be true at the same time, we can expand to hold contradiction, and still seek accountability and healing.

The clarity of why shaming and punishment doesn't work for preventing future harm, or healing harm that has occurred is present not only in the concepts in the book, but his personal experience via years of offering trainings in prisons. There is still a lot of resistance to RP and nonviolent approaches to harm - especially in Law Enforcement and Corrections, and I think the accessibility and clarity in this book are useful to help naysayers possibly see the light of why these healing and justice practices ultimately protect us all.
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Bel
5.0 out of 5 stars The Inner Game of World ChangingReviewed in the United States on 7 April 2020
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This book bridges the gap between activism and spirituality, making the argument that the world will never change for the better in a lasting way without both working together. Yes, the systems of injustice must be dismantled, but it will be impossible to build new systems that work for all without the inner foundations spelled out in this book. Yes, we need to love one another, but we also need to deal with the material realities of injustice and oppression. Without the principles laid out in this book, we are left with a toxic culture of shaming and ineffectual anger on the side of the activists and a loving but disconnected-from-reality culture on the side of the spiritual while the violence-fueled industrial-growth complex goes on wreaking its destruction. If you despair of things ever changing for the better, read this book. It's THE way forward.

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5.0 out of 5 stars AMAZING BOOK for Activists!Reviewed in the United States on 7 April 2020
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The order came fast, the book was brand NEW and only $11 bucks! I have loved reading this book and enriching my knowledge with more information. This is definitely a NEED READ for all future and current activists!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Must readReviewed in the United States on 10 August 2020
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Excellent book. Kazu Haga is accessible, realistic, and profound. This is a mandatory reading for all of us looking for accountability and hope in our polarized times.

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Jul 07, 2020SaraCat rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
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When a person recommended this book to me, I was unsure about reading it, not because of the content the title indicated it would have but because I worried it would be a dense and boring book. However, I was happily surprised that it was written in an accessible manner to those who may be new(er) to the concepts laid out in this book about nonviolence. The format of 3 larger sections broken into chapters and subsections within each made it easy to follow along and I think will be helpful for referencing in the future should I want to reread about specific things.

In addition, Haga includes small snippets of humor throughout the book - mostly in footnotes - which added to making the book feel more approachable for non-specialists.

While I think this book is especially an important read for those wanting to be active in larger social change, I think there is also a lot for those looking for more local/personal social change as well. Even if you don't think you'd agree with the nonviolence approach, I think there is a lot to think and contemplate about in many of the points he presents and talks about. I also greatly appreciated the fact that he pointed tells readers to not judge those who make use of violence to try and bring about change. (less)
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Jan 14, 2021alaya rated it really liked it
this book felt repetitive at some points, but it made up for it in the notes/suggestions and the variety of ways to apply the skills in action. really appreciated this work, especially the author’s vulnerability and humor!


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Jun 09, 2021Bre rated it it was amazing
Absolutely one of the most useful books I have come across in my work in social movements.
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Apr 23, 2020T.R. rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
Loved this book. Haga has a courageous and unique analysis of resistance work. I read this book a few months ago, but it was one of those books that pushed me to get back onto Goodreads. I want to spread the good news! If you're doing education, activism, meditation, student of the civil rights movement, this is an important book to deepen your analysis, strengthen your heart, and help us build our beloved community. Thanks Kazu! (less)
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Apr 03, 2021Nate Atkinson rated it it was amazing
This book was a joy to read, it brought peace and love to my heart. It made me realize all the ways I can bring peace into my daily life and bring peace to those around me.
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Oct 05, 2020Steve rated it really liked it
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Healing Resistance came to my attention through book discussion group led by a activist in our community that is working to bring healing to families that have been disrupted through violence.

The weekly discussion centered on the last two sections of the book:
-Part 2: The Six Principles of Nonviolence
-Part 3: The Six Steps of Nonviolence.

I had not been exposed to Martin Luther King Jr.'s principles of nonviolence before and found the principles to be extremely useful in solidifying my thoughts in how to have an impact on the effects of violence.

King's concept of 'The Beloved Community' and what means to seek bringing even those we may perceive as 'enemies' into the community because of their value in God's eyes gave me words to the perspective that I have been gaining.

The steps to nonviolence that culminate in reconciliation make complete the goal of establishing 'The Beloved Community' as a sought after reality.

A great privilege we had was having the author, Kazu Haga, actually join our discussion for our summary week. Thanks Mr. Haga for giving us that gift.

I'd like to give this book two ratings: I'd give a 4 for the last 2 parts. Kazu does a great job of defining and illustrating the Kingian principals and steps.

Because I read and discussed those first, then returned to read the start of the book, I found the first part that describes the authors journey to discover and adopt Kingian nonviolence to be anticlimactic.

My suggesting is to start with part 1, but if you find it too slow paced, jump to the last two parts and be inspired to become part of the Healing Resistance in your community. (less)
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Jan 21, 2020Caraline rated it it was amazing
An important and timely read on the power of principled nonviolence. Kazu Haga effortlessly demonstrates the importance of repairing both our structural harms and our interpersonal harms in the quest for Beloved Community. Healing Resistance acts as a great introduction to the study of nonviolence and offers counterpoints to common critiques for the use of nonviolence. I would highly recommend to anyone just starting off their study of nonviolence as well as an seasoned nonviolentist looking to deepen their dedication to its practice. (less)
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Feb 04, 2020Nicole rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
Strong work. Has depth and concepts to chew on after finishing- while also being a readable, accessible place to get a handle on Kingian Nonviolence and it’s connection to our inner lives and the collective healing ahead of humanity.
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Apr 22, 2020Alcina rated it it was amazing
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This is a great book for anyone from beginner to seasoned activist. Kazu Haga breaks down Kingian Nonviolence and other justice and healing modalities in a way that makes them very accessible to a wide array of readers. I plan to give this to several elder activists - and my 14 year old niece.

Haga breaks down the Six Principles of Kingian Nonviolence, Restorative Justice/Practices (RP), separates & defines four types of conflict as well as other clarifying enumerations of large concepts. As an RP practitioner, I found his handling of restorative work to be excellent, and I found the Kingian principles revelatory and beautiful.

Kingian Nonviolence dispels the myth that nonviolence is passivity "Nonviolence is not about what not to do. It is about what you are going to do", and has clear steps toward justice and conflict work that have proven efficacy. Haga's handling of nuance and contradiction is unique and powerful, as well as his personal approach to understanding alternate perspectives (listening to right wing radio on regular basis - with an open mind -for instance). More than one thing can be true at the same time, we can expand to hold contradiction, and still seek accountability and healing.

The clarity of why shaming and punishment doesn't work for preventing future harm, or healing harm that has occurred is present not only in the concepts in the book, but his personal experience via years of offering trainings in prisons. There is still a lot of resistance to RP and nonviolent approaches to harm - especially in Law Enforcement and Corrections, and I think the accessibility and clarity in this book are useful to help naysayers possibly see the light of why these healing and justice practices ultimately protect us all. (less)
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Jan 16, 2021Mallory Everhart rated it really liked it
A really fascinating and important look at Kingian Nonviolence and the ways it challenges and informs activist work. It centers the ideal of Beloved Community and continually points back to a fundamental belief in human capacity to heal without devolving into permissive liberalism, which I find I am hungry for in these days. Haga's prose is engaging and I found his footnote commentary charming and informative.

I am definitely on board with the philosophy as presented and took away an appreciation for the amount of training and practice it takes to walk in the world this way. My biggest critique is that I wanted more "how". The "weight-lifting" exercises at the end were tangible action steps but they focus more on the individual and less on the collective, which seems to undermine one of the major premises of the book, namely that none of this happens in isolation.

Overall, though, I'm very glad I read this and it's sparking my interest in further nonviolent organizing and my commitment to RJ work in my community. (less)
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Jan 24, 2021Lori R. rated it it was amazing
"In left-wing politics, there seems to be a prevailing worldview that people who don't agree with every social justice principle are racist, sexist, classist, and basically just the worst type of human being. You're either with us or you're a racist, and there's no in between. People on the right seem to think others who don't agree with their worldview are over-sensitive communists or anti-patriotic elitist morons who just want to sit on the moral high horse and complain about everything. You're either with us, or you're an SJW snowflake, and there's no in between. Part of the work of nonviolence is to expand the in-between space, sit in the nuance,and sit in the contradiction."
- Kazu Haga, Healing Resistance

"The person on the other side might be 99% wrong. But what's the 1% of what they're saying that you can understand and agree with? Understanding that 1% will strengthen you're own perspective."
- Troy Williams, Restorative Justice Leader
Healing Resistance (less)
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May 13, 2021Shana rated it really liked it · review of another edition
This book is a wonderful starting point for those new to the concepts and practices of Kingian Nonviolence. Kazu Haga breaks down the primary ideas in a non-intimidating and readable way. He does this in part by weaving in stories from his own journey into this practice and injects some humor into it as well. What could have been a very bland book comes across, instead, as the loving project of someone who is very dedicated to the study and practice of nonviolence. His passion for it is clear in the repetitive parts of the book, but I didn't experience it as annoying. He asks the reader to take what we want from the book, and I can see myself doing exactly that. There were some areas I wasn't fully convinced on or that I would need to look into further, but the majority of the book had me nodding along and feeling inspired. The actionable steps at the end of the book were particularly appreciated and I could see it becoming the basis of a beginner's nonviolence group study or accountability group. (less)
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Feb 17, 2021Katie rated it it was amazing
This was a really thoughtful, interesting book about the basics and reality of non-violence, told through the memoirs of one practitioner. It was really interesting to have the authors perspective, as he is someone who inhabits two cultures that are very different (Japanese and American) and thus he has a unique kind of perspective on this work. He may nonviolence feel like some thing that you can practice in your every day life right now, and also some thing that is worth it to pursue and years of study. I think I’ll be returning to this book in the future. (less)
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Apr 22, 2021Deb rated it it was amazing
There is a lot to like here but the best happens when Haga is discussing the irony in the fact that Martin Luther King Jr (a Nobel Peace Prize winner) was arrested time and time again for disturbing the peace.
"We cannot disturb something that doesn't exist. When we use nonviolence to confront violence and injustice, we are not disturbing the peace, we are disturbing complacency. When we engage in the hard work of nonviolence and social change, we are not disturbing the peace. We are fighting for it." (less)
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Dec 28, 2020Will Giff rated it it was amazing
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This book has profoundly effected me, and I suspect will change my life for years to come. For years, I've been involved in nonviolent social and environmental justice work — important. However, the vision of Beloved Community that Haga outlines, and Kingian Nonviolence as the road there, gave a relational-spiritual dimension to my vision and my work that I hadn't known I was dearly missing until I found it.

Definitely recommend it in a BIG way for anyone interested in social change. (less)
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Aug 28, 2021Emily rated it it was amazing
An incredible book. I gobbled it down. Kazu is a wonderful writer and someone you want to work with. I liked how we got to know him in the beginning of the book, then had the nonviolence training (which is a way of life, not just a movement strategy), then had the resources for increasing our capacity to do the work and rebuttals for people questioning nonviolence. The whole thing was super smart and I will return to it again and again. Thank you, Kazu.
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Sep 06, 2020Stacey Falls rated it it was amazing
I think anyone who thinks of themselves as an activist should read this. I think anyone who has sympathy for activists or hopes to raise active and aware children should read this. It is about activism, but also an ethic of social change. A lot of that change comes from within, and this book inspires me to be a better person so I can work to make a better world.
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Sep 22, 2020Jimmy McCarty rated it really liked it
An accessible introduction to nonviolent social change, especially the tradition of Kingian nonviolence which goes from Gandhi to Bayard Rustin to Jim Lawson to MLK to Bernard Lafayette to Haga himself. You can get all this in Kong’s writings, but the accessible framing and recent examples and case studies is a good place for folks to start.
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Nov 29, 2020nia rated it it was amazing
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this is hands down the best book i've read all year. it fundamentally changed the way i think about conflict, both on a personal and political level. i would say it's a must read for anyone interested in politics or social justice. it's just brilliant, and i'm probably going to buy a copy for literally everyone in my life. (less)
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Mar 14, 2021David Hutchens rated it it was amazing
I’m the right audience for this book. I have long wanted a better understanding of Martin Luther King’s philosophy of nonviolence, and Kazu Haga provides that with depth and clarity. He brings a lot more, including his own compelling stories as an activist and a great, humble, and wise authorial voice. Really great book. I enjoyed every page.
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Jul 06, 2021Vi rated it it was amazing
I don’t really have the words at the moment to describe how much this book is needed in the world right now. This book is filled with so much insight and wisdom and was rejuvenating to me in my own healing work. Highly recommend for anyone interested in transformative justice, abolition, generational trauma and conflict transformation.
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Jan 25, 2021Bryan rated it it was amazing
Well worth reading if you are interested in seeing a watertight argument for nonviolent resistance. Nonviolence is always better than violence, and this book also helps make abundantly clear what a lifestyle of nonviolence looks like.
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Jun 17, 2021Eleanor Kallo rated it it was amazing
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This and See No Stranger are the antidotes to today's call out culture/cancel culture/division/whatever you want to call it. They contain the answers of curiosity & empathy, and I hope to be able to embody them fully. (less)
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May 11, 2020Melissa Hoffman bodin rated it it was amazing
Life. Changing.
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Aug 08, 2020Austin rated it it was amazing
I feel like I'm going to be referencing this book for the rest of my life. ...more
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Feb 10, 2021Lynzo rated it it was amazing
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I am very much interested in learning more about nonviolence training.
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Jul 28, 2021Shayna Blackford rated it it was amazing
Breaks down the steps of Beloved Community, and empowers any reader to commit to a more equitable and compassion-forward way of life.
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"Evaluating Violence and (Non)violence: A Critical, Practical Theology " by Julie Marie Todd

"Evaluating Violence and (Non)violence: A Critical, Practical Theology " by Julie Marie Todd

Date of Award

1-1-2012

Document Type

Dissertation

Degree Name

Ph.D.

Department

Religious and Theological Studies

First Advisor

Katherine Turpin, Ph.D.

Second Advisor

Antony Alumkal

Third Advisor

Alan Gilbert

Keywords

Nonviolence, Oppression, Privilege, Social change, Solidarity, Violence

Abstract

This dissertation uses a practical theological approach to evaluate Christian (non)violence in light of interviews with twelve scholars and activists in the United States about the means of social change and the relationship of those means to social location. 

Social location conditions an understanding of what violence is and how different groups justify and respond to various uses of violence and (non)violence within society and for social change. The project sets Christian (non)violent practice within the context of direct, structural and cultural violence, and implicates Christian tradition, theology and practice in each level of violence. 

The qualitative data exposes the rationalizing mechanisms of the dominant culture's violence: the denial of violence; the reversal of the perpetrators of violence, and; the entitlements of privileged social location. 

When Christian (non)violence emerges from a dominant social location and does not address these levels and mechanisms of violence, it functions ideologically to obscure the operation of political and economic power, maintains the violence and privilege of those in power, thereby undermining fundamental social transformation. 

Interviewee data also portrays a comprehensive constellation of effective practices of social change, be they violent or (non)violent, that destabilize the dominant trajectory of rationalizing violence.

Emergent qualitative perspectives on questions and practices of organized violence and (non)violence point towards renewed Christian praxis for social transformation. The practical theological model offers an approach to social change which values: practices determined in the context of social struggle over theological abstractions; collective modes of action that undermine individualism; disruption over pacification; and self-critical, Christian solidarity that welcomes differences in belief regarding the justifiability of various means of social change.

Publication Statement

Copyright is held by the author. User is responsible for all copyright compliance.

Provenance

Received from ProQuest

Rights holder

Julie Marie Todd

File size

345 p.

File format

application/pdf

Language

en

Discipline

Theology, Peace studies

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Reading a Spiritual Classic: The Cloud of Unknowing | America Magazine

Reading a Spiritual Classic: The Cloud of Unknowing | America Magazine


Reading a Spiritual Classic: The Cloud of Unknowing

John A. ColemanJanuary 10, 2011

I finally got around to reading the spiritual classic, The Cloud of Unknowing. Over the years, from time to time, I dipped into it but had never read it carefully, contemplatively. I was moved to do so by seeing a new translation of the classic by Carmen Acevedo Butcher picked up on one of those year end, ' best books of the year' columns. The column writer was not a usual suspect, i.e., a writer on spirituality, but a professor of literature. Acevedo Butcher is a specialist on the medieval English in which the anonymous fourteenth century writer of The Cloud of Unknowing penned his advice to an also anonymous twenty-four year old aspirant to contemplative prayer. She is able, in her translation, to capture something of the puns and word play, as well as the alliteration, found in the original text ( cf. The Cloud of Unknowing, Boston, Shambhala, 2009).

The author of The Cloud enumerates three forms of prayer: reading ( by which he means lectio pia, a contemplative reading); ordinary prayer ( presumably with words, out loud or silently and using imagination) and contemplative prayer. The latter is a kind of prayer of silence or quiet. It is akin to what is called ' centering prayer'. The only real way to read The Cloud is slowly, meditatively and over an extended period of time, allowing each small chapter to sink in. In other words, one can begin by using The Cloud as, itself, a form of lectio pia.

The author of The Cloud recommends two key images for our prayer life. " The Cloud of Unknowing" refers to God. This Unknowing is, paradoxically, a kind of knowing by not knowing. As the author asserts: " We can not think our way to God. He can be loved but not thought." So, we dwell in a not-knowing ( or claiming to know more than we possibly can) of God. We cannot really 'eff' the ineffable! The heart of prayer lies in a supple reaching out in love to God and allowing God to reach back to us. The essence of prayer is found less in thought than in love and in our will. For our part, all we need for prayer is a simple reaching out to God, what the author of The Cloud calls a ' naked intent for God'.

In prayer there is a kind of darkness about God ( but we, nevertheless, do dwell in him) and also a, concomitant ' cloud of forgetting' where we let creation or our sins also fall away. In a lovely quote, the author urges us to " take God at face value, as he is. Accept his good graciousness, as you would accept a plain, simple, soft compress when sick. Take hold of him and press him against your unhealthy self, just as you are, and try to let your desire touch the kind and generous God, just as he is, because those who touch him know good health that never ends."

The contemplative prayer found in The Cloud differs from Ignatian contemplation which involves a kind of imaginative placing of ourselves in the gospel scenes and a strong appeal to our five senses to touch, taste, feel, smell etc. ourselves in that scene. Ignatian contemplation is by way of images. The Cloud's contemplation is apophatic, i.e., the way of no images. So, its author enjoins: " those who start the inner work of contemplation with the belief that they're supposed to hear, smell, see, taste or touch spiritual things, inside or outside are truly misled." But for all that, the author does not in any way tie God's hands in his way to come to us in prayer. " God's pedagogy is always personal." Thus, contemplative prayer is different for each individual. He urges no strain. Prayer is like sleep, refreshing and not work, as such. " With an empty mind and open heart, let yourself be naked before grace." " Let yourself sleep in this dark awareness of God as he is." Moreover, " It is not who you are or what you've been that God sees with his merciful eyes, but what you want to be."

To be sure, contemplation is God's gift. We can only bring a longing to pray. Even a short prayer can penetrate to heaven. The author of The Cloud recommends that we take a single syllable or short phrase ( such as, for example, my God, my hope etc.) and repeat it, breathe it in, fall silent to it. He conjoins: " Select only the words God nudges you toward." God is the door and the doorkeeper to himself. If nothing else, patiently wait at the door and let God allow you to enter in. If you have consolation, well and good. But in any event, persist in the practice of contemplative prayer, even if you experience dryness or find it painful. Whether praying with utter dryness or consolation, we can not know " which of these ways is holier or dearer to God. Only God knows. I don't." Throughout, the author urges us to judge no one else. " Never think you are holier or better than anyone else." We leave all judgment to God.

The Cloud does concur with Ignatius' Spiritual Exercises on the need for a discernment of spirits. Ignatius thought there was one form of consolation, what he calls ' consolation without a cause', which we could never doubt came to us from God. Other forms of consolation ( sweet or good feelings) might come initially from God but, then, get perverted or used by the evil spirit. In a similar vein, the author of The Cloud also allows a kind of consolation ( " A foretaste of the eternal reward...an ineffable sweetness and an intense delight that does not come from outside the body; it comes from within, waking in our souls and bubbling up from an abundance of joy and true devotion of spirit") which we never doubt. " There is no need to be suspicious of this comfort and this delight." Other forms of consolaion can be misleading. " Mistrust all other consolations, sounds, gladness and sweet ecstasies that come suddenly and externally from sources you can't identify. They can be good or evil. If they're good, they are the work of the good angel, and if they're evil, they are he work of the evil angel."

In prayer we need both humility and patience. Humility is not just a sense of our sin taken separately ( which is almost never from God, if not simultaneously connected to God's surprising love for us). In real humility we know the extent that we are sordid, sad, weak creatures but no less the object of God's superabundant love, humbled by " the amazing glory and goodness of God." We need patience since " Grace is rarely in a rush! It touches and changes us bu usually not as soon or as suddenly as we like."

Daniel Goldman in his book, Destructive Emotions: A Scientific Dialogue with the Dalai Lama ( New York: Bantam, 2003) notes that meditation is " an antidote to the mind's vulnerability to toxic emotions." The Cloud represents its own antidote to any misguided sense that mystic or contemplative prayer is made only for advanced souls or those with very special gifts ( after all, the book is written for a 24 year old!). Contemplation is never an interruption, argues the author, to our daily life. Whether we prefer Ignatius' way of images or the image-less way of The Cloud, all prayer is a simple reaching out to God ( what The Cloud calls ' a naked intent for God') and allowing God to reach back to us. Remember that God tailors, in his personal pedagogy, contemplative prayer to us. In the end, as The Cloud's author insists: " If you want to find your soul, look at what your love"--and, I would add, at who loves you!

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10세 친손녀 5년간 성폭행..할아버지는 유일한 가족이었다

10세 친손녀 5년간 성폭행..할아버지는 유일한 가족이었다
10세 친손녀 5년간 성폭행..할아버지는 유일한 가족이었다
장구슬 입력 2021. 10. 09.

만 10세 손녀를 5년에 걸쳐 성폭행하고 이 과정을 촬영한 70대 조부가 1심에서 징역 17년을 선고받았다.

서울중앙지법 형사합의29부(김창형 부장판사)는 지난 8일 성폭력처벌법 위반 등 혐의로 기소된 A(74)씨에게 이 같은 판결을 내렸다. 또 5년 동안 취업제한 명령과 2년의 보호관찰 명령도 내렸다.

A씨는 지난 2013년 만 10세인 손녀를 처음 성폭행한 것을 시작으로 이후 약 5년 동안 6차례 성폭행하고, 이 과정을 휴대전화 카메라로 46회가량 촬영·소지한 혐의로 재판에 넘겨졌다.

손녀는 아동보호시설에 맡겨진 상태였고, A씨는 외출 등 명목으로 손녀를 시설에서 잠깐씩 데리고 나와 범행했다.

검찰은 지난달 27일 열린 결심 공판에서 “A씨는 성 정체성과 가치관이 정립되지 않은 어린 피해자를 자신의 성적 욕구 만족 수단으로 이용했다. 극히 반인륜적이고 죄질이 매우 불량하다”며 징역 20년을 선고해달라고 재판부에 요청했다.

A씨는 최후진술에서 “죽을죄를 지었다”며 사죄했다. 당시 A씨 측 변호인은 “검찰 측 말처럼 패륜적 범죄”라며 “무슨 변명을 하겠나. 얘기를 할 수 없고 해서도 안 된다”고 혐의를 인정했다.

다만 “A씨는 불우하게 자라온 74세의 고령이고 여러 질병을 앓고 있어 장기간 수감이 힘든 상황을 고려해달라”며 “피해자를 위해 기도하며 살 수 있게 최대한의 관용을 베풀어 달라”고 요청했다.

1심 재판부는 A씨의 혐의를 유죄로 인정하며 “피고인은 부모로부터 버림받은 피해자가 쉽게 저항하지 못하는 처지를 이용해 지속적으로 성적 욕구를 해소하는 도구로 삼았다”고 지적했다.

이어 “어린 나이에 버림받은 피해자는 연락 가능한 유일한 가족인 친할아버지부터 만 10세부터 성폭력 범죄를 당했고, 자신만 참으면 문제가 되지 않는다고 생각해 참았다고 한다”고 설명했다.

그러면서 “이 사건은 피해자가 나이 들어 보호시설을 나가게 되면서 피고인이 자신을 찾아올 것을 두려워해 신고하게 된 것”이라며 “피해자가 피고인을 엄벌해달라고 호소하고 있다”고 했다.

재판부는 다만 “피고인이 범행을 모두 인정하고 반성하는 태도를 보이는 점, 성범죄 전력이 없는 점, 다시 피해자를 만나지 않겠다며 용서를 구하는 점을 참작했다”고 덧붙였다.

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얼마 남지않은 늙은이목숨 구차하게 구걸하지마세요
정말로 손녀딸을 생각한다면 손녀딸옆에 다시는 나타나지말고 평생 감옥에서 참회하면서 생을 마감하세요
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도대체 이런 걸 왜 "참작"하나?

범행을 인정하는 건 다 뽀록나서 인정할 수밖에 없으니 하는거고.
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피해자의 심적 고통에 대한 고려는 없이,
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